ADHD &...with Jorie Houlihan

Jorie Houlihan

Ever feel like everyone else got the instruction manual for life—but yours was missing a few...chapters? You’re not alone. I'm Jorie Houlihan— late diagnosed ADHDer, ADHD coach, mom of two ADHD teens 😳, and Your Guide for the Dopamine-Deprived™️. On ADHD &..., I’m breaking down the real-life, unfiltered experiences of women with ADHD—one topic at a time. Each episode is a bite-sized chat (think 10–20 minutes - unless it's an interview which will be longer) that tackles everyday challenges—from motivation and follow-through to emotional spirals and executive dysfunction—with honesty, humor, practical tools you can actually use looking at all of it through the lens of curiosity. If you're a woman navigating ADHD in adulthood and craving real talk, realistic solutions, and a little bit of “oh my god, same,” this show is for you. New episodes every week—subscribe now and come feel seen, heard, and maybe even a little bit empowered.

  1. The ADHD Wednesday Crash: Why Your Perfect Routine Just Died

    3 DAYS AGO

    The ADHD Wednesday Crash: Why Your Perfect Routine Just Died

    Ever start a new routine on Monday only to have it completely fall apart by Wednesday? You aren't lazy, and you don't need more "discipline." In this episode, host Jorie Houlihan breaks down the "Wednesday Crash" and explains why traditional planning advice fails the ADHD brain. We dive into the biology of boredom, why interest regulation matters more than attention, and the specific tools—like body doubling and dopamine menus—that actually work for neurodivergent minds. Links Mentioned: Previous Episode on Body Doubling: https://rss.com/podcasts/adhd-and/2328710FocusMate (Digital Coworking): FocusMateJames Clear / "Never Miss Twice" Concept: https://jamesclear.com/Jorie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joriehoulihanShow me what you got done this week! Post it on Instagram and tag me! Disclaimer: Jorie Houlihan and the "ADHD &..." podcast are not medical professionals. The information shared in this episode is for educational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice. Please consult with a qualified healthcare provider regarding your specific health needs. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and tell us your biggest takeaway in the comments! ✅ Rate & Review: If this episode resonated, please leave a review to help other women find the show. https://ratethispodcast.com/adhdand ✅ Subscribe to my newsletter on Substack (https://joriehoulihan.substack.com) for weekly resources, insights, and practical tools for women with ADHD Other Ways to Connect with Jorie: Website: https://joriehoulihan.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/joriehoulihan.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joriehoulihan1/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@joriehoulihanYour ADHD Action Blueprint: Learn More!My Favorite Things!: https://joriehoulihan.com/favorite-things Theme music: Jorie Houlihan + GarageBand

    20 min
  2. Stop Filing, Start Finding: A New Approach for the ADHD Brain with Barbara Hemphill

    3 FEB

    Stop Filing, Start Finding: A New Approach for the ADHD Brain with Barbara Hemphill

    What if your home or office clutter is just the tip of the iceberg? In this episode, Jorie sits down with Barbara Hemphill, a pioneer of the organizing industry and author of Taming the Paper Tiger and Less Clutter, More Life. Barbara reveals that physical and digital clutter are often symptoms of deeper emotional and spiritual blockages. Together, they explore why "just cleaning up" rarely works for the ADHD brain and how to shift your mindset from "what should I do?" to "what will I do?". Whether you are drowning in paper, paralyzed by digital files, or struggling to organize family photos, this episode offers hope-filled strategies to help you accomplish your work and enjoy your life. Resources Mentioned: Free Training: lesscluttermorelife.comBarbara’s Website: barbarahemphill.comHow to Make Your Closet a Productive EnvironmentBooks: Taming the Paper Tiger and Less Clutter, More LifeIf you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and tell us which of her tips you are going to try in the comments! Disclaimer: Jorie Houlihan and the "ADHD &..." podcast are not medical professionals. The information shared in this episode is for educational & entertainment purposes only & should not be taken as medical advice. Please consult with a qualified healthcare provider regarding your specific health needs. 🔥 Don’t Miss This If this episode spoke to you, make sure to: ✅ Follow and review the podcast so more women can discover it. You can review it here: https://ratethispodcast.com/adhdand ✅ Subscribe to my newsletter on Substack (https://joriehoulihan.substack.com) for weekly resources, insights, and practical tools for women with ADHD ✅ Share this episode with a friend who struggles with paper and digital clutter!. You can also find me at: Website: https://joriehoulihan.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joriehoulihan.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joriehoulihan1/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@joriehoulihan

    51 min
  3. The Identity Shift: Who Are You After an ADHD Diagnosis?

    27 JAN

    The Identity Shift: Who Are You After an ADHD Diagnosis?

    In this episode of ADHD &..., host Jorie Houlihan tackles the "identity crisis" that often follows a late ADHD diagnosis. It’s not just about learning why you can’t focus; it’s about realizing that the story you’ve told yourself for decades - that you were lazy, flaky, or "too much" - might need a complete rewrite. Jorie explores the complex mix of relief and grief that comes with this realization and offers five actionable steps to navigate this shift with curiosity rather than judgment. Key Topics Discussed: The "Identity Shift" Explained: Why a diagnosis often feels like grieving a version of yourself you thought was true.The Conflict of Emotions: Understanding why your brain might feel relief and anger simultaneously.Reframing the Past: Shifting the narrative from "I’m a quitter" to "I was in an environment that didn’t support my brain".Reclaiming Your Strengths: How to stop apologizing for traits like creativity and spontaneity that are actually ADHD strengths.5 Steps to Navigate the Shift: From separating your worth from your diagnosis to intentionally rebuilding your self-image.Links & Resources: Rate & Review: If this episode resonated, please leave a review to help other women find the show. https://ratethispodcast.com/adhdandJoin the Community: Connect with over 30,000 women in our free Facebook group. https://www.facebook.com/groups/discoveringyouradhdDisclaimer: Jorie Houlihan and the "ADHD &..." podcast are not medical professionals. The information shared in this episode is for educational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice. Please consult with a qualified healthcare provider regarding your specific health needs. 🔥 Don’t Miss This If this episode spoke to you, make sure to: ✅ Subscribe to my newsletter on Substack (https://joriehoulihan.substack.com) for weekly resources, insights, and practical tools for women with ADHD You can also find me at: Website: https://joriehoulihan.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joriehoulihan1/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joriehoulihan.com Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/adhdandpodcast.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@joriehoulihan Theme music: Jorie Houlihan + GarageBand #ADHDWomen #ADHDLife #NeurodivergentWomen #ADHDPodcast

    17 min
  4. Why You Always Feel "Behind" with ADHD (And How to Catch Up)

    20 JAN

    Why You Always Feel "Behind" with ADHD (And How to Catch Up)

    Do you feel like everyone else got the "memo" on how to be an adult while you are constantly playing catch-up?. If you have ADHD - especially if you were diagnosed later in life - this feeling of being behind in your career, finances, and relationships is a common, exhausting reality. In this episode, Jorie Houlihan breaks down why this happens and why it is not a character flaw, but a result of neurochemistry. We explore the specific ADHD symptoms that contribute to this phenomenon, including time blindness, working memory challenges, and executive function deficits. Key Takeaways: The Neurobiology of "Behind": Why standard productivity advice fails neurodivergent brains and how the gap between "knowing" and "doing" creates shame.Time Blindness: How distorted time perception makes you feel like you are constantly starting over or stuck in a "time portal" where years vanish.Comparison Traps: Why comparing your "behind the scenes" to a neurotypical's "highlight reel" destroys your momentum.Actionable Systems:Check Your Capacity: Assess what actually works for your brain using curiosity rather than judgment.Ditch Willpower: Replace discipline with gamification, body doubling, and novelty.Reject the Timeline: Accept that societal milestones were not designed for your operating system.Redefine "Ahead": Distinguish between what you actually want versus what you think you "should" want.Resources Mentioned: Clarity + Action Intensive: A premium private coaching experience for women ready to build a life that works with their brain, not against it. Learn More & Apply Disclaimer: Jorie Houlihan and the "ADHD &..." podcast are not medical professionals. The information shared in this episode is for educational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice. Please consult with a qualified healthcare provider regarding your specific health needs. 🔥 Don’t Miss This If this episode spoke to you, make sure to: ✅ Follow and review the podcast so more women can discover it. You can review it here: https://ratethispodcast.com/adhdand ✅ Subscribe to my newsletter on Substack (https://joriehoulihan.substack.com) for weekly resources, insights, and practical tools for women with ADHD ✅ Share this episode with an ADHD friend who always feels behind. You can also find me at: Website: https://joriehoulihan.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joriehoulihan.com Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/adhdandpodcast.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@joriehoulihan Theme music: Jorie Houlihan + GarageBand

    22 min
  5. ADHD Wellness: Reiki, Yoga & Finding Your Power with Lauri Stern

    13 JAN

    ADHD Wellness: Reiki, Yoga & Finding Your Power with Lauri Stern

    In this episode of ADHD &..., host Jorie Houlihan sits down with Lauri Stern, founder of Custom Designed Wellness, to explore the powerful intersection of holistic health and neurodivergency. Together, they discuss how modalities like Reiki, yoga, and chakra balancing can help women with ADHD navigate burnout, emotional dysregulation, and the journey of late diagnosis. Lauri shares her "Real meets Woo" approach, offering practical tools for grounding, processing negative self-talk, and creating a wellness routine that actually sticks. About the Guest Lauri Stern is the founder of Custom Designed Wellness, where she empowers individuals to cultivate self-awareness and balance. As a yoga teacher, Reiki practitioner, and author, she guides people on transformative journeys that integrate ancient wisdom with modern self-care. She is also the host of The Real and the Woo podcast. Connect with Lauri Stern: Website: www.customdesignedwellness.comPodcast: The Real and the WooInstagram: @sternlauriLinkedIn: Lauri Stern Disclaimer: Jorie Houlihan and the "ADHD &..." podcast are not medical professionals. The information shared in this episode is for educational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice. Please consult with a qualified healthcare provider regarding your specific health needs. 🔥 Don’t Miss This If this episode spoke to you, make sure to: ✅ Follow and review the podcast so more women can discover it. You can review it here: https://ratethispodcast.com/adhdand ✅ Subscribe to my newsletter on Substack (https://joriehoulihan.substack.com) for weekly resources, insights, and practical tools for women with ADHD ✅ Share this episode with a friend who needs some ADHD self-care. I’m a life coach, not a medical or mental health professional—this content is for educational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional care. You can also find me at: Website: https://joriehoulihan.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joriehoulihan.com Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/adhdandpodcast.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@joriehoulihan Theme music: Jorie Houlihan + GarageBand #ADHDWomen #ADHDLife #NeurodivergentWomen #ADHDPodcast

    54 min
  6. ADHD & Learned Helplessness: Why You Feel Stuck (& It's Not Laziness)

    6 JAN

    ADHD & Learned Helplessness: Why You Feel Stuck (& It's Not Laziness)

    Welcome to the Season 2 premiere of ADHD &...! In this episode, Jorie tackles a concept many women with ADHD experience but often lack the language to describe: Learned Helplessness. If you have ever felt like you are just "not trying hard enough," or if you avoid tasks because you are convinced you will fail, this episode is for you. Jorie explains that this feeling isn't a character flaw or a lack of motivation. It is a psychological response to repeatedly trying neurotypical strategies that weren't built for your brain. In this episode, we cover: Defining Learned Helplessness: Understanding why your brain decides to stop trying after repeated struggles.The "Neurotypical Trap": Why trying harder at systems designed for other brains leads to burnout, not success.The Consistency Myth: How "all-or-nothing" thinking sabotages your progress and how to embrace flexibility instead.Self-Awareness vs. Shame: Why understanding your specific triggers (like "out of sight, out of mind") is more effective than brute force.Identifying the Signs: How learned helplessness manifests as avoidance, not asking for help, or dismissing your own capabilities.Mentioned in this episode: The Clarity + Action Intensive: A premium one-on-one coaching program designed to help you build a system specifically for your unique ADHD brain: Learn MoreI’m a life coach, not a medical or mental health professional—this content is for education only, not a substitute for professional care. Next Week: Join us for a conversation with Laurie Stern from the Real and the Woo podcast on tuning into your body to manage emotional dysregulation. Follow for more ADHD support: 🎙️ Subscribe to the podcast and leave a review here: https://ratethispodcast.com/adhdand 💌 Join our community newsletter on Substack! ❤️ Share this podcast with your ADHD friends who feel stuck! 🔗 Visit JorieHoulihan.com Resources: Jorie's Favorite Things list

    18 min
  7. Replay: Finally Knowing What the French Is Going On

    30/12/2025 · BONUS

    Replay: Finally Knowing What the French Is Going On

    What happens when you finally get an ADHD diagnosis at 49? In the very first episode of ADHD &… with Jorie Houlihan, I share my personal story of living decades with guilt, procrastination, and shame before realizing I wasn’t lazy—I had ADHD. From forgotten appointments and abandoned planners to the surprising role TikTok played in me finally getting my diagnosis, this episode is about what it really feels like to be a late-diagnosed woman with ADHD. You’ll hear about the grief and relief that comes with an answer, why “trying harder” never worked, and why I created this podcast to give women real tools, real talk, and zero shame. 🎧 Listen now and remember: you are not broken—you’ve just been using the wrong owner's manual. 🌟 Don’t Miss This If this episode spoke to you, make sure to: ✅ Follow and review the podcast so more women can discover it. You can review it here: https://ratethispodcast.com/adhdand ✅ Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement on her ADHD path ✅ Subscribe to my newsletter on Substack (https://joriehoulihan.substack.com) for weekly resources, insights, and practical tools for women with ADHD ✅ Coaching Program: Clarity + Action Intensive – A 12-week premium coaching course designed to help you understand your brain and create an actionable plan I’m a life coach, not a medical or mental health professional—this content is for education only, not a substitute for professional care. You can also find me at: Website: https://joriehoulihan.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joriehoulihan.com Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/adhdandpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/joriehoulihancll TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@joriehoulihan Music: Jorie Houlihan + Garageband

    13 min
  8. Embrace Your ADHD: A New Year's Perspective

    23/12/2025 · BONUS

    Embrace Your ADHD: A New Year's Perspective

    As we head into the holidays and new year, people with ADHD face unique pressure around goal-setting and resolutions. In this bonus episode, Jorie delivers an honest, compassionate pep talk about what it really means to work with your ADHD instead of against it. What You'll Learn ✓ The New Year's ADHD Trap – Why resolutions feel impossible and how to reframe them ✓ The Two Types of ADHD Goal-Setters – Which one are you? (Spoiler: You've probably been both) ✓ Pick ONE Goal – Why less is more for your ADHD brain ✓ Break It Down – Simple chunking strategies (beginning, middle, end) ✓ The Dopamine Reality – How to gamify boring tasks and maintain momentum ✓ The Action Principle – Why you need momentum before motivation ✓ The Laundry Hack – Jorie's real-world example of starting small (3 things) and building from there ✓ Embrace, Don't Fight – Why accepting your ADHD is the game-changer ✓ ADHD Strengths – Out-of-the-box thinking, creativity, empathy, loyalty, and storytelling Resources Mentioned Coaching Program: Clarity + Action Intensive – A 12-week premium coaching course designed to help you understand your brain and create an actionable planPrevious Episode: "How to Survive the Holidays with ADHD"Episode 13: Interview with Dr. Robin Buckley 🔥 Don’t Miss This If this episode spoke to you, make sure to: ✅ Follow and review the podcast so more women can discover it. You can review it here: https://ratethispodcast.com/adhdand ✅ Subscribe to my newsletter on Substack (https://joriehoulihan.substack.com) for weekly resources, insights, and practical tools for women with ADHD ✅ Share this episode with a friend who needs some New Year's encouragement. I’m a life coach, not a medical or mental health professional—this content is for educational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional care. You can also find me at: Website: https://joriehoulihan.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joriehoulihan.com Podcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/adhdandpodcast.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/joriehoulihancll TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@joriehoulihan YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@joriehoulihan Theme music: Jorie Houlihan + GarageBand

    14 min

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Ever feel like everyone else got the instruction manual for life—but yours was missing a few...chapters? You’re not alone. I'm Jorie Houlihan— late diagnosed ADHDer, ADHD coach, mom of two ADHD teens 😳, and Your Guide for the Dopamine-Deprived™️. On ADHD &..., I’m breaking down the real-life, unfiltered experiences of women with ADHD—one topic at a time. Each episode is a bite-sized chat (think 10–20 minutes - unless it's an interview which will be longer) that tackles everyday challenges—from motivation and follow-through to emotional spirals and executive dysfunction—with honesty, humor, practical tools you can actually use looking at all of it through the lens of curiosity. If you're a woman navigating ADHD in adulthood and craving real talk, realistic solutions, and a little bit of “oh my god, same,” this show is for you. New episodes every week—subscribe now and come feel seen, heard, and maybe even a little bit empowered.

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