Happily Murrayed

Cutdown & The Murrays

Happily Murrayed is us - Conor and Joanna - chatting about our lives, our relationship, and everything that comes with it. From big life moments to the everyday chaos in between, we share the stuff that’s going on with us, the things we disagree on, and the moments that probably should’ve stayed private. We’re figuring things out as we go - balancing life with baby Alfie, building a home, busy work lives, and trying to keep some sense of normality along the way. It doesn’t always go to plan. This is a podcast about relationships - the good bits, the messy bits, and the moments that nearly break you. We don’t always remember things the same way, we don’t always agree, and we definitely don’t have all the answers… but we’ll give it a go. Each week, we also hear from you - your questions, your stories, your dilemmas - and react in the only way we know how: honestly, and usually with a bit of slagging. If you’re here for the chaos, relationship honesty, or just to feel a bit better about how you’re doing it, you’re in the right place. Get involved:  📩 happilymurrayedpod@gmail.com  📱 Instagram / TikTok / YouTube / Facebook: Happily Murrayed Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 1 hr ago

    Our September Life Audit: Are We Actually Doing OK?

    September feels like a fresh start — so Conor and Jo are giving their lives a full audit. This week, they score themselves across four areas: Body, Mind, Home Life and Soul — and work out what actually needs to change. Things get slightly uncomfortable when they compare their phone screen time and discover Jo spent an average of 7 hours and 6 minutes a day on her phone the previous week, including nearly 14 hours on TikTok. 😳 Is it officially intervention time? They also get honest about how becoming parents has affected their relationship, why date nights and cooking together have disappeared, getting stronger and healthier, being more present around Alfie and the changes they want to make throughout September. Plus, Conor plans a mystery trip for Jo, there's an update from the house build, Jo wonders whether The Weeknd was harvesting her energy, and Conor reveals the one date he apparently cannot remember. 🎃 Join in with the Happily Murrayed September Reset and let us know what you're changing this month. New episodes every week. 🤍 Chapters00:00 Coming Up 01:11 Alfie's Very Convenient Sick Day 01:48 Conor Has Planned a Mystery Trip 03:05 Jo's Hair Extension Problem 04:27 Jo Goes to The Weeknd 05:48 Was The Weeknd Harvesting Jo's Energy? 07:28 Are Kids Just... Annoying? 09:47 Conor Takes On the Limerick Hurlers 11:08 Why Do Professional Athletes Still Get Nervous? 13:43 Jo's Champagne Money-Saving Hack 14:49 House Build Update 16:20 Conor Doesn't Know When Halloween Is 17:17 Conor Discovers AI 18:33 The September Life Audit 19:10 BODY: How Healthy Are We? 21:42 Jo's Exercise Excuses 23:35 MIND: Feeding Your Brain 25:33 The Screen Time Showdown 26:53 Jo's 7-Hour Screen Time Revelation 😳 28:05 Conor on Mindfulness & Resetting 30:13 Being on Your Phone Around Your Kids 32:58 HOME LIFE: Has Parenting Changed Our Relationship? 34:22 227 Deliveroo Orders?! 35:04 SOUL: Slowing Down & Being Grateful 37:07 Our September Reset Plan 39:26 Jo Wants WhatsApp Opening Hours 41:20 Jo Is an "Excuse Machine" 42:52 Can Jo Actually Stay Off Social Media? 43:55 See You Next Week Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  2. 24 Aug

    What Does Your Partner Do That Drives You Mad?

    This week, Conor reports back from Ibiza, including party naps, questionable dancing and casually finding himself beside Jason Statham and Rosie Huntington-Whiteley. Meanwhile, Jo heads to London, does some serious damage at Bicester Village and finally lands a Topshop job years after repeatedly being turned down by them. We also launch Murray v Cooper — our new quiz designed to find out whether either of them can actually back up the things they confidently talk about every week. First up: Conor on pensions and Jo on the Rules of the Road. 🚗 Then it's over to the Murray Mailbag: "I love my partner, but I'll never understand why they..." Dishwashers. Chewing. Whistling. Being late. Toilet habits. Leaving doors open. Clothing tags. And yes, several immediate calls for divorce. Let us know the completely irrational thing your partner does that drives you mad. New episodes of Happily Murrayed every week. 🤍 ChaptersBased on the pre-edit transcript, so these may need a small adjustment against the final export. 00:00 Coming Up 00:45 Conor Survives Ibiza 02:05 Jason Statham & Rosie Huntington-Whiteley 03:11 Three Nights of Ibiza Clubs 04:18 Conor's WHOOP Exposes His Dancing 04:56 Jo's London Weekend 05:19 Four Hours at Bicester Village 06:04 The Shared Celine Fleece 07:48 Jo Negotiates a YSL Discount 09:33 Alfie & The Terrible Twos 10:43 How Many Calories Are in Champagne?! 11:56 Alfie Falls Out of Bed 13:36 Jo's Topshop Full-Circle Moment 14:40 Murray v Cooper Begins 15:14 Conor's Pension Quiz 16:39 Jo's Rules of the Road Quiz 19:22 Murray Mailbag: Things Our Partners Do That Drive Us Mad 20:18 The Dishwasher Wars 21:05 Jo's Packing Chaos 22:43 Chewing, Whistling & Jo's Pet Hates 26:28 Being Late: Conor vs Jo 27:26 Why Can't Men Plan Dates? 28:22 The Toilet Complaints 😂 29:13 Conor Irons Bedsheets for Guests 30:42 Taps, Clothing Tags & The New House Rules 31:15 Ronaldo, Georgina & Marriage Agreements 32:14 Jo's New Engagement Ring 32:48 Outro Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  3. 17 Aug

    Should Couples Have Their Own Money?

    A missing diamond, secret runaway funds and one question that seriously divided the Murray household: should couples have their own money? This week, Jo reveals the panic of realising the diamond had disappeared from her ring mid-flight to Mallorca — and the small matter of whether Conor had actually insured it. 👀 Then it's over to the Murray Mailbag, where things get surprisingly heated. Should married couples combine everything? Should you always have money that's completely your own? If one partner earns more, should they have more spending money? And is keeping an emergency "runaway fund" just sensible? Plus, your answers to the most ridiculous thing your partner has ever spent money on — featuring unused golf memberships, Star Wars helmets, pedigree sheep, €100 worth of coffee beans for someone without a coffee machine… and a €7,000 watch. Elsewhere, Conor prepares for Ibiza with the best of intentions, Jo survives the Dublin Horse Show, and we discover an entirely new world of tiny horses. New episodes of Happily Murrayed every week. 🤍 Send your questions to HappilyMurrayedPod@gmail.com 🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple Podcasts 📲 Follow Happily Murrayed for new episodes every week. Chapters 00:00 Coming Up 01:50 Conor Prepares For Ibiza 03:16 "Best Intentions Murray" 04:39 Jo & Conor At The Dublin Horse Show 08:48 Jo's Bali Horse-Riding Controversy 09:45 The Sexist Car Park Pillar Strikes Again 10:40 Jo Takes Someone's Wing Mirror Off 12:39 Jo's Previous Car Crash Story 14:53 Jo Loses Her Diamond On The Flight 18:34 Murray Mailbag: Should Couples Have Their Own Money? 21:06 If One Partner Earns More, Should They Get More? 22:19 Jo Doesn't Believe In Pensions 😂 24:41 Should Every Woman Have A Runaway Fund? 26:10 Joint Accounts vs Separate Money 28:45 What's The Most Ridiculous Thing Your Partner Has Bought? 30:58 Your Partners' Wildest Purchases 33:49 So... Should Couples Have Separate Money? 34:27 Recommendations & Outro Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  4. 10 Aug

    Family Holidays, Conor's Role Plays and Backing Up Your Partner...

    Family Holidays, Compliment-Fishing and Backing Up Your Partner... | Happily Murrayed Conor and Jo are back from their family holiday, with all sorts of stories that show just how much parenthood can change things. Plus, Joanna learns mid-show about an unpaid gig Conor has booked her in for, while this week's Murray Mailbag raises all sorts of questions around backing up your partner in public... Send your questions to HappilyMurrayedPod@gmail.com New episodes every Thursday. 🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple Podcasts  📲 Follow Happily Murrayed for new episodes every week. Chapters 00:00 Intro 01:43 Family Holiday Memories 06:10 Conor's Surprise for Joanna 09:02 Mallorca Review 12:43 ROKA Restaurant 14:47 Family Holiday Anxiety 17:08 The Murray Mailbag 23:25 Recommendations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  5. 3 Aug

    "WE'RE BOTH ASS MEN"...😂 | AMA Special

    You asked. We answered. And things got personal very quickly.👀 In this special AMA episode, Conor and Jo take on your questions about marriage, parenting, rugby, weddings, their house build and everything in between. They reveal what they fancy most about each other, the habits that drive them mad, how they chose Alfie’s name, what life as a rugby couple was really like, Conor’s worst injury and whether kids belong at weddings. There are also wedding regrets, house-build arguments, sleep struggles, baby names, jealousy, relationship advice and some answers they probably should have kept to themselves. Send your questions to HappilyMurrayedPod@gmail.com New episodes every Thursday. 🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple Podcasts 📲 Follow Happily Murrayed for new episodes every week. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  6. 27 Jul

    You May As Well Call Me Mommy, Holiday Packing & Are Work Wives OK? | Happily Murrayed

    You may as well call me Mommy... 😅 This week, Jo reveals just how much planning goes into a family holiday after Conor admits he barely knows where they're even staying in Majorca. Is this what marriage looks like... or is Jo basically his mother at this point? Elsewhere, the pair tackle one of your biggest relationship dilemmas yet: is it ever OK to have a work wife or work husband? The Murray Mailbag is split. Plus, holiday excitement, toddler travel, coconut margaritas, packing stress, recommendations and plenty of laughs along the way. 👇 Let us know in the comments... Are work wives and work husbands harmless... or crossing a line? 🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple Podcasts 📲 Follow Happily Murrayed for new episodes every week. 00:00 Intro 01:29 Life Update: Jo's Girls Trip & Conor's Solo Parenting 02:25 Jo's Mykonos Stories 05:18 Conor's All-Ireland Final Weekend 08:55 Mallorca Family Holiday Plans 11:16 Holiday Packing: Jo vs Conor 14:50 Shrek, Margaritas & Airport Encounters 17:02 Murray Mailbag: Are Work Wives & Work Husbands OK? 23:43 Listener DMs 25:25 Recommendation Of The Week 27:18 See You Next Week Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  7. 20 Jul

    Should You Tell Your Partner Everything Your Friends Tell You?

    Should you tell your partner everything your friends tell you... or are some secrets meant to stay between friends? This week's Murray Mailbag completely split opinion. Jo and Conor debate whether couples should tell each other everything, where the line is between gossip and confidence, and read some of the wildest stories you've ever sent us. Elsewhere, we enjoy two rare date nights, accidentally turn up to the wrong night of Dermot Kennedy, discover one of Ireland's best restaurants, and Jo somehow ends up with paprika in her eyes. Plus, another house update, relationship quizzes, and your recommendations. Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook @HappilyMurrayed Get in touch: happilymurrayedpod@gmail.com 0:00 – Coming up 0:38 – Car trouble & an "electrical fault" 3:55 – Two date nights in one week 4:06 – Our stay at Omos / incredible food 8:20 – Dermot Kennedy... on the wrong night 10:17 – Toddler tantrums & parenting updates 12:17 – Conor's perfect sports day 15:04 – Couple quiz: annoying habits 17:08 – Murray Mailbag: Should you tell your partner everything your friends tell you? 23:58 – More unbelievable cheating stories 28:18 – Listener recommendations 29:35 – Jo's favourite snack 30:31 – The paprika disaster 😂 32:10 – Outro Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  8. 13 Jul

    Would You Let Your Partner Go On Holiday Without You?

    Would you be happy for your partner to go on holiday without you? This week's Murray Mailbag sparked one of our biggest debates yet. From lads' trips and girls' holidays to trust, jealousy and independence, Jo and Conor react to your brilliant responses and chat about why time apart might actually be good for a relationship. Elsewhere, Jo explains why she's convinced their bedroom is haunted after another sleep paralysis episode, including the time she accidentally terrified Miss Russia at Miss Universe. Conor shares an unforgettable story about partying with the All Blacks after one of Ireland's biggest matches, and there's another update on the house build. Plus, recommendations and plenty of laughs along the way. New episodes every Tuesday. 🤍 Chapters00:00 – Coming up 00:35 – Catch-up: Hurling final & a huge weekend of sport 04:21 – Jo thinks their bedroom is haunted 👻 05:21 – Sleep paralysis & terrifying Miss Russia 09:29 – House build update 11:19 – Saunas, cold plunges & "men don't struggle enough anymore" 12:50 – Ireland's win over Australia & rugby tour stories 15:33 – The All Blacks food fight 🍳 17:00 – Murray Mailbag: Would you let your partner go on holiday without you? 21:25 – The "Let Them" theory 29:35 – Weekly recommendations 34:01 – Outro Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Happily Murrayed is us - Conor and Joanna - chatting about our lives, our relationship, and everything that comes with it. From big life moments to the everyday chaos in between, we share the stuff that’s going on with us, the things we disagree on, and the moments that probably should’ve stayed private. We’re figuring things out as we go - balancing life with baby Alfie, building a home, busy work lives, and trying to keep some sense of normality along the way. It doesn’t always go to plan. This is a podcast about relationships - the good bits, the messy bits, and the moments that nearly break you. We don’t always remember things the same way, we don’t always agree, and we definitely don’t have all the answers… but we’ll give it a go. Each week, we also hear from you - your questions, your stories, your dilemmas - and react in the only way we know how: honestly, and usually with a bit of slagging. If you’re here for the chaos, relationship honesty, or just to feel a bit better about how you’re doing it, you’re in the right place. Get involved:  📩 happilymurrayedpod@gmail.com  📱 Instagram / TikTok / YouTube / Facebook: Happily Murrayed Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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  • Creator
    Cutdown & The Murrays
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    18
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Cutdown & The Murrays
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    Happily Murrayed