Before The Coffee Cools

Kelli Pausewang
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Before the Coffee Cools is a podcast for a girl trying to do it all — chasing her dreams, keeping her faith, and finding peace in the process. Each episode is a small pause for encouragement, reflection, and honest conversation about navigating your 20s, trusting God, and remembering that life doesn’t always have to be perfect or beautiful. It’s about slowing down, being present in the moment, and filling our cup one sip at a time.

Episodes

  1. Oct 25

    Go Anyway

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! What if the things that scare you aren’t things you can’t do, but simply things you’ve never done before? In this episode, I’m reflecting on my solo trip to Hawaii, the experiences that pushed me outside my comfort zone, and the unexpected lessons I learned along the way. From skydiving to meeting strangers who left a lasting impression on me, this trip reminded me that sometimes the most meaningful experiences happen when we allow ourselves to step into the unfamiliar. It’s so easy to put our lives on hold while we wait for the right timing, the right opportunity, or someone to experience things with us. But what happens when we spend so much time waiting that we miss out on the things we’ve always wanted to do? There’s nothing wrong with wanting people beside you. But we shouldn’t have to put our dreams on hold simply because nobody else is ready to take the leap with us. One of the most special parts of my trip was a little notebook I carried with me. I asked the people I met along the way to leave a message in it, and it became one of my most meaningful souvenirs. It holds pieces of conversations, connections, and moments with people who might have otherwise remained strangers. It reminded me that there’s so much beauty in opening ourselves up to new experiences and allowing life to surprise us. In this episode, we’re talking about fear, independence, human connection, and the courage it takes to do something for the first time. We’re talking about learning to enjoy our own company, trusting ourselves in unfamiliar situations, and recognizing that being uncomfortable doesn’t automatically mean we’re incapable. Sometimes, fear is a warning that we need to listen to. Other times, it’s simply the feeling of doing something we’ve never done before. Learning to recognize the difference can change the way we approach life. Maybe you’ve been putting off a trip, a dream, a new opportunity, or something you’ve wanted to try for years. Maybe you’re waiting until you feel more confident, more prepared, or less afraid. But what if you don’t have to wait until the fear disappears? What if you can be nervous and still take the first step? This is your reminder that you don’t have to have everything figured out to begin. You don’t have to wait for someone else to be ready for the life you want to experience. And you don’t have to let the unfamiliar convince you that you’re incapable. Sometimes, you just have to do it scared. 🤍 A little reminder: Your life is happening right now. Don’t let the fear of what you haven’t done keep you from discovering what you’re capable of.

    Go Anyway

  2. Sep 4

    When it’s everyone’s turn

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Ever feel like everyone around you is moving forward while you’re still waiting for your turn? In this episode, we’re talking about comparison, different seasons of life, trusting God when things don’t happen when we expect them to, and remembering that social media never shows the full picture. We’ll also talk about the beauty of recognizing the prayers that have already been answered instead of always focusing on what’s still missing. If you’ve been feeling behind lately, I hope this episode reminds you that different doesn’t mean behind. Your story is still unfolding, and God hasn’t forgotten you. This week’s reminder: Think of three things in your life today that you once prayed for. 🤍 STAY CONNECTED ♡ Instagram @KelliMariaPhotography ♡ YouTube Before the Coffee Cools Watch

    When it’s everyone’s turn

  3. Aug 29

    Learning to Say NO

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Learning to Say No: Making Room for What Matters Sometimes the smallest word can be the hardest one to say: no. In this episode of Before the Coffee Cools, we’re talking about people-pleasing, boundaries, burnout, and the guilt that can come with putting yourself first. Learning to say no doesn’t make you selfish. It allows you to protect your time, your energy, and the things that truly matter to you. We’ll talk about why saying no can feel so uncomfortable, how to communicate your boundaries honestly, and how creating space in your life can help you become more present for the things—and people—you genuinely care about. So grab your coffee, slow down for a moment, and ask yourself: What do I need to start saying no to so I can make room for what matters most? 🤍 Before the Coffee Cools is a space to slow down, reflect, and talk about faith, purpose, emotions, and becoming the person God is calling you to be. Let’s connect 🤍 Instagram: @kellimariaphotography TikTok: @kellimariaphotography

    Learning to Say NO

  4. Aug 21

    Grieving the Living

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! What does it mean to grieve someone who is still alive? In this episode of Before the Coffee Cools, we’re talking about a kind of grief that doesn’t always get recognized: grieving a parent, a friendship, a relationship, a version of someone, or even a future you thought you were going to have. Sometimes the person is still here, but the relationship is gone. And sometimes, the hardest part is knowing that you may never get the closure, apology, or answers you’ve been waiting for. I’m sharing a little of my own experience with grieving my relationship with my father, learning how to process emotions on my own, and eventually learning that healing doesn’t always come from the person who hurt you. We’ll talk about grief, ambiguous loss, closure, emotional healing, learning to understand your emotions, faith, and what it means to keep moving forward while still carrying something that hurt you. Because you don’t need a funeral to experience a loss. And you don’t have to stop loving someone to let them go.

    Grieving the Living

  5. Aug 13

    Forgiveness and self-respect are hard choices for adults.

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Forgiveness and self-respect are crucial but often conflicting choices in life. While forgiveness is about releasing someone from punishment, self-respect involves setting boundaries to protect oneself from further harm. Both are necessary for healing and maintaining peace, but they require different actions. Understanding the difference between the two can help individuals navigate difficult relationships and make decisions that prioritize their well-being.

    Forgiveness and self-respect are hard choices for adults.

  6. Season 1 Trailer

    Before the Coffee Cools: A Podcast for Young Women

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Welcome to Before the Coffee Cools, where we explore the struggles and triumphs of young women. Join me as I share my journey of self-discovery and the challenges I've faced. Whether you're a young woman or anyone who's ever felt overwhelmed, there's something here for you. Let's connect and learn together. #BeforeTheCoffeeCools #PodcastingJourney #YoungWomenPodcast #LifeLessons #ChristianPodcasting #PhotographyBusiness #MentalHealthPodcast #CommunityBuilding #MadeWithDetail

    Before the Coffee Cools: A Podcast for Young Women
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Before the Coffee Cools is a podcast for a girl trying to do it all — chasing her dreams, keeping her faith, and finding peace in the process. Each episode is a small pause for encouragement, reflection, and honest conversation about navigating your 20s, trusting God, and remembering that life doesn’t always have to be perfect or beautiful. It’s about slowing down, being present in the moment, and filling our cup one sip at a time.

Information

  • Creator
    Kelli Pausewang
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    6
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Kelli Pausewang
  • Show Website
    Before The Coffee Cools