No Notes Podcast

Grace and Katy

No notes, just us. A podcast with Grace Snively and Katy Goldstein.

Episodes

  1. 2d ago

    Episode 3: Back to School

    Katy and Grace kick off week three of No Notes with a topic they’re experiencing from opposite ends of the spectrum: back to school. Katy’s daughters are gearing up for public school (with some very real anxiety about school safety and bus culture along the way), while Grace — married to a 21-year teacher — homeschools her son Pierce with no start date, no stop date, and a learning rhythm built entirely around how his neurodivergent brain works best. The two dig into everything from back-to-school shopping (name-brand sneakers vs. clothes that survive approximately one wear) to the quiet grief that can show up around milestones that look different than expected — school buses, baseball games, first-day photos. Grace opens up about the moment she and her husband decided to pull Pierce from public preschool, and how that decision has continued to prove itself right, even while it reshaped her career and daily life. It’s an honest, unhurried conversation about two very different versions of the same season. In this episode: ​Katy’s back-to-school routines: shoes, shopping, and school supply relief​Gun violence anxiety and choosing a school district​School buses, walkability, and screen exposure on the ride home​Why Grace and Adam pulled Pierce from public preschool​Grieving the “expected” milestones that look different with a disability​Building a homeschool rhythm with no start or stop date What we’re excited about: ​Grace: A new thank-you campaign at Grey House Goods — $100 gift card giveaways every two weeks for customers, in celebration of nearly nine years in business​Katy: Interviewing Kristen Kobes Du Mez (author of Jesus and John Wayne) for Theology Girls ahead of her new book, Live, Laugh, Love

  2. Aug 20

    Episode 2: Mission Trips

    Katy and Grace tackle a topic Grace admitted she was nervous to open up about: mission trips. Katy kicks things off with a vivid memory from age 14 — riding bikes across the border into Matamoros, Mexico, on a trip through a St. Louis Christian radio station. From there, the conversation turns into an honest, unresolved wrestling match: the white savior complex, the "photo op" instinct to serve strangers overseas while neighbors down the street go unknown, and whether short-term mission trips do more for the attendees than for the communities they visit. Grace brings the leader's perspective, having taken middle schoolers on trips for years, and names the tension of "who is the mission trip actually for?" when communities cycle through a new group of well-meaning strangers every single week. Katy references an advance copy of Kristin Kobes Du Mez's upcoming book Live, Laugh, Love, and its account of Elizabeth Elliot's disillusionment with missionary culture after the death of her husband Jim. The two land on a shared, if uneasy, conclusion: local, sustained service — even through secular organizations — might do more good than a week away. No neat bow on this one. Just two friends thinking out loud. In this episode: ​Katy's teenage mission trip to Matamoros, Mexico​The white savior complex and the "photo op" critique of overseas missions​Grace's experience leading middle-school mission trips​The problem with weekly rotating volunteer groups​Elizabeth Elliot's story and Kristin Kobes Du Mez's Live, Laugh, Love​Christian hypocrisy, politics, and "who mission trips are really for"​Why local, sustained service might matter more than a week away What we're excited about: ​Grace: Her adult students' art show, Friday, September 11th — live music, food, and free admission​Katy: The launch of Second Service, a paid Substack community featuring a quarterly book club with live author Q&As Links: ​Details on Grace's student art show, September 11th​Join Second Service on Substack — bonus episodes, essays, and quarterly author Q&As

  3. Aug 13

    Episode 1: Grandparents

    Episode 1: Grandparents Katy and Grace kick off No Notes with something close to home: grandparents. Katy's grandmother recently passed away, and just days before speaking at her funeral, she shares memories of growing up around the family restaurant her grandma ran on Highway 67 — jukebox, deep-fried everything, and a bowl of shredded cheddar cheese to keep a curious kid occupied. Katy also opens up about how This Is Us became an unexpected companion for processing her grandmother's dementia, and the train-ride metaphor she's carrying into her eulogy. Grace shares her own Thursday-afternoon tradition — riding the bus to her grandparents' farm every week — and the life lesson baked into her grandpa's habit of never driving the same road home twice. She also reflects on the different textures of grief and connection across her two sets of grandparents, and how becoming a parent herself has reshaped the way she looks back on those relationships. It's a conversation about memory, small-town roots, dementia, and the particular kind of love only grandparents seem to hand down. In this episode: ​Katy's grandmother, Becky "Mama" Leftridge, and the family restaurant, Traveler's Cafe​Processing grief and dementia through This Is Us​Grace's Thursday bus rides to the farm​The "different route home" lesson​Close bonds vs. distant ones — how every grandparent relationship looks different​What shifts in how we see grandparents once we become parents ourselves What we're excited about: ​Katy: The Theology Girls' quarterly live event, October 2nd at Journey West County, featuring author Tara Beth Leach​Grace: Prepping 40 new paintings for her first solo exhibition, opening the first weekend of November at Strawn Art Gallery in Jacksonville, IL Episode Links: ◦Get tickets to the next Theology Girls live event, October 2nd in St. Louis with Tara Beth Leach ◦Grace's first solo exhibition opens the first weekend of November at Strawn Art Gallery — event details here

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No notes, just us. A podcast with Grace Snively and Katy Goldstein.