Facing the Mirror

Christina Stuller
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Bitch, HEAL. Yeah, I said it. Facing the Mirror with Christina is not a comfort podcast. It’s a wake-up call. This show cuts through trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse narratives, codependency, love addiction, and insecure attachment patterns to expose the part most people avoid—their own. If you’re stuck blaming your past, diagnosing your ex, or chasing closure instead of change, this podcast will confront you. Hosted by trauma-informed coach and shadow work facilitator Christina, each episode unpacks emotional wounds, reactive abuse, self-betrayal, and survival responses with brutal honesty!

  1. 2 DAYS AGO

    Reactive Abuse Explained: Why Survivors Snap, Get Blamed, and Doubt Themselves

    Reactive abuse is one of the most misunderstood dynamics in toxic, narcissistic, and high-conflict relationships. Survivors are pushed, provoked, emotionally cornered, and then blamed for the very reaction that came from being under constant pressure. In this episode of Facing the Mirror, Christina breaks down what reactive abuse actually is, why it happens, and why it does not make you the narcissist or the abuser. We talk about how emotional manipulation, gaslighting, and power imbalances create survival responses that get weaponized against survivors. You’ll learn: • Why reactive abuse happens in trauma bonds and narcissistic dynamics • How abusers provoke reactions to shift blame and maintain control • The difference between accountability and self-betrayal • Why feeling guilt doesn’t mean you’re the problem • How to heal without staying stuck in shame or victimhood This is a grounded, no-nonsense conversation about nervous system overload, emotional self-defense, and reclaiming your clarity without sugar-coating the work required to heal. If you’ve ever been told “you’re just as bad,” this episode is for you. For coaching, resources, or to work directly with Christina, visit: 👉 www.healingmyfeelings.com

    4 min

  2. 2 DAYS AGO

    You Wanted Closure. What You Needed Was Accountability.

    This episode isn’t about blaming your past, diagnosing your ex, or waiting for someone else to change. It’s about the moment most people avoid: facing yourself. In this conversation, I break down how trauma, attachment wounds, and survival patterns can quietly turn into cycles of self-betrayal, reactive behavior, and repeated relationship dynamics. Not from a place of shame, but from radical honesty. We talk about: Why healing stalls when accountability is missing How survival mode can look like control, withdrawal, or emotional reactivity The difference between being hurt and staying stuck Why “closure” often becomes a distraction from real growth This is for people who are tired of repeating the same patterns and are ready to stop outsourcing their healing. If you’re willing to look in the mirror instead of pointing outward, this episode will meet you there.

    7 min

  3. 2 DAYS AGO

    Resentment Isn’t About Them. It’s About What You Didn’t Say

    Resentment doesn’t come from being wronged. It comes from self-betrayal. In this episode of Facing the Mirror, we unpack what resentment actually is, how it quietly builds, and why it almost always points back to the moments you didn’t speak up, didn’t leave, didn’t set the boundary, or stayed hoping things would change. This isn’t a conversation about blaming yourself or excusing harmful behavior. It’s about telling the truth: resentment grows when we abandon our needs, overextend to be chosen, or stay silent to keep the peace. Over time, that silence turns into anger, withdrawal, passive aggression, and emotional distance, both from others and from ourselves. We talk about how resentment shows up in relationships, families, and even healing spaces. How it can masquerade as righteousness, exhaustion, or victimhood. And how holding onto it keeps you tied to the very dynamics you say you want to escape. This episode invites you to look honestly at where you participated, where you stayed out of fear, and where your nervous system chose familiarity over integrity. Not to shame yourself, but to reclaim your power. Because resentment doesn’t dissolve when someone apologizes. It dissolves when you stop abandoning yourself. If you’ve been feeling bitter, drained, emotionally checked out, or quietly angry, this episode will help you face what’s really underneath it.

    8 min

  4. 22/12/2025

    Attachment Styles in Friendships: Who Feels Safe, Who Feels Familiar, and Who Lasts

    Attachment Styles in Friendships: Who Feels Safe, Who Feels Familiar, and Who Lasts We talk a lot about attachment styles in romantic relationships, but friendships are where attachment patterns quietly shape us the most. In this episode of Facing the Mirror, Christina breaks down how anxious, avoidant, fearful-avoidant, and secure attachment styles show up in friendships, what to look for when building lifelong connections, and why familiar does not always mean safe. You’ll learn: How attachment wounds play out in platonic relationships Why some friendships feel intense but destabilizing What secure, lasting friendships actually look and feel like How to stop overgiving, chasing, or settling for inconsistency How to build friendships that regulate your nervous system instead of activating it Christina also shares a personal moment about receiving a handwritten thank-you card that reminded her exactly why this work matters and why genuine, healthy connection changes lives. If you’ve ever questioned why certain friendships drain you, confuse you, or keep repeating the same emotional patterns, this episode will help you face the mirror, reassess your circle, and choose relationships that align with who you are now, not who you had to be to survive. This episode is for anyone ready to build friendships rooted in safety, reciprocity, and emotional maturity. Listen with honesty. Reflect with courage. Choose better connections.

    8 min

  5. 05/12/2025

    The Myth of Laziness: Why You’re Not Broken, You’re Protected

    What if the part of you you’ve spent years calling lazy… was actually the part of you working the hardest to keep you alive? In this powerful episode of Facing the Mirror, Christina Stuller — life coach, counselor, survivor, and advocate for radical self-honesty — dismantles the myth of laziness and reveals the truth behind procrastination, shutdown, avoidance, and self-sabotage. This isn’t about motivation, discipline, or “trying harder.” This is about your nervous system, trauma imprints, attachment wounds, and the protective mechanisms that were built in childhood and carried into adulthood. You’ll learn: ✨ Why your “lack of follow-through” is not a character flaw ✨ The neuroscience behind freeze response and emotional overwhelm ✨ How trauma teaches your brain to conserve energy and avoid danger ✨ Why you feel guilt for resting — and how to release that conditioning ✨ How to reconnect with your authentic self without shame ✨ Practical steps to rebuild trust with yourself and create momentum again Christina brings her signature blend of truth-telling, compassion, and no-nonsense insight. You’ll hear real-life examples from childhood, teen years, and adult relationships — and you’ll walk away with tools that help you understand yourself on a deeper level. This episode isn’t just healing; it’s liberating. If you’ve ever felt “not enough,” “too slow,” “unmotivated,” or “broken,” this will change the way you see yourself forever. Because you were never lazy. You were surviving. And now, you’re ready to rise.

    12 min

  6. 09/11/2025

    Fearfully Avoidant, Fiercely Human: Understanding the Push-Pull of the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style

    Facing the Mirror — Fearfully Avoidant, Fiercely Human In this episode, Christina Stuller, counselor, coach, and transpersonal PhD student, unpacks the raw truth behind the *Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style*—the tug-of-war between craving closeness and fearing it. From chaotic childhoods to adult relationships filled with push-pull dynamics, Christina reveals how this attachment style shapes friendships, dating, marriage, and even our sense of self. Through real-world examples, vulnerable storytelling, and powerful group reflections, she helps you see how self-protection often disguises itself as independence—and how to finally feel safe in love without losing yourself. Whether you’re the one who runs, the one who chases, or the one learning to stay—this episode will help you understand your patterns, own your healing, and start building the secure connection you’ve always deserved. 💜 *You’re not broken—you’re just reprogramming what love feels like.* 🔗 Explore more of Christina’s work, book a 1:1 session, or join her healing community through Linktree https://linktr.ee/Stuller904?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=caaca291-c766-445e-8b74-ecdd8c96496d

    11 min

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    Understanding the Villian

    Bonus Trailer for Upcoming Episode

    2 min

  8. 12/08/2025

    Radical Confidence in under 60 seconds

    Stop thinking you can't do it. Stop making it harder than what it is. Stop playing the victim. You are the only force stopping you.

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Bitch, HEAL. Yeah, I said it. Facing the Mirror with Christina is not a comfort podcast. It’s a wake-up call. This show cuts through trauma bonding, narcissistic abuse narratives, codependency, love addiction, and insecure attachment patterns to expose the part most people avoid—their own. If you’re stuck blaming your past, diagnosing your ex, or chasing closure instead of change, this podcast will confront you. Hosted by trauma-informed coach and shadow work facilitator Christina, each episode unpacks emotional wounds, reactive abuse, self-betrayal, and survival responses with brutal honesty!

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  • Creator
    Christina Stuller
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    24
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Christina Stuller
  • Show Website
    Facing the Mirror