Stop the Self Sabotage and Create the Life You Desire

Dawn Landrum
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  • Self-Improvement

You’ve learned to make life easier for everyone else. What has it cost you? When your worth depends on being needed, solving problems, or getting someone else’s approval, your own desires have no place in your life. What if you put that same powerful mind to work designing a life you actually want? Join Dawn Landrum, Certified Hypnotist, Rapid Results Coach, and Instructor, to explore the conditioning, beliefs, and identity patterns behind self-sabotage. Discover how to question old expectations, trust your own judgment, and make choices that give your desires a place in your everyday life. You’ve proven you can handle it. Now, what do you want to create?

  1. 3d ago

    When You're Tired of Everything Being So Hard

    You're the one who figures things out, handles the problems, carries the responsibilities, and finds a way to make things work—even when everything seems to be working against you. And you're damn good at it. But somewhere along the way, being strong, capable, and responsible turned into a life where everything seems to require a fight. You're exhausted from pushing, fixing, recovering, and starting over. And the thought of setting another goal, working harder, or proving what you're capable of makes you want to scream. You're not afraid of hard work. You're tired of having to work so hard just to have a life you can enjoy. So what happens when the very strategies that made you successful become the patterns keeping you stuck? In this episode of Stop the Self-Sabotage and Create the Life You Desire, we're challenging the belief that the answer is always more effort. We'll explore how two powerful cognitive biases can keep you trapped in the familiar, why another goal isn't necessarily the answer, and how to stop building your life around what needs to be done and start creating it around what you actually want to experience. You've spent enough of your life proving how much you can handle. Isn't it time to discover how much more life you can actually enjoy? Ready to create and live a life by design? Book your Upgrade Strategy Call here.

  2. Jul 9

    What if you're solving the wrong problem?

    What if you've been working incredibly hard to change your life...but you've been solving the wrong problem all along? Most of us try to fix what we can see—people-pleasing, procrastination, anxiety, perfectionism, or a lack of confidence. But what if those aren't the real problems? What if they're symptoms of something much deeper? In this episode, Dawn introduces a completely different way of understanding why lasting change can feel so difficult. You'll discover why your subconscious may still be trying to solve an unfinished developmental need and how that hidden strategy can quietly recreate the same painful patterns over and over again. If you've ever found yourself asking, "Why do I keep ending up here?" this episode will challenge the way you've been looking at your struggles and help you begin asking a far more powerful question—one that could change how you see your past, your present, and the future you're capable of creating. You may not be stuck because you're solving too little. You may be stuck because you've been solving the wrong problem. Ready to create and live a life by design? Book your Upgrade Strategy Call here.

  3. Jul 7

    The Self-Help Trap; Why Your Mind Isn't Buying It

    If you've ever wondered, "Why do I keep doing this when I know better?" this episode will give you a completely different way to move forward. You've read the books. Listened to the podcasts. Filled journals with insights. So why are you still finding yourself living with the same painful patterns? In this episode, Dawn challenges one of the biggest assumptions in personal development: that more information leads to lasting transformation. If knowledge alone created change, you would already be living the life you desire. Discover why your conscious mind can completely understand what needs to change while your subconscious continues running the same old strategies. You'll learn the missing link between information, insight, and real transformation—and why another "aha" moment isn't enough. Ready to create and live a life by design? Book your Upgrade Strategy Call here.

  4. Jun 26

    The Prison of Self Esteem Proof

    Why do so many capable people feel like they need "just one more class/workshop/podcast," or "one more success" before they're finally ready to go after their dreams? What if the real problem isn't self-confidence or self-worth, and instead self-esteem (the story they were told about their performance) ? In this episode, Dawn explores how the need for constant proof often begins long before adulthood. As children, we learn the rules for belonging. Many of us unconsciously absorb the belief that love, acceptance, or safety must be earned through actions. Over time, those survival strategies become an inner courtroom where we're constantly putting ourselves on trial, searching for enough evidence to finally feel enough. The problem is that no amount of external proof can satisfy an internal story that was never true to begin with. Ready to create and live a life by design? Book your Upgrade Strategy Call here.

  5. Jun 19

    Relationship Squatters; Stop the Emotional Parasites Stealing Your Prosperity

    To survive a relationship squatters parasitic toxic environment, you unconsciously play a part. Like a deep-cover FBI agent embedded with a target for too long, your brain biologically adapts. You rip the batteries out of your internal alarm system to stop the stress, unknowingly turning yourself into a permanent food source for a freeloading emotional parasite. Your prosperity gets choked out, leaving you trapped in chronic confusion. In this final installment of our series on Relationship Squatters, we unpack the neuroscience of identity erosion and give you a extraction protocol to get your power back. Resources Mentioned: 🌟 Free Guided Hypnosis: Download your free Renewal Reset session to bypass the survival brain, release outdated truths, and clear out old neural pathways. [Download Here]📞 Book a 1-on-1 Reset Call: You don't have to face this extraction process alone. Let's map out your next chapter and stop the resource drain together. [Book Your Call Now]Take your identity back. Your prosperity belongs to you. Ready to create and live a life by design? Book your Upgrade Strategy Call here.

  6. Jun 17

    Relationship Squatters: How the Takeover Happens (and the Cost of Self-Sabotage)

    How does an intelligent, hyper-capable woman find herself trapped by an emotional parasite? In this episode, we discard traditional codependency labels to explore how master manipulators crack your home security system by weaponizing your greatest strengths. Whether you are a driven Over-Functioner acting as the executive for their chaos, a high-stamina Over-Performer absorbing toxic shocks, or a logical Over-Compensator caught in an endless debate loop, your competence is being used against you. Host Dawn Landrum shares a raw, real-world example of dealing with a literal next-door neighbor and the legal nightmare of adverse possession. When the system forces you to hand over your assets and fund property repairs at your own expense for their complete benefit, you are witnessing the ultimate physical manifestation of a relationship squatter. Learn how to stop the self-punishing cycle of burning your own house down to keep others warm. Using the power of Zero-Based Thinking, you will learn how to change the cost of bad behavior, reset your combination codes, and reclaim your inner autonomy with a perfectly flat heart rate.  Ready to create and live a life by design? Book your Upgrade Strategy Call here.

  7. Jun 15

    Hostile Relationship Squatter or Simple Disagreement

    Is it healthy relationship friction, or is someone taking over your life with their bad behavior at your expense? What's the boundary line between normal human conflict and toxic encroachment. Using the metaphor of a home security system, we explore how your nervous system acts as the ultimate indicator of safety. When a relational "squatter" slips past your perimeter, they try to force you to pay the fine for a crime they keep committing  We break down the three personality profiles most vulnerable to this invasion: the exhausted Over-Functioner, the anxious Over-Performer, and the starving Over-Compensator. Pulling from powerful boundary insights by Dawn, we unpack the dangerous trap of treating silence as patience. When you absorb dysfunction without changing the cost of the behavior, you give implicit permission for it to continue. Learn why waiting to address dysfunction leads to a systemic blowout—allowing the squatter to blame you for the explosion they engineered. Tune in for an actionable five-part diagnostic checklist to test your perimeter and reclaim your home. Ready to create and live a life by design? Book your Upgrade Strategy Call here.

  8. Jun 13

    Why Bother Trying (again); When Effort Does Not Equal Outcome

    FREE Hypnosis Session to Release the Outdated Truth, Let Go of Misaligned Hope and Stop Painful Pushing Here dawnlandrum.com Have you ever reached the point where you're disgusted with trying? Not because you're lazy. Not because you've given up. But because you've invested so much time, energy, hope, and effort into something that continues to disappoint you. In this episode, I explore a question most personal development conversations avoid: What if the answer isn't to try harder? What if there are some things you should quit? We'll look at the difference between giving up on life and letting go of investments that are producing a negative return on who you're becoming. Together, we'll examine what happens when disappointment turns into exhaustion, how to recognize when a dream, expectation, or pursuit is costing more than it's giving back, and why quitting the wrong things may be the very thing that allows you to continue moving forward. Ready to create and live a life by design? Book your Upgrade Strategy Call here.

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You’ve learned to make life easier for everyone else. What has it cost you? When your worth depends on being needed, solving problems, or getting someone else’s approval, your own desires have no place in your life. What if you put that same powerful mind to work designing a life you actually want? Join Dawn Landrum, Certified Hypnotist, Rapid Results Coach, and Instructor, to explore the conditioning, beliefs, and identity patterns behind self-sabotage. Discover how to question old expectations, trust your own judgment, and make choices that give your desires a place in your everyday life. You’ve proven you can handle it. Now, what do you want to create?

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