Ep 39: Swinging Isn’t Judgment-Free (And That’s a Good Thing)

In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany break down why judgment isn’t always a dirty word—it’s simply part of deciding what (and who) makes you tingle. These playful vampires of the mic aren’t here to drain the fun—they’re teasing apart why “judgment-free” might be more fantasy than fact. From judging to being judged, they share stories of decisions (not damnations), kinks that don’t quite fit, and the delicate dance of acceptance versus attraction. Whether you’re an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between, this conversation proves that a little judgment can be just as sexy as it is honest.

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(00:00:00) Is the lifestyle really judgment free

(00:04:10) Judgment defined

(00:05:39) An example of judgment

(00:06:16) Why the topic of judgment came up(00:09:12) Digging on use of the word and why we use it

(00:11:06) Politics and other musings

(00:13:27) Not less judgmental just more accepting

(00:14:58) Salted Caramel Cookie and Swappertunity69

(00:16:08) Tell me more about that

(00:18:13) Replace ‘judgment’ with ‘decisions’

(00:19:54) Kinks and preferences that aren’t our own

(00:21:35) Kink vs lifestyle vs swingers

(00:24:02) Judgment and the feelings judgment creates

(00:28:14) Ways to handle feeling judged

(00:31:43) Being accepting doesn’t auto translate to fucking

(00:33:12) Introverts and extroverts experience the lifestyle differently

(00:38:05) Common perceptions of introverts vs extroverts

(00:41:36) A potential strategy for introverts

(00:42:37) Judgments we’ve each made

(00:49:57) Trust and transparency is valuable to us

(00:54:17) Share your opinions with us on Peaches’nCream

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