Said Lovingly

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Said Lovingly is the podcast for women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals ready to call in good love without lowering her standards, sacrificing herself, or chasing.  This podcast rewrites the narrative on modern love and dating. Each Thursday, Crystal shares powerful lessons, perspective shifts, and straight-to-the-heart truths to help you break old patterns, raise your standards, and embody the magnetic energy that draws in quality men who adore you. These aren't surface-level dating hacks. It’s about aligning your energy, psychology, and standards so you date like a woman who knows her worth and gets what she wants.  With a track record of helping hundreds of women go from single to happily coupled with high-quality men, Crystal brings you the wisdom, humor, and real talk you need to transform your love life from the inside out.

  1. 4 DEC

    Tired of Dating? Here’s What’s Really Draining You (Part 2)

    Is dating exhausting you? You’re so not alone.  In this week’s episode of Said Lovingly I’m wrapping up the series on why dating is exhausting you and  how to change it so you can finally start meeting men from a palace of ease, confidence, and energy.  You’ll walk away with:  How you can instantly start dating with more calm and confidence; The role your thoughts are playing in your dating fatigue; How your energy is impacting the men you attract.This is such a juicy episode to make your dating life lighter, easier, and way more fun.  WORK WITH CRYSTAL TO ATTRACT A HAPPY, HEALTHY, LOVING, COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP Interested in working together to call in a happy, healthy, loving, committed relationship? Schedule a call where we'll uncover exactly what's keeping you from the love you deserve. During our consultation, you'll receive:  → Crystal-clear clarity on the kind of love and partnership you want—and a roadmap to finally stop wasting time on men who don't measure up  → A breakthrough diagnosis of the 3-5 hidden blocks keeping you stuck in the same frustrating patterns (yes, we're going there)  → A custom, actionable plan to help you call in a happy, healthy, committed relationship in the next 12 months This private coaching opportunity is perfect for you if:  → You're a driven, powerhouse woman—an entrepreneur, executive, or professional who's built a life you're proud of but is ready to channel that same energy into building the love life you deserve  → You're dating high-quality men, but for some reason, things aren't progressing into the happy, committed relationship you know is possible  → You're confident you're a total catch, but somehow you keep attracting men who fall short—whether it's non-committal behavior or not fully appreciating your value Click here to schedule your call: https://calendly.com/d/crjq-trz-yjy ABOUT THE SAID LOVINGLY PODCAST Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards. Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 80+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love. 📌 Subscribe to Said Lovingly for new episodes every Thursday—and follow @crystalonlove on Instagram for daily insights.

    12 min

  2. 26 NOV

    Deception & Delusion in Dating: Love Lessons from the Danish Deception

    The viral Danish Deception story isn’t just internet drama, it’s also a masterclass in what happens when overwhelming attractions, love bombing, and fantasy show up in real-life dating.  In this episode we’ll explore some of the hidden lessons that any woman can apply to her own love life. We’re going beyond just, “don’t ignore red flags,” and offering practical insight and wisdom so you can trust yourself, stay grounded while following in love, and protect your heart (and bank account) without becoming jaded.  In this episode you’ll learn:  The one practically universal deal breaker for all women dating; The reason the popular narratives about this story are missing the mark; The behaviors and patterns that made Onyeka most susceptible to this kind of scam (and how to know where your own vulnerabilities lie); Some fun tidbits about the Danish Royal Family; We’re also exploring the intricacies of romantic scams, drawing parallels to the Tinder Swindler case, including how to understand the psychological and emotional dynamics at play, recognizing the signs of a romantic scam, and maintaining self-awareness and caution in romantic relationships.If you’ve ever been swept away, love-bombed, or have caught clips of the viral series, you’re not gonna want to miss this episode. (But even if you have no clue what I’m talking about, this episode is so juicy and you’ll wanna tune in!) If you’ve ever been swept up, love-bombed, or convinced “this time is different,” this episode will recalibrate your entire nervous system for healthier, safer, more secure love — without losing the magic. ABOUT THE SAID LOVINGLY PODCAST Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards. Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love. 📌 Subscribe to Said Lovingly for new episodes out on Thursdays—and follow @crystalonlove on Instagram for daily insights.

    56 min

  3. 6 NOV

    Tired of Dating? Here’s What’s Really Draining You (Part I)

    Is dating exhausting you?  You’re so not alone. In this week’s episode of Said Lovingly I’m breaking down why dating is exhausting and how to change it so you can finally start meeting men from a palace of ease, confidence, and energy.  You’ll walk away with:  How you can instantly start dating with more calm and confidence; The role your thoughts are playing in your dating fatigue; How your energy is impacting the men you attract.This is such a juicy episode to make your dating life lighter, easier, and way more fun.  ABOUT THE SAID LOVINGLY PODCAST Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards. Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love. 📌 Subscribe to Said Lovingly for new episodes every Thursday—and follow @crystalonlove on Instagram for daily insights.

    28 min

  4. 30 OCT

    He Proposed After 3 Months -- Here’s Why I Said “Yes”

    My husband proposed after just three months of dating…and I said “yes.”  I know that sounds crazy fast (and it is), but there’s four main reasons I felt good about getting engaged to someone after just a few months.  In this week’s episode, I’m breaking down the four main reasons I didn’t freak out when my now-husband proposed (even though yes, I was aware that’s kinda nuts). These are great guiding principles not only for a fast-moving relationship, but a relationship in general.  In this episode, you’ll hear:  How healing your love blueprint shifts the kind of men you attract (and what feels normal); The #1 most important thing to believe about yourself to have success in your love life; How to spot green flags in a guy that might seem too good to be true; What it really means to be ready for a relationship that progresses towards commitment quickly. If you’ve ever wondered if a relationship was “moving too fast,” this episode will give you a grounded perspective on attracting love with ease and discernment.  ABOUT THE SAID LOVINGLY PODCAST Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards. Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love. 📌 Subscribe to Said Lovingly for new episodes every Thursday—and follow @crystalonlove on Instagram for daily insights.

    19 min

  5. 23 OCT

    How Smart Women Miss Red Flags in Dating (Even Though They Know Better)

    Ever looked back on a relationship and seen all sorts of red flags? Yeah, me too.  Here’s why even smart, successful women overlook red flags in dating (and how to stop).  In this episode, I’ll break down the psychology between ignoring (or missing) red flags, how to distinguish between a red flag and a dealbreaker, and what dating with high standards actually looks like.  You’ll also discover:  Sneaky ways your brilliant brain rationalizes red flags in dating (and how to stop doing it);How to tell the difference between a red flag and a dealbreaker (for you specifically); Why “just wanting to make things work,” can make you more susceptible to overlooking red flags; How to approach red flags with clarity and confidence, rather than suspicious or denial. This episode provides subtle shifts that can make a massive difference in your love life.  A simple framework to go from chill girl to sought after magnetic womanABOUT THE SAID LOVINGLY PODCAST Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards. Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love. 📌 Subscribe to Said Lovingly for new episodes every Thursday—and follow @crystalonlove on Instagram for daily insights.

    13 min

  6. 16 OCT

    You Don’t Need to ‘Be a Chill Girl’ – Have ‘The Talk’

    Have you ever found yourself trying to ‘be the chill girl,’ or play-it-cool so that he likes you?  Yeah, you don’t need to do that. You’re going to be so much better off having the talk and defining the relationship when you’ve been dating for awhile.  If you’re done guessing, hoping, and wondering, this episode is gonna give you the words, timing, and energy to have the state of the union address and define the relationship like the incredible woman you are — so you can stop wasting months (or years) and start attracting the kind of high-quality commitment-minded man you want (and deserve).  We’ll also discuss… When to have the conversation about ‘what we are’Exactly how to talk about what you want that keeps your standards highHow to spot green flags in men during the convo (and a silent deal-breaker that you should absolutely not ignore) A simple framework to go from chill girl to sought after magnetic womanABOUT THE SAID LOVINGLY PODCAST Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards. Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love. 📌 Subscribe to Said Lovingly for new episodes every Thursday—and follow @crystalonlove on Instagram for daily insights.

    20 min

  7. 9 OCT

    7 Secret Blocks That Keep You Single

    Think you’re doing everything right but love still not getting the relationship you want? These secret blocks to love might be hiding in plain sight — keeping you single even though you’re more than ready for a committed, emotionally available relationship. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on seven subconscious patterns that high-achieving women unknowingly hold — the ones that make love feel harder than it needs to be. You’ll walk away with awareness that can instantly shift your energy, your self-worth in dating, and the kind of men you attract. In this episode, you’ll learn: The “unspoken contracts” that keep you loyal to struggle instead of open to loveHow friendship bonds (and family legacies) can secretly sabotage your dating lifeWhy holding onto your struggle story blocks emotionally available menThe independence myth keeping smart, successful women singleWhat to do when you realize your high standards have crossed into perfectionismThe subconscious identity shifts that make attracting love easier than everIf you’ve ever wondered why you’re attracting the same type of man or why love feels like work no matter how much healing you’ve done — this episode is your turning point. Because once you see these hidden blocks, you can finally release them… and attract love with ease. ABOUT THE PODCAST Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards. Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love.  📌 Subscribe to Said Lovingly for new episodes every Thursday — and follow me on Instagram @crystalonlove for more daily insights.

    20 min

  8. 2 OCT

    It’s Amazing When You’re Together…But Then He Disappears. Here’s Why.

    Ever been involved with someone where it’s just magic in person, but crickets between dates?  Or where it’s soooo good, but then he tells you he’s just “not ready”?  This episode explains why AND what to do.  We’re breaking down exactly what “not ready” means to men, how to tell if it’s a pattern with him, and exactly what to ask about so you can stop hoping and start knowing. The reason why it can be amazing when you’re together and then just nothing after. The integration factor: meeting family and friends, daily contact, and the significance of all this between dates.One straightforward question you can ask him to truly understand the potential of a relationship. What “I don’t want labels” actually tells you about obligations, consistency, and timing for a potential relationship. How to hold your standards so you can attract higher quality men. If you’re tired of trying to decode what ‘I’m not ready” actually means, this episode will give you the clarity and understanding so you can choose aligned, consistent, commitment-ready men.  ABOUT SAID LOVINGLY  Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards. Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love. 📌 Subscribe to Said Lovingly for new episodes every Thursday—and follow @crystalonlove on Instagram for daily insights.

    36 min
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Said Lovingly is the podcast for women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals ready to call in good love without lowering her standards, sacrificing herself, or chasing.  This podcast rewrites the narrative on modern love and dating. Each Thursday, Crystal shares powerful lessons, perspective shifts, and straight-to-the-heart truths to help you break old patterns, raise your standards, and embody the magnetic energy that draws in quality men who adore you. These aren't surface-level dating hacks. It’s about aligning your energy, psychology, and standards so you date like a woman who knows her worth and gets what she wants.  With a track record of helping hundreds of women go from single to happily coupled with high-quality men, Crystal brings you the wisdom, humor, and real talk you need to transform your love life from the inside out.

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  • Creator
    Crystal
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    16
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2025 Said Lovingly
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