Self-Selecting

Cory Hageman

A podcast on everything under the umbrella of nutrition, training, PEDs, bodybuilding, and maybe the occasional non-fitness add-on with @cory_fit

  1. 1 DAY AGO

    E. 161 What Bodybuilding Really Costs Women (Hormones, PEDs & Motherhood) With Daraja Weidemoyer

    In this episode, Daraja Weidemoyer and I dive into the evolving standards of bikini bodybuilding, the increasing density required to stay competitive, and the difficult conversations surrounding PED use, fertility, and long-term health. Daraja shares her perspective on building a pro-level physique naturally, navigating PCOS and endometriosis, and the impact birth control had on her mood, recovery, and overall well-being. We also talk about the identity shift that comes with motherhood, learning to adapt your routine instead of chasing perfection, and why balance and sustainability are critical for longevity in bodybuilding. This episode is a real conversation about competing at a high level while staying aligned with your values, protecting your health, and creating a life outside of the sport. Timestamps: - [00:00 – 03:20] – Daraja Weidemoyer intro, bodybuilding journey, and becoming a mom. - [03:21 – 11:29] – Bikini bodybuilding becoming denser and evolving judging standards. - [11:30 – 17:26] – PED use, genetic potential, patience, and risk tolerance in bodybuilding. - [17:27 – 22:07] – Fertility, virilization concerns, and family planning in bodybuilding. - [22:08 – 30:29] – Birth control, PCOS, PMDD, and hormonal health struggles. - [30:30 – 35:22] – Managing PMS, mindset shifts, and improving self-awareness. - [35:23 – 43:59] – Competing after motherhood and adapting to the new bikini standard. - [44:00 – 48:14] – Finding a new rhythm as a mom while pursuing bodybuilding goals. - [48:15 – 52:59] – Letting go of rigidity and adapting training to real life. - [53:00 – 59:59] – Why balance and flexibility create longevity in bodybuilding. - [01:00:00 – 01:05:59] – Social media comparison, mindset, and staying aligned with your values. - [01:06:00 – 01:17:33] – Building more size, lifting heavier, and Daraja’s future competitive goals. Links & Resources: Follow Daraja on Instagram: @darajaweid Work With Daraja: https://refinedstrengthcoaching.com/services/ Purchase The Complete Fat Loss Guide: https://coryfit.com/product/the-complete-fat-loss-guide/ Purchase The Glute Building Blueprint: https://coryfit.com/product/the-complete-glute-building-program/ https://coryfit.com/ ⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min ⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultation For more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/ ⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink

    1hr 18min

  2. 5 DAYS AGO

    E. 160 Why You’re Gaining Fat Instead of Muscle (Building Phase Mistakes)

    In this episode, I break down why most muscle-building phases fail—and it usually has nothing to do with the plan itself. I explain why building muscle requires a completely different level of discomfort than fat loss, why you need to commit to the process even when you don’t like how you look, and how inconsistent adherence on both training and nutrition is the biggest reason people spin their wheels. We also cover the truth about “lean bulking,” why comparison (especially with enhanced athletes) will mislead you, and how to actually make a build productive by focusing on execution, training intensity, and being coachable. Timestamps: - [00:00 – 03:49] – Why most builds feel unproductive and the gap between expectations vs reality. - [03:50 – 06:49] – Building muscle requires a different kind of “suck” than fat loss. - [06:50 – 10:59] – Tunnel vision, consistency, and why you don’t have to love the building phase to succeed. - [11:00 – 14:59] – Having a clear reason to build (you can always lose fat later). - [15:00 – 18:29] – PED misconceptions, “lean bulk” myths, and committing fully to the process. - [18:30 – 23:56] – The fastest ways to gain fat in a build. - [23:57 – 29:28] – Why most builds fail. - [29:29 – 32:13] – Overcomplicating training (glute bias myths). - [32:14 – 37:13] – Being coachable, accepting feedback, and removing ego from progress. - [37:14 – 40:16] – Stop ignoring weaknesses. - [40:17 – 42:48] – You know if you’re truly adherent. Links & Resources: Purchase The Complete Fat Loss Guide: https://coryfit.com/product/the-complete-fat-loss-guide/ Purchase The Glute Building Blueprint: https://coryfit.com/product/the-complete-glute-building-program/ https://coryfit.com/ ⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min ⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultation For more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/ ⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink

    43 min

  3. 4 MAY

    E. 159 Why Your Fat Loss Isn’t Working (It’s Not the Diet)

    In this episode, I break down why fat loss often feels inconsistent—and why the real issue usually isn’t the plan, but your level of adherence to it. I explain the different levels of dietary adherence, how to identify intentional vs unintentional deviations, and why not everyone needs to be “perfect” to make progress. We also cover how to match your expectations to your execution, avoid burnout from unnecessary rigidity, and build a sustainable fat loss approach that actually works long term. Timestamps: - [00:00 – 03:36] – Why fat loss feels inconsistent. - [03:37 – 04:44] – Defining adherence. - [04:45 – 05:56] – Level A adherence. - [05:57 – 07:33] – Level B adherence. - [07:34 – 09:38] – Level C adherence. - [09:39 – 12:34] – Level D adherence. - [12:35 – 16:44] – Why most people don’t need perfect adherence to lose fat successfully. - [16:45 – 20:25] – Tight deadlines, aggressive fat loss, and intentional vs accidental non-adherence. - [20:26 – 25:21] – Why your body keeps score even when your tracking doesn’t. - [25:22 – 32:52] – Ranking dietary deviations. - [32:53 – 39:38] – Why loosening adherence can sometimes improve fat loss results. - [39:39 – 43:29] – Find your real bottleneck and build a sustainable dieting system. Links & Resources: Purchase The Complete Fat Loss Guide: https://coryfit.com/product/the-complete-fat-loss-guide/ Purchase The Glute Building Blueprint: https://coryfit.com/product/the-complete-glute-building-program/ https://coryfit.com/ ⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min ⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultation For more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/ ⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink

    44 min

  4. 1 MAY

    E. 158 The Truth About Women’s Bodybuilding, PEDs & Switching Divisions With Courtney Starr

    In this episode, Courtney Starr and I have an honest conversation about switching divisions, building a competitive physique, PED realities in women’s bodybuilding, and making decisions that align with your long-term health. We break down bikini vs wellness demands, the sacrifice required to stay competitive, the importance of genetics, and why success in bodybuilding has to be defined on your own terms—not just placings or titles. If you’re navigating division changes, enhancement decisions, or chasing progress without losing yourself, this episode is for you. Timestamps: - [00:00 – 03:49] – Courtney Starr intro, coaching background, and bodybuilding journey. - [03:50 – 06:55] – Courtney in bikini in 2020. - [06:56 – 11:59] – First PED exposure, early misconceptions, and the bikini landscape in 2020. - [12:00 – 15:59] – Transitioning from bikini to wellness and why the switch made sense. - [16:00 – 20:29] – Sacrifice, intimidation, and realizing bodybuilding is more than just size. - [20:30 – 27:39] – Building muscle, offseason weight gain, and why staying shredded year-round is overrated. - [27:40 – 33:59] – PED requirements, genetics, and whether success is worth the trade-offs. - [34:00 – 35:59] – Sleep, training, nutrition, and the basics that matter before PED use. - [36:00 – 41:24] – Understanding real PED risks, fake compounds, and informed consent. - [41:25 – 49:59] – TRT, Anavar, hormones, bloodwork, and why health should come first. - [50:00 – 55:35] – Growth hormone, lab-based decisions, and smarter enhancement choices. - [55:36 – 01:01:21] – Defining your “why,” sponsorships, and what success really means. - [01:01:22 – 01:05:01] – Moving back to bikini and Courtney’s current direction. Links & Resources: Follow Courtney on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thatnutritionchic/ Work With Courtney: https://www.allstarphysiques.com/?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnGrbzKbi22fg7y76opEXD8_nh57m_B9d5yx_EISL268oVF4HzghfO0-im7BA_aem_OJZg_ZsipCYn0zBtNnYASg Purchase The Glute Building Blueprint: https://coryfit.com/product/the-complete-glute-building-program/ https://coryfit.com/ ⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min ⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultation For more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/ ⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink

    1hr 5min

  5. 27 APR

    E. 157 How to Tell If You’re Actually Hungry or Just Craving Food

    In this episode, I break down the difference between real physiological hunger and cravings, and why most people struggle to tell them apart—especially during a fat loss phase. I walk through what’s actually driving hunger (hormones, sleep, stress, hydration), why not all hunger signals are “real,” and how emotional and behavioral patterns influence cravings. I also cover practical ways to assess what you’re feeling in the moment, build tolerance to hunger, and make better decisions without feeling out of control while dieting. Timestamps: - [00:00 – 04:16] – Breaking down hunger vs cravings and why most people misinterpret the signals - [04:17 – 07:52] – Physiological hunger explained (ghrelin, leptin, and true hunger cues) - [07:53 – 09:14] – Why not all hunger is real (dehydration, habits, environment) - [09:15 – 13:17] – The mistake of trying to outrun hunger during dieting - [13:18 – 16:02] – How meal composition and nutrient timing impact hunger and energy - [16:03 – 18:38] – Distinct vs transient hunger and the role of sleep + cortisol - [18:39 – 21:58] – How upbringing and food behaviors shape hunger awareness - [21:59 – 27:04] – Emotional hunger vs true hunger (anxiety, fear, and food attachment) - [27:05 – 32:39] – Cravings, cheat meals, and why calories vs behavior both matter - [32:40 – 37:18] – Using flexibility (“slush fund”) to reduce binge/restrict cycles - [37:19 – 40:34] – How to differentiate hunger vs cravings in the moment - [40:35 – 42:14] – Why eliminating hunger isn’t realistic + building tolerance - [42:15 – 47:59] – Self-talk, decision-making, and improving dietary control long-term Links & Resources: Purchase The Glute Building Blueprint: https://coryfit.com/product/the-complete-glute-building-program/ https://coryfit.com/ ⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min ⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultation For more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/ ⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink

    48 min

  6. 20 APR

    E. 156 20 Training Questions Answered (Nutrition, Recovery, Hypertrophy & More)

    In this episode, I answer 20 training-focused questions covering everything from pre-workout nutrition, hypertrophy vs running, training timing, and recovery, to common gym frustrations and technique issues. I break down how to optimize performance, make better training decisions, and remove overthinking—whether it’s choosing the best time to train, progressing lifts, managing fatigue, or navigating real-world scenarios like missed sessions, poor workouts, or gym distractions. This is a practical Q&A designed to help you train smarter, stay consistent, and get more out of your workouts long-term. Timestamps: - [00:00 – 03:19] – Q1: Favorite pre-workout meal? - [03:20 – 04:59] – Q2: How to handle unsolicited gym advice from partner? - [05:00 – 06:25] – Q3: Running goals vs hypertrophy. - [06:26 – 08:24] – Q4: Mobility and stretching. - [08:25 – 10:04] – Q5: B-stance RDL technique. - [10:05 – 11:23] – Q6: Missing a lower body session: When to skip vs adjust your split? - [11:24 – 13:07] – Q7: Best time to train? - [13:08 – 14:54] – Q8: Training during PMS. - [14:55 – 18:19] – Q9–10: Increasing weight + lower back pain. - [18:20 – 21:22] – Q11–12: Hip mobility + intra-workout carbs. - [21:23 – 25:18] – Q13–15: Bad sessions, sleep trade-offs & lifting shoes. - [25:19 – 29:00] – Q16–17: Workout partner distractions + exercise frustration. - [29:01 – 36:23] – Q18–20: Post-workout nutrition, training frequency & muscle growth. Links & Resources: Purchase The Glute Building Blueprint: https://coryfit.com/product/the-complete-glute-building-program/ https://coryfit.com/ Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min ⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultation For more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/ ⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink

    36 min

  7. 17 APR

    E. 155 How to Prevent Burnout in Bodybuilding Prep With Phoebe Hagan

    In this episode, I sit down with Phoebe Hagan to break down her journey through extreme bodybuilding burnout, how she rebuilt her relationship with the sport, and what’s fueled her comeback season. We dive into the real signs of burnout most athletes ignore, why taller bikini competitors need more muscle density, and how small training adjustments can completely change your physique. Phoebe shares how switching to macros improved her adherence, mindset, and longevity in prep, and why bodybuilding doesn’t have to be constant suffering to be successful. We also cover judge feedback, peak week strategy, and how giving yourself enough time to prep can make or break your results. Timestamps: - [00:00 – 02:00] – Phoebe Hagan intro + insane comeback season recap - [02:00 – 06:30] – Bodybuilding burnout story + losing passion for competing - [06:30 – 12:50] – Signs of burnout in bodybuilding (when to step away) - [12:50 – 16:50] – Why tall bikini competitors need more muscle density - [16:50 – 21:00] – Training strategies that created a competitive edge - [21:00 – 22:20] – Unilateral training, symmetry & injury prevention - [22:20 – 26:15] – Mid-prep training adjustments that changed her physique - [26:15 – 33:45] – This prep vs past preps (macros, flexibility, adherence) - [33:45 – 40:00] – Macros vs meal plans (avoid becoming a “robot” in prep) - [40:00 – 42:30] – Coaching mistakes: lack of communication & education - [42:30 – 46:30] – Does bodybuilding have to be suffering? (mindset shift) - [46:30 – 56:20] – Judge feedback, peak week strategy & physique refinement - [56:20 – 01:03:01] – Why giving yourself enough time to prep is critical Links & Resources: Follow Phoebe on Instagram: @phoebehagan_ Join The Posing Portal: https://theposingportal.com/home/ Purchase The Glute Building Blueprint: https://coryfit.com/product/the-complete-glute-building-program/ https://coryfit.com/ ⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min ⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultation For more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/ ⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink

    1hr 3min

  8. 13 APR

    E. 154 How to Make Diet Food Taste Better

    In this episode, I walk through how I actually structure my diet to make it enjoyable, sustainable, and aligned with my physique goals. I break down why most people burn out on meal prep, and how the real solution isn’t abandoning structure—it’s learning how to cook better, build flavor, and create variety without sacrificing nutrition. I cover practical strategies to elevate simple meals, debunk myths around sodium and “clean eating,” and explain how small changes in preparation can dramatically improve adherence. Ultimately, this is about making your diet something you can stick to long-term—without feeling restricted or bored. Timestamps: - [00:00 – 04:14] – Why most diets fail. - [04:15 – 07:29] – You can build flavorful, satisfying meals that still align with fat loss or performance goals. - [07:30 – 15:54] – Elevating meal prep. - [15:55 – 17:44] – Why “plain chicken and bland meals” is a self-imposed problem—not a requirement. - [17:45 – 20:21] – Sodium myth. - [20:22 – 22:53] – Resting your protein. - [22:54 – 24:35] – Infusing oils and using herbs to elevate meals without adding excessive calories. - [24:36 – 31:38] – Building flavor bases. - [31:39 – 35:25] – Managing extra calories while improving food quality and enjoyment. - [35:26 – 38:59] – Creating core meals you refine over time. - [39:00 – 43:26] – Smart food swaps. - [43:27 – 45:43] – Protein variety. - [45:44 – 51:43] – Practical meal ideas. Links & Resources: Purchase The Glute Building Blueprint: https://coryfit.com/product/the-complete-glute-building-program/ https://coryfit.com/ ⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min ⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultation For more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/ ⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink

    52 min
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A podcast on everything under the umbrella of nutrition, training, PEDs, bodybuilding, and maybe the occasional non-fitness add-on with @cory_fit

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  • Creator
    Cory Hageman
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    161
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Cory Hageman
  • Show Website
    Self-Selecting

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