Sisterhood and Self

Sisterhood and Self Podcast

Welcome back to Sisterhood & Self where we talk about all things health, wellness, mindset, spirituality and everything in between. We’re your hosts Elena and Kira. Together, we combine the science of health and wellness with intuition and alignment. We help you simplify the information you hear online so you can feel empowered to apply these practices to your own life and feel your best from the inside out. We’re so excited for you to be tuning in with us and we hope you enjoy

  1. 4d ago

    Dating in Your 20s + 30s

    Episode Summary Dating in your twenties and thirties can bring up a mix of excitement, uncertainty, comparison, and self-doubt. In this episode, we talk about staying open to love, putting yourself out there without making dating feel so serious, and trusting that you are on your own timeline. We also dive into the pressure that can come with watching friends get into relationships, getting more intentional about what you want as you get older, and creating more space for a relationship in your life. Specifically, We Discuss: 00:30 Navigating Dating in Your Twenties and Thirties 04:39 The Energetics of Dating and Openness 09:00 Reframing Dating: Keeping It Light and Fun 12:53 Dealing with Doubt and Comparison in Relationships 16:56 Navigating Relationships in Your 30s 23:29 The Balance of Independence and Partnership 30:34 Self-Worth and Readiness for Love 32:29 Creating Space for a Partner 36:03 Building Connections Without Pressure Key Takeaways ✨ It's easy to compare your life to other people's relationships, but you never know what is actually happening behind the scenes. Your timeline is your timeline! ✨You don't have to sit around waiting for something to happen in your dating life. Take small, inspired actions to create more opportunities to meet people. Plus, not every interaction with someone has to lead to a date...sometimes it's just about practicing being open, having conversations, and meeting new people ✨You don't have to be your “perfect self” before you can meet your person. Personal growth is ongoing, and the right relationship can grow alongside you Resources We Mentioned Margot Lee's No Particular Order acquaintance cards Mentioned Episodes Episode #11: Manifesting a Partner Connect With Us! Follow along for more health, wellness, mindset, and lifestyle content: Sisterhood & Self 📸Instagram: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎵Tiktok: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎥Youtube: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Elena 📸Instagram: @laineys_loving_lifestyle 🎵TikTok: @laineyslovinglifestyle Kira 📸Instagram: @kiraoberle 🎵TikTok: @kiraoberle Support The Show If you enjoyed this episode, we would love your support! Your support helps us continue creating conversations around health, personal growth, and living a more intentional life. ⭐ Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts ⭐ Share this episode with a friend or family member ⭐ Subscribe so you never miss an episode

  2. Sep 24

    The Fall Reset: Moving with the Seasons

    Episode Summary In this episode, we’re talking about the idea of a “fall reset” - from honoring the natural seasons and cycles of life to creating more structure, decluttering your physical space, and making room for what’s next. We reflect on the pressure to constantly be improving, moving the goalposts, and measuring our progress by external standards. We dig a little deeper and discuss why sometimes the most supportive thing you can do for yourself is push a little harder, while other times, it’s giving yourself permission to slow down. Specifically, We Discuss: 00:30 Embracing the Fall Reset 05:03 Fall is a Time for Harvesting and Reflection 07:38 Creating Space for New Beginnings 10:18 Establishing Structure and Routine 14:03 Embracing Natural Seasons 15:08 Reflections on Time and Goals 18:58 Measuring Success Beyond Society's Standards 20:36 The Importance of Letting Go 22:33 Decluttering for Clarity 24:26 Balancing Comfort and Growth 25:41 Finding Your Own Path to Success Key Takeaways ✨ You don't need to completely reset your life every time a new season begins. Sometimes you've already made more progress than you realize, and the work is simply to keep going ✨ Letting go creates space! Whether that's decluttering your closet, creating more structure in your routine, or releasing things that are no longer serving you ✨There isn't one right way to support yourself. Sometimes you need more rest and gentleness, and sometimes you need a little tough love. The goal is to get clear on what will actually support you in the long run Resources We Mentioned The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo Five Element Acupuncture Feng Shui Connect With Us! Follow along for more health, wellness, mindset, and lifestyle content: Sisterhood & Self 📸Instagram: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎵Tiktok: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎥Youtube: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Elena 📸Instagram: @laineys_loving_lifestyle 🎵TikTok: @laineyslovinglifestyle Kira 📸Instagram: @kiraoberle 🎵TikTok: @kiraoberle Support The Show If you enjoyed this episode, we would love your support! Your support helps us continue creating conversations around health, personal growth, and living a more intentional life. ⭐ Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts ⭐ Share this episode with a friend or family member ⭐ Subscribe so you never miss an episode

  3. Sep 17

    Intuition: Learning to Trust Your Inner Knowing

    Episode Summary In this episode, we’re talking all about intuition - what it actually is, why so many of us feel disconnected from it, and how to start strengthening that “inner knowing.” We explore intuition through both a spiritual and scientific lens, including the connection between intuition, creativity, the subconscious mind, and the nervous system. We also talk about how to tell the difference between intuition and ego, why quiet and presence matter, and how learning to trust yourself can change the way you make decisions. Specifically, We Discuss: 00:30 Exploring Intuition and Spirituality 03:46 The Collective Consciousness and Intuition 07:15 Understanding the Witch Wound 09:14 Neuroscience and Intuition 11:17 Differentiating Intuition from Anxiety 13:58 Practicing Intuition in Daily Life 17:46 Trusting Your Intuition 25:03 Collective Consciousness and Creativity 27:16 Nervous System and Intuition 28:53 The Power of Self-Trust 31:51 The Witch Wound and Intuition 33:07 Cultivating Intuition in Daily Life 36:34 Strengthening Intuition Over Time Key Takeaways ✨ Intuition doesn’t have to mean psychic abilities - it can simply be an inner knowing, subconscious processing, creativity, or a feeling in your body ✨ Intuition is something you can practice! Start with low-stakes decisions like what you want to eat for dinner or what you want to wear. Then work your way up to bigger decisions. ✨ There’s a difference between that frantic, fear-based voice of anxiety and the calm, steady feeling that comes with intuition. Learning to recognize that difference takes time and self-awareness ✨ We often have so much external noise: our phones, jobs, stress, and constant stimulation, which makes it difficult to hear our own inner voice ✨ A regulated nervous system, quiet time, meditation, journaling, walking without your phone, and simply being present can create more space to be in tune with your intuition Resources We Mentioned People: Joe Dispenza, Louise Hay, Caroline Feda Tools: Tarot cards, meditation, journaling / free writing, tapping / EFT Connect With Us! Follow along for more health, wellness, mindset, and lifestyle content: Sisterhood & Self 📸Instagram: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎵Tiktok: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎥Youtube: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Elena 📸Instagram: @laineys_loving_lifestyle 🎵TikTok: @laineyslovinglifestyle Kira 📸Instagram: @kiraoberle 🎵TikTok: @kiraoberle Support The Show If you enjoyed this episode, we would love your support! Your support helps us continue creating conversations around health, personal growth, and living a more intentional life. ⭐ Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts ⭐ Share this episode with a friend or family member ⭐ Subscribe so you never miss an episode

  4. Sep 10

    5 Things Holding You Back in Life

    Episode Summary The things holding you back in life aren’t always the big, obvious obstacles, but everyday habits and thought patterns you barely notice. In this episode, we talk about five things that may be keeping you from living the life you want: anything from your phone and the content you consume, to the fear of judgment, and waiting for the “right” time to take action. We explore how becoming more aware of these patterns can create small shifts that, over time, lead to big changes. Specifically, We Discuss: 01:42 The Impact of Phones on Our Lives 08:42 “Consumption” Beyond Food: External Inputs 18:16 The Influence of Our Social Circle 23:15 Fear of Judgment 28:11 Embracing Vulnerability as Adults 34:25 Start Before You’re Ready 39:50 The Power of Consistency and Imperfection Key Takeaways ✨ Your environment can influence how you think, feel, and see what’s possible for your life. ✨ Fear of judgment and failure can keep you from taking risks, being a beginner, or pursuing something different. ✨ There will never be a perfect time to start. Doing it imperfectly today is often better than waiting to do it perfectly someday. ✨ Small, consistent actions create momentum and help you become the person you want to be. Resources We Mentioned Daring Greatly by Brené Brown “The Man in the Arena” by Theodore Roosevelt Melissa Wood Health Connect With Us! Follow along for more health, wellness, mindset, and lifestyle content: Sisterhood & Self 📸Instagram: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎵Tiktok: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎥Youtube: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Elena 📸Instagram: @laineys_loving_lifestyle 🎵TikTok: @laineyslovinglifestyle Kira 📸Instagram: @kiraoberle 🎵TikTok: @kiraoberle Support The Show If you enjoyed this episode, we would love your support! Your support helps us continue creating conversations around health, personal growth, and living a more intentional life. ⭐ Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts ⭐ Share this episode with a friend or family member ⭐ Subscribe so you never miss an episode

  5. Sep 3

    Let's Talk Shit: All Things Poop 💩

    Episode Summary Poop might not be the most glamorous topic, but your bowel movements can tell you a lot about your overall health. In this episode, we get into what a healthy poop actually looks like, how often you should be going, what different stool consistencies can mean, and why constipation and diarrhea aren't something you should simply accept as your "normal." We also talk about fiber, hydration, movement, stress, the nervous system, and how your digestion can affect how you feel physically, mentally, and emotionally. Specifically, We Discuss: 00:30 The Importance of Poop 00:52 Understanding Bowel Movements 04:28 What Healthy Poop Looks Like 10:17 The Impact of Diet on Digestion 15:28 Caffeine and Its Effects 19:40 Addressing Constipation and Gut Health 20:55 Understanding Constipation and Its Effects 26:27 Practical Tips for Improving Digestion 33:05 The Emotional Connection to Digestion 39:54 The Role of Fiber in Digestive Health Key Takeaways ✨Your bowel movements can provide useful insight into your digestion, hydration, fiber intake, and overall health. You don't need to obsess over your poop, but paying attention to frequency, consistency, ease of passing, and whether you feel fully eliminated can be a simple way to check in with your body. ✨Don't automatically accept constipation, diarrhea, bloating, or other digestive symptoms as your "normal." Your baseline might not actually be optimal. ✨Hydration, fiber, movement, and your nervous system all play a major role in how your GI tract functions. Resources We Mentioned Bristol Stool Chart: A way to classify stool consistency from 1-7, with 4-5 being the ideal range https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/2/21/Bristol_stool_chart.svg?utm_source=commons.wikimedia.org&utm_campaign=index&utm_content=original  Squatty Potty: A tool to help position your body for easier bowel movements https://www.squattypotty.com/  Ayurveda: The sister science of yoga and how it focuses on digestion and daily routines. Kripalu: Health and yoga retreat in Stockbridge, Massachusetts https://kripalu.org/ Osmotic Laxatives (magnesium oxide + magnesium citrate): Types of magnesium that can work as osmotic laxatives Connect With Us! Follow along for more health, wellness, mindset, and lifestyle content: Sisterhood & Self 📸Instagram: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎵Tiktok: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎥Youtube: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Elena 📸Instagram: @laineys_loving_lifestyle 🎵TikTok: @laineyslovinglifestyle Kira 📸Instagram: @kiraoberle 🎵TikTok: @kiraoberle Support The Show If you enjoyed this episode, we would love your support! Your support helps us continue creating conversations around health, personal growth, and living a more intentional life. ⭐ Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts ⭐ Share this episode with a friend or family member ⭐ Subscribe so you never miss an episode Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. It should not be used to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Always consult your physician or another qualified healthcare professional before making changes to your diet, lifestyle, supplements, or medical care.

  6. Aug 27

    Peptides, GLP-1s & The Pressure to Be Thin

    Episode Summary Peptides and GLP-1 medications like Ozempic have become a huge part of the health and wellness conversation, but how do they actually work, and when do they make sense for someone to use them? In this episode, we break down the science behind peptides and GLP-1s, how they affect hunger and satiety, and how fiber and carbohydrates play an important role in our body's natural GLP-1 production. We also dive into the more complicated side of the conversation: body image, social media, unrealistic beauty standards, and learning to care for and appreciate your body without constantly feeling like you need to change it. Specifically, We Discuss: 00:30 - Peptides 101 08:00 - The Benefits & Side Effects of GLP-1s 17:06 - Food Noise, Hunger & Our Relationship With Food 18:55 - Why Your Food Environment Is Working Against You 29:07 - GLP-1s, Weight Loss & Addressing the Root Cause 33:00 - How Social Media Warps Our Perception of Bodies 44:50 - When Does Wanting to Lose Weight Become Unhealthy? 53:22 - Sustainable Change Takes Time 57:51 - Finding Your Way Back to Balance 59:07 - You Can’t Hate Yourself Into a Body You Love Key Takeaways ✨GLP-1 medications can be incredibly helpful and even life-changing for people who medically need them, but they aren't a magic solution for everyone. Understanding why you're using them and pairing them with nourishing lifestyle habits matters. ✨Your body naturally produces GLP-1! Fiber-rich foods (particularly plant foods and carbohydrates) help stimulate that process. Food noise and constant hunger aren't always a lack of willpower; they can be signals that your body isn't getting enough energy or nutrients. ✨Being thin does not automatically mean being healthy. Social media can dramatically skew our perception of what bodies, lifestyles, and even “health” are supposed to look like. The goal isn't to constantly chase a smaller body, but rather, it's to build a body and a life that allows you to feel strong, nourished, healthy, and happy. Resources We Mentioned Jamie Hines: workout programs and content around strength training, nutrition, and sustainable progress Hannah Lizzy: content around body image, eating disorders, GLP-1s, and the pressure to be thin Mentioned Episodes Episode #9: Hormones 101 Connect With Us! Follow along for more health, wellness, mindset, and lifestyle content: Sisterhood & Self 📸Instagram: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎵Tiktok: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎥Youtube: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Elena 📸Instagram: @laineys_loving_lifestyle 🎵TikTok: @laineyslovinglifestyle Kira 📸Instagram: @kiraoberle 🎵TikTok: @kiraoberle Support The Show If you enjoyed this episode, we would love your support! Your support helps us continue creating conversations around health, personal growth, and living a more intentional life. ⭐ Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts ⭐ Share this episode with a friend or family member ⭐ Subscribe so you never miss an episode

  7. Aug 21

    [Bonus] Reflecting on Grief After 8 Years

    Episode Summary This episode is an honest and personal conversation about grief, eight years after the sisters lost their dad to cancer. Kira, Elena, and their older sister Devon reflect on how differently they each experienced his illness, death, and the years that followed and how complicated grief can be when you’re grieving the same person but have completely different relationships with them. This episode is for anyone navigating grief or supporting someone who is and finding ways to maintain a relationship with someone you’ve lost. Specifically, We Discuss: 01:18 - Dad’s Cancer Diagnosis & Four Years of Uncertainty 05:02 - The Gift and Complexity of Knowing Someone Is Dying 10:24 - Signs, Spirits & Dad’s Final Days 18:23 - Resentment and Complicated Relationships With Grief 21:15 - Grieving the Same Person Differently 27:26 - When Grief Hits You Later 31:02 - Returning to “Normal Life” After Loss 36:10 - How Grief Changes Over the Years 39:13 - Grieving the Future He Won’t Have & the Relationships We Didn’t Get to Have 45:49 - Connecting With Dad Beyond the Physical 47:09 - What We Love & Remember About Dad 53:26 - Honoring Dad Through Anniversaries & Family Traditions 56:13 - Keeping His Memory Alive Key Takeaways ✨Everyone grieves differently and there’s no “right” way to grieve. Ages, relationships with the person who passed, and roles within the family shape different grief experiences, even if you’re grieving the same person. ✨Grief can hold conflicting emotions at the same time. Love, resentment, relief, sadness, gratitude, anger, and even happiness can all coexist. Healing involves holding all of those emotions. ✨Your relationship with someone can continue to evolve even after they die. You can keep someone’s memory alive through stories, traditions, milestones, and even a spiritual connection with the person’s “higher self.” Connect With Us! Follow along for more health, wellness, mindset, and lifestyle content: Sisterhood & Self 📸Instagram: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎵Tiktok: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎥Youtube: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Elena 📸Instagram: @laineys_loving_lifestyle 🎵TikTok: @laineyslovinglifestyle Kira 📸Instagram: @kiraoberle 🎵TikTok: @kiraoberle Support The Show If you enjoyed this episode, we would love your support! Your support helps us continue creating conversations around health, personal growth, and living a more intentional life. ⭐ Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts ⭐ Share this episode with a friend or family member ⭐ Subscribe so you never miss an episode

  8. Aug 20

    Building a Life You Love Outside of Your 9-5

    Episode Summary Your job is only one part of your life, so put more energy into everything that exists outside of that 9–5. In this episode, we talk about finding joy in your everyday life, prioritizing the areas that matter most to you, and creating more time for the people, hobbies, and experiences that make you feel fulfilled. We also get into the pressure to be “productive” all the time, honoring different seasons of life, romanticizing the mundane, and why you don’t need to be operating at 100% in every area of your life at once. Specifically, We Discuss: 03:00 - Your Job Isn’t Your Whole Life 06:05 - You Can’t Prioritize Everything 09:19 - Choose 1–3 Areas to Focus On 14:48 - The “Fractured Village” 20:21 - Choose Your Hard 23:35 - Make Your Mornings Yours 26:50 - Give Yourself Things to Look Forward To 28:20 - Bringing Better Energy to Work 34:40 - Rest Isn’t Wasted Time 37:52 - Put Yourself Where You’ll Thrive 42:30 - We’re Craving Community 44:21 - How Do You Want to Spend Your Life? Key Takeaways ✨You don't have to prioritize every area of your life equally all of the time. Think about the 1-3 areas that matter most to you in this current season and focus there. ✨Your life is made up of small moments that happen every day. Find ways to make your routines, commutes, workouts, meals, and everyday tasks more enjoyable instead of waiting for the “big” moments to feel happy. ✨You should love your life! If you consistently feel unhappy, depleted, or disconnected from your life, take it as an invitation to reflect on what isn't working and make a change. Resources We Mentioned Samantha Daily: the “cup of water” analogy for balancing the different areas of your life Dr. Doug Lisle: the concept of the “fractured village” and evolutionary psychology Abraham Hicks: focusing your attention on what you do like rather than what you don't Connect With Us! Follow along for more health, wellness, mindset, and lifestyle content: Sisterhood & Self 📸Instagram: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎵Tiktok: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎥Youtube: @sisterhoodandselfpod 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Elena 📸Instagram: @laineys_loving_lifestyle 🎵TikTok: @laineyslovinglifestyle Kira 📸Instagram: @kiraoberle 🎵TikTok: @kiraoberle Support The Show If you enjoyed this episode, we would love your support! Your support helps us continue creating conversations around health, personal growth, and living a more intentional life. ⭐ Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts ⭐ Share this episode with a friend or family member ⭐ Subscribe so you never miss an episode

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Welcome back to Sisterhood & Self where we talk about all things health, wellness, mindset, spirituality and everything in between. We’re your hosts Elena and Kira. Together, we combine the science of health and wellness with intuition and alignment. We help you simplify the information you hear online so you can feel empowered to apply these practices to your own life and feel your best from the inside out. We’re so excited for you to be tuning in with us and we hope you enjoy