That Family Law Guy

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Welcome to That Family Law Guy, the podcast making family law clear, practical and accessible. Hosted by award-winning McKenzie Friend Daniel Ryan, with over 25 years' experience supporting families across England and Wales. Discover expert family law advice, divorce, child arrangements, domestic abuse, parental rights, family court guidance, legal insights, interviews with professionals and people with lived experience, plus honest conversations to help you navigate the family justice system with confidence.

Episodes

  1. 3d ago

    Can Family Court Take Your Child Away? | A Father's Story

    In this episode of That Family Law Guy: Unfiltered, Daniel is joined by Camilla, The Women's Lawyer and family law barrister specialising in financial remedy cases, David, a distressed father caught in the family court system, and Andrea, a Divorce Coach and Reinvention Specialist.Together, they explore the human reality behind family breakdown, asking what happens when legal proceedings collide with grief, identity and the struggle to rebuild a life after separation.Camilla shares how her own experience of divorce inspired her to become a family law barrister and create The Women's Lawyer. She explains why client care matters just as much as legal knowledge, discusses the impact of legal aid cuts, and outlines how direct access to barristers can help people navigate family court with greater confidence and understanding.David speaks candidly about losing contact with his daughter and the devastating emotional impact of family court proceedings. He describes the heartbreak of moving from being an everyday father to becoming a stranger in his child's life, the helplessness of feeling unable to protect his daughter, and the fear that she may be hearing things about him that simply aren't true.Andrea explains why divorce coaching isn't about fixing the past—it's about helping people reclaim themselves. She explores why so many people arrive wanting revenge, why revenge is a maladaptive coping strategy, and how true healing begins by investing back into yourself, understanding your emotions and building a future that isn't defined by your former relationship.Daniel also reflects on one of the most important questions for separated parents: how should children be told about family court? He explains why children need reassurance rather than adult detail, why they should never be caught in the middle of conflict, and how parents can protect their children without recruiting them into the battle.In this conversation:• Why Camilla became The Women's Lawyer• How poor legal representation inspired a new career• Direct access barristers explained• The impact of legal aid cuts on family law• David's heartbreaking experience of losing contact with his daughter• The emotional reality of being separated from your child• The lasting impact of parental conflict on children• Why children should never become messengers between parents• What divorce coaching actually involves• Why revenge never brings healing• Rebuilding confidence after divorce• Moving forward instead of staying trapped in the past• Supporting emotional recovery after separation• How to speak to children about family court proceedingsCONTENT WARNINGThis episode contains discussion of family separation, child contact disputes, emotional trauma and the impact of divorce on parents and children. Please take care while watching.This programme provides general information and discussion only. It is not legal advice. Every family law case is different, and independent advice should be obtained from a qualified professional.Subscribe to That Family Law Guy for direct and honest conversations about divorce, domestic abuse, child arrangements, mediation and the realities of the family justice system.#FamilyCourt #Divorce #ChildArrangements #FamilyLaw

  2. Aug 19

    Do Paying Fans Think They Own You? | Unfiltered Podcast

    In this episode of That Family Law Guy: Unfiltered, Daniel is joined by father Irshad, online creator Lucie and mother Vicci.Together, they examine what happens when people are reduced to allegations, occupations and case files rather than treated as human beings. From disputed allegations and prolonged family-court proceedings to online judgement, personal boundaries and the sudden loss of contact with children, they ask whether institutions and individuals can use labels, assumptions and control to reshape someone else’s life.Irshad describes the relationship he had with his children before his marriage broke down and the shock of entering both the family and criminal justice systems. He recounts an incident involving a knife and says he was arrested following an allegation of assault.Lucie explains the reality of running an OnlyFans business and the discipline required to keep her online persona separate from her private identity. She discusses the work behind growing an online audience, understanding social-media algorithms and turning attention into a sustainable business.She also speaks candidly about online trolling, invasive comments and the expectation from some paying subscribers that purchasing content gives them unlimited access to the person behind it. Lucie explains how establishing working hours and protecting the parts of her life that are not public helped her regain control.Vicci describes the ordinary and loving relationship she had with her children before her marriage ended. After leaving the family home briefly with her youngest child, she says she returned intending to collect her three older children but was locked out and told through her former husband that they no longer wanted to see her.Following the first family-court hearing, contact was ordered and initially appeared to return to normal. Vicci recalls the children being happy, talkative and making plans for their next visit - but within a matter of weeks, those arrangements began to disappear.She describes watching one of her sons become increasingly withdrawn and nervous. During their final contact session, after an otherwise happy day together, he told her that he no longer wanted to see her. Minutes later, he began discussing their next trip to see the **Sonic the Hedgehog** movie.Vicci explains why she believed her son was under pressure, why she felt his words did not reflect his behaviour and how that conversation became the last contact she had with him.The episode closes with Daniel’s reflection that life can sometimes feel like eating nothing but dry bread. The difficult days, painful proceedings and periods of uncertainty may feel endless - but they are not the whole meal. His message is simple: keep going and do not allow the hardest chapter of your life to define the entire story. This episode contains discussion of domestic abuse, threats involving a weapon, allegations of sexual assault, criminal proceedings, trauma, family separation, loss of contact with children, online harassment and adult-industry work. Please take care while watching.If you are in immediate danger in the UK, call **999**. If you cannot speak while calling from a mobile, listen carefully to the operator and press **55 if prompted**.The **National Domestic Abuse Helpline** is available free, 24 hours a day, on **0808 2000 247**.The **Men’s Advice Line** provides confidential support to male victims of domestic abuse on **0808 801 0327**, Monday to Friday, from **10am to 5pm**.The views and experiences expressed in this episode are those of the individual guests. Allegations and disputed events are presented as personal accounts and should not be treated as independent findings of fact.This programme provides general information and discussion only. It is not legal advice. Every family law case is different, and independent advice should be obtained from a qualified professional.#familycourt #domesticabuse

  3. Aug 12

    The World Is A Mirror | That Family Law Guy: Wellness Bites

    In this Wellness Bite from That Family Law Guy, wellbeing coach Farook explores the powerful idea that the world can act as a mirror, reflecting the beliefs, expectations and image we hold of ourselves.Through practical insight and thoughtful reflection, Farook explains why we may never consistently outperform our self-image. When we continue to see ourselves through the lens of past mistakes, old experiences or limiting beliefs, self-doubt can take over—causing us to delay our goals, avoid opportunities and remain trapped in an outdated version of who we are.Rather than allowing your past to define your future, Farook encourages you to consciously build a new self-image—one that reflects the person you want to become. By changing how you see yourself and taking purposeful action today, you can begin to move forward with greater confidence, clarity and belief.This may require investing your time, attention, energy and, where necessary, money into your personal development. The key is to stop waiting until you feel completely ready and start taking the actions that support the stronger, more capable version of yourself you are creating.Whether you are struggling with self-doubt, delaying an important goal or feeling restricted by the person you used to be, this short Wellness Bite offers practical encouragement to help you elevate your self-image and take meaningful steps towards the life you want.This programme provides general information and discussion only. It is not legal, medical or therapeutic advice. Every person’s circumstances are different, and independent advice should be obtained from a suitably qualified professional where appropriate.Subscribe to That Family Law Guy for direct and honest conversations about divorce, domestic abuse, child arrangements, mediation, personal wellbeing and the realities of the family justice system.#SelfImage #PersonalGrowth #Mindset #Wellbeing

  4. Aug 12

    Can Domestic Abusers Change? | Protect, Punish or Prevent?

    In this episode of That Family Law Guy: Unfiltered, Daniel is joined again by domestic abuse specialist and survivor advocate Lejla Dauti, survivor “Carrie,” whose identity has been protected, and family mediator Louise Cadman.Together, they examine the realities of family separation, mediation, domestic abuse and life after coercive control. They also confront one of the most difficult questions facing the family justice system: can a perpetrator genuinely change, or should the priority be protecting victims, punishing abusive behaviour and preventing the next generation from repeating the same cycle?Daniel also raises concerns about the messages being promoted to boys and young men through social media, and what those influences could mean for future relationships.CHAPTERS00:00 Coming up00:25 Welcome to That Family Law Guy: Unfiltered03:35 Why Louise left legal practice for mediation05:00 Can the family court really know your child?06:20 Mediation versus courtroom point-scoring08:10 Anger about the past or fear of the future?09:25 Becoming a part-time parent after separation10:40 What mothers and fathers expect from family court12:55 When parents weaponise their children14:20 Lejla: “My father was the first perpetrator”16:20 The moment she realised not all fathers were abusive17:25 Standing up to an abusive father18:45 Coercive control and living under fear19:50 Why victims cannot simply leave21:30 Recovery after leaving a perpetrator22:35 Can domestic abusers genuinely change?24:45 Why court-ordered programmes may not work25:35 Protect, punish or prevent?28:25 An ecosystem of harm reduction29:10 Can education break the cycle of domestic abuse?30:20 Teaching children consent, respect and boundaries34:15 Emotional intelligence and open communication35:50 Harmful online influences on boys and young men37:00 Unfiltered Monologue: Has automation killed retail?CONTENT WARNING!This episode contains discussion of domestic abuse, coercive control, physical and psychological violence, childhood trauma and the continuing impact of abuse after separation. Please take care while watching.If you are in immediate danger in the UK, call 999. If you cannot speak while calling from a mobile, listen to the operator and press 55 when prompted.The National Domestic Abuse Helpline is available free, 24 hours a day, on 0808 2000 247.This programme provides general information and discussion only. It is not legal advice. Every family law case is different, and independent advice should be obtained from a qualified professional.Subscribe to That Family Law Guy for direct and honest conversations about divorce, domestic abuse, child arrangements, mediation and the realities of the family justice system.#DomesticAbuse #CoerciveControl #FamilyCourt #Mediation

  5. Aug 5

    All Roads Lead to Self-Improvement | That Family Law Guy: Wellness Bites

    In this Wellness Bite from That Family Law Guy, wellbeing coach Farook explores how the paths we choose can lead to personal growth and self-improvement.Through practical insight and thoughtful reflection, Farook explains how changing the way we respond to life's challenges and dramas can have a lasting impact on our wellbeing. Rather than focusing on what we can't control, he encourages us to make a conscious decision to focus on what we truly want and take positive steps towards it.Whether you're navigating difficult circumstances or simply looking for a fresh perspective, this short Wellness Bite offers practical guidance to help you move forward with greater clarity, resilience and purpose.This programme provides general information and discussion only. It is not legal advice. Every family law case is different, and independent advice should be obtained from a qualified professional.Subscribe to That Family Law Guy for direct and honest conversations about divorce, domestic abuse, child arrangements, mediation and the realities of the family justice system.

  6. Aug 5

    When Does a Row Become Domestic Abuse? | That Family Law Guy

    In this episode of That Family Law Guy: Unfiltered, Daniel is joined by domestic abuse specialist and survivor advocate Lejla Dauti, survivor “Carrie,” whose identity has been protected, and family mediator Louise Cadman.Together, they examine the reality of domestic abuse, coercive control and post-separation conflict, and ask whether the family justice system always provides the safety, understanding and resolution that families need.Carrie describes the emotional and physical impact of family court proceedings, answering deeply personal questions and facing the alleged perpetrator in court. She explains why the process sometimes felt like it was returning power and control to the person she had escaped.Lejla challenges the expectations placed upon women and protective mothers, the burden placed upon survivors to prove patterns of abuse, and the gap between offering safety in theory and providing it in practice.Louise explains what family mediation actually involves, when mediation may or may not be appropriate where domestic abuse is alleged, and how techniques such as shuttle mediation can allow people to participate without being placed in the same room.In this conversation:• When ordinary conflict becomes domestic abuse• The signs and impact of coercive control• Post-separation abuse and the family court• Why survivors can feel interrogated rather than protected• The burden of proving domestic-abuse allegations• The physical and emotional effects of court proceedings• Children caught in parental conflict• Whether mediation can be safe following domestic abuse• How shuttle mediation works• Whether the family-court system is designed for resolution or battleCHAPTERS00:00 Coming up00:20 Welcome to That Family Law Guy: Unfiltered04:00 Lejla Dauti on feminism, power and domestic abuse09:00 Expectations placed upon mothers12:20 Survivor advocacy and access to support16:00 Carrie’s experience of family-court proceedings17:20 Facing the alleged perpetrator in court21:00 The burden of proving domestic abuse24:20 How abuse escalates and affects the body26:00 Louise Cadman explains family mediation28:20 Can mediation work where abuse is alleged?30:20 Shuttle mediation and participant safety35:00 Why mediators need to hear both sides36:40 Does the family court stage conflict?40:20 Closing thoughtsCONTENT WARNING!This episode contains discussion of domestic abuse, sexual violence and trauma. Please take care while watching.If you are in immediate danger in the UK, call 999. If you cannot speak while calling from a mobile, listen to the operator and press 55 when prompted.The National Domestic Abuse Helpline is available free, 24 hours a day, on 0808 2000 247.This programme provides general information and discussion only. It is not legal advice. Every family law case is different, and independent advice should be obtained from a qualified professional.Subscribe to That Family Law Guy for direct and honest conversations about divorce, domestic abuse, child arrangements, mediation and the realities of the family justice system.#DomesticAbuse #CoerciveControl #FamilyCourt #Mediation

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Welcome to That Family Law Guy, the podcast making family law clear, practical and accessible. Hosted by award-winning McKenzie Friend Daniel Ryan, with over 25 years' experience supporting families across England and Wales. Discover expert family law advice, divorce, child arrangements, domestic abuse, parental rights, family court guidance, legal insights, interviews with professionals and people with lived experience, plus honest conversations to help you navigate the family justice system with confidence.

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    That Family Law Guy
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
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