Un-Leashed

Un-Picking the Patriarchy, one un-comfortable truth at a time.
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Two women. A lifetime of experiences. And a lot that we were never supposed to say out loud. The UnLeashed is a conversational, rebellious look at what it means to be a woman in a world that still has plenty of rules about who we should be, how we should behave, and how much space we’re allowed to take up. We’re here to question the expectations, challenge the language, unpack the experiences and talk about the things women are often expected to swallow, smooth over or simply put up with. From the workplace and relationships to anger, identity, ageing, confidence and the everyday contradictions of being a woman — we’re having the conversations that don’t always fit neatly into the narrative. This isn’t about shouting louder. It’s about finding our voices, standing our ground and quietly — but firmly — changing the story. Unmanageable. Unruly. Uncontrollable. Uncensored. Uninhibited. We are Un-Leashed. And we’re done behaving. Podcast published every two weeks, on a Thursday - we hope that you'll be back to listen to us un-pack and un-pick the patriarchy.

Episodes

  1. 2d ago

    Un-Smiling

    The Good, The Bad and The Ick of Smiles A smile can lift your mood, connect you to another person and make the world feel a little kinder. But what happens when that smile is demanded rather than given? From the science and biology of smiling to the uncomfortable reality of the coerced smile, we unpack the difference between smiling because you want to and smiling because someone expects you to. Why does being told to smile give us the ick, and why does something so seemingly harmless have such a dark underbelly? Because a smile should be an expression, not an obligation.

  2. Oct 14

    Un-Checked

    What happens when men’s sexual entitlement is left unchecked? The answer is not abstract, and it is not rare - it is women paying the price, while friends, families, institutions, and entire systems look away.Nix and Tons take on a brutally honest conversation about Giselle Pellicot, Jeffrey Epstein, and the allegations surrounding Cornell, using each case to expose the same disturbing pattern: harm thrives when people stay silent. They unpack the spectrum of sexual entitlement, from "just joking" and "she'll be fine" thinking all the way to predation, and ask the question too many people avoid - how much damage could have been prevented if someone had simply interrupted it earlier?You’ll hear a sharp breakdown of why bystanders stay quiet, why powerful men getting away with it normalizes the behaviour for everyone else, and why the "not all men" reaction so often derails the real issue. The conversation widens into the bigger cultural crisis: why sexual assault is treated unlike any other crime, why women are so often expected to manage the consequences, and why reputational consequences may be the only deterrent strong enough to change behaviour. Essential listening if you’re done with excuses and want the clearest possible case for why silence is never neutral.

  3. Oct 1

    Un-Ladylike

    Be polite. Sit nicely. Don’t be loud. Don’t be difficult. Don’t be angry. Don’t take up too much space. Sound familiar? In UnLadylike, Nix & Tons tear into the invisible rulebook that has been telling women how to behave for generations. We look at why confidence can become “attitude”, ambition can become “bossiness”, anger can become “hysteria” and standing your ground can suddenly make you “difficult”. In this episode we discuss if being ladylike is less about good manners and more about control. This is about the rules we inherited, the ones we still enforce on ourselves, and the ones we still quietly enforce on each other. So what happens when we stop trying to be good girls? Maybe it’s time to be UnLadylike.

  4. Sep 28

    Un-Protected

    The idea that men are "protectors" sounds noble until you ask a harder question: protected from what, exactly? In this sharp, unsettling conversation, Nix and Tons dismantle the myth that standing at the door with a bat equals real safety and expose the deeper harms that women are still forced to navigate.What starts as a challenge to a familiar gender script becomes a much bigger reckoning with control, responsibility, and how easily "protection" turns into coercion. Nix pushes beyond the fantasy of the heroic male guardian to argue that real protection means preventing harm, confronting misogyny, believing women, and changing the conditions that make people unsafe in the first place. Tons brings the perspective that many women already understand: the constant risk management, the false sense of security, and the emotional burden of having to protect themselves from men rather than be protected by them.You'll discover: Why "I’d step in front of a bullet for you" is not the same as actual protectionHow protection gets confused with control, from dress codes to curfews to silenceWhy women are often blamed for harm they did not causeWhat real protection looks like in everyday life, at home, at work, and in politicsHow men can challenge other men and use their influence to make women and children saferThe conversation goes further than personal safety. It gets into the mental load women carry, the failure of narrow definitions of masculinity, and the way a single false story can leave both men and women trapped. If men are told their worth depends on being protectors, what happens when protection fails, or when the threat was never the one they were watching?Essential listening if you care about gender, safety, power, or what it really means to look after the people you love. This episode doesn’t just critique the myth - it offers a better definition of protection, one that actually helps.

    Un-Protected
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Two women. A lifetime of experiences. And a lot that we were never supposed to say out loud. The UnLeashed is a conversational, rebellious look at what it means to be a woman in a world that still has plenty of rules about who we should be, how we should behave, and how much space we’re allowed to take up. We’re here to question the expectations, challenge the language, unpack the experiences and talk about the things women are often expected to swallow, smooth over or simply put up with. From the workplace and relationships to anger, identity, ageing, confidence and the everyday contradictions of being a woman — we’re having the conversations that don’t always fit neatly into the narrative. This isn’t about shouting louder. It’s about finding our voices, standing our ground and quietly — but firmly — changing the story. Unmanageable. Unruly. Uncontrollable. Uncensored. Uninhibited. We are Un-Leashed. And we’re done behaving. Podcast published every two weeks, on a Thursday - we hope that you'll be back to listen to us un-pack and un-pick the patriarchy.

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  • Creator
    Un-Picking the Patriarchy, one un-comfortable truth at a time.
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    4
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Un-Picking the Patriarchy, one un-comfortable truth at a time.
  • Show Website
    Un-Leashed