The Brave Becoming

Shaniqua Rischer
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The Brave Becoming - Grace for the process, courage for the journey.

Episodes

  1. 7h ago

    Divorce Doesn't Disqualify You

    On this episode, we are speaking with Kerena Marie, a theologian and founder of Disco Theo, about the implications of divorce within the Christian faith. This conversation explores personal experiences with divorce, the societal and church perceptions surrounding it, and the journey towards understanding God's love and grace despite these challenges. We also explore the complexities of recognizing and addressing abuse within Christian marriages, emphasizing the importance of understanding God's will regarding divorce, and the dangers of weaponizing scripture. Get ready to hear personal experiences and insights on how church teachings can hinder women's ability to identify abuse and seek help, and why we should advocate for a more supportive and proactive church response to disclosures of abuse. **If you need help leaving a toxic or abusive situation, visit https://www.thehotline.org/get-help/ or call 800-799-7233 Takeaways Divorce does not disqualify faithCommunity support is vital Abuse recognition is crucialChurches must act quickly when abuse is reportedHaving confidence that God still uses divorced womenGrace beyond divorce Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Divorce and Faith03:09 Personal Stories of Faith and Divorce06:03 The Impact of Church Teachings on Divorce08:59 Navigating Shame and Failure12:02 Community Support During Crisis14:58 Understanding God's Love and Grace18:03 Theological Perspectives on Divorce23:47 Challenging Misconceptions About Divorce26:36 Understanding Different Forms of Abuse29:01 Weaponization of Scripture in Abuse31:51 The Church's Role in Supporting Abuse Survivors36:44 Identity Beyond Marriage and Motherhood41:51 Community Support During Crisis43:01 Overcoming Internal Struggles47:49 Finding Confidence in Scripture50:54 The Journey of Healing and Acceptance55:02 The Church's Response to Divorce59:49 Embracing God's Love and GraceFollow us! ________________ Kerena Marie – Theologian, Writer, Founder of DiscoTheo Instagram: @discotheo_ www.discotheo.com/about Shaniqua Rischer - Host Instagram: @shaniquarischer www.shaniquarischer.com Tiana Madden - Host Instagram: @thetianamadden www.tianamadden.com The Brave Becoming Podcast Instagram: @bravebecomingpodcast www.thebravebecoming.riverside.com

  2. Oct 29

    When the Mask Comes Off: Shame and the "Model" Christian Woman

    In this episode, Shaniqua and Tiana explore the themes of shame, identity, and the expectations placed on women, particularly in relation to the Proverbs 31 woman. They share personal stories about their journeys, reproductive health, divorce, and the importance of openness in fostering healing and connection. They discuss the importance of vulnerability, the impact of public perception, and the need for the church to create inclusive spaces for women with diverse stories. Takeaways Shame impacts women's identitiesOpenness fosters healing and connection Identity beyond societal expectationsShame as a barrier to healingChapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Stories10:04 The Proverbs 31 Woman: Expectations vs. Reality20:03 Shame and Reproductive Health29:55 Navigating Life Changes and Identity34:48 Facing Vulnerability and Need36:33 Public Perception and Shame40:46 Rebuilding Identity After Loss42:24 The Church's Role in Women's Struggles45:51 Breaking the Couple Goals Illusion49:58 The Masks We Wear53:17 Conviction vs. Shame57:35 The Pressure of the Proverbs 31 Model01:01:58 Creating Space for Diverse Stories01:05:55 Choosing What We CarryFollow Us! ___________________ Shaniqua Rischer - Host Instagram: @shaniquarischer www.shaniquarischer.com Tiana Madden - Host Instagram: @thetianamadden www.tianamadden.com The Brave Becoming Podcast Instagram: @bravebecomingpodcast www.thebravebecoming.riverside.com

  3. Oct 22

    Render Unto Caesar: When the Church Married the State

    In this episode of The Brave Becoming with Abrm McQuarters, we explore the complex relationship between the church and the state, emphasizing the importance of spiritual formation amidst political engagement. This episode delves into biblical teachings, personal experiences, and the implications of Christian nationalism in contemporary society. We explore the intersection of faith and politics, focusing on the dangers of Christian nationalism, the impact of church leadership on congregational values, and the importance of true discipleship in navigating today's political landscape. Takeaways Faith informs civic engagementChurch must prioritize gospel over politics Christian nationalism undermines true faithDiscipleship requires patience and communityChapters 00:00 Introduction to Spiritual Formation05:00 The Call to Ministry and Civic Engagement08:11 Render Unto Caesar: Biblical Context13:42 The Intersection of Faith and Politics16:06 The Church's Relationship with the State17:22 Historical Context of Church and State24:57 American Christianity and Cultural Context29:46 Political Influence on the Church36:10 Recognizing Christian Nationalism37:29 Christian Nationalism vs. True Faith39:02 The Impact of Leadership on Congregation42:21 Plantation Preacher Mindset vs. Liberation Theology49:00 The Dangers of Assimilation in Faith54:05 The Cost of the Church's Witness01:01:59 Discipleship in Political Times_______________________ Follow us! Abrm McQuarters – Manager of Partnerships and Programs at the AND Campaign Instagram: @andcampaign, @abrmmcq16 www.andcampaign.org Shaniqua Rischer - Host Instagram: @shaniquarischer www.shaniquarischer.com Tiana Madden - Host Instagram: @thetianamadden www.tianamadden.com The Brave Becoming Podcast Instagram: @bravebecomingpodcast www.thebravebecoming.riverside.com

  4. Oct 15

    Proclaim Liberty to the Captives: Is Anything Wasted?

    On this episode with Damon R. Davis, a criminal defense attorney, we discussed his life experiences, faith, and the impact of his upbringing in Newark, New Jersey. He shares insights on the intersection of faith and personal struggles, emphasizing the importance of hope and the challenges faced in the justice system. The conversation delves into Damon Davis's transformative journey from a life of crime to redemption, highlighting pivotal moments that shaped his understanding of violence, faith, and personal responsibility. Through storytelling, he reflects on the presence of God during his darkest times and the importance of using one's voice for justice and change. The conversation explores Damon's transformative journey from a life of crime and imprisonment to becoming a successful criminal defense attorney. This episode delves into themes of forgiveness, personal growth, and the importance of community support in overcoming past mistakes. Takeaways Faith shapes resilience.Hope is a powerful motivator Redemption through personal choices.The importance of recognizing one's voice Forgiveness is essential for growth.Community support shapes personal journeys.__________________________ Follow us! Damon Davis - Criminal Defense Attorney https://www.criminalattorneycincinnati.com/about/damon-davis/ Shaniqua Rischer - Host Instagram: @shaniquarischer www.shaniquarischer.com Tiana Madden - Host Instagram: @thetianamadden www.tianamadden.com The Brave Becoming Podcast Instagram: @bravebecomingpodcast www.thebravebecoming.riverside.com

  5. Oct 8

    Unlearning the Rules of Religion

    On this episode, we are talking to India Johnson and exploring her journey of unlearning the rules of religion and embracing a personal relationship with God. This conversation delves into themes of legalism, grace, and the transformative power of faith. We talked about personal experiences with church teachings, particularly around speaking in tongues, and the journey towards understanding grace. Takeaways Unlearning religious legalismEmbracing personal faith journey Questioning church teachings in the respects of scriptureJourney to understanding grace Grace is unmeritedAccountability in Christian content Follow us! _____________________________ India Johnson - Guest Instagram: @indy5hundred TikTok: @indy5hundred   Shaniqua Rischer - Host Instagram: @shaniquarischer www.shaniquarischer.com Tiana Madden - Host Instagram: @thetianamadden TikTok: @growwithtee1 www.tianamadden.com The Brave Becoming Podcast Instagram: @bravebecomingpodcast www.thebravebecoming.riverside.com

  6. Oct 1

    Stop Calling Trauma a Lack of Faith

    This episode explores the intersection of trauma, faith, and mental health, emphasizing the importance of recognizing trauma as a legitimate experience rather than a lack of faith. Dr. Malaysia Harrell shares her personal journey of overcoming a near-death experience and how it transformed her understanding of God, faith, and her professional practice as a psychotherapist. She shares her journey of surrendering to God amidst pain and trauma, emphasizing the importance of faith and healing. Dr. Malaysia discusses how trauma can shape one's identity and the process of integrating experiences into a new narrative of resilience and purpose. Takeaways Trauma is not a lack of faithSurrendering to God leads to clarity Surrender leads to transformationTrauma is not our identity_________________________ Follow us! Dr. Malaysia Harrell - Founder/CEO, Blissful Life Consulting Instagram: @malaysiahharrell www.malaysiaharrell.com Join the Align Success Community Waitlist: https://form.jotform.com/260603180917050 Shaniqua Rischer - Host Instagram: @shaniquarischer http://www.shaniquarischer.com Tiana Madden - Host Instagram: @thetianamadden http://www.tianamadden.com The Brave Becoming Podcast Instagram: @bravebecomingpodcast https://thebravebecoming.riverside.com/

  7. Sep 24

    Sex: Singleness, Soul Ties, and Unspoken Struggles In The Pews - Part 2

    Let's talk about SEX! On this episode, we took a dive into the topic of sex, bodies, and the church, exploring singleness, soul ties, and unspoken struggles in the pews. We explored the healing process and redefining the view of sex after divorce, how to deal with the grief of doing everything right and still not being able to experience the fruit of sex, and what we believe to be God's view on those unspoken struggles like self-pleasure. Our prayer is that this episode emphasize the need for us to openly address the challenges and conflicts faced by individuals in their sexual journeys, the impact of religious beliefs, societal norms, and also personal experiences. Takeaways Grace is available for single and married individuals in the context of sex and relationships.The disparity in the church's messaging to single men and women about sex reflects a regulatory and punitive approach towards women's sexual purity.Healing and redefining the view of sex after divorce involves understanding pleasure, investigating personal narratives, and recognizing the role of spirituality in sexual experiences.The importance of checking motives and understanding natural urges.The need for open and honest conversations about sex and spirituality.___________________ Follow us! Brittany Broaddus-Smith - Christian Sexologist Instagram: @christiansexologistbrittany http://www.theintimacyfirm.com Shaniqua Rischer - Host Instagram: @shaniquarischer http://www.shaniquarischer.com Tiana Madden - Host Instagram: @thetianamadden http://www.tianamadden.com The Brave Becoming Podcast Instagram: @bravebecomingpodcast https://thebravebecoming.riverside.com/

  8. Sep 17

    Sex: Purity Culture and Misplaced Righteousness - Part 1

    Let's talk about SEX! On this episode, we took a dive into the topic of purity culture and misplaced righteousness. We explored the role of a Christian sexologist, the intersection of science and church teachings, and the impact of purity culture on individuals and relationships. Within this conversation, we aimed to highlight the importance of understanding God's grace, unlearning harmful messages about sex, and the significance of sexual health and education. Our prayer is that this episode emphasize the need for honest conversations about sex, the importance of embracing grace without abusing it, and the understanding that sexuality is more than just the physical act of sex. Takeaways Purity culture and misplaced righteousnessThe impact of purity culture on sex and relationships Honest conversations about sex are importantEmbrace grace, don't abuse itSexuality is more than just the physical act of sex ________________ Follow us! Brittany Broaddus-Smith - Christian Sexologist Instagram: @christiansexologistbrittany www.theintimacyfirm.com Shaniqua Rischer - Host Instagram: @shaniquarischer www.shaniquarischer.com Tiana Madden - Host Instagram: @thetianamadden www.tianamadden.com The Brave Becoming Podcast Instagram: @bravebecomingpodcast https://thebravebecoming.riverside.com/

  9. Sep 10

    The Brave Becoming

    The episode explores the concept of being 'in between' and the journey of spiritual formation. It delves into personal experiences of faith, seeking God, and the challenges of spiritual growth. The conversation highlights the importance of trusting in God and the transformative power of His word. The conversation delves into the themes of spiritual discernment, authenticity, and the in-between journey of faith. It explores the challenges of navigating personal growth, identity, and the role of church in the process. Takeaways In the journey of spiritual formation, it's essential to confront hard questions and have honest conversations with God.Trusting in God and His word is the key to finding peace and spiritual fulfillment. Spiritual discernmentAuthenticityNavigating the in-between journey Chapters 00:00 The In-Between Journey01:35 Recognizing God's Presence05:18 Challenges of Spiritual Formation20:03 Seeking God in the Wrong Places26:53 Trusting God Fully28:11 Spiritual Discernment and Authenticity36:18 Navigating the In-Between Journey45:24 The Role of Church and Faith

  10. Sep 3

    Holy & Human

    Brave Becoming Podcast: Being Holy and Human 100%In this inaugural episode, co-hosts Shanique Risher and Tiana Madden introduce Brave Becoming as a space for honest faith conversations about grace, struggle, and growth. They open up about what it means to feel fully human while still pursuing holiness, using personal testimony, biblical references, and real-life tension to frame the journey.We discuss how God meets people in unexpected places, why holiness is about being set apart, and how human emotions, disappointment, and identity challenges shape spiritual formation. The episode stays rooted in lived experience rather than polished answers, and it sets the tone for future conversations with guests and honest wrestling.

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The Brave Becoming - Grace for the process, courage for the journey.

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  • Creator
    Shaniqua Rischer
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    10
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Shaniqua Rischer
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    The Brave Becoming