REFINE

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Welcome to REFINE- the podcast for practical, biblically anchored conversations that cultivate intimacy with God, strengthen our relationships, and inspire a life marked by growth, transformation, and fruitfulness. 

  1. -5 j

    Are You Performing or Transforming? - Rediscovering the Heart of Following Jesus

    In today's Christian culture, it's easy to become consumed with appearances, platforms, and personalities. We know our favorite preachers, quote influential leaders, and master Christian language, yet many of us have neglected the One we claim to follow. Somewhere along the way, Christianity became more about performing for people than being transformed by Christ. In this episode, we explore God's true desire for His children: not flawless religious performance, but hearts that are continually surrendered and transformed. We discuss the danger of idolizing leaders, measuring spirituality by outward works, and pursuing recognition while missing intimacy with Jesus. God is not looking for people who merely look the part. He is looking for people whose hearts have been changed by His presence. Join us as we rediscover the difference between religion and relationship, performance and transformation, and what it truly means to follow Jesus.

    56 min

  2. 23 juin

    Single or Married, It's Not About You: Returning to God's Original Design ft Faith Matilo

    When marriage reflects God's heart, it becomes more than a relationship—it becomes a catalyst for restoration and revival Marriage was never meant to be merely a milestone, a status, or the fulfillment of our personal desires. In this episode, we explore God's blueprint for marriage and why His design extends far beyond romance & personal expectations. Whether you are single, engaged, or married, this conversation is an invitation to shift your perspective from self-fulfillment to surrender, from preference to purpose, and from personal ambition to holy covenant. Because single or married, it's not about you—it's about God's glory, God's covenant, and God's Kingdom purposes being revealed through yielded lives. Join myself & Faith Matilo as we explore what it means to return to God's design and become part of His restoration story.

    1 h 18 min

  3. 10 juin

    The Consequence Of Living In Offence

    Offence is one of the enemy's most subtle and destructive weapons. It often disguises itself as justified hurt, righteous anger, or self protection, but beneath the surface it becomes a trap that keeps us bound, bitter, and spiritually stagnant. In this episode, Ps Nonhlanhla Gcabashe, author of the book The Unoffendable Heart, unpacks how offence distorts our perspective, damages relationships, hinders healing, and prevents us from walking in the fullness of God's purpose for our lives. When we hold on to offence, we begin to see people, situations, and even God through the lens of our pain rather than through the truth of His Word. Join us as we explore the spiritual consequences of living offended, the freedom that comes through forgiveness, and why God calls us to release what hurts us rather than carry it. Discover how yielding your hurt to God can break the chains of bondage, restore your relationships, and position you to receive the blessings, peace, and growth that God desires for you. If you've been carrying wounds, resentment, or unresolved hurt, this conversation will challenge you to let go, heal, and walk in freedom.

    1 h 19 min

  4. 7 avr.

    I Need To Nurture The Seed

    In the season 2 finale I speak about the reason for our short break ( Nurturing The Seed) , the mistakes I made that I don't want to make anymore and my recent encounter with my Spiritual Father that is truly such a defining line in the sand of my life right now

    21 min

  5. 31 mars

    Is Your Identity Your Idol ? - Out Of Compromise And Living By Conviction

    You can “tick Christian” on a form and still feel split in two. We sat down for an unfiltered talk about identity in Christ, and why so many of us hit a wall where we don’t recognize ourselves anymore. That scary moment isn’t always loud rebellion. Sometimes it’s quiet compromise that stacks up until your life looks nothing like what you say you believe. We get honest about grief, conviction, and the deep ache of realizing you’ve drifted far from who God created you to be.If this conversation challenges you, subscribe, share it with a friend who’s rebuilding their life, and leave a review so more people can find it

    58 min

  6. 24 mars

    The Pleasure That Delays Your Destiny - The Consequences Of Sexual Sin

    A moment can feel small when you’re in it, but what if it’s quietly shaping your future? We sit down for an honest, Scripture-rooted conversation about sexual sin, not as a purity performance, but as a real fight for freedom, identity, and destiny. We talk about how compromise often starts with curiosity or loneliness, then turns into a cycle that feels impossible to break and why the Bible doesn’t tell us to negotiate with sexual immorality, but to flee.We also go deeper than behavior. We share how trauma, early exposure, and violated boundaries can distort the meaning of love and intimacy for years, even after you come to Christ. From the woman at the well to the pressure of modern dating culture, we unpack why sex can become a bandage for rejection, emptiness, and pain, and why that “thirst” never stays satisfied. Along the way, we discuss spiritual consequences, covenant language, and how repeated agreement with sin can create patterns that delay growth and blur your sense of calling.Then we get practical. We share steps you can take today: accountability, tracking, curating community, guarding environments, daily devotion, declaring Scripture, and making hard exits when things get heated. We also challenge the idea that your choices only affect you. Love sometimes looks like walking away, because your eternity and your brother’s or sister’s eternity matter.If this helped you, subscribe to Refine, share it with someone you want to see free, and leave a rating or review so more people can find it. What part of the conversation challenged you most?

    53 min

  7. 17 mars

    When Passion Is Demanded - But Pain Is Ignored

    You can’t hurt me and then dictate the terms of my healing. That line sets the tone for a real, practical conversation about sex, trust, and emotional safety in marriage and why the bedroom often reflects what’s happening everywhere else.We break down a crucial distinction that many couples miss: low libido versus low desire for your spouse. Low libido can be physiological or psychological, shaped by stress, burnout, medication, hormones, and mental health, and it can be diagnosed and treated. Low desire for your spouse usually points to relationship issues, the unspoken stories, the conversations you keep avoiding, the apology that never landed, and pain that never got named. When you misdiagnose the problem, you end up solving the wrong thing and paying for it with distance.We also talk about why conflict and disconnection crush intimacy, and how to prioritize repair without turning sex into a duty. That means timelines, defining what “healing” looks like, and rebuilding intimacy in safe steps. We get into what real repentance looks like after betrayal, how to tell performance from change by watching patterns, and why the willingness to have uncomfortable conversations is a sign of maturity. Then we address self-inflicted desire loss, especially the comparison trap fueled by social media, and how love languages and spoken appreciation can protect the marriage you’re actually living.If you want a healthier Christian marriage, stronger communication, and a sex life rooted in trust, press play. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review with the one idea you’re taking into your relationship.

    47 min
  8. The Cost Of A Loose Tongue - Guard Your Tongue, Guard Your Life

    10 mars

    The Cost Of A Loose Tongue - Guard Your Tongue, Guard Your Life

    Ever felt a nudge to share a fresh dream and then watched momentum vanish? We unpack why some words should be whispered to God before they’re shouted to the world—and how learning the difference can protect your calling, your relationships, and your peace. With Busisiwe Mothudi joining Buli Makhubo, we move from platitudes to practice: how to measure vulnerability by the Holy Spirit, how to discern when God is announcing you through your own voice, and when silence is the wisest strategy in the room. We trace a clear arc: guarding secrets that anchor your strength, resisting premature announcements that invite unnecessary warfare, and establishing promises in private prayer until they are fortified. You’ll hear how approval-seeking can derail obedience, why atmospheres respond to what we say, and how to set simple boundaries that keep conversations from drifting into gossip. We ground the talk in scripture—James 3, Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Ephesians—and in honest stories where oversharing cost opportunities, while Spirit-led restraint birthed clarity and favor. This is a hands-on guide to stewarding your tongue: speak less but mean more, time hard conversations for when hearts are ready, and refuse to weaponize “honesty” against people God loves. Expect practical cues you can use today—like shifting sensitive talks out of late-night fatigue, letting “just enough” truth serve healing, and cutting gossip mid-sentence by turning it into prayer. By the end, you’ll have a blueprint for building with your words, blessing with integrity, and aligning your speech with heaven’s timing so what you finally announce can’t be broken. If this helped you recalibrate your voice, subscribe, rate the show, and share it with someone who needs courage to guard their words. What boundary will you set for your tongue this week? Thank you for tuning in beloveds. Don’t forget to comment , rate the podcast and share . Watch the Podcast here: https://youtube.com/@bulimakhubo?si=Whq1AiPP_Big4hyr Let’s connect: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/buli_makhubo?igsh=MWR5ZDExcndubDk1bw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

    47 min
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Welcome to REFINE- the podcast for practical, biblically anchored conversations that cultivate intimacy with God, strengthen our relationships, and inspire a life marked by growth, transformation, and fruitfulness. 

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  • Création
    Buli Makhubo
  • Années d’activité
    2025 - 2026
  • Épisodes
    23
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    © Buli Makhubo
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