Single, Not Sorry!

Debbi Rice and Leslie Kaz
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Being single can feel like a train wreck, or it can feel like a million bucks! Are you a single woman over 40 wondering just how the heck to be happy alone? Join single life veterans Debbi Rice (Single and Amazing) and Leslie Kaz (Single Living), as they share the trials and tribulations of being single and how to overcome them to rock your solo life! Practical tips and solutions are presented in every episode along with a heaping dose of humor and just the right amount of snark. “Single, Not Sorry,” will give you the confidence you need to conquer the world and finally be happy single!

Episodes

  1. 6d ago

    7: Staying Single - The "Other" Choice

    Hey, Debbi and Leslie coming at ya with another episode of Single, Not Sorry, the singles podcast NOT about dating! Today we’re talking about options—because apparently society has decided there are only two: be in a relationship or be actively hunting for one. Um…how about option number three? We’re diving into why being single by choice is often treated like you’ve “given up,” failed at life, or possibly need to explain your sexuality to the nearest busybody. We’ll talk about the difference between giving up on a dream and simply realizing there are more ways to live than the one you were handed. And here’s a radical idea: being alone is a perfectly legitimate option! In fact, it can be a damn good one. Debbi and Leslie are living proof that you can build a happy, fulfilling life without constantly swiping, searching, or treating singledom like a temporary condition that needs to be cured. Maybe the problem isn’t that you’re missing an option. Maybe nobody ever told you it existed. Connect with Debbi: Book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠"Good in Bed"⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apparel Shop⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@singleandamazing⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with Leslie: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Personality Type Quiz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Bookstore⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Lesliekaz.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@lesliekaz.singleliving⁠⁠⁠

  2. Oct 13

    6: Going from "We" to "Me"

    Going from “we” to “me” can be a hell of a transition. In this episode of Single, Not Sorry, we’re talking about what happens when a marriage or major relationship ends—and suddenly you’re on your own. First, there’s the legal stuff: attorneys, beneficiaries, bank accounts, emergency contacts, and all the other scary paperwork nobody warned you about. Then there’s the reality of living alone, with or without kids. It can be scary, lonely, and downright weird at first, but eventually you may discover something surprising: you actually LOVE having your life—and your home—entirely to yourself. But let’s not forget the societal crap. The stigma, the perceived loss of status, the “what went wrong?” questions, and the ridiculous idea that being single means you somehow failed. Spoiler alert: you didn’t. We’ll talk about the emotional, practical, and societal challenges of going from “we” to “me”—and why you shouldn’t let anyone else’s definition of a successful life become yours. Connect with Debbi: Book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠"Good in Bed"⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Apparel Shop⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@singleandamazing⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with Leslie: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Personality Type Quiz⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Bookstore⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Lesliekaz.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@lesliekaz.singleliving⁠⁠⁠

  3. Sep 29

    5: Money and the Single Woman - Girls Just Wanna Have Funds

    Money. 💰 It’s one of those topics that can turn a perfectly pleasant conversation into a full-blown bar fight—and in the singlesphere, there’s plenty to talk about! In this episode of Single, Not Sorry, Debbi and Leslie tackle the good, the bad, and the downright annoying parts of beingsingle when it comes to money. On the plus side, there’s freedom. Your money is YOUR money, and you get to decide whether your financial love language is saving, spending, investing, or occasionally blowing $300 on somethingcompletely unnecessary. No partner’s spending habits, questionable purchases, or gambling problem required. But then there’s the downside: one income, all the bills,and nobody to split expenses with or bounce financial decisions off of. And let’s not forget the dreaded Singles Tax—paying more simply because you’re one person. Being single may put you at a financial disadvantage in some ways, but there’s one major perk: 100% control overyour money. And that’s worth a lot! Connect with Debbi: Book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠"Good in Bed"⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Apparel Shop⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@singleandamazing⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with Leslie: ⁠⁠⁠Free Personality Type Quiz⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Bookstore⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Lesliekaz.com⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@lesliekaz-singleliving⁠⁠⁠

  4. Sep 15

    4: The Joys of Living Alone

    Living alone isn’t something to dread—it can actually be one of the best parts of single life! In this episode of Single, Not Sorry, Debbi and Leslie dive into the serious and seriously funny joys of having a home that’s completely your own. From decorating exactly how you want and choosing where (and how) you live, to deciding how clean—or messy—your space is, living alone means no compromising required. And then there are the little perks: your snacks are always where you left them, nobody’s dirty underwear is on the floor, and you’re free to walk around naked, sing at the top of your lungs, or dance in the living room whenever the mood strikes. But what if living alone doesn’t feel so joyful? Debbi and Leslie share practical ways to make it easier, including creating background “company,” staying connected with friends and family, making mealtimes more enjoyable, and taking steps to feel safer at home. Living alone may take some getting used to—but there’s a whole lot to love about having a space that’s truly yours! Connect with Debbi: Book, ⁠⁠⁠"Good in Bed"⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Apparel Shop⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠@singleandamazing⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Connect with Leslie: ⁠⁠Free Personality Type Quiz⁠⁠ ⁠Bookstore⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Lesliekaz.com⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠@lesliekaz-singleliving⁠⁠

  5. Sep 8

    3: Stop Being Unhappy Single

    In this episode of Single, Not Sorry—the singles podcast NOT about dating, Debbi and Leslie tackle a belief they hear all the time: “I’m not happy single” or “I could never be happy single.” But is being single really the problem? We’re talking about why happiness has less to do with your relationship status and more to do with your mindset, confidence, and the way you choose to live your life. We’ll challenge the idea that marriage automatically equals happiness, take a closer look at how many married people are actually happy, and remind you that just because a relationship isn’t bad doesn’t necessarily mean it’s good. Most importantly, we’ll talk about how to get happy now instead of waiting for a relationship—or some imagined future—to make your life complete. It starts with figuring out who you are, deciding what you really want, and making a plan to create your best life right now. Because anybody can be happy single—including you! Connect with Debbi: Book, ⁠⁠⁠"Good in Bed"⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Apparel Shop⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠@singleandamazing⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Connect with Leslie: ⁠⁠Free Personality Type Quiz⁠⁠ ⁠Bookstore⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Lesliekaz.com⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠@lesliekaz-singleliving⁠⁠

  6. Sep 8

    2: How Society Wreaks Havok on Your Single Happiness

    Society has a lot to say about what happiness is supposed tolook like—and marriage and partnership are usually front and center. In this episode of Single, Not Sorry, Debbi and Leslie take on the “S” word: society, and how its long-held expectations can get in the way of being genuinely happyas a single person. They explore why marriage is still treated as the ultimatelife goal, why so many of us buy into that belief without questioning it, and how family, media, tradition, and the desire to belong reinforce the idea that partnered automatically means happier. They also discuss why these expectations can be especially tough on single, childless women. Most importantly, Debbi and Leslie talk about how to recognize where these beliefs came from and start changing your mindset. Because society may not change overnight—but you get to decide what happiness and a fulfilling life look like for you. Connect with Debbi: Book, ⁠⁠"Good in Bed"⁠ ⁠Apparel Shop⁠ Instagram: ⁠@singleandamazing ⁠Connect with Leslie: ⁠Free Personality Type Quiz⁠ Bookstore⁠ ⁠Lesliekaz.com⁠ Instagram: ⁠@lesliekaz-singleliving⁠

  7. Sep 8

    1: "Single, Not Sorry" - Get to Know Us

    Welcome to the very first episode of Single, Not Sorry! Meet Debbi and Leslie, two certified life coaches, authors, and passionate advocates for helping single women embrace singlehood and create lives they genuinely love. And one thing you won’t find here? Dating advice! In this introductory episode, Debbi and Leslie share how they met, why they quickly realized they were “twins separated at birth,” and what inspired them to join forces for this podcast. They’ll also give you a taste of what’s ahead: practical tips for navigating everyday singles issues, humorous personal stories, the occasional snarky tirade, and honest conversations about the things single women deal with every day. Most importantly, Single, Not Sorry is about challenging tired stereotypes, ditching the pressure to chase the fairytale, and helping women choose and celebrate singlehood rather than simply settle for it. Get to know your hosts, then join the conversation by sharing your own single-life experiences and questions! Find Debbi's book, "Good in Bed" Find Leslie's book, "Single Girl Bliss: How to Stop Feeling Alone and Start Feeling Alive" Connect with Debbi: Apparel Shop Instagram: @singleandamazing Connect with Leslie: Free Personality Type Quiz Single Serving Cookbook Lesliekaz.com Instagram: @lesliekaz-singleliving

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Being single can feel like a train wreck, or it can feel like a million bucks! Are you a single woman over 40 wondering just how the heck to be happy alone? Join single life veterans Debbi Rice (Single and Amazing) and Leslie Kaz (Single Living), as they share the trials and tribulations of being single and how to overcome them to rock your solo life! Practical tips and solutions are presented in every episode along with a heaping dose of humor and just the right amount of snark. “Single, Not Sorry,” will give you the confidence you need to conquer the world and finally be happy single!

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  • Creator
    Debbi Rice and Leslie Kaz
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    7
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Debbi Rice and Leslie Kaz
  • Show Website
    Single, Not Sorry!