The Mom Refill

Katie Cooper Wellness

The health and wellness podcast for working moms who are done running on empty. The Mom Refill delivers short, 20–30 minute episodes packed with actionable tools for nervous system regulation, stress relief, healthy eating, meal prep, better sleep, and sustainable work-life balance, so you can feel energized, present, and in control again. No lengthy theory, just real strategies you can implement today. Hosted by Katie Cooper, an occupational therapist and board-certified health coach, each episode gives you a science-backed look at stress and practical strategies to improve your daily life.

  1. 2d ago

    Episode 14 – Holiday Stress Relief for Working Moms: Letting Go of Perfect

    In this episode, Katie discusses the pressures of holidayperfectionism and the emotional toll it takes on mothers. She emphasizes the importance of redefining holiday traditions to prioritize mental well-being and connection with family. Through practical exercises, she encourages listenersto evaluate their holiday tasks and traditions, focusing on what truly brings joy while letting go of unnecessary stressors. The conversation highlights the significance of presence over perfection, aiming to create a more fulfilling holiday experience for both parents and children. Book your Holiday Reset Call here: https://calendly.com/katiecooperwellness/holiday-reset-coaching-session Takeaways The holidays can create immense pressure to be perfect. Many traditions are inherited rather than chosen. Perfectionism stems from fear and can harm our well-being. Kids remember feelings, not the perfection of events. A calmer parent creates a safer environment for children. It's essential to evaluate which holiday tasks bring joy. Sharing responsibilities can alleviate holiday stress. Guilt often accompanies letting go of traditions. Presence is more valuable than perfection during theholidays. Simplifying holiday tasks can lead to greater enjoyment. Chapters 00:00 Embracing the Holiday Rush 05:46 Understanding the Magical Maker Role   Keywords holidays, stress management, perfectionism, familytraditions, self-care, working moms, holiday planning, mental health, parenting, mindfulness   Music licensed through Soundstripe. Code: TCDZBFNHGLHIGK9V

  2. Oct 20

    Episode 12 - Setting Boundaries: A Guide for Working Moms

    In this episode, Katie discusses the importance of settingboundaries for working moms, exploring the guilt that often accompanies boundary-setting and providing practical strategies for managing it. She emphasizes that boundaries are essential for self-care and mental health, and offers specific types of boundaries with real-life scenarios to help listeners implement them effectively. The episode concludes with a focus on managing guilt and the importance of self-compassion when navigating these challenges. Takeaways Setting boundaries is crucial for mental health andwellness. Guilt often arises when we set boundaries, but it's not averdict. Boundaries are simply statements about what you will do. Every yes is a no to something else; be mindful of yourcapacity. It's okay to say no without providing a reason. Practice setting small boundaries before tackling largerones. Guilt can be managed with specific strategies and self-talk. Boundaries can help reduce stress and burnout. Communicate your boundaries clearly to others. Self-care is not selfish; it's necessary for well-being. Sound Bites 00:00 "Every yes is also a no to something else." 08:37 "Guilt is a signal to check in." 17:29 "Talk to yourself like you would a friend." 19:40 "Pick one boundary, just one." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Boundaries for Moms 03:06 Understanding Boundaries and Guilt 05:45 Types of Boundaries and Practical Scenarios 12:06 Managing Guilt After Setting Boundaries 18:02 Implementing Boundaries in Daily Life Keywords boundaries, guilt, working moms, stress management,self-care, mental health, parenting, wellness, burnout, time management

  3. Oct 13

    Episode 11 - Managing the Mental Load of Motherhood

    In this episode, Katie delves into the concept of the mental load that mothers carry. She defines mental load as the cognitive work behind household tasks, emphasizing its invisible and constant nature. Through research insights, she highlights the disproportionate burden on mothers and its impact on their mental health. Katie offers practical tools for managing this load, including making tasks visible, sharing responsibilities, and utilizing community support. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to assess their mental load and seek help. Resources Get your free Mental Load Audit Workbook: https://katiecooperwellness.kit.com/mentalload www.KatieCooperWellness.com Takeaways Mental load is the thinking work behind chores. Women often carry more cognitive labor than men. Cognitive stickiness means mental load tends to stick with mothers. Mothers report higher levels of stress and burnout. Sharing the mental load benefits both mothers and fathers. The mental load is invisible and constant. Task analysis can help identify mental load components. Practical tools can help manage mental load effectively. Outsourcing tasks can alleviate some of the burden. Community support is essential for managing mental load. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Mental Load 01:07 Understanding the Mental Load 04:00 Research Insights on Cognitive Labor 07:48 The Impact of Mental Load on Well-being 09:23 Practical Tools to Manage Mental Load 14:44 Outsourcing and Community Support 16:40 Conclusion and Call to Action Keywords mental load, cognitive labor, motherhood, stress, burnout, parenting, occupational therapy, family dynamics, mental health, working moms   Music licensed through Soundstripe. Code: WE3IP9KGRRRLORRH

  4. Sep 15

    Episode 7 - The Fastest Way to Calm Your Nervous System (In Under 2 Minutes)

    Katie, an occupational therapist and health and wellnesscoach, explains why breath is the fastest tool for shifting the nervous system and shares simple techniques that fit into real mom life. The episode focuses on using breathing in 30 seconds to 2 minutes, especially during stress spikes, transitions, and meltdowns. In this episode, Katie breaks down the science of theautonomic nervous system, shows how breath taps into the vagus nerve, and walks through practical patterns you can use immediately. She also covers how to build breathing into daily anchor points so it becomes a realistic habit instead of another task. Resources Free guide: 10 quick ways to calm your nervous system https://katiecooperwellness.kit.com/calm Timestamps (00:00) Katie introduces the podcast and the mission behindhelping moms refill their own cup(00:45) Why breathing is the wellness tool you already use thousands of times aday(01:13) Breath as the fastest lever for nervous system regulation in 30 to 120seconds(01:38) Sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous system basics(02:09) Why breath is the one autonomic function you can control on purpose(03:06) How slow exhales stimulate the vagus nerve and signal safety(04:00) Why chest breathing keeps stress high and belly breathing helps youcalm down(04:53) Why breath work fits mom life better than most wellness tools(05:31) Using breath work during real-time stress like tantrums and witchinghour chaos(06:02) Building a breathing toolkit instead of trying to master one perfectmethod(06:30) Physiological sigh for the fastest response to an acute stress spike(07:26) Extended exhale breathing for car rides, bedtime, and winding down(08:00) Box breathing for calm and focus before meetings or hard conversations(08:58) Breathing with your child instead of just telling them to calm down(09:26) Co-regulation and why your calm helps your child regulate(09:51) Using anchor points to make breathing part of the day(10:50) What to do when you forget or need reminders to build the habit(11:50) Why breath work can feel silly at first and why that’s normal(12:20) Progress over perfection: the goal is a body that feels safer(12:49) The main takeaway: breath is always available and always with you(13:17) This week’s challenge and next episode preview on habit building(13:44) Closing reminder, subscribe prompt, and listener review request

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The health and wellness podcast for working moms who are done running on empty. The Mom Refill delivers short, 20–30 minute episodes packed with actionable tools for nervous system regulation, stress relief, healthy eating, meal prep, better sleep, and sustainable work-life balance, so you can feel energized, present, and in control again. No lengthy theory, just real strategies you can implement today. Hosted by Katie Cooper, an occupational therapist and board-certified health coach, each episode gives you a science-backed look at stress and practical strategies to improve your daily life.