big sister diaries

Danielle Wills

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The podcast-shaped diary on self-worth, confidence, and the messy process of becoming the love of your own life. We're diving into all the stuff that makes us human: making friends, finding love, navigating ambition, trusting yourself, and everything else that comes with figuring out how to become someone you're proud of x all the links: @bigsisterdiariespod @daniellewillls substack @daniellewillls

2d ago

how to survive being your own boss | the art of working for yourself

Walking down memory lane today through my time as a full time yoga teacher but just know... this one is for anyone who is building something with their name on the door. Because all the Instagram posts yelling "you are too creative for a 9-5" do have a point - but what they don't talk about is the unromantic side of being your own boss. It's a crash course in self-development, and it will test you more than you could ever have expected. So today, I want to share seven things I wish someone had told me at the start of my wellness career - and most of them have nothing to do with yoga x ♡ more links! BSD on InstagramBSD on SubstackDanielle on Instagram
Oct 7

outgrowing who you used to be | the messy middle

As we move through our 20s and into our 30s... I think we've all gone through specific moments when we've outgrowing our old self and we've left old version of ourselves behind. And often, it feels disorientating and awkward and really, really painful. But sometimes the hardest part of it is feeling guilty because you used to love your life!!! You used to be so driven to reach for the dreams that you now have... but you're in a place where it doesn't fit the way you thought, and you don't know what's next for you. So if you feel like you've outgrown the person you were but you're also not the person you want to be yet - you're not alone xo Links: Lady Lady by Olivia Dean Messy Middle by Scott Belsky How Emotions Are Made - Lisa Feldman Barrett Rites of Passage by Arnold Van Gennep Mountain is You by Brianna Wiest ♡ more links! BSD on InstagramBSD on SubstackDanielle on Instagram
Sep 30

being cringe is the cost of entry to everything worthwhile

If you've ever held back from something because you were scared of looking like you were trying too hard...this one's for you. I made this episode because the fear of being cringe kept me small for a longggg time, and it took me most of my 20s to finally realise that the there will always, always be something to be afraid of. And at the end of the day... I can either be afraid of embarrassing myself or of wasting my life. So here we go! ♡ more links! BSD on InstagramBSD on SubstackDanielle on Instagram
Sep 23

hot girls set boundaries | how to know if you're giving too much

If you were raised to be the good girl - the helpful one, the reliable one, the one who holds everything together - this episode is for you. Today we're getting into why over-giving isn't the same as being generous, the difference between being nice and being self-abandoning, and the practical tips on setting clean boundaries without blowing up your relationships. Links: Too Much by Terri ColeAtlas of the Heart by Brene BrownBoundary Boss Scripts by Terri Cole♡ more links! BSD on InstagramBSD on SubstackDanielle on Instagram
Sep 14

how to stop ruining your life | a realistic guide to self sabotage

Before you press play... this isn't another episode about motivation!!! Self-sabotage isn't laziness, it isn't a character flaw, and you can't think your way out of it. It's taken me awhile to learn that self sabotage is the result of something called 'conflicting desires': a clashing between who you consciously want to become and what your subconscious currently believes is safe. Today we're getting into why we are so often our own worst enemy, four sneaky ways we get in our own way, and the concrete steps to start changing those patterns so we can live our best life... without toxic positivity or impractical mansplaining :) Links: The Mountain is You by Brianna Wiest The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks ♡ more links! BSD on InstagramBSD on SubstackDanielle on Instagram
Sep 14

confessions of a perfectionist | how to stop procrastinating already

If you identify as a lazy perfectionist too, you're in the right place - because perfectionism always gets talked about like it's a discipline problem: just lock in, push through, stop overthinking, literally just do things! But if that advice worked... you'd have done the thing already. The reality is: you're not lazy or undisciplined, your passions are just triggering your nervous system! And your brain is just doing its best to protect you from being disappointed - so the only way you're going to be able to start doing the things you're afraid of is to work with your subconscious instead of trying to fight it all the time - because the fact that you procrastinate is just proof you actually care x ♡ more links! BSD on InstagramBSD on SubstackDanielle on Instagram
Sep 14

no longer a pick me girl | how to start trusting yourself again

If you've ever said yes when you meant no, changed yourself to match the room, or realised you don't actually know what you like anymore... this one's for you. I spent wayyy too long trusting other people's opinions more than my own. For years, I stayed in a relationship where I had to constantly tip-toe around his moods. I ran myself ragged trying to please everyone around me, and I let pieces of myself be chipped away until I didn't even know who I was anymore. So today we're covering the subtle signs of people pleasing, the psychology behind why we let it happen, and four practical ways to start taking your power back and reminding yourself who tf you are x Links: Untamed by Glennon Doyle ♡ more links! BSD on InstagramBSD on SubstackDanielle on Instagram

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The podcast-shaped diary on self-worth, confidence, and the messy process of becoming the love of your own life. We're diving into all the stuff that makes us human: making friends, finding love, navigating ambition, trusting yourself, and everything else that comes with figuring out how to become someone you're proud of x all the links: @bigsisterdiariespod @daniellewillls substack @daniellewillls

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Danielle Wills
Years Active

2026
Episodes

7
Rating

Explicit
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