Self Centered with Remi

Remi

Conversations for every version of life. Welcome to Self-Centered with Remi—a podcast rooted in curiosity, growth, and choosing yourself. Being self-centered is often treated as an insult. Here, it means something different. It's about knowing who you are, staying curious about who you're becoming, and building a life that reflects your values—not someone else's expectations. 🎙️New episodes every other Wednesday! 💬 Do you need advice or have a perspective you'd love to share? Send a DM on Instagram @selfcenteredrr. You might be featured in a future episode. 🦋 Stay curious, loves.

  1. 3d ago

    Finding Your Identity by Embracing a Multifaceted Life

    What do a social worker, therapist, socialite, and world traveler all have in common? I sat down with Mica Renee, who’s all of the above, to unpack the winding path life can take. We talked about side quests, nightlife, and a beach moment that went viral. Mica took me back to Monessen, PA, her small-town roots, and the ambition that pushed her from the small town to a life that refuses to stay in one lane for too long. From working at WAMO to networking with club owners, Mica takes us through all her side quests and shows how every chapter contributes to the grander story of her life. You’ll hear how she built her following by spotlighting black, unique events and hidden gems, and by helping others trying to find community in Pittsburgh. You’ll also get the full story behind the viral Miami clip that exploded after a stranger walked into the ocean to meet her, sparking a flood of attention, internet drama, and the kind of chaos only social media can deliver. We break down the difference between being outside and being intentional, why Pittsburgh nightlife is more about who is throwing the party than the venue itself, and how Mica chooses events that create real connection for anyone looking for their place in the city. She also shares how her background in social work shapes the way she thinks about community at every level, from one-on-one support to broader cultural impact. At the core of this episode is a powerful reminder that your life is YOUR OWN and you do not have to fit into anyone’s box. If you have ever felt that you have to choose between your professional goals, creativity, and culture, this episode is just for you. This episode is for anyone who loves Pittsburgh, nightlife, or is trying to build a life in which every version of themselves is seen.  Music by @skyboundzoo

  2. Aug 26

    Why History is More Than the Past: Culture, Resistance, and the Future

    In this episode of Self-Centered with Remi, I sit downwith Darien, a PhD researcher studying history, architecture, and everyday life in Guyana, to explore how history shapes our present and future. Drawing on the concept of “Sankofa – the Akan idea ofgoing back to retrieve from the past to guide the future-“ we discuss how history lives beyond textbooks and archives. Darien shares insights from her research and the stories of the people she interviews, whose experiences help reclaim narratives that have often been overlooked. From Guyana’s bottom houses to oral history andeducation, we explore the stories embedded in the spaces and communities we live in. We also discuss how power dynamics, the history of colonialism, and imperialism can influence which stories are remembered and how history isframed. Ultimately, this conversation asks you: What happenswhen we look to the past, not to live in it, but to better understand and reclaim our present and future?  Music by: @skyboundzoo

  3. Aug 12

    So You Achieved the Dream... Now What?

    Major milestones aren’t always what we imagine them to be; sometimes the hardest part of the journey is the end. In this episode of Self-Centered, I unpacked what it means to close a major chapter and navigate the uncertainty of what comes next. I met with Nnaoma, a recent biomedical engineering PhD graduate, to talk about the realities of finishing graduate school and stepping into life beyond it. This conversation goes beyond just graduate school. It’s about navigating the end of every chapter of life. It’s about learning how to answer the question, “Now what?” So whether you’re graduating, changing careers, or just ready to step into something new, this episode is just for you.  Music by sky bound zoo

  4. Jul 29

    Passion to Profit: The Journey from Dreaming to Doing

    Turning your passion into a business isn't just about making money—it's about creating something meaningful, solving real problems, and having the courage to bet on yourself. In this episode of Self-Centered, I’m unpacking the journey from passion to profit. I met with Rashuan Simon, a Virgin Islands-born filmmaker, photographer, and entrepreneurial spirit behind a fast-growing media brand. His work captures the essence of storytelling through emotion-driven visuals, and he’s rapidly establishing himself as a key player in the creative business space. Rashuan Simon didn’t follow the typical path into photography. Instead, he used his love for gaming, music, and cinematic storytelling to build a brand that’s now capturing stunning visuals for brands, artists, and creatives worldwide. Rashuan reveals how he went from self-taught beginner to a sought-after filmmaker, sharing his secrets for turning passion into profit through relentless hustle, organic outreach, and the power of consistency. Discover how Rashuan’s early influences—FIFA soundtracks, Tumblr era aesthetics, and YouTube tutorials—shaped his cinematic style and entrepreneurial mindset. Whether you’re a creator, entrepreneur, or someone considering a radical career shift, this episode shows you how to leverage your passions, stay consistent, and build a business on your own terms. Perfect for aspiring creatives, self-starters, or anyone looking to monetize their skills independently, this conversation is packed with practical advice and inspiration to ignite your hustle. Listening to Rashuan’s story might be the nudge you need to turn your passion into your full-time life. If you’re tired of waiting for the “right time” or feeling stuck in unfulfilling jobs, this episode will light the way forward. Get inspired by how passion, grit, and a strategic mindset can lead to real success that’s both authentic and sustainable. Music by sky bound zoo

  5. Jul 15

    The Power of Perseverance: How Consistency Creates the Successful Person

    Have you ever wondered what makes a successful person successful? What really sets them apart from mediocrity? Most people think it’s about being in the right place at the right time and knowing the right people. I sat down with Will Daniels, a young Black CFP® breaking barriers in finance, to talk about what true success really looks like - why it’s not what you think. Brace yourself. Will keeps it real. Success requires growth, and growth comes through the discomfort of tackling obstacles head-on. We talked about how mastery isn’t the end; it’s about the journey of showing up every day until your craft becomes muscle memory. In today’s episode, you’ll discover: why external validation is a hollow pursuit, how failures and challenges build real armor, and why the people around you can make or break your growth. Today’s episode is for tomorrow’s trailblazers, ready to lock in. Will Daniels is a board-certified financial planner, breaking barriers as a Black man in the elite world of wealth management. He’s passionate about sharing the unfiltered truth: success is earned, it’s hard, and it’s worth every painful step. Get inspired to reframe failure, harness your environment, and push past your limits. Hit play — your future self is waiting. Music by sky bound zoo

  6. 12/31/2025

    Old Year's Revelations for Your New Year's Resolutions

    As the year closes, this episode is a gentle invitation to pause, reflect, and step into the New Year with intention rather than urgency. Old Year’s Revelations to Inform Your New Year’s Resolutions is a love letter to you—a reminder that you have time, that life is about the journey, and that the future is not something to chase, but something you can call toward you. We explore what it truly means to live a life well lived: embracing change, shedding outdated versions of ourselves, and staying anchored to who we are despite the noise of the world. This conversation centers on courage—doing the things that scare you, following what makes your heart beat faster, and allowing yourself to become new while staying true to your essence. This episode also dives into the power of connection in an increasingly disconnected world. We talk about love, energy, and how nothing we give—kindness, care, or vulnerability—is ever truly lost. Love is conserved. It returns to us, often transformed, if we’re willing to look closely and remain open. Finally, we reflect on protecting your peace: speaking your truth, choosing environments where you can be fully yourself, and discerning who deserves your presence, grace, and energy. You can love openly and still honor your boundaries. If you’re setting New Year’s resolutions, seeking clarity, or longing for deeper meaning, this episode offers grounding reflections to help you move forward with intention, authenticity, and peace.

  7. 12/03/2025

    Why is Dating So Embarrassing?

    In this episode, Remi and special guests, Hakeem and Rose, unpack the viral Vogue article, “Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?” and dive into what it reveals about dating culture today. From the rise of hyper-independence to the pressure to look unbothered, we explore why so many people feel conflicted about wanting partnership in an era that glorifies detachment. We discuss the tension between a soft life and self-protection, how social media influences our expectations, and what it truly means to date with intention in 2025. Remi and special guests, Hakeem and Rose, break down how to build healthy relationships without losing yourself, why vulnerability isn’t embarrassing, and how to navigate love when the world keeps telling you not to care. Perfect for anyone trying to figure out modern romance, redefine partnership, or get real about what they want.

  8. 11/19/2025

    Knowing When to Hang it Up & Other Lessons from Our 20s

    Let's talk about knowing when to let the party die. Remi and Hakeem dive into the lessons learned in our 20s, including how to focus on what truly matters. Remi and Hakeem share some of the hilarious - and sometimes cringe-worthy - moments that made us rethink our 20s and soon-to-be 30s. Our 20s are a time for learning, exploration, and growth. It's essential to recognize when certain habits and lifestyles no longer serve us, to find ways to enjoy life that align with our values, and to understand that most of all everyone's journey is unique.

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Conversations for every version of life. Welcome to Self-Centered with Remi—a podcast rooted in curiosity, growth, and choosing yourself. Being self-centered is often treated as an insult. Here, it means something different. It's about knowing who you are, staying curious about who you're becoming, and building a life that reflects your values—not someone else's expectations. 🎙️New episodes every other Wednesday! 💬 Do you need advice or have a perspective you'd love to share? Send a DM on Instagram @selfcenteredrr. You might be featured in a future episode. 🦋 Stay curious, loves.

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