Chasing Baseball Dreams

Bobby Minor

You're spending thousands a year on travel baseball. A better team. A bigger showcase. More lessons. A higher ranking. And you still have no way to know if any of it is actually working. ⠀ That's not an accident. That's the machine. ⠀ Chasing Baseball Dreams is the only baseball parent podcast hosted by someone with no financial stake in where your money goes. I don't run a travel team. I don't sell lessons. I don't coach for an org. I have no reason to steer you in the wrong direction. I'm Bobby Minor... former Division 1 player, 35+ years coaching select baseball and high school, former travel organization director, over 1,000 college recruiting assessments, and a college baseball dad who almost lost 2 sons to this game for 2 very different reasons, with one currently playing college baseball. ⠀ Every episode, I sit down with former Major League players, college coaches, scouts, and baseball dads who've lived through the same grind you're in right now. People who've been inside this industry long enough to tell you the truth about how it actually works. ⠀ Here's what you can expect. ⠀ Real conversations about what actually matters at each age from 8U to signing day. The questions you should be asking before you commit to a team, a coach, or a showcase. The stuff the industry doesn't want you to hear, from people who've been inside it long enough to say it out loud. And the truth about recruiting, development, and where your money is actually going. ⠀ No hype. No recruiting promises. No "get your son seen" nonsense. Just the one voice in this space with full-stack credibility and no financial tie to the machine that's taking your money. ⠀ New episodes weekly. Follow @chasingbaseballdreams on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, and Facebook for daily content between episodes.

Episodes

  1. 2h ago

    Episode #9: Dustin Pedroia | Why Your Son Should Play LESS Baseball

    Dustin Pedroia spent 14 seasons in the big leagues, won Rookie of the Year, an MVP, four Gold Gloves and three World Series championships. ⠀ But this conversation really isn’t about any of that. It’s about what we’re doing with kids before they ever get close to the big leagues. ⠀ Dustin talks about why his sons don’t play year-round baseball before 14, why 12U rankings and exit velo can fool parents, why he would rather watch a talented player go 0-for-4 than 3-for-3, and why travel baseball has the practice-to-game ratio completely backwards. ⠀ He also shares what he actually says to his own son after a bad game, why kids need to experience failure, what David Ortiz told him about developing his swing, what scouts really notice over time, and why being the 12th player on a national team may be worse than playing every day somewhere else. ⠀ There is a LOT here for baseball parents. ⠀ TIMESTAMPS ⠀ 00:00 Dustin Pedroia joins Chasing Baseball Dreams 02:02 Why he gave back his Arizona State scholarship 03:05 Why young players need multiple sports 06:02 The tryout that changed everything 08:30 The knee injury that ended his career 11:46 Pedroia played only 20 baseball games a year 12:16 Fall in love with the work 13:42 “Your son will not fall behind” 15:22 What hitters ages 8 to 13 should work on 17:38 The business of youth baseball 20:24 Don’t showcase before you’re ready 21:25 What scouts can’t measure in one workout 24:23 Attitude, effort and preparation 28:49 What Dustin says after his son goes 0-for-3 30:44 What has changed in Major League hitting 34:22 Development vs. just playing more games 38:40 The coaching red flag parents should watch for 41:43 What matters for talented 11- and 12-year-olds 46:47 In & Out with Dustin Pedroia 49:36 12U exit velo and player rankings 50:55 Elite roster or everyday playing time? 53:01 When should a player go all-in on baseball? 55:12 Dustin’s favorite baseball movie and memories 59:00 Dustin’s advice for Bobby ⠀ If you’re raising a baseball player, especially between 8 and 14, there’s a good chance something Dustin says in this episode will make you rethink what development is supposed to look like. ⠀ Subscribe to Chasing Baseball Dreams for straight talk from people who have actually lived this game.

  2. 3d ago

    Episode #8: Stop The Pressure, Let Them Play | Coach Ballgame

    Coach Ballgame sits down to name something most parents haven't been able to see: the early specialization trap that's become industry gospel. Twenty-two years ago, kids played three sports a year. Now you hear it constantly from travel ball orgs, from coaches, from Facebook groups. Your son needs to specialize or he falls behind. Parents lie awake over this decision. But here's what Mookie Betts did. Here's what Mike Trout did. Here's what every major league player Coach Ballgame interviewed at All-Star games said: we got better because we played everything. Shohei Ohtani. Paul Skeens. Freddie Freeman. The pattern is not specialization. It's the opposite. The machine survives by convincing you that early specialization works. It doesn't. What works is fundamentals, joy, and a coach who understands that winning a 12U tournament means absolutely nothing down the road. This episode gives you what MLB players are actually telling travel ball coaches, which culture decisions actually matter, and how to recognize whether your kid's team is building him up or just paying its own commission. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - Intro and Coach Ballgame's background 03:09 - The shift: what changed from the '90s to now 06:44 - The trap parents fall into (financial incentives behind fall ball pressure) 08:05 - What Paul Skeens and MLB players actually said at All-Star games 10:27 - The Freddie Freeman principle: detach your joy from your kid's results 15:00+ - Finding the right coach and culture. Red flags to run from 51:36 - Nicknames, trust, and why connection beats winning 55:23 - How Coach Ballgame was born 56:46 - Helping kids overcome fear of getting hit by pitches CONNECT: Website: coachballgame.com Coach Ballgame University: Online coaching curriculum Social: @coachballgame (Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, YouTube)

  3. Aug 14

    Episode #6: Long Beach State Head Coach TJ Bruce

    TJ Bruce, Long Beach State head coach and D1 veteran, breaks down the one habit that separates parents who keep their kids' love for the game from parents who burn it out: looking inside out instead of outside in. ⠀ Most parents chase what's happening outside. The ranking, the team name, the comparison to other kids, what the college board might think someday. Meanwhile, their son is drowning under the weight of expectations he never made. TJ discovered this the hard way when his 12-year-old broke down in the car and said, "I feel that pressure every day I step on the field." ⠀ This is a one-hour conversation with a coach who sits in every chair: player, coach, college head coach, dad. He finally figured out that the scoreboard you need to read is not the one in the field. It's inside your kid. ⠀ What you'll hear: ⠀ 03:08 ... The car ride home that hit him like a ton of bricks ⠀ 04:36 ... Why the coach's kid carries a different kind of pressure ⠀ 07:38 ... Do you have 12-year-olds on your recruiting board? His answer cuts straight through ⠀ 08:33 ... The first base coaching story that says everything about parenting vs. coaching ⠀ 15:00 ... Multiple sports vs. year-round baseball: what actually matters at 12 ⠀ 30:00+ ... The "eleventh man on the expensive roster" and why playing time beats pedigree ⠀ 45:00+ ... How comparison becomes the thief of joy, and parents pass it straight to their kids ⠀ 55:00+ ... The mental game most parents refuse to teach ⠀ 58:00+ ... What it means to "be great with Johnny being who he is" ⠀ 59:39 ... Stop looking outside in. Start looking inside out.

  4. Aug 8

    Episode #5: Justin Cryer | Don't Make It Bigger Than It Is

    Former Division I pitcher, six-time MLB scout for the Houston Astros, and now director at Marucci Sports, Justin Cryer sits down to expose what scouts actually see, what parents waste money on, and why most travel baseball spending never shows up on a single scouting report. Justin played two years on the bench at Ole Miss, got Tommy John, and still made it. He knows what the machine sells parents and what scouts are actually looking for. This episode cuts through every layer of the youth baseball industry: fake elite teams, rankings that don't matter, equipment that won't fix your swing, and the one thing that separates players who make it from the ones who quit. Full interview includes rapid-fire In & Out questions and Justin's parting wisdom on keeping youth baseball the size it actually is. TIMESTAMPS [0:00] Introduction: Justin's background and path [1:52] Ole Miss bench story: Red-shirted 2 years, Tommy John, what that taught him [4:40] The transfer portal question: Would he have stuck it out in today's landscape? [5:57] Scout hierarchy explained: Associate scout, area scout, cross-checker, nationals, director [8:24] What makes a conviction scout vs. stat watcher [12:15] What scouts actually look for in your son [15:30] The hierarchy of what scouts value [18:45] High school coaches' influence on recruiting [21:00] Travel ball and team selection—what matters and what doesn't [24:30] Fake elite teams vs. real scout teams [26:50] What parents spend money on that scouts never see [28:15] In & Out rapid-fire questions begin [53:04] First tool scouts spot in seconds [53:32] Money parents waste that never shows on scouting reports [54:15] The difference between players who make it and those who quit [54:50] What a $400 bat can't fix [55:31] Parting wisdom: Don't make it bigger than it is #ChasingBaseballDreams #TravelBall #ScoutsTruth

  5. Jul 30

    Episode #3: Ben Jenkins CEO of Warstic Understanding the New High School Bat Rules

    Welcome to Episode #3 of the Chasing Baseball Dreams podcast where Bobby talks to Ben Jenkins. Ben is the CEO of Warstic and a former Mississippi State shortstop. He designs bats for major league players. And in this conversation, he says the thing most bat companies won't say out loud. The new USA high school bat rules are coming. Drop 4, drop 5, drop 6. Parents lost their minds thinking high school kids would be swinging USA bats that launch missiles. That's not what's happening. Ben breaks down why, and what the rule change actually means for your son. But the bigger conversation here is about something most baseball parents have never thought about. The heaviest, longest bat your son can control and flush the ball with is the bat he should be swinging. Not the lightest one. Not the one with the biggest barrel. Not the one a reviewer ranked number one. Ben talks about why mass matters more than bat speed when it comes to real exit velo. He explains why major league hitters almost never go lighter than a drop 2. He walks through bat profiles, from the 243 to the 271, and why the bat that looks the best almost never swings the best. He talks about what contact really means and why the game is shifting back toward hitters who can beat a pitcher multiple ways instead of swinging for the fence every at bat. He also gets honest about something most CEOs would never admit. When Warstic had the number one ranked bat, not every kid who bought it was a good fit for it. That's the part parents need to hear. The "best bat" is only the best bat if it matches what your son does in the box. We talk about his son Shaw heading to college baseball, the real reason kids struggle with a drop 3 in high school, why wood bats are one of the simplest and best training tools at any age, and how USA Baseball taking over bat standards from the NCAA could raise bat prices through licensing fees. If you've ever stood in a store staring at a wall of 100 bats wondering which one your son needs, this episode will cut through the noise. ⠀ 0:49 ... Welcome and intro to Ben Jenkins, CEO of Warstic 1:18 ... The new USA high school bat rules explained 3:18 ... What bats were like when we played (beezers, BESRs, and taking ground balls from guys with drop 4s) 5:43 ... The myth that a lighter bat means more exit velo 7:01 ... Ben's bat formula: swing the heaviest, longest you can control and flush 8:42 ... Why flushing the ball matters more than max exit velo 10:02 ... Why mass wins the physics equation 12:19 ... MLB players who want smaller barrels than most 13U kids swing 12:46 ... Why bat reviews feel so good to parents (and what they miss) 16:56 ... Bat profiles: the 243, the 271, the 110, and why shape changes everything 21:20 ... The overwhelm of 100 bats on a wall 24:05 ... Should every player swing wood in the cages? 25:49 ... How a parent with no baseball background can tell if the bat is wrong 27:42 ... "My kid is behind, he needs a lighter bat" ... why that's almost never the answer 29:53 ... Contact is coming back (and real uniforms at the All-Star Game) 33:37 ... Transition back to the USA bat rules and the "sell more bats" conspiracy 37:51 ... How USA Baseball benefits from the rule change through licensing fees 40:36 ... Why kids struggle with a drop 3 in high school (and how to fix it early) 41:25 ... Ben's son Shaw and his team switching to drop 3 a year early 44:20 ... What if Shaw wanted to swing a competitor's bat? 48:37 ... Being real in the age of AI and the repaint story #baseballbats #travelbaseball #youthbaseball #warstic #highschoolbaseball

    Episode #3: Ben Jenkins CEO of Warstic Understanding the New High School Bat Rules
  6. Jul 30

    Episode #2: D1 Coach Says Your 12 Year Old's Rankings Don't Matter | Texas A&M HC Michael Earley

    Youth baseball parents hear the truth directly from Texas A&M head coach Michael Earley in Episode 2 of the Chasing Baseball Dreams podcast. 35 years of coaching select baseball and high school, plus going through this process with my youngest son, who's playing baseball in college right now, taught me one thing: most parents are spending money and energy on the wrong stuff at the wrong time. Coach Earley confirms it from the D1 side. ⠀ In this conversation we cover: ⠀ 0:00 What D1 coaches actually evaluate when recruiting 3:15 Do PG rankings and grades matter? 5:14 Are college coaches scouting 12U showcases? 9:38 Transfer portal vs high school recruiting 12:08 Why the JUCO route is not plan B 15:17 A dad spending 30K a year on his 10 year old 17:27 Nothing at 12U matters in the context of recruiting 20:02 Compete over compare 21:29 How does an undersized kid without resources get found? 25:06 What "being seen" actually means to a head coach 27:47 Only go to showcases when you have something to showcase 28:52 What to tell a dad who is convinced his 12 year old is D1 32:39 Has a parent ever gotten a kid crossed off the board? 34:08 In and Out rapid fire with Coach Earley 36:44 Roster rules, scholarship math, and what a good offer looks like 40:43 Advice for the parent of a 9 or 10 year old ⠀ Coach Earley's starting center fielder this year played JV his freshman and sophomore year and was on the second team of his organization. He hit .340 with 20 homers and 20 doubles for the Aggies and went in the second round to the Chicago Cubs. Early dominance does not predict who makes it. That's one of the biggest things parents get wrong. ⠀ If you're a travel baseball parent spending thousands and wondering if any of it is working, this interview will change how you think about the journey. ⠀ Subscribe and turn on notifications so you don't miss Episode 3. ⠀ @ChasingBaseballDreams

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You're spending thousands a year on travel baseball. A better team. A bigger showcase. More lessons. A higher ranking. And you still have no way to know if any of it is actually working. ⠀ That's not an accident. That's the machine. ⠀ Chasing Baseball Dreams is the only baseball parent podcast hosted by someone with no financial stake in where your money goes. I don't run a travel team. I don't sell lessons. I don't coach for an org. I have no reason to steer you in the wrong direction. I'm Bobby Minor... former Division 1 player, 35+ years coaching select baseball and high school, former travel organization director, over 1,000 college recruiting assessments, and a college baseball dad who almost lost 2 sons to this game for 2 very different reasons, with one currently playing college baseball. ⠀ Every episode, I sit down with former Major League players, college coaches, scouts, and baseball dads who've lived through the same grind you're in right now. People who've been inside this industry long enough to tell you the truth about how it actually works. ⠀ Here's what you can expect. ⠀ Real conversations about what actually matters at each age from 8U to signing day. The questions you should be asking before you commit to a team, a coach, or a showcase. The stuff the industry doesn't want you to hear, from people who've been inside it long enough to say it out loud. And the truth about recruiting, development, and where your money is actually going. ⠀ No hype. No recruiting promises. No "get your son seen" nonsense. Just the one voice in this space with full-stack credibility and no financial tie to the machine that's taking your money. ⠀ New episodes weekly. Follow @chasingbaseballdreams on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, and Facebook for daily content between episodes.