Hotter Together with Joel Monteleone

Joel Monteleone
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Hotter Together is built on one belief: the relationship is the most powerful growth engine in your life. Host Joel Monteleone sits down with couples living proof of it for the honest conversations about love most shows will not touch. Relationships take work, they are not easy, but the relationship of your dreams is not out of reach. It just takes a radical strategy for love.

Episodes

  1. 4d ago

    How She Manifested A Man that Checked 176 Boxes

    Fabi and Chase both got their heart broken before they found each other. This episode is about what happens when you stop chasing love and start becoming the person who can hold it, and the wild, specific signs that show up when it's finally real.Key Discussion Points:- Why trust starts with yourself, not someone else- The vision board that manifested him first- Getting triggered is not a red flag- Choosing couples therapy before saying I do- Her cervix healed after doctors said noFollow Chase: https://www.instagram.com/chasefinlay/Follow Fabi: https://www.instagram.com/fabiennefinlay/ Follow Joel: https://www.instagram.com/joel_monteleone/Time Stamps: 00:00 to 03:03 — Second chances at relationships03:03 to 04:43 — The choice point that decides everything 04:43 to 05:14 — The moment Chase triggered her completely 05:14 to 06:26 — Divorced at 36 with a cancer diagnosis 06:26 to 08:25 — Why life is rigged in your favor 08:25 to 14:17 — Manifesting him with a vision board 14:17 to 16:17 — She was deleting Bumble when she found him 16:17 to 22:04 — Six minutes at 7:30am or it's not happening 22:04 to 26:08 — Become the list instead of chasing it 26:08 to 30:18 — The swipe that changed both their lives 30:18 to 32:19 — A tarot card, a lion, and a wild sign 32:19 to 44:18 — Why instant chemistry can be a red flag 44:18 to 48:12 — Choosing couples therapy before the wedding 48:12 to 52:03 — The letter that revealed she was pregnant 52:03 to 58:01 — Her cervix healed and doctors were stunned

  2. Aug 12

    Why Breadwinner Women Struggle to Find Love

    Brody and Kendall are both multimillionaire entrepreneurs who coach thousands of people on relationships and business. This episode is what happens when two people who teach this for a living actually have to live it, blended family, two companies, and a calendar that has to hold it all. Key Discussion Points: - How dating a fellow entrepreneur kills loneliness - Why breadwinner women struggle to find love - The VIP day that became a relationship - Slowly integrating into a blended family - The calendar that runs two empires Follow Kendall: https://www.instagram.com/kendallstrampel/Follow Brodie: https://www.instagram.com/brodiekern/Follow Joel: https://www.instagram.com/joel_monteleone/ Timestamps: 00:00 – 01:40 What changes when you date a fellow entrepreneur 01:40 – 04:24 Finally having someone who just gets it 04:24 – 07:10 Letting go of the sole provider role 07:10 – 09:14 Coaching 1,200 men, and his own two kids 09:14 – 11:51 Why breadwinner women struggle to date 11:51 – 14:06 The VIP day that started everything 14:06 – 16:01 Inseparable within days, together a year and a half 16:01 – 18:18 The hardest archetype to date in 18:18 – 20:59 The masculine feminine pendulum 20:59 – 24:00 Letting her be what she needs, without making it weird 24:00 – 26:24 The volcano and the grounded one 26:24 – 28:56 What it actually took to attract this 28:56 – 33:15 Meeting his kids, and choosing to want more 33:15 – 37:21 The slow, deliberate build into a blended family 37:21 – 39:46 The shared calendar behind two businesses and two kids 39:46 – 43:23 What becomes possible in a truly great relationship 43:23 – 49:26 Business as personal development

  3. Aug 12

    His Girlfriend is a Sex Coach…for Other Men

    Andrew hired Steph as his men's relationship coach. Six months of friendship later, they started dating and never looked back, until they broke up completely during the hardest year of her life. This episode is a real look at what security actually costs, and what it takes to rebuild it.Key Discussion Points:- How hiring a coach became a relationship- The health crisis that changed everything- Why they broke up to come back stronger- Talking to men honestly about sex- What real security looks like day to dayFollow Stephanie: https://www.instagram.com/stephanieganowski/Follow Andrew: https://www.instagram.com/peluso.andrew/Follow Joel: https://www.instagram.com/joel_monteleone/Timestamps :00:00 – 02:22 Dating a sex coach, never bothered by it02:22 – 05:17 Why other men mocked her career, he didn't05:17 – 09:10 Family, and losing his mom early on09:10 – 12:11 How they actually met: he hired her12:11 – 14:30 The books and conversations that rebuilt him14:30 – 19:15 The apology nobody else remembered19:15 – 24:23 A hard conversation is like an orgasm24:23 – 27:59 What men actually need to ask in bed27:59 – 32:11 Where real security comes from32:11 – 35:13 Her body broke down, so did they35:13 – 38:19 The breakup, and the program that changed her38:19 – 41:24 I want him, I don't need him41:24 – 45:16 What men actually go through in dating45:16 – 49:36 Social media's gender war49:36 – 53:13 Play, jingles, and their dog Pico53:13 – 58:39 Home, the future, staying accountable

  4. Aug 12

    They Built a Marriage, a Baby, and a Business at the Same Time

    Courtney landed a Forbes feature, spoke at Cannes Lions, and had the best month of her business ever. All while pregnant. Her husband Lucas walked away from academic medicine the same year. This episode is proof that waiting to feel ready is the fastest way to waste your life. Key Discussion Points: Marriage as career leverageRefusing to wait until readyDelegating outside her top prioritiesThe chore war that changed thingsZero tolerance for kids as excusesWhy boring is actually the biggest compliment Follow Courtney:  https://www.instagram.com/courtlynnjohnson/ Follow Lucas:  https://www.instagram.com/lifeofflowpodcast/ Follow Joel:  https://www.instagram.com/joel_monteleone/ Timestamps:00:00 – 01:55 The pregnancy that hit at her career peak 01:55 – 04:26 Full send: never waiting to be ready 04:26 – 08:13 20 percent capacity: pregnancy's priority filter 08:13 – 09:48 A road trip, a surprise sonogram in Pensacola 09:48 – 12:43 Pregnancy's psychedelic side, nobody warns you 12:43 – 16:04 The moment it hit Lucas: becoming a dad 16:04 – 20:48 Controversial take: coach your partner or not 20:48 – 23:35 Why it's called Hotter Together 23:35 – 27:43 She knew from his Hinge profile 27:43 – 31:31 The book that started a chore war 31:31 – 33:03 I make money for my baby 33:03 – 34:50 Throwing up mid call, still showing up 34:50 – 37:56 Blaming your kids for unlived dreams 37:56 – 41:43 It's real when the relationship gets boring 41:43 – 45:39 The tantra retreat that defined their roles

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Hotter Together is built on one belief: the relationship is the most powerful growth engine in your life. Host Joel Monteleone sits down with couples living proof of it for the honest conversations about love most shows will not touch. Relationships take work, they are not easy, but the relationship of your dreams is not out of reach. It just takes a radical strategy for love.

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