Tea with the Muse

Shiloh Sophia

Encouraging stories, images, poetry, inquiries and dares from the Muse at Intentional Creativity® teawiththemuse.substack.com

  1. 27/04

    What the Stone did not forget

    What the Stone Did Not Forget The lineage of the sacred feminine from Neolithic Europe all the way to the Stardust Lineage. There is an image of a woman small enough to fit in the palm of your hand. She is less than four and a half inches tall, carved from Neolithic limestone over 28,000 years ago near the Danube River in what is now called Austria. She is all curved. A sacred feminine body with a round belly, full breasts, wide hips, a body in its fullness and generative power, honored in the most permanent material available. She has no face. She does not need one. She is not a portrait of an individual woman. She is every woman. And she is a statement about what the female body means, what it carries, what it represents, and the cosmology of the people who made her. She is, of course, the Venus of Willendorf. She was once tinted with red ochre, the same iron-rich pigment as human blood, and women’s blood. Even in the act of carving, there was an awareness of the connection between body, earth, and cosmos. The stone itself was not incidental. The stone holds what time cannot otherwise keep. The stone holds the story and remembers. Across a vast arc of prehistoric Europe and Asia, from France to Siberia, archaeologists have uncovered hundreds of similar figurines spanning thousands of years of human creative life. Each one encoded the same understanding. The female body is sacred. It doesn’t represent the sacred. It is the sacred and created from the sacred. She is the source. She is the organizing principle of human life. Honoring the feminine because of matriarchy was not something radical, was not feminism. It was not simply embedded into the fabric of early human cultures. It was actually what the fabric was woven from — not just embedded, woven from. It is the very fibers of the tapestry. And this story lasts for thousands and thousands and thousands of years before the eventual widespread emergence of organized warfare, before the legal and theological structures that would later declare the female body a problem to be managed and named, before the invention of land ownership. The stone did not forget, even as later cultures obscured, suppressed, and reinterpreted and renamed what these figurines meant. The stone holds the story. The clay holds the imprint. Marija Gimbutas and the Language of the Sacred Body Much of what we know about these ancient cultures comes from the work of Marija Gimbutas, the Lithuanian-American archaeologist, Professor Emeritus at UCLA, and one of the most important and most contested scholars in the 20th century. She spent decades excavating what she called Old Europe, the Neolithic cultures of prehistoric Europe that flourished before the arrival of the patriarchal peoples from the Pontic-Caspian steppes beginning around 4000 BCE. In the regions of what is now known as Ukraine, Moldova, and Romania, the Cucuteni-Trypillia era, she documented cultures that developed sophisticated symbolic systems over thousands of years, deeply rooted in agricultural art and the cyclical understandings of life. In thousands of figurines, burial sites, ceremonial objects, and symbolic markings, she identified a coherent visual language — circles, spirals, triangles, and the female form encoding an entire civilization’s understanding of life, death, the regeneration cycle, and the sacred. This is not primitive decoration. These are not fertility charms made for male desire. These are acts of reverence and collaboration, a co-creative relationship, symbols encoded into stone and clay, telling a story about who we were and perhaps who we could be. And she found no weapons there until later. Her interpretation, by the way, has been challenged and debated by subsequent scholars. Her naming, her description of the archaeomythology of the ancient mothers — to this day, archaeologists are trying to disprove her theories and relabel her findings. And yet the figurines — it’s even hard to call them that. The mother. She just exists. The symbols recur across vast distances and thousands of years with a consistency that really demands no explanation. We honored her and her body. Whatever the precise nature of the social structures that produced them, the female body represented in these artifacts is the power. She is the primary symbol through which a civilization found its meaning. That understanding did not disappear when the cultures that held it were disrupted. It went underground, literally, and it survived in objects and then modern day practices that the dominant culture wasn’t successful in stamping out. So much they took from us. So much we remembered. The stone remembers, and the stardust bones remember. Lenore Thomas Straus — Choosing the Mother This is how it leads into our Stardust Lineage. In 1937, sculptor Lenore Thomas Straus received a commission through the Public Works Administration — sometimes called the Works Progress Administration — in Greenbelt, Maryland. This is one of the New Deal communities being built during the Depression, supported by the Roosevelts’ vision for an American public life. Lenore worked on multiple projects connected to this era of public art, and photographs document her alongside Eleanor Roosevelt in a hard hat. Lenore also made a note that these communities were being built for white people, but by Black people. That is part of the story. The untold story. For the Greenbelt commission, Lenore was given latitude to choose her subject. It was going to go in the town square. She chose a mother and child — not a warrior, not a statesman for the area, not an allegory of progress or industry. A mother kneeling, with her child holding a cup with both hands. It is carved across three four-foot limestone blocks from Indiana, twelve feet of stone placed in public space, and functional — a water fountain. Just like a woman, she wanted to make sure it made sense. Utility and reverence made inseparable, the act of offering water given permanent form in stone. The sculpture was commissioned in 1937 and completed in 1939. This is, of course, a conscious choice. With the full range of American civic iconography available to her, with the imprimatur of federal commission behind her, Lenore Thomas Straus chose to place the sacred feminine body in a public square — a mother and a child. She also carved in a separate commission the Preamble to the Constitution in stone, also in Maryland. She knew what she was doing. She was doing what the Neolithic carvers had done across thousands of years — inscribing the female body and the values of a society that honors life in the most permanent material available. She wrote of her relationship to carving stone as an artist: Quietly, I bow to the stone. To our community, this summarizes the root system of Intentional Creativity. The sentence holds an entire philosophy. The sculptor does not dominate the material. She listens to it. She honors what it carries. She brings her full devotion to bear before she raises a hand to shape it. Greenbelt, Maryland is where Lenore Thomas Straus is from — Prince George’s County, Maryland. Lenore Thomas Straus became the teacher of a young artist named Sue Hoya Sellers. She recognized Sue when Sue was seventeen years old. Sue had ridden seven miles on dirt roads to find her, a portfolio strapped to her bicycle, clothes starched and ironed, two years of preparation. Lenore called her a young artist, and Sue was one. Among the things Lenore passed to Sue was an understanding that the sacred feminine image belonged in the hands of women — that carving was not decoration, that it was transmission, and honestly, a form of decolonizing the female body. Sue carried this forward in her own large-scale work, including a monumental pregnant woman carved in wood commissioned for Alice Walker that stands at Stardust Ranch in Sonoma — the sacred feminine body again in the most permanent material available, given to the woman who had sat at the table with Sue, given to the writer who told me that to be happy is one of the most revolutionary acts. And Sue passed this assignment to me when I was twenty-four. Sue co-mothered me, and this was among the most sacred things she passed forward. A Cold Day and a Palm-Sized Prayer I remember the day. It was cloudy and cold on the mountain. Sue and I, months before, had gone out to dig the very clay from the earth — red clay. She wanted me to understand the whole cycle of making. Finally, the clay was made. It was placed in my hands, and she said: make it fit the palm of your hand. For prayer. Put your intention into it. I brought the clay into my hands and began to shape it. I didn’t know what it would become, but I knew that I was called to make the Sacred Mother. It was the first thing I ever made out of clay. Amazingly, years after Sue’s death, Lenore’s daughter Nora sent me a small figurine carved in stone — one of Sue’s earliest works — a goddess figurine, small enough to fit in the palm of your hand. It was only then, holding that piece, understanding what Sue had been handed and what she handed to me, that I received the full weight of the assignment — not as an instruction, as a lineage, as a specific, unbroken transmission of an understanding that Lenore had carried from her own teachers, and they from theirs, all the way back to the women who pressed their hands into cave walls and shaped limestone into figurines small enough to fit in the palm of your hand. It makes me think of my recent visit to Malta — how the Sleeping Lady of Malta is so tiny she can almost fit in the palm of your hand. But there were also sculptures so huge they were claimed to be made by giantesses. Lenore and Sue did the same thing — made the tiny and the large. Lenore was a Norwegian woman. She decided to carve an enormous sculpture, a mother and child. She went on to carve the Preamble to the Constitution in stone. She taught S

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  2. 19/03

    The Great Turning & My Graduation: Personal & Professional (big changes)

    Reading of the Red Guild book of the Graduates of Intentional Creativity-since 2014 we have been signing this book at in person gatherings, this is at Wild Water Creek. Graduation as a Curate - being blessed by a red stole embroidered by Naa Kwarley and given to me by Liz. This is at Stardust Ranch. The ring of roses is the circle the graduates stepped into….including me. On the Cusp of Equinox: A Turning of the Lineage “You will be bathed in stardust” Carmen Baraka to Caron McCloud We are on the cusp of the equinox and the new Spring moon. The cherry trees are blooming, and a fine yellow dust from the oak trees settles over everything—including me, if I sit here long enough. I’ve just come back from a swim. I’m sitting in the sun. And as usual, my thoughts turn to you. Yes, you. The Love That Chose Another Path I didn’t get to have children. After many miscarriages, I found myself holding so much love—so much desire to nurture—and nowhere traditional to place it. I had been so deeply loved, so well nurtured, that consciously or unconsciously, I chose to channel that love into community. But I didn’t want something temporary. I wanted something enduring. Not people who came and went—but people who might stay for a lifetime. Or maybe even longer. Our Elder Carmen Baraka used to say, at the most meaningful gatherings:“Maybe we agreed to meet here.” I’ve always loved that idea. This idea weaves into the ancient knowing of the red thread—that we are already connected, already called. That each of us carries a piece, and that we are here to witness one another’s stories. Today, I invite you to witness mine. A personal and professional graduation.I recently got to Graduate with the last graduating class for Color of Woman (as it now exists). I graduated with 80 women (who will be acknowledged during the Equinox Ceremony. I am officially now carrying my title as Curate with many other women. Becoming the Matriarch This is the evolution of a sacred feminine entrepreneur into a matriarch. I’m a few months away from turning 56. I still don’t have children of my own, and my relationship to community is changing. But something else has settled in. A wisdom. An elemental wisdom. It feels both deeply sacred and completely essential—so basic, and yet strangely elusive. Completing a Cycle I’ve just completed a body of work that began in my early twenties with Color of Woman—a journal filled with the images that awakened me. That became 25 years of art galleries and eventually the Intentional Creativity Teacher Training. In the coloring book, the first images are where I came into myself.Where I said yes to my sacred work. That cycle is completing. What a joy.What a challenge.What a gift. Because the truth is— I am an artist.A poet.A ritualist. I am not a COO.I am not a president.I don’t even resonate with the word “founder.” I am a Lineage-Keeper. The Teachings Are Simple What I carry is both from this lifetime and from the ancestors. And what I teach is incredibly simple: Make what you make with love.Place your intention into it.When you bring your focus to what you are creating, it changes—and so do you. Everything is frequency. When you attune your frequency, your world shifts. This language is my mother tongue. And when women hear it, they remember: “Oh yes… I know this.” It is easy to understand. It takes practice to live. What Was Taken—and What Returns There was a time when this knowing was not lost. But over thousands of years, systems of domination stripped women of their innate knowing. We need to restore that knowing from within our stardust bones. This is the Pathway of 9 Promises that I teach. * Shaping who we are and who we are becoming: Identity and Living from Source * Knowing what we wish to speak from Intelligence: Access to Voice and Speaking * Being connected with how we fee our sensuality: Bodily sovereignty and Health * Trust in our own thoughts and Intelligence - Curating our Consciousness * To define our Spirituality - Aligning with our Soul and Higher Self * To gain access to Prosperity - Activating Manifestation in the ways of women * Unbridled Free Self-Expression - Catalyze Liberation * Living Your Calling: Co-creating Vision and Designing your Life * Authority: Claiming a Self Initiation Ceremony to mark moving from where you have been to where you are going now We were taught to live from the mind, disconnected from the body.To distrust our intuition. To believe our Souls could be owned. None of this is true. Your soul cannot be brokered.Your body cannot be owned.Your voice cannot be taken—only suppressed.As we are seeing right now how often women’s voices are being supressed. The Tension of Modern Structures And yet, here we are. Here I am. Working inside systems that were never designed for us. For the past decade, I have done my best to participate in business without becoming extractive. I’ve sat in meetings, studied numbers, navigated software, and built systems and managed teams and navigated taxes and oh so many things that were not in my wheel house. And what I’ve found is this: It is incredibly complex. And it is not where I come alive. (and I am not good at it) What brings me alive is teaching.Circle.Ritual.Art.Poetry.Inviting transformation. That is where I belong. In circle with my teachings. A Necessary Simplification So I am making a change. Not because I am stepping away—but because I am stepping in. I am simplifying everything. What is emerging is called: Stardust Lineage A distilled expression of everything I’ve learned and taught. Rooted in my book, Stardust Bones, this work will guide the next 3–5 years of my life and teaching. What Comes Next This work will continue to be accessible - yet centered within the one thing that I am here to teach for this next cycle. Stardust Lineage www.stardustlineage.com Enrollment is open now * Complimentary offerings for all * Ceremonies for all in the Cura Council * Affordable entry points to experience the work * Immersive weekend experiences around the world * A 9-month mentorship called Stardust Initiation - enrollment is open now * A new form of licensing the work so you can teach it if you are a healer or a coach - not traditional Certification like I have been doing. This work is meant to live through you.To be taught in your own voice. Shared in your own way. Carried into your own communities. Because the teachings themselves are simple, essential, and universal. This is a Rites of Passage I believe all women can benefit from at least once in her life. A Living Lineage There are nine core promises within this work—each one is a direct reclamation of what was once suppressed. And what I realized when I taught it the first time (in a different template) was this: These promises are not new. They are the exact places where women have been silenced—and are now being restored. An Invitation and a Release Some of you will walk forward with me into this next chapter. And some of you will feel complete with the time we shared. Both are right. I release any threads that are ready to be released—with deep gratitude. There is no need to stay if it is not aligned. You will feel the resonance if it is. A Love That Remains This love I feel for you— It is real. It is the truest thing I know. It is my mother tongue. And as I find my way forward—more sovereign, yet still deeply connected—I carry you with me. Those beside me.Those behind me.Those ahead of me, calling me forward. I Am Not Stepping Out I am stepping in. And some of you will step in with me. I will see you on the path. Shiloh Sophia ”And the point is, you have to design a point for yourself” Caron McCloud “We are all cooling sacks of stars” Sue Hoya Sellars “When you can hear the stories of the past, the information of the future and the power of the now, understanding that all aspects are in play at all times, this juxtaposition of realities triggers Omni Presence in a way that can be understood. Everything actually isn’t always fleeting, not if you see it as all aspects in play simultaneously. When we can truly understand the depth and breadth, then we can understand that everything that has been and will be, the knowledge of all time, is already within us. We must move through the Corridors - the portals of our timeless mind, body, spirit, the realm of the oneness of creator, of source, the realms of all possibilities. Native peoples, indigenous peoples have an understanding of quantum physics and quantum mechanics but just have different language for it. There is no end to the circle, it is actually the everything and the closely concurring nothingness. That place where time and space are moving through you, and you are the observer and the recipient of cosmic favor. Where is the jurisdiction of truth? It's in the unfolding of the layers of our existence.” Carmen Baraka "The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any” Alice Walker Get full access to Tea with the Muse at teawiththemuse.substack.com/subscribe

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  3. 11/03

    Invitation to choice, to hope and to consciousness

    I just want you to knowthat if you need love right now,love is here. Feel it flowing between us. Whoever needs hope right now—there are plenty of reasons to feel hopeless. But this message arriving to you right nowis evidence of hope. Hope is something cultivated between us.It doesn’t just appear. We make hope happen. If you’re wondering who is out therewho understands,I want you to know: there is. It’s not just that you’re not alone.It’s that many of us are feelingthe same feelings you feel. Even though it may seem likeyou are the only one inside this lifefeeling this way. Isolation can make it seem that way. And for whoever feels likethis life might not be worth it— I’m here to remind you: it’s worth it. But you have to make it worth it. My mother Caron said something once:the point is, you must design a point for yourself. Life is worth it.But that doesn’t mean everythingis going to work out. It’s part of the human conditionthat everything doesn’t work out. I’m not saying life is worth itbecause things will go your way. Some things will.Some things won’t. That is the common thread between us. It’s not all going to work out. But the things that do—those need to be cherished. Celebrated. The rising of the sun.The first birds of the morning. Winter citrus on the vine. Petting your cat. Being warm enough. Coffee in your cup. Waking up can be hardwhen everything around usfeels chaotic. You must look for beautyeverywhere. We can bring our own meaningto everything that is happening. We have to bring our own meaning. Borrowed meaning about this lifedoesn’t work. I wish someone had told us that sooner. You have to make your own meaningjust like you have to make a point. We think a lot about the pastand how we cannot change it. But we can find a new contextthat makes it meaningful now. I’m not one of those peoplewho believes everything happens for a reason. I don’t. I believe in mistakes. I don’t think you chose your trauma.Or that you deserved it.Or bargained for it.Or that it was karma. And I don’t believe you agreed to itin some previous incarnation. I know some people do. I don’t. I do believe in an intelligent universe. But a universe that scripts sufferingfeels more manipulative than intelligent. I like to believe our soulsare far too wiseto choose to be victimsand perpetratorsover and over again. How’s that working out for us? What I do believeis that power-over structuresare doing their bestto remove our capacityto remember that we have choice. It’s a potent strategy. If we believe we don’t have a choice,we stop looking for one. And I want to validate something: You have every reasonto feel miserable,depressed,or hopeless. This isn’t misery loving company. It’s simply honest. I feel the temptation myselfbecause of what’s happening around us. The wars. The files. The behaviors. The administrations. The commentary. The price of cheese. Really. And yet— right now,if you’re reading this, I want to remind youthat the curation of your consciousnessis yours to do. And truly, that is the work. To curate your consciousness. To move out of the default settingsof personality and circumstanceand decide: From now on,I will curate my consciousness. To do that,we need intentional chemistry. Even with chaos around you,your consciousnessis still yours to navigate. Until we realize that, life feels like it’s happening to usinstead of through us. Curating consciousnessis a choiceday by day. A choice to repair the narrativethat has been deeply impactedinside each of usthrough cycles of conquestand devastationacross space, time, and place. Our souls knowthere is another way. That’s where hope comes from. Because there is another way.And we know it. Part of what makes this moment hardis that we can feela better way is possible. Each one of us can choose that way. In every decision.Every relationship.Every moment. We can chooseto lead from the heart. The choice is ours—if we remember we have it. I know that many timesit doesn’t feel that wayin our hearts,our bodies,our minds. But I want to tell you: you do have a choice. Some daysthe only assignmentis to reach towardthe possibility of a choice. The fragment of a choice. The fractal edge of a choice. Even if you cannot yet feel itas a lived experience. Choice as a lived experienceis still there. And I’m hereas evidence of that. Years agoI created a paintingwith two of my dear friends,Mary MacDonaldand Shannon Thompson,founder of Shakti Rising. Shannon passed away suddenlya few years ago. Just when life was opening for her—a new home,married,finally slowing downafter a life of service. She’s not here in the form anymore. But she is one of my ancestors now. When I would talk to Shannonabout hope like this, she would laugh at me. A big cackle. At my optimism. But we shared a devotionto life,to women,to care,to the Divine Feminine. We gave our livesto tending that. To curating it. Today I don’t know exactlywho this message is for. But I am thinking of Shannon. And I’m thinking of a young girlwith the initials K.L. A girl who lived in my home once. A girl I helpedmove through selective mutenessthrough creativity. A girl whose father couldn’t help her. When her brother was dying,I held her hand. When she tried to take her life,and survived,we painted together. Her life has been hard. Very hard. I haven’t been in touch for a long time. But I see her sometimes. Her eyes look hollow now. Tattoos on her face. She has enduredsome of the worst thingsmen can doto women and girls. So I send messages. Sometimes through her mother. Sometimes just into the field. Speaking to herat the level of soul. Because after what she has lived throughhope can be very hard to find. So I speak to her. To you. From my heart to yours. Right nowI’m about to have tea with the muse. This is one of the waysI practice intentional chemistry. Moving from beta—stress, reaction, problem-solving— into alpha. Into an intuitive love zone. Sometimes sending you these messagesdoes that for me. Loving youlifts my mood. So from my heartand my homeand my cup of tea with the muse— to yours. This is Curate Shiloh Sophiawith a messageof unreasonable hope and an invitation to belongto yourself. You are not alone. Lean in. Don’t isolate. I am leaning in. Get full access to Tea with the Muse at teawiththemuse.substack.com/subscribe

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