The Sick And Tired Pod

Mel Bilecky

This podcast highlights chronically ill, disabled, neurodivergent folks as they navigate life. We celebrate the wins, but don’t shy away from the difficulties.

Episodes

  1. 2d ago

    Living With Dyscalculia: Different, Not Deficient | Michelle Steiner

    What is it really like to grow up with an invisible learning disability? In this episode of The Sick and Tired Pod, I sit down with Michelle Steiner, a writer, photographer, paraeducator, speaker, and disability advocate living with dyscalculia. Michelle was diagnosed with a learning disability in kindergarten and grew up struggling with math, telling time, distinguishing right from left, and other things many people take for granted. She shares what it was like to receive learning support in school, struggle to fit in socially, experience bullying, and eventually find a community where she felt like she belonged. We also talk about what happens when you stop focusing on all the things you can't do and start asking, “What CAN I do?” Michelle shares how she found alternative paths toward her goals, earned her bachelor's degree after being told college might not be possible, built a career working with students with disabilities, became a published writer and photographer, and learned to see the beauty in experiencing the world differently. We also get into: ✨ What dyscalculia actually looks like beyond “being bad at math” ✨ Growing up with an invisible disability ✨ The importance of early diagnosis and accommodations ✨ Bullying, belonging, and finding your people ✨ Why disability doesn't define your capabilities ✨ Finding creative ways to work with your disability ✨ Michelle's journey into writing and photography ✨ Her children's book about a ladybug with dyscalculia ✨ Redefining what success can look like ✨ Learning to see yourself as different, not deficient Michelle's story is a reminder that success doesn't always come in the package we expect—and sometimes finding a different way forward can lead us somewhere we never expected. 🎙️ THE SICK AND TIRED POD Real stories. Different bodies. Divergent minds. Conversations about chronic illness, disability, neurodivergence, mental health, and the realities that don't always make it into the highlight reel. If this conversation made you feel seen, like the video, subscribe, and share it with someone who might need to hear it. #Dyscalculia #LearningDisability #InvisibleDisability #DisabilityAwareness #Neurodivergent #Neurodiversity #DisabilityAdvocacy #TheSickAndTiredPod

  2. Aug 17

    Janiya: Believe My Pain | Growing Up With Sickle Cell, Medical Bias & Self-Advocacy

    What happens when you're in excruciating pain—but the people who are supposed to help you don't believe you? In this episode of The Sick and Tired Pod, Mel sits down with Janiya of Pretty Penny Girls Co. to talk about what it’s really like growing up and navigating adulthood with sickle cell disease. Diagnosed as a baby, Janiya has spent her life learning how to balance chronic pain and unpredictable sickle cell crises with school, work, relationships, and simply being a young person trying to live her life. She opens up about growing up with classmates who didn't understand her illness, teachers who questioned her symptoms, and the exhausting reality of repeatedly having to prove that she's sick—even with accommodations in place. Janiya also shares her experiences navigating the healthcare system, including the difficult transition from pediatric to adult care and being stereotyped as “drug-seeking” while seeking treatment for severe pain. Together, Mel and Janiya talk about invisible illness, medical trauma, self-advocacy, chronic illness and mental health, finding ways to care for their bodies, and why connection with other chronically ill people can be so powerful. At the heart of the conversation is something that shouldn't be complicated at all: believing people when they tell you they're in pain. 🎧 Enjoyed this episode? Follow The Sick and Tired Pod wherever you listen so you don’t miss what’s coming next. ⭐ Leave a rating or review. It helps more people in the chronic illness, disability, and neurodivergent communities find the pod. 📲 Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it—or someone who could benefit from understanding these experiences a little better. 💬 Join the conversation. Follow The Sick and Tired Pod on social media and let us know what resonated with you from this episode. 🤝 Support our guest. Check out Janiya and Pretty Penny Girls Co. and follow along with her work and advocacy. 💌 Have a story to share? If you’re chronically ill, disabled, and/or neurodivergent and interested in being a guest on The Sick and Tired Pod, reach out—we want to hear from you. At this time, we are currently building a waitlist for our next season. And remember: we may be sick and tired, but we don’t have to do it alone.

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This podcast highlights chronically ill, disabled, neurodivergent folks as they navigate life. We celebrate the wins, but don’t shy away from the difficulties.