Ask Samantha

Samantha Earley

Hosted by Samantha Earely, MS, LPC Welcome to Ask Samantha, a mental health podcast for anxiety, exposure therapy, and as a resource in between your sessions. Combining humor, evidence based chats, and real life.

  1. 1d ago

    Being in a Relationship with Someone Who Has ADHD | Session 14

    Today, we're chatting practical tools for being in a relationship with someone? What is ADHD? ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder) is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by persistent patterns of inattention, hyperactivity, and/or impulsivity that interfere with daily functioning. ADHD can affect executive functioning, including organization, time management, planning, emotional regulation, and the ability to initiate or complete tasks. Symptoms begin in childhood, though ADHD may not be recognized or diagnosed until adulthood. ADHD can affect a marriage in ways that go far beyond distractibility or forgetfulness. One partner may struggle with time management, follow-through, household responsibilities, or remembering important conversations, while the other begins to feel like they’re carrying the mental load or having to act like a parent instead of a partner. Over time, this can create resentment, frequent arguments, and feelings of being unappreciated on both sides. The partner with ADHD may feel criticized or like they can never get anything right, while the other partner feels unheard or unsupported. The goal isn’t to blame ADHD or the person who has it, but to recognize how it affects the relationship and work together to build better systems. This might look like using shared calendars, creating clear agreements about household responsibilities, breaking tasks into manageable steps, scheduling intentional time together, and learning to communicate needs without criticism or defensiveness. Individual ADHD treatment and couples therapy can also help. Ultimately, ADHD may explain certain struggles, but it doesn’t mean either partner has to accept an unhealthy dynamic. Both people deserve to feel valued, supported, and like they’re on the same team. Resources: ADHD Marriage Therapist for ADHD in Texas DM Sam Here Thorn & Rose Counseling Website- book a free consult

About

Hosted by Samantha Earely, MS, LPC Welcome to Ask Samantha, a mental health podcast for anxiety, exposure therapy, and as a resource in between your sessions. Combining humor, evidence based chats, and real life.