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One of the most essential ingredients to success in business and life is effective communication. Join Matt Abrahams, best-selling author and Strategic Communication lecturer at Stanford Graduate School of Business, as he interviews experts to provide actionable insights that help you communicate with clarity, confidence, and impact. From handling impromptu questions to crafting compelling messages, Matt explores practical strategies for real-world communication challenges. Whether you’re navigating a high-stakes presentation, perfecting your email tone, or speaking off the cuff, Think Fast, Talk Smart equips you with the tools, techniques, and best practices to express yourself effectively in any situation. Enhance your communication skills to elevate your career and build stronger professional relationships. Tune in every Monday and Thursday for new episodes. Subscribe now to unlock your potential as a thoughtful, impactful communicator. Learn more and sign up for our Newsletter at fastersmarter.io.

  1. 5d ago

    333. Find the Vibe: Build Stronger Connections Through Communication Part 1

    “Be as curious about the other person as you are excited to share about yourself.” What makes you click with someone? For organizational psychologist and bestselling author Adam Grant, meaningful connection isn't just about chemistry. It's about understanding how we relate to others, showing genuine curiosity, and creating interactions that bring us closer. In part one of this two-part Think Fast, Talk Smart episode, Grant joins Matt Abrahams to discuss the science of connection and share lessons from his new book, Vibe: The Secrets of Strong Connections in a Lonely World. From building confidence through practice and seeking advice instead of feedback to finding common ground and creating more dynamic conversations, Grant shares practical ways to strengthen relationships and make our interactions more meaningful. Takeaways:Strong connections are built with intention. Understanding whether you're seeking shared goals, interests, or values helps you approach relationships more thoughtfully and build stronger connections.Better conversations require curiosity and give-and-take. Showing genuine interest, keeping exchanges dynamic, and remembering personal details can turn everyday interactions into more meaningful, lasting relationships. Activity:Make a memory flex. After your next meaningful conversation, note one detail the other person shared. A few days later, follow up with a thoughtful message, recommendation, or question that shows you remembered and helps strengthen the connection.Printable Expanded Takeaways & Activities Episode Reference Links:Adam GrantAdam’s Book: VibeEp.80 Magic Words: Change What You Say to Inspire and Influence Others Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn  Chapters:(00:00) - Introduction(01:03) - Overcoming Speaking Anxiety(04:03) - Building Confidence(05:28) - Expanding Your Comfort Zone(08:17) - Learning Through Advice(13:45) - Balancing Competence and Connection(15:21) - The Science of Vibing(16:53) - Building Connection Virtually(18:52) - Three Types of Connection(20:17) - Turn Connection Into Collaboration(23:38) - The Final Three Questions(30:34) - Conclusion ******** Thank you to our sponsors.  These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.Strawberry.me. Get 50% off your first coaching session today at Strawberry.me/smartJoin our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.

    333. Find the Vibe: Build Stronger Connections Through Communication Part 1

  2. Oct 15

    332. Rethinks: Learn Faster and Fail Smarter

    “You learn nothing when you’re right.” Effective communication isn’t about having all the answers. As Astro Teller knows, it’s about finding, and sometimes fumbling, your way through the questions. As Captain of Moonshots at X, Alphabet’s Moonshot Factory, Teller embraces what he calls “a learning journey,” where being wrong isn’t the end, but an opportunity to discover something new. In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Teller and Matt Abrahams discuss how embracing uncertainty drives innovation, why leaders should reward learning over outcomes, and why sometimes being wrong is the best way to learn.Takeaways:Being wrong is where learning happens. Treating failure as useful information rather than something to avoid helps you stay curious, test assumptions, and discover better paths forward. Reward the habits that lead to innovation, not just the outcomes. Focusing on curiosity, humility, and experimentation creates space for people to take meaningful risks and pursue ideas that may not work the first time.  Activity:Find the failure faster. Choose one idea or project you’re confident about and identify the assumption most likely to prove you wrong. Design one small test that could challenge that assumption, then treat whatever you learn as progress. Episode Reference Links:Astro TellerAstro’s Book: Sacred CowsEp.237 Mistake It Till You Make It: Learn Faster and Fail SmarterEp.70 Ideas Fuel Innovation: Why Your First Ideas Aren't Always the BestEp.20 Question Your Questions: How to Spark Creativity in Your Communication   Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn  Chapters:(00:00) - Introduction(01:33) - Defining a Moonshot(03:35) - Building a Learning Mindset(06:15) - Learning vs. Productivity(07:50) - Sharing Learning Across Teams(10:04) - Rewarding Habits, Not Outcomes(12:32) - Destigmatizing Failure(15:12) - Moonshots in Action(18:51) - Storytelling for Understanding(20:11) - Using Analogies Effectively(22:15) - Fostering Creativity Through Play(25:20) - Hiring for a Moonshot Culture(27:57) - The Moonshot Podcast(29:44) - The Final Three Questions(34:19) - Conclusion To see what Scribe could look like for your organization, head to scribe.how/thinkfast and mention Think Fast for your first month of Scribe Capture free.

    332. Rethinks: Learn Faster and Fail Smarter

  3. Oct 12

    331. Matchmaker Mindset: How to Make Yourself Memorable in Any Conversation

    “Boredom is just the enemy of conversation.” Small talk doesn’t have to be boring. For matchmaker and dating coach Rachel Greenwald, better conversations start with a little preparation and a willingness to move beyond predictable questions toward the stories that make people memorable. In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Greenwald joins Matt Abrahams to share strategies for building stronger connections in dating, networking, and the workplace. From bridging small talk toward more meaningful topics to navigating taboo subjects and showing more vulnerability, she explains how to create conversations that bring out the best in others and ourselves.Takeaways:Better small talk starts with a little strategy. Preparing a few topics and finding natural bridges toward what makes you unique can turn routine exchanges into more memorable, meaningful interactions. Connection comes from stories, not just information. Asking questions that invite people to share experiences and emotions can reveal more than factual answers and help deepen relationships. Activity:Build a better bridge. Turn three standard small-talk questions into openings that lead somewhere more interesting. For example, instead of answering “How are you?” with “Good,” practice a response that naturally introduces a story, interest, or experience someone could ask you about.Printable Expanded Takeaways & ActivitiesTo listen to the extended Deep Thinks version of this episode, please visit FasterSmarter.io/premium.Episode Reference Links:Rachel GreenwaldEp.89 Listen, Listen, Listen: How to Build Deep Connections Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn  Chapters:(00:00) - Introduction(00:50) - Strategic Small Talk(04:27) - Building Your Personal Brand(08:21) - Mastering the First 60 Seconds(10:54) - Starting in the Middle(12:17) - Navigating Taboo Topics(15:36) - The Final Three Questions(23:33) - Conclusion ******** Thank you to our sponsors.  These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.Unleash your Superhuman potential with AI that meets you where you work. Learn more at superhuman.comJoin our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.

    331. Matchmaker Mindset: How to Make Yourself Memorable in Any Conversation

  4. Oct 8

    330. Quick Thinks: A CLEAR Way Through Conflict

    “Conflicts in relationships might be unpleasant, but they aren’t inherently bad. In fact, they’re essential.”Conflict rarely gives us time to prepare. A sharp comment, unexpected criticism, or sudden disagreement can trigger strong emotions precisely when we need to communicate most clearly. But handled well, conflict can strengthen relationships, improve outcomes, and lead to better solutions. In this special episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, hear an excerpt from the updated edition of Matt Abrahams’ Think Faster, Talk Smarter. Matt introduces the CLEAR framework for navigating conflict in the moment: checking yourself, listening with receptiveness, exploring the other person’s perspective, acknowledging before advocating, and responding strategically. With these five steps, you can move beyond reactive responses and approach difficult moments with greater calm, curiosity, and clarity. Takeaways:Manage yourself before you manage the conflict. Recognizing when you’re triggered and creating a brief pause can help you move out of a reactive state and respond with greater calm and clarity. Understanding should come before advocating. Listening with genuine curiosity, exploring the other person’s perspective, and acknowledging what you’ve heard can keep disagreement from escalating and create space for a more productive response. Activity:Run it through CLEAR. Think of a disagreement you’re currently navigating and write one action for each step of CLEAR: Check yourself, Listen, Explore, Acknowledge, Respond. Use those five steps to plan how you’ll approach the conflict before deciding what you want to say.Audio excerpt courtesy of Simon & Schuster Audio from THINK FASTER, TALK SMARTER by Matt Abrahams, read by the author. Copyright © 2023 by Matt Abrahams. Used with permission of Simon & Schuster, Inc. Episode Reference Links:Matt's Book: Think Faster Talk SmarterConnect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn  Chapters:(00:00) - Introduction(01:04) - Why Conflict Escalates(04:19) - Why Managing Conflict Matters(05:43) - The CLEAR Framework(06:31) - Check Yourself(08:18) - Listen Openly(10:21) - Explore Their Perspective(11:25) - Acknowledge Before Advocating(12:59) - Respond Strategically(14:33) - Conclusion ******** Thank you to our sponsors.  These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.Unleash your Superhuman potential with AI that meets you where you work. Learn more at superhuman.comJoin our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.

    330. Quick Thinks: A CLEAR Way Through Conflict

  5. Oct 5

    329. Your Brand is Your Promise: The 4 C’s for Better Communication

    “A brand is a promise, and a great brand is a promise well kept.” What does it take to build something people believe in? For Daniel Lubetzky, social entrepreneur and KIND Snacks founder, it starts with curiosity, compassion, creativity, and courage, along with a willingness to listen, learn, and stay true to what you stand for. In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Lubetzky joins Matt Abrahams to share lessons from building businesses, brands, and bridges between people. He explains why authenticity matters more than appearing to have all the answers, how great brands keep their promises, and what entrepreneurs can learn from listening, practicing, and knowing when to adapt without losing sight of their values.Takeaways:Authenticity builds trust. You don’t need to have every answer or appear perfectly polished. Being willing to admit what you don’t know, listen, and learn can make others more willing to believe what you do say. Strong brands know what they promise. Consistency around your values and value proposition helps people know what to expect from you, while thoughtful feedback can help you adapt without losing what you stand for.  Activity:Practice the pause. In your next conversation, resist the urge to jump in when the other person finishes speaking. Leave a brief pause, then respond to what you actually heard rather than what you expected them to say.Printable Expanded Takeaways & ActivitiesTo listen to the extended Deep Thinks version of this episode, please visit FasterSmarter.io/premium. Episode Reference Links:Daniel LubetzkyDaniel’s Book: Do the KIND ThingDaniel’s Podcast: Build or BreakEp.153 Listen Up, Leaders: A Record-Setting Coach's Guide to Communication Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn  Chapters:(00:00) - Introduction(01:01) - Builders vs. Destroyers(02:41) - The Four Cs of a Builder’s Mindset(04:28) - Listening, Pausing, and Authenticity(07:22) - What Entrepreneurs Get Wrong(08:51) - Betting on the Entrepreneur(10:20) - Building a Brand That Keeps Its Promise(12:42) - The Three Cs of the Creative Process(18:37) - The Final Three Questions(23:12) - Conclusion

    329. Your Brand is Your Promise: The 4 C’s for Better Communication

  6. Oct 1

    328. Ask Matt Anything: Don’t Let Your Communication Fizzle at the Finish

    “How you end something often can be as important, if not more important, than how you start.”What’s the best way to wrap up a presentation? How do you stop yourself from repeating the same point? And what can you do when strong emotions start taking over? Matt Abrahams tackles these questions and more in this Ask Matt Anything episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, recorded with members of the Learning Community. He shares why a strong ending deserves as much attention as a strong opening, along with practical advice for holding attention, getting better at small talk, breaking repetitive speaking patterns, and channeling emotion more effectively. Takeaways:A strong ending reinforces what matters most. Return to your goal by reminding your audience what you want them to know, how you want them to feel, and what you want them to do next.Engagement requires giving your audience something to do. Questions, physical participation, vivid language, and shared experiences can help capture attention and keep people involved in your message. Activity:Land the plane. Take the ending of an upcoming presentation or meeting and write one sentence for each part of your goal: what you want people to know, feel, and do. Use those three points to build a concise closing. Episode Reference Links:Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community  Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn  Chapters:(00:00) - Introduction(00:44) - Why Endings Matter(02:16) - Ending With Your Goal(03:38) - Bringing It Full Circle(04:19) - Ending With a Call to Action(06:22) - Breaking Repetitive Speaking Patterns(08:50) - Keeping Your Audience Engaged(12:08) - Building Confidence in Small Talk(15:18) - Communicating Strong Emotions(18:01) - Conclusion ******** Thank you to our sponsors.  These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.Unleash your Superhuman potential with AI that meets you where you work. Learn more at superhuman.comJoin our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.

    328. Ask Matt Anything: Don’t Let Your Communication Fizzle at the Finish

  7. Sep 28

    327. The Human Reset: Reclaiming Authenticity in the Age of AI

    “Our imperfections reveal that we’re human.”As AI makes it easier to polish our words, how do we prove that our communication is actually our own? For Matt Abrahams, the answer isn’t to avoid AI, but to protect the distinctly human thinking, experiences, and imperfections that build trust. In a special episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Lorraine K. Lee takes over the host chair to interview Matt about the updated edition of Think Faster, Talk Smarter. They discuss Matt’s TRUST framework for demonstrating authenticity, the risk of outsourcing empathy to AI, and ways to use AI as a practice partner rather than a replacement for your own thinking. Takeaways:Your humanness is an advantage in the age of AI. Personal experiences, real-time thinking, and even small imperfections can signal authenticity and help others trust that your ideas and words are genuinely your own.Use AI to strengthen your communication skills, not replace them. Treating AI as a thought partner, coach, or practice tool can help you prepare and build empathy while keeping your own judgment and reflection at the center. Activity:Keep it human. Take one message you’ve used AI to help draft and add something only you could provide: a personal example, a specific observation, or your own perspective. Use AI to polish the message without polishing away your voice.Printable Expanded Takeaways & ActivitiesEpisode Reference Links:Lorraine K. LeeLorraine’s Book: Unforgettable PresenceMatt's Book: Think Faster Talk SmarterEp.202 Own Your Brand: How to Communicate with Presence and Impact Connect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn  Chapters:(00:00) - Introduction(01:15) - The AI Authenticity Crisis(03:13) - The TRUST Framework(08:25) - AI and the Empathy Paradox(10:40) - Using AI to Build Empathy(12:10) - AI as a Communication Coach(15:01) - Managing Conflict with CLEAR(18:10) - Meet AI Matt(21:01) - The Final Three Questions(25:07) - Conclusion

    327. The Human Reset: Reclaiming Authenticity in the Age of AI

  8. Sep 24

    326. Rethinks: The Secrets to Getting the Information You Need from AI

    “Most teams leave the vast majority of their innovation potential on the table.”If you treat artificial intelligence like an oracle, you’ll likely be disappointed. But treat it like a teammate, and Jeremy Utley and Kian Gohar say you may be surprised by how useful a collaborator it can be. Utley, an adjunct professor at the Stanford d.school, and Gohar, a bestselling author and futurist, have studied how teams can use AI to generate more creative ideas and solve problems. Their research shows that tools like ChatGPT can unlock new possibilities, but only when teams know how to work with them. In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Utley and Gohar join Matt Abrahams to discuss how to move beyond treating AI like a magic 8-ball and start using it as a creative partner for brainstorming and innovation. Takeaways:Treat AI like a teammate, not an oracle. AI becomes more useful when you actively collaborate with it, asking questions, building on responses, and using it as a partner rather than expecting one perfect answer.Better AI collaboration can unlock better ideas. Integrating AI into brainstorming and problem-solving can help teams expand their thinking, generate more possibilities, and tap into creative potential they might otherwise leave unexplored. Activity:Give AI a seat at the table. During your next brainstorm, treat AI as another member of the team. Ask it to contribute ideas, challenge the group’s assumptions, or suggest a direction no one has considered yet. Episode Reference Links:Jeremy UtleyJeremy's Book: IdeaflowKian GoharKian's Book: Competing In The New World Of WorkConnect:Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn  Chapters:(00:00) - Introduction(01:43) - AI and Problem-Solving(04:13) - What the Research Revealed(05:18) - Why Better AI Takes More Work(08:40) - The FIXIT Method(13:10) - Better Conversations With AI(16:07) - Making AI Critique Itself(18:45) - The Final Three Questions(24:35) - Conclusion ******** Thank you to our sponsors.  These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.Unleash your Superhuman potential with AI that meets you where you work. Learn more at superhuman.comJoin our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.

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One of the most essential ingredients to success in business and life is effective communication. Join Matt Abrahams, best-selling author and Strategic Communication lecturer at Stanford Graduate School of Business, as he interviews experts to provide actionable insights that help you communicate with clarity, confidence, and impact. From handling impromptu questions to crafting compelling messages, Matt explores practical strategies for real-world communication challenges. Whether you’re navigating a high-stakes presentation, perfecting your email tone, or speaking off the cuff, Think Fast, Talk Smart equips you with the tools, techniques, and best practices to express yourself effectively in any situation. Enhance your communication skills to elevate your career and build stronger professional relationships. Tune in every Monday and Thursday for new episodes. Subscribe now to unlock your potential as a thoughtful, impactful communicator. Learn more and sign up for our Newsletter at fastersmarter.io.

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