Luck, success, leadership, career growth, resilience, relationships, preparation, and opportunity. Vic Pepe explains why “lucky” people may not actually have more luck. They build a bigger landing pad for it. In this episode, I pull a lesson from my first book, The Lucky 13: The Definitive Set of Core Competencies for Great Leadership, and dig into something I've thought about for most of my career: What if you could actually increase your chances of getting lucky? I used to call myself “the luckiest guy in technology.” And I've absolutely had breaks I couldn't manufacture. I met the right people. Opportunities appeared at exactly the right moment. Doors opened that I couldn't have predicted. But that's only half the story. I believe luck becomes powerful when it meets preparation, resilience, relationships, timing, choices and the willingness to act. I share how a failed career in the music business led me to an $11-an-hour technology job, how one relationship helped change the trajectory of my career, and how relentlessly learning and expanding my skills eventually helped put me in the CIO seat. We also talk about why maintaining relationships for decades matters, why you have to take calculated risks before you feel completely ready, and why some of the worst breaks of your career can eventually become the moments you're most grateful happened. I also give you an exercise I've used for years: identify the 13 moments that made you who you are today. Don't just list accomplishments. Include the people, failures, decisions, accidents, opportunities, wins, losses and turning points. Then look for the pattern. You may discover that some of the moments you once considered incredibly unlucky were actually responsible for getting you exactly where you needed to go. You can't control when opportunity knocks. You can control whether you're home to answer the door. If this episode gave you something to think about, please subscribe and leave a comment, and share it with someone who could use this message. And tell me in the comments: What's one moment in your life that felt unlucky at the time, but turned out to be a blessing later? The Lucky 13 by Vic Pepe is available on Amazon in paperback, hardcover and eBook. Chapters 00:00 - Please Subscribe + What Does It Mean to Be Lucky? 03:05 - The Black Hawk Theory: Build a Bigger Landing Pad 04:36 - The Lucky Break That Changed My Career 09:19 - How to Create More Opportunities for Luck 11:45 - Relationships, Risk and Playing the Long Game 14:00 - When Bad Luck Is Actually Redirecting You 19:48 - The 13 Moments That Made You Who You Are 23:00 - How to Become “Luckier” in Life