Legally Clueless

Legally Clueless

Legally Clueless is a weekly podcast by Kenyan media personality & social activist: Adelle Onyango!! Here, she documents her raw human journey as an evolving unapologetically African woman. The podcast is a space where people get to know just how okay it is to not know or not have it all figured out. It is also a space where Africans share stories from their lives; stories that teach, make us cry, make us laugh - real, authentic African stories. The #LegallyClueless hotline is +254768628790

  1. Born Sighted, Diagnosed with Glaucoma At 13 PART 2 | Legally Clueless Ep 368

    12 HR AGO

    Born Sighted, Diagnosed with Glaucoma At 13 PART 2 | Legally Clueless Ep 368

    In Episode 368 of the Legally Clueless Podcast, we share Part 2 of Nkirote’s remarkable story. In Part 1, we heard about her unstable childhood in Meru, the loss of her grandmother who raised her, and the gradual deterioration of her eyesight due to glaucoma. Teachers stepped in when family could not, raising funds for surgery and eventually helping her join Saint Lucy’s School for the Blind. Part 2 continues her journey of resilience.After initially resisting Braille and struggling to accept her new reality, Nkirote slowly began rebuilding her confidence. With the help of friends and teachers, she learned Braille, reclaimed her academic excellence, and went on to excel throughout high school, eventually earning a B plain in KCSE.From there, her journey took an unexpected turn.Encouraged by people around her, she applied to study law, a decision that would shape the rest of her life.In this episode, Nkirote shares: Learning to embrace Braille and rediscovering her academic confidenceBecoming the top student throughout her high school yearsChoosing to study law instead of educationNavigating university as one of the first visually impaired students at Moi University School of LawThe friends, mentors, and strangers who stepped in during critical momentsAlmost dropping out of university due to financial strugglesThe miracle that allowed her to attend Kenya School of LawOvercoming depression and burnout during one of the toughest periods of her lifeFinally being admitted to the Bar as an Advocate of the High Court of Kenya Nkirote’s story is a powerful reminder that resilience is rarely a solo journey, sometimes it takes a community of people believing in you until you can believe in yourself again. About the Legally Clueless Podcast Legally Clueless is an award-winning African podcast that shares raw, honest, and deeply personal stories from across the continent.Hosted by Adelle Onyango, the podcast creates space for stories about healing, identity, womanhood, resilience, and becoming. Connect With Legally Clueless Africa Newsletter signup:www.legallycluelessafrica.com/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/ TikTok:www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafrica YouTube:www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutube Share your story: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8

    52 min
  2. Be Gentle With Yourself But Stay Unwavering | Mid Week Tease

    3 DAYS AGO

    Be Gentle With Yourself But Stay Unwavering | Mid Week Tease

    In this week’s episode of The Midweek Tease, Adelle reflects on a powerful idea from the final episode of Difference She Makes with South African human rights lawyer Sibongile Ndashe. While Sibongile spends her career challenging institutions and pushing legal systems to protect women, one line from the conversation stayed with Adelle long after the interview ended: “We must be gentle with each other. But first let us be gentle with ourselves.” So many women are disciplined, ambitious, and unwavering in what they build and fight for. But when it comes to themselves, that same compassion often disappears. In this episode, Adelle explores: Why high-achieving women are often their own harshest criticsThe psychology of self-compassion and why it strengthens resilienceThe difference between accountability and shameHow gentleness toward yourself can coexist with unwavering standardsIf you’ve ever replayed a mistake over and over, questioned your worth after one setback, or pushed yourself harder than you would ever push a friend, this episode is for you. Because softness toward yourself is not weakness. It may be the very thing that sustains your strength. Watch the Sibongile episode: https://youtu.be/DrjkXvbQU98  Join the Legally Clueless Africa community: Newsletter: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafrica YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutube Share your story: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8

    9 min
  3. Born Sighted, Diagnosed with Glaucoma at 13 PART 1 | Legally Clueless Ep 367

    2 MAR

    Born Sighted, Diagnosed with Glaucoma at 13 PART 1 | Legally Clueless Ep 367

    In Episode 367 of the Legally Clueless Podcast, we share Part 1 of Nkirote’s powerful story. Born fully sighted in Meru County, Nkirote’s childhood was marked by instability, moving from one household to another, losing her primary caregiver, and navigating neglect and emotional hardship at a young age. At just 12–13 years old, her eyesight began deteriorating. What started as subtle vision problems would later be diagnosed as glaucoma, by the time teachers intervened, one eye had already lost sight. In this deeply moving episode, Nkirote shares: Growing up without a stable homeBeing passed between relativesExperiencing childhood neglect and instabilityThe moment her eyesight began fadingHow teachers stepped in when family could notThe emotional impact of being taken to a school for the blindDenial, resilience, and the beginning of a new chapterThis episode is a reminder that sometimes the people who change your life are not blood, they are the ones who show up. Part 2 drops next Monday, where we explore her transition into Saint Lucy’s School for the Blind, learning Braille, repeating a class, and the resilience that shaped her future. About the Legally Clueless Podcast Legally Clueless is an award-winning African podcast that shares raw, honest, and deeply personal stories from across the continent, stories about identity, resilience, healing, womanhood, and becoming. Hosted by Adelle Onyango. Connect With Us Newsletter: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafrica YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutube Share Your Story: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8

    38 min
  4. Who Are You Outside of Work? Rethinking Purpose & Career Identity | Mid Week Tease

    25 FEB

    Who Are You Outside of Work? Rethinking Purpose & Career Identity | Mid Week Tease

    What if your job disappeared tomorrow? Who would you be? In this week’s Midweek Tease, we unpack a powerful idea inspired by my recent conversation with Odunoluwa Longe on Difference She Makes: Your purpose should be your life, not your job. For many high-achieving women, identity and productivity have become intertwined. We are praised for being exceptional, indispensable, reliable. But what happens when performance becomes the only place we feel worthy? In this reflective episode, we explore: The psychological concept of contingent self-worthWhy high-achieving women over-identify with careerThe difference between passion and alignmentHow to separate income from identityPractical, psychology-backed ways to begin discovering your purposeThis episode is an invitation to gently untangle who you are from what you do. Because your life is bigger than your title. Watch the full episode of Difference She Makes episode featuring Odunoluwa Longe: https://youtu.be/gBMRf16aPoI Join our newsletter community: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/  Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafrica YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutube Share your story with us: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8

    9 min
  5. Period Pain Was Ruining My Life PART 2 | Legally Clueless Ep 366

    23 FEB

    Period Pain Was Ruining My Life PART 2 | Legally Clueless Ep 366

    In Part 2 of Keziah Mumbi’s story, we move from suspicion… to diagnosis. After nine years of severe period pain, fainting, vomiting, job loss, and being dismissed by multiple doctors, Keziah finally meets a gynaecologist who believes her. The diagnosis? Stage 4 endometriosis. What doctors initially thought was “just a cyst” turned out to be far more serious. During laparoscopic surgery, surgeons discovered extensive endometrial tissue growth, multiple hidden cysts, severe scar tissue, and a condition known as a frozen pelvis, where organs fuse together due to untreated endometriosis. This episode explores: What endometriosis actually isWhy diagnosis can take 7–9 years on averageWhy laparoscopy is often required for confirmationWhat Stage 4 endometriosis meansFrozen pelvis explainedHormonal treatment options (progesterone vs combined pill)How delayed diagnosis impacts fertilityAccess to medication challenges in KenyaThe role of NHIF in covering life-saving surgeryThe emotional toll of chronic illness in relationshipsPeriod shame and medical gaslightingWhy menstrual health education and policy reform matterKeziah also shares how finding community changed everything, moving from isolation and self-doubt to advocacy and awareness. Join Our Community Newsletter signup: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafrica YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutube Share your story: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8

    44 min
  6. She Had 14 Days to Run For Office | Difference She Makes

    22 FEB

    She Had 14 Days to Run For Office | Difference She Makes

    What happens when a woman steps into a leadership position that has only ever been held by men? And what happens when she decides to run… just two weeks before elections? In this episode of Difference She Makes, we sit down with Natasha Ali Erry, Advocate of the High Court of Kenya and Chairperson of the Mombasa Law Society, to unpack mentorship, audacity, leadership, and the quiet pressure women face to shrink once they enter power. Natasha shares: Why she decided to run for chairperson 14 days before electionsThe role mentorship and allies played in her winThe difference between mentorship, sponsorship, allies, and role modelsWhat it means to institutionalize mentorship for young women lawyersThe pressure to lead “like the previous chairs”, who were all menWhy women must resist shedding themselves to succeedAnd the powerful reminder: “Don’t shrink yourself. The room has to adjust to fit you.”Join the Legally Clueless Africa community: Newsletter: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafrica YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutube Share your story: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8

    33 min
  7. Maybe You’re Not Delusional | Mid Week Tease

    18 FEB

    Maybe You’re Not Delusional | Mid Week Tease

    What if you’re not unrealistic… What if you’re remembering what’s possible? In this week’s Mid Week Tease, I unpack something that stopped me in my tracks during my conversation with Natasha Ali on Difference She Makes. She said, almost laughing, “I think I’m a little delusional.” But what if that “delusion” is actually optimism bias? What if it’s self-efficacy? What if it’s the power of possible selves? In this episode, we explore: Why representation recalibrates what feels possibleThe psychology behind optimism bias (and why it helps women take bold risks)How to use the concept of “possible selves” to move toward your futureThe difference between impostor syndrome and audacious beliefWhy community is essential when your confidence is still formingThis is a reflective, psychology-backed conversation for any woman who has ever been told she’s too ambitious, too unrealistic, or dreaming too big. Maybe you’re not delusional. Maybe your belief is data. Join the Legally Clueless Africa community: Newsletter: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafrica YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutube Share your story: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8 #MidWeekTease #LegallyCluelessAfrica #AfricanWomen #WomenInLeadership #SelfBelief #OptimismBias #ImpostorSyndrome

    12 min
  8. Period Pain Was Ruining My Life PART 1 | Legally Clueless Ep 365

    15 FEB

    Period Pain Was Ruining My Life PART 1 | Legally Clueless Ep 365

    For years, Keziah Mumbi was told her pain was “normal.” At 12 years old, she began experiencing extremely heavy periods, severe cramps, vomiting, fainting, and anemia. She was going through an entire pack of pads a day. She stained her school uniform. She was sedated from pain. She missed classes. She lost jobs. And still doctors told her: “You’re too young to have endometriosis.”“It’s just hormones.”“Every woman gets cramps.”“It will stop after you have a baby.”In Part 1 of this powerful story on the Legally Clueless Podcast, Keziah shares what it was like to grow up with undiagnosed endometriosis, navigating period shame, medical gaslighting, workplace discrimination, and years of debilitating pain without answers. This episode explores: Severe period pain and when it’s NOT normalSigns and symptoms of endometriosisHeavy menstrual bleeding & anemiaBeing dismissed by doctorsHow chronic illness affects school, work, and relationshipsThe emotional toll of living in constant painListen & Subscribe: We’re available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, Amazon Music, Gaana and more. Join Our Community: Newsletter signup: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafrica YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutube Share your story: forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8 If this episode resonated with you, share it with a sister, friend, colleague, or partner. These conversations save women years of silent suffering.  #LegallyCluelessAfrica #EndometriosisAwareness #PeriodHealth #AfricanWomen #WomenAndHealth

    40 min
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Legally Clueless is a weekly podcast by Kenyan media personality & social activist: Adelle Onyango!! Here, she documents her raw human journey as an evolving unapologetically African woman. The podcast is a space where people get to know just how okay it is to not know or not have it all figured out. It is also a space where Africans share stories from their lives; stories that teach, make us cry, make us laugh - real, authentic African stories. The #LegallyClueless hotline is +254768628790

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  • Creator
    Legally Clueless
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    493
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright Legally Clueless
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