Said Out Loud: Divorce Recovery for Men

Trevor Ives
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I help men in midlife going through divorce find their footing and feel like themselves so they can live their lives again

Episodes

  1. Aug 28

    Who Am I Without This? Rebuilding Identity After Divorce for Men

    It usually arrives somewhere unremarkable. A kitchen that's too quiet. A car in a parking lot, sat in for longer than the errand required. And the thought, when it comes: now what. In this episode, the question underneath every divorce that nobody prepares you for. Why so much of who you were was actually what you did, the fear no man says out loud, how much you've already changed without agreeing to it, and why the answer to "who am I without this" was never behind you. Take the WhichOne? quiz: https://www.treeoflifejourney.co.za/which-one

  2. Aug 28

    The Scattered Mind: Why You Can't Think Straight After Divorce

    You lose the thread mid-conversation. Things slip for no reason you can name. Everyone thinks you're fine, and inside it's chaos with no order. That scattered feeling after divorce isn't weakness and it isn't age. It's cognitive overload, onemind suddenly carrying a load that used to be shared. In this episode: why your head stopped cooperating, what it costs if you never put any of it down, the man who spent two years needing to be right, and the five-item system thatactually reduces the load. Take the Which One? quiz: https://www.treeoflifejourney.co.za/which-one Read the full Scattered Mind series: https://www.treeoflifejourney.co.za/blog

  3. Aug 28

    The Furnished Flat: Why Your Place Still Doesn't Feel Like Home After Divorce

    You moved out. You found a place. And two years later it still doesn't feel like yours. The mattress on the floor, the boxes never unpacked, the furniture from a life that's over. In this episode I talk about what the bare flat is actually saying, the denial underneath the "it's just temporary" story, and the thing the space has been guarding all along. I lived this one for two years. This is what got me out. Take the two-minute self-check: https://www.treeoflifejourney.co.za/which-one Read the full Furnished Flat series: https://www.treeoflifejourney.co.za/blog

  4. Episode 1

    Welcome to Said Out Loud: Divorce Recovery for Men

    Divorce recovery for men in midlife, the part nobody prepares you for. I'm Trevor. I was married for 24 years, and then I wasn't. This show takes the things men actually go through after divorce, the scattered mind, the question of who you are now, the life that doesn't feel like yours yet, and says them out loud. No therapy-speak, no five steps to your best life. New episodes every second week. If any of this sounds like where you are, follow the show, the first episodes are waiting. More at https://www.treeoflifejourney.co.za/

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I help men in midlife going through divorce find their footing and feel like themselves so they can live their lives again

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