2 Be Better

Chris Burkett

We are the 2 Be Better Podcast. Chris and Peaches read emails, answer questions and have hard discussions to help you on your personal growth journey. We are not licensed for anything but we have lived through a lot. Join us. Lets grow!! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

  1. 1 day ago

    Questions with Chris - Submission, Jealousy, Boundaries, Your Emails Answered

    In this episode of the 2 Be Better Podcast, Chris answers real relationship questions submitted by listeners and tackles the conversations most people are afraid to have. From marriage, submission, leadership, boundaries, trust, jealousy, financial struggles, social media addiction, and protecting intimacy, to maintaining connection when work keeps couples apart, these emails expose the everyday problems that can quietly destroy relationships when people refuse to communicate. Chris breaks down the difference between submission and control, requests and demands, insecurity and legitimate boundaries, while challenging both men and women to take accountability for the role they play in their relationships. This isn't traditional relationship advice. These are raw, unfiltered answers about marriage, masculine leadership, feminine submission, communication, personal accountability, dating, trust, intimacy, money, and becoming a better partner. You'll hear why your partner can't read your mind, how unspoken expectations create resentment, why boundaries require communication, how social media can distort your perception of relationships, and why being present with your partner matters more than trying to recover time you've already lost. If you're trying to build a stronger marriage, improve communication, understand relationship dynamics, or stop repeating the same destructive patterns, this episode will give you plenty to think about. Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

  2. 2 days ago

    Going no contact

    Thinking about going no contact with a parent, sibling, friend, or partner? Before making one of the biggest decisions of your life, watch this conversation. We break down the difference between healthy boundaries and permanent separation, explain why no contact should be a last resort, and share a practical 12 step framework to help you decide whether you're protecting your peace or simply avoiding discomfort. We cover toxic family relationships, emotional abuse, manipulation, narcissistic behaviors, accountability, boundary setting, grief, and how to recognize the patterns that truly justify walking away. Whether you're dealing with toxic parents, a controlling family member, an emotionally abusive relationship, or wondering if it's finally time to cut someone out of your life, this episode is designed to help you make that decision with clarity instead of emotion. You'll learn how to separate conflict from abuse, communicate boundaries effectively, recognize when someone is capable of change, and understand the emotional consequences that come with going no contact. If you've ever questioned whether staying is hurting you more than leaving, this conversation will give you the tools to make that decision with confidence.| Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

  3. 7 Aug

    Its over. Now what?

    This episode is for anyone navigating the pain of a breakup, divorce, or the end of a long-term relationship and wondering, "What now?" We break down how to know when you're actually ready to date again, why healing is more important than waiting a certain amount of time, and the biggest mistakes people make after a relationship ends. We discuss loneliness versus companionship, trauma bonds, rebound relationships, emotional healing, codependency, self-worth, boundaries, journaling, therapy, and why so many people repeat the same relationship patterns without realizing it. If you're trying to move on after a breakup, recover from divorce, or build healthier relationships in the future, this conversation will help you understand what real healing looks like. You'll also learn the signs that you, or someone you're dating, may not be emotionally ready for another relationship, how to rebuild your identity after years of being with one person, and why self-awareness is the foundation of lasting love. We share practical advice on creating boundaries, recognizing red flags, avoiding rebound relationships, healing attachment wounds, and becoming the kind of person who attracts healthy relationships instead of repeating old cycles. Whether you're recovering from an abusive relationship, ending a marriage, or simply trying to move forward without carrying your past into your future, this episode offers honest conversations and actionable tools to help you heal before you love again. Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

  4. 3 Aug

    Stop Looking to Your Partner to Fix Your Emotions S4 Ep31

    If you've ever struggled with relationship conflict, betrayal, trust issues, emotional regulation, or wondered whether it's time to let go of a relationship, this episode is packed with practical insights you can apply immediately. Chris and Peaches dive into real listener questions covering everything from respecting no contact after a breakup, overcoming defensive communication, managing chronic illness in a relationship, nervous system regulation, setting healthy boundaries, emotional maturity, and navigating possessive or controlling behavior. Rather than offering surface level advice, they explore the deeper psychology behind why we react the way we do and how unresolved childhood programming continues to shape our adult relationships. You'll also hear an honest discussion about technology addiction, rebuilding community, developing healthier communication habits, learning to self regulate instead of relying on others, and creating stronger, more resilient marriages and partnerships. Whether you're trying to heal your relationship, improve your communication, recover from emotional pain, or become a healthier partner, this episode provides actionable advice designed to help you build trust, increase emotional intelligence, and create lasting connection. Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

  5. 31 Jul

    BPD and Abuse

    If you've ever wondered whether Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) causes abuse, or whether someone is using their diagnosis to avoid accountability, this conversation tackles one of the most misunderstood topics in mental health and relationships. We break down the difference between emotional dysregulation and abusive behavior, explain why a diagnosis is never an excuse for manipulation, and discuss how untreated trauma can create destructive relationship patterns. You'll also learn about splitting, emotional reasoning, fear of abandonment, codependency, walking on eggshells, gaslighting, boundaries, attachment styles, DBT, accountability, and what genuine recovery actually looks like.Throughout this discussion, we share personal experiences with BPD, healing, therapy, and the work it takes to build emotionally healthy relationships. Whether you're living with Borderline Personality Disorder, dating someone with BPD, recovering from an abusive relationship, or simply trying to better understand trauma and emotional regulation, this episode offers practical insights without shame or stigma. Our goal isn't to label people as good or bad. It's to separate explanation from excuse, compassion from enabling, and help people recognize that healing begins when we take responsibility for what our pain produces. Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

  6. 27 Jul

    Single Mom, Broken Engagement, Brutal Reality Check S4 Ep30

    This episode of the 2 Be Better Podcast tackles one of the hardest relationship questions people face, how do you move on after a devastating breakup when children, finances, and future plans are involved? Chris and Peaches break down a listener's heartbreaking story of a failed engagement, dating someone who didn't want children, financial stress, emotional immaturity, and the painful reality of ignoring red flags. Along the way, they discuss compatibility, step parenting, communication, emotional regulation, self worth, childhood trauma, and why love alone is never enough to build a healthy relationship. If you've recently gone through a breakup, are struggling with dating as a single parent, wondering whether you should get back together with an ex, or trying to recognize unhealthy relationship patterns before it's too late, this conversation offers practical advice without sugarcoating the truth. You'll learn why boundaries matter, how unresolved trauma affects your dating choices, what healthy partnerships actually look like, and how taking ownership of your life can help you stop repeating the same relationship mistakes. Whether you're healing after heartbreak or trying to build a stronger relationship, this episode will challenge the way you think about love, commitment, and personal growth. Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

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We are the 2 Be Better Podcast. Chris and Peaches read emails, answer questions and have hard discussions to help you on your personal growth journey. We are not licensed for anything but we have lived through a lot. Join us. Lets grow!! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

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