The Old Dawg Leadership Podcast

Adam Hoots and Mike Chiles

The Old Dawg Leadership Podcast is where experienced builders share the lessons, leadership, and real-world stories that shaped their careers. Built by those who do. Shared for those who will.

Episodes

  1. Aug 14

    EP 03 | Emotional Intelligence in Construction with Brent Darnell Pt. 1

    In Episode 03 of the Old Dawg Leadership Podcast, hosts Adam Hoots and Mike Chiles sit down with Brent Darnell, a longtime leader in emotional intelligence for the construction industry, to talk about what emotional intelligence looks like on the job and why it matters.Brent shares his journey from construction and acting into emotional intelligence and breaks down the science of EI in a practical way leaders can apply to their teams.The conversation covers alpha and control/perfectionist leadership profiles, emotional literacy, vulnerability, and the importance of understanding the root cause behind employee non-performance. Brent also shares his simple 1-to-10 check-in method and explains how leaders can recognize when they’ve slipped into emotionally disconnected “robot mode.”At the heart of the conversation is a challenge for the construction industry: healthier cultures start with leaders who are willing to understand themselves, communicate differently, and show up better for their people.In this episode:• What emotional intelligence really means• Alpha and control/perfectionist leadership tendencies• Brent’s 1-to-10 check-in method• Building emotional literacy and managing emotions• Finding the root cause of non-performance• Why vulnerability takes courage• Recognizing “robot mode”• Creating healthier cultures in constructionLearn more about Brent Darnell and access his free emotional intelligence test, nutrition survey, and body battery inventory at BrentDarnell.com.Special thanks to Jason Jacobson and J Michael Solutions for supporting this episode.Subscribe to the Old Dawg Leadership Podcast for more candid conversations about leadership, people, performance, and building stronger teams.#OldDawgLeadership #ConstructionLeadership #EmotionalIntelligence #Leadership #ConstructionIndustry

  2. Aug 7

    EP 02 | Pain, Failure and the Selfish Servant with Jesse Hernandez

    In this episode, Adam Hoots and Mike Chiles sit down with Jesse Hernandez — lean coach, founder of Depth Builder, and co-host of No BS with Jen and Jess — for a raw, honest conversation about what it really takes to grow as a leader in the construction industry. What You'll Hear: Jesse's Origin Story — Pain and failure are what shaped Jesse most. He came up as a competitive, aggressive tradesman whose only goal was to outperform everyone around him — until a mentor named Jim Jones delivered a hard truth: "If you don't change how you lead, don't complain when these guys are your boss." The Selfish Servant Framework — Jesse reframes selfishness as a leadership asset. The decisions that honored his own values and callings ultimately made him a better servant to the people in front of him. Kindergarten Metrics vs. Hot Sauce Leadership — Jesse breaks down why schedule, budget, and dollar volume are "kindergarten metrics" — easy to hit, but zero impact on people development. Hot sauce leaders invest in their people even when there's no system rewarding them for it. Management Skills vs. Leadership Skills — It's not either/or. You need both. But most organizations only measure one. The Lean Manager Story — Jesse shares a masterclass in earning trust on a jobsite that didn't want him there: show up, observe, suppress your agenda, find their pain point, and demonstrate a solution before you pitch anything. The Birth of Depth Builder & No BS with Jen and Jess — How COVID forced a reckoning that led Jesse to leave a dream job, launch his own coaching business, and eventually partner with Jen Nguyen to build one of construction's most vulnerable and authentic online communities. What the Industry Actually Needs Right Now — With 41% of the workforce retiring in the next five years, throwing money at the problem won't work anymore. Jesse makes the case for celebrating the unsung leaders — the ones taking all the blame and none of the glory — and why podcasts like this one are critical to that mission. Key Quotes: "Pain and failure are the primary contributors to who I am." "Pick your leader — forget the benefits, forget the money." "Let the problem pull the tool." "Do not complain about anything you're not prepared to take action upon." "I want to introduce people to the promise they're intended to be." Connect with Jesse Hernandez: Depth Builder No BS with Jen and Jess (livestreams) Community Sponsor: Brent Darnell — brentdarnell.com — Online courses and tools to help you operate at the highest levels of mental, physical, and emotional performance.

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The Old Dawg Leadership Podcast is where experienced builders share the lessons, leadership, and real-world stories that shaped their careers. Built by those who do. Shared for those who will.