Founder Therapy

Alen Faljic

Founders on a couch, like in a real therapy session. No tactics, no performing. Just what goes on inside a founder's head, and why that matters more than any tactical playbook.

Episodes

  1. 5d ago

    We built a $1M business we hated. How we pick the next one?

    Franz Emprechtinger was my first hire at d.MBA and, for 6 years, my business partner. We ran the company together, had our best year at over $1M in revenue, then killed the product that made it. A year ago we stopped working together even though we never had a single fight. This episode is different. There is no guest. Franz and I sit on the couch together, and the therapy session is about us: why relationship ended, the deal that never matched the relationship, and how each of us is choosing what to build next. Chapters0:00 The day Franz left d.MBA1:10 "The call": something is off5:27 How the partnership started (salary plus profit share)9:50 Why Alen never gave Franz equity11:06 Maker vs manager, the face outside and the face inside14:54 Safety as the hidden driver of our decisions18:25 Killing a million euro cash cow with no plan B20:44 Borrowed energy vs true energy23:55 "We take such good decisions": the rational trap and the Black Friday argument30:08 The leader has to put their needs first33:11 Gut vs rational brain37:16 Franz's year of doing nothing, then the offsite company39:22 Allowing yourself to love a service business44:03 The app Alen could not make himself build48:43 Guilt about hours and working class roots55:12 When the grind is right57:08 Self-worth tied to the desk1:02:11 Turning your hobby into a business1:07:00 Every business is a cage, so choose your own discomfort1:12:30 Two kinds of discomfort, and somatic therapy1:17:18 Does following your gut pay the bills?1:19:51 How the profit share deal shaped our risk taking1:26:25 Growth is stability? Figuring out what is enough1:34:59 Founder marketing fit1:40:15 Who are you building for?1:45:48 Forever vs "I can quit in a month"1:53:56 Hiring mistakes2:01:19 Pure gut feelings vs triggered ones2:04:43 Cancel what you hate2:12:07 Business as self-expression, and wrap up

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Founders on a couch, like in a real therapy session. No tactics, no performing. Just what goes on inside a founder's head, and why that matters more than any tactical playbook.