Project Reclaim

Robert Nebergall
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You are the project. And the project is never finished. Project Reclaim is a podcast about becoming someone you’re proud to be physically, mentally, and personally. Hosted by Robbie Nebergall, former firefighter turned coach, the show explores self-leadership, health, philosophy, fitness, relationships, purpose, and the lessons that come from actually living through hard things. Drawing from the fire service, martial arts, Eastern philosophy, Stoicism, coaching, and his own mistakes along the way, Robbie challenges the idea that becoming better means constantly doing more. Sometimes growth means pushing harder. Sometimes it means letting go. Sometimes it means rebuilding your standards, taking care of your body, changing the way you think, or finally admitting that the life you’ve built isn’t the life you want. There is no final version of you waiting at the finish line. It's time to reclaim it.

  1. 6d ago

    When Goals Stop Being Helpful

    Have you ever wanted something so badly that the wanting started getting in the way? In this episode, I go back to a story from Zen archery about a student who keeps aiming for the bullseye, and the harder he tries, the more tense he gets. His teacher keeps bringing him back to the same lesson. Stop obsessing over where the arrow lands and learn to shoot the arrow. I share where I first found this idea, growing up in a martial arts school and reading Zen in the Art of Archery, and why the target gives you direction while the process decides whether you get there. We talk about flow, mushin, and wu wei, why overthinking something you've already trained can make you worse, and how the same thing shows up with the scale, your business, your confidence, and even your conversations with the people closest to you. Goals still matter. The archer still needs a target. But most of your time is spent in the ordinary days getting your reps in, and that's where you actually have control. What's one goal you're chasing right now, and what would it look like to give your full attention to the next rep?

  2. Oct 28

    A Letter to Yourself 10 Years Ago

    If you could sit across from the person you were 10 years ago, would they recognize you? In this episode, I start with an ancient Greek thought experiment called the Ship of Theseus. Every plank, sail, and mast gets replaced over time until nothing original is left. Is it still the same ship? I use that question to look at identity. Your body, your beliefs, your relationships, and your priorities all change, and yet you still call yourself the same person. I share what it was like to step away from the fire service after years of it being a big part of who I was, what I carried forward into Reclaim, and why your values can stay while the way you live them keeps evolving. Life is going to change you no matter what. The question is whether you're going to participate in that change. What would you want to tell the version of you from 10 years ago?

  3. Oct 27

    Fitness Isn't What You Think It Is

    What good is building a life you’re proud of if you’re too exhausted to enjoy it? In this episode, I’m talking about how taking care of your body changes the way you experience your life. Your patience, your relationships, your ability to handle stress, and the way you see yourself all come into it. I share what my time in the fire service taught me about trying to solve a recovery problem with more effort, and why training harder wasn’t the answer I needed. We get into the minimum effective dose, the lessons fitness can teach you about yourself, and what it means to build habits that support the rest of your life. Taking care of yourself should give you more capacity to live, connect, and show up for the people you love. That’s the reason to do it. What do you want your body to help you experience?

  4. Oct 26

    What Happened to Men?

    What happened to all the real men? A question I was asked on a service trip to Oaxaca turned into a much bigger conversation about masculinity, responsibility, and the examples we pass down. In this episode, I share my perspective on four things shaping men today: our environment, our upbringing, the messages we absorb from society, and the life skills we were never taught. I also talk about what martial arts, fitness, and service taught me about becoming grounded, capable, and willing to lead. Getting older doesn't automatically teach us how to handle conflict, keep our word, or take responsibility. Those are things we have to practice. What are you teaching the next generation through the way you live?

  5. Oct 23

    Why Is It So Hard To Sit With Ourselves?

    Why is it so hard to sit with ourselves? Sometimes the hardest part of slowing down is having to hear what we’ve been avoiding. In this episode, I use Plato’s cave to look at the stories we carry about who we are. We talk about why meditation can feel uncomfortable, how our beliefs shape our decisions, and what happens when we realize we can change. One of my students asked what to do with the years spent believing something that wasn’t true. That question gets at something I think a lot of us struggle with: how to hold the lesson without treating the time as wasted. What comes up for you when you sit still long enough to listen?

  6. Oct 22

    What If Your Biggest Mistake Wasn’t a Mistake?

    How many things have you already decided ruined your life when you haven’t seen how the story ends? In this episode, I explore the story of the Chinese farmer and why we’re so quick to label what happens to us as success, failure, good luck or bad luck. I share how my experience in the fire service shaped the work I do today, and how reaching a business goal I’d spent years pursuing gave me a life I didn’t actually want. We talk about the need for certainty, the pressure to put a positive spin on painful experiences, and how to take the next useful step when you don’t know what comes next. What’s one chapter of your life you might be judging before it’s finished?

  7. Oct 14

    Why We Keep Starting Over

    How many times have we started something meaningful, made a little progress, and then decided one difficult day meant we needed to begin again? In this episode of Project RECLAIM, we explore why a fresh start can feel so appealing, and how perfection can keep us dismantling work that still matters. Through the story of a man who never finishes his boat, we look at the difference between fixing a problem and turning it into a judgment about who we are. We talk about flexible consistency, honest adjustments, and learning to return after an interruption. We also consider when changing course is the responsible choice, and how to take a useful next step with the time and energy we actually have. What is one thing in your life that needs a repair rather than another beginning?

  8. Oct 14

    The Hidden Cost of Being Dependable

    We say yes, then wonder why we feel resentful. Sometimes we’ve agreed to more than a favor. We’ve agreed to keep being the person who never needs anything. In this episode, we explore how being dependable can become the way we earn our place in a relationship. We talk about the difference between being appreciated and being known, and why disappointing someone can feel harder than acknowledging what we need. Being of service matters. So does having enough left to keep showing up. This conversation looks at honest limits, the discomfort that comes with saying no, and making room for ourselves among the people worth caring for. Where have we been saying “it’s no problem” when it actually is?

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You are the project. And the project is never finished. Project Reclaim is a podcast about becoming someone you’re proud to be physically, mentally, and personally. Hosted by Robbie Nebergall, former firefighter turned coach, the show explores self-leadership, health, philosophy, fitness, relationships, purpose, and the lessons that come from actually living through hard things. Drawing from the fire service, martial arts, Eastern philosophy, Stoicism, coaching, and his own mistakes along the way, Robbie challenges the idea that becoming better means constantly doing more. Sometimes growth means pushing harder. Sometimes it means letting go. Sometimes it means rebuilding your standards, taking care of your body, changing the way you think, or finally admitting that the life you’ve built isn’t the life you want. There is no final version of you waiting at the finish line. It's time to reclaim it.

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  • Creator
    Robert Nebergall
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    13
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Robert Nebergall
  • Show Website
    Project Reclaim