Ever notice how a child is happy and content until things stop going their way? Adults can do the same thing, and it’s one of the quickest ways to wear down a marriage or a friendship. In Part 3 of our Holistic Discipleship series, Guy and Kelli look at what it means to be an emotional child. We’re building on Galatians 4:19 and 1 Thessalonians 5:23, with Paul’s picture of a spiritual parent who wants to see Christ formed in his spiritual children, and God sanctifying us completely: spirit, soul, and body. This isn’t a criticism, and it’s not where you’re meant to stay. It’s a mirror, and grace and truth are what help us move forward. In this episode: * What an emotional child looks like when disappointment, stress, or anger shows up * Why we can act mature in one setting and childish in another * Feeling what you feel without letting your feelings drive * Why taking everything personally keeps us stuck, and how knowing who you are in Christ sets you free * A simple, courageous question that can head off a lot of hurt: “This is what I heard. What did you mean?” * Sarcasm, withdrawing, dragging your feet, and manipulating, and how they connect to insecurity * How to say what you need, calmly and lovingly * The SWAP tool: Surrender, Wait, Avoid sin, and Promptings of the Spirit Take a few quiet minutes with the Lord and some honest reflection questions: How do I respond to disappointment, stress, or tragedy? Do I take disagreements personally? Do I complain, withdraw, or get sarcastic? Next time we’ll look at the emotional adolescent. If someone came to mind while you were listening, share this episode with them. Scripture: Galatians 4:19, 1 Thessalonians 5:23, Philippians 4:8 Connect with us:YouTube: @TheCaskeyCollectiveSpotify & Apple: Mud & Rib PodcastEmail: Connect@MudandRibPodcast.comGuy’s book- Making Him L.O.R.D.: https://a.co/d/06zDds2P This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit guykellicaskey.substack.com
