Take control of your sports career and start DOMINATING your competition. The "I'm Not You" Sports Domination Podcast is hosted by Former All American and NFL Running Back Olaniyi Sobomehin ( Niyi Sobo ) , and he walks you through the specific strategies, habits, and most important MINDSET that you need to take your game to the NEXT level. You'll learn how to master your emotions, how to set goals and crush them, and the mindset of the worlds best athletes so you can get the results you want. This show will feature interviews with NFL, NBA, MLB and Professional Soccer players so you can leverage their experience to reach your sports goals!
A Few Keys To “Mastering” Your Intimate Relationships
One of the most difficult things to do is master yourself...it’s even tougher to build a harmonious relationship with another person, especially if you started off on rocky terrain. Many of us grow and find things out as we go along, and it can be a struggle to grow with your partner without things getting downright explosive. In this episode I share some keys, jewels and insights with you as I navigate these same waters.
(1:22) Preface to today’s episode
(7:55) Reality: There’s no rules to this
(10:35) Reality: Avoid the shortcuts
(14:00) Reality: “Beginner’s luck”
(18:52) Reality: There is a reset button
(22:34) My keys for you…
(23:32) Key: Know yourself
(29:07) Key: Give your partner your “keys”
(32:53) Key: Reinforce success
(35:56) Key: Establish the leader + enroll
(42:15) Key: Establish relationship roles
(44:34) Key: Encourage personal growth
(48:10) Key: Evaluate
(50:53) In conclusion…
Bars: Watch Who You Surround Yourself With (feat. Tee Grizzley)
It’s easy to avoid competition, and most people avoid it without even being aware that they are. In this episode of bars, Tee Grizzley explains the danger of avoiding competition, and even worse, spending time with people who make you feel better than what you are. #Bars
Bars: Go ALL In (feat. Tee Grizzley)
Most people cling to their “values”, not realizing that they are actually just scared. Rapper Tee Grizzley breaks down his philosophy on success, and it’s quite different than most “balanced” pretenders out there. #Bars
Are you actually as committed as you say you are? (8 signs of a pretender)
There are many who claim to really be about the jungle life, but only a few who actually live it... In this episode, I show you the clear signs of a pretender, and how to change your mindset and approach (if you’re the pretender).
(4:07) Are you really about that life?
(7:33) Signs that you are not ready
(8:55) Sign #1: Avoiding the harsh realities, ignoring the numbers
(12:00) Sign #2: The people around you make you comfortable and happy
(14:47) Sign #3: You optimize for feeling good
(19:03) Sign #4: Current pride turns defensive
(24:00) Sign #5: More time advertising your mindset instead of living it
(28:40) Sign #6: No respect earned from the around you
(29:44) Sign #7: You don’t read everyday
(33:00) Sign #8: Lack of engagement in your vision
(41:00) Respect for everyone else living in the jungle with me
(42:17) Unpredictability… “Why wait??”
(50:00) Its time to start living in the jungle
Reality Check: Work More, Work Harder (Throwback)
A lot of you have been complaining of little to no playing time, lack of revenue, and how no one knows about you. You say it as if it should be different.
Your challenge is to see the truth: you are not working nearly as hard enough to create the results you want.
In this episode, I challenge you to take gonna different mindset and approach to WORK.
(1:22) You are competitors by nature
(2:30) Do you have trouble reading books?
(6:42) 10,000 hours
(7:40) Today's reality check: PUT IN MORE WORK.
(8:06) Why Drew Brees stood out from the rest.
(11:28) How I stood out from the rest of my high-school teammates.
(12:36) Do more work than everyone else. Create your own routines.
(14:37) Specialized training
(18:05) No more complaints!
How to turn your pain into real purpose and motivation (Throwback)
We are taught that pain is bad, and our trauma "shouldn't have happened". What if I told you that your trauma and pain can actually be the things that make you come alive? What if I told you that you can and should be motivated and locked in EVERY DAY? This can only happen if you stop repressing and denying your pain, and instead incorporate it into your mission. In this episode I show you how.
(1:22) What's your trauma?
(4:31) Examples of the greats...
(5:32) You have to generate the right energy to overcome your pain
(6:55) You and your DORMANT ENERGY
(7:42) Use PERSPECTIVE; stop referring to your pain/traumas as "bad"
(9:49) ACCEPT your pain, and channel it
(10:56) A father story, Pt. 1: School-life was rough... but I learned a lot.
(15:59) A father story, Pt. 2: What happened post-NFL, and a very important Fourth of July family moment.
(19:19) A father story, Pt. 3: My reality check, after retiring the desire to please my father.
(22:42) My purpose is to teach people how to take control.
(27:32) Here are my steps for you
(28:03) Step 1: IDENTIFY what the PAIN is.
(30:07) Step 2: Be AWARE of your INSECURITIES.
(31:13) Step 3: Turn these INSECURITIES INTO ANGER.
(34:21) Step 4: Find a TARGET for your anger.
(36:40) Step 5: Find a VEHICLE to express this anger into ACTION.
(40:37) Step 6: REINFORCE the anger OFTEN and when NECESSARY.
(41:50) Questions for you to reflect on after listening...
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