34 o - The Intimacy Podcast

Henrik

What if everything you’ve learned about love, sex and intimacy is wrong? 34o Podcast goes beyond performance & surface pleasure. Through honest conversations with women and men of different ages and backgrounds, the podcast explores presence, connection, shame, desire, healing and emotional maturity. The focus is on deeper questions: meaning, relational safety, sexuality and why so many people feel disconnected despite external success. Audio Editor: Alva Holewa Hanve

  1. −2 D

    39. Samantha Spiro: When Pain Isn’t Met, Love Collapses

    We’re taught how to perform, succeed, and compete, but not how to handle emotional pain. In this first part of my conversation with Samantha Spiro, we explore what actually happens when pain shows up in relationships, in the nervous system, in the body and in moments where connection quietly begins to disappear. This is not a conversation about fixing relationships or decoding men and women. It’s about capacity. About how unprocessed pain turns into self-protection, distance, and emotional shutdown and why love often collapses not because desire disappears, but because pain isn’t met. We talk about early heartbreak, emotional conditioning, and how many of us learned to protect instead of staying present when something hurts. This is part one of a two-part conversation. In part two, we’ll explore what actually changes when someone learns to stay.

    54 min

  2. 3 FEB.

    38. Bonnie Diaz: What if partnership isn’t about leading or following, but about listening?

    In this episode of 34o, Henrik sits down with Bonnie Diaz, world-class ballroom champion, master educator, and creator of the 4D Partnership System, to explore what true connection really looks like, on and off the dance floor. Bonnie introduces partnership through four dimensions: Physical, Social, Emotional and Spiritual consciousness, revealing how movement becomes a mirror for intimacy, trust, and presence. Together, they talk about shared axis, kindness in connection and how our relational patterns show up in the body long before words. This conversation goes beyond dance. It’s about how we meet another human being, with awareness, responsibility and care. In this episode: • Why technique alone can’t create real connection • How intimacy is built through presence, not control • What “shared axis” means in relationships and everyday life • How movement can heal disconnection and restore balance Whether you dance, love, lead, or long for deeper connection, this episode invites you to listen differently. Welcome to 34o. Where intimacy begins with presence

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  3. 27 JAN.

    37. Wren: What if intimacy isn’t something we achieve — but something we allow?

    In this episode of 34o, Henrik is joined by Wren, an outdoor boudoir photographer whose work lives at the intersection of nature, embodiment and reclaiming pleasure beyond shame. Raised in a conservative Christian environment shaped by purity culture, Wren shares her journey out of religious dogma and into a lived, bodily understanding of truth, trust, and sensuality. Through nature, fascia work and deep listening to the body, she rediscovered pleasure not as performance, but as a doorway back to self. Together, Henrik and Wren explore: - Why so many people seek connection without inhabiting their bodies - How nature creates safety when words and roles fall away - Shame as a bodily sensation and how pleasure can gently dissolve it - Slowing down sex to access full-body, receptive pleasure - Feminine and masculine energy as complementary forces, not roles - Love as both surrender and daily choice - Why true safety begins with trusting yourself This is not a conversation about fixing yourself. It’s about remembering the body as a place of belonging.

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  4. 20 JAN.

    36. 🇸🇪 Kalle Norwald: Varför relationer går sönder och vad vi ofta missar

    ENGLISH: What happens to intimacy in a time when so many people feel stressed, disconnected, and unsure? In this episode of 34o, in Swedish, I’m joined by Kalle Norwald for a warm, honest and deeply reflective conversation about relationships, sexuality and human presence. We explore why so many men struggle to understand their emotions and how that impacts intimacy and sex.We talk about performance pressure, avoidance patterns, and how the balance between masculine and feminine energies often gets lost in modern relationships.We also touch on pornography, shame, and why presence isn’t a technique, it’s a responsibility. This is not an episode about quick fixes or easy answers.It’s a conversation that slows things down.That invites curiosity.That reminds us that true intimacy often begins long before we take our clothes off. An episode for anyone who wants to meet themselves and others, with more honesty and presence. SWEDISH: Vad händer med intimitet i en tid där många känner sig stressade, osäkra och ensamma? I detta avsnitt av 34o möter jag Kalle Norwald i ett varmt, öppet och fördjupande samtal om relationer, sexualitet och mänsklig närvaro.Vi pratar om varför så många män har svårt att förstå sina känslor och hur det påverkar både intimitet och sex. Om prestationskrav, undvikande mönster och hur balansen mellan det feminina och maskulina ofta går förlorad i moderna relationer. Om pornografi, skam och varför närvaro inte är en teknik, utan ett ansvar.Det här är inte ett avsnitt med snabba svar eller enkla lösningar.Det är ett samtal som stannar upp. Som vågar vara nyfiket och som påminner om att verklig intimitet ofta börjar långt innan vi klär av oss.Ett avsnitt för dig som vill förstå dig själv och relationer på ett djupare plan.

    1 tim

  5. 13 JAN.

    35. Lisa Näs: Intimacy without performance. Words without exploitation.

    In this episode of 34o, I’m joined by Lisa Näs, journalist and long-time writer on sex, relationships and intimacy for women’s magazines. We talk about what happens behind the text: - How do you write about sex without turning it into performance? - Where is the line between honesty and exposure? - What has changed, culturally and emotionally over the last decade? Together we explore: - Writing about intimacy with integrity and responsibility - Why orgasm has become a performance metric and what gets lost because of it - What topics were not written about 10 years ago (but are now) - How language shapes safety, desire and self-image Lisa’s most important relationship insights after years of interviewing sexologists and relationship experts This is not an episode about techniques.It’s about trust, nervous systems, language and emotional presence. Because intimacy isn’t what we do. It’s how safe we feel when we meet.

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  6. 6 JAN.

    34. Why we love. Why it hurts

    Why do we long for closeness and feel fear when it becomes real? Why can two people love each other deeply and still not be able to carry the same life? In this episode of 34o, Henrik reflects on love as a timeless human experience, from ancient texts and literature to modern relationships and heartbreak. About longing, jealousy, vulnerability and the courage it takes to stay present when love asks more of us than we feel ready to give. This is not an episode about blame or answers. It’s about awareness. About learning to pause instead of react. About seeing both our light and our shadow and choosing how we love. If you’ve ever loved deeply, lost something that mattered, or wondered why intimacy can hurt as much as it heals, this episode is for you.

    10 min

  7. 2025-12-30

    33. Vera: Shame, Safety and the Courage to Stay

    Vera learned early how to read a room. How to sense shifts. How to stay alert, often more attuned to others than to herself. In this episode, we explore the quiet presence of shame, the kind that doesn’t shout, but gently pulls the body away from desire, closeness, and rest. Shame around wanting. Around being seen. Around taking up space in intimacy. Vera shares what it’s like to move between longing and withdrawal, presence and disappearance. To want connection and still feel the impulse to step back when things begin to deepen. Mor joins the conversation, offering reflections and commentary that add another layer, naming patterns, softening judgments and holding space for what shame often silences. This episode is about: – how shame lives in the body – how safety changes desire – how intimacy isn’t created through performance, but through permission and how staying can sometimes be the bravest act of all A conversation without urgency. Without fixing. Just honest presence, listening, and truth.

    28 min

  8. 2025-12-23

    32. Dance of Polarity: Part III - Healing, Desire & Wholeness

    In the final part of Dance of Polarity, Henrik and Jonas explore healing - how we can release old conditioning around power, shame, and gender to rediscover desire as a bridge back to wholeness. They talk about what it means to lead and to yield, to feel and to trust, and how masculine and feminine energy can co-create instead of compete. To get in contact with Jonas and learn more about his work, please connect with him here: www.syntesa.se A closing reflection on love, polarity, and becoming fully alive. 9cMhs2hnfZ6htcG61CHT

    36 min
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What if everything you’ve learned about love, sex and intimacy is wrong? 34o Podcast goes beyond performance & surface pleasure. Through honest conversations with women and men of different ages and backgrounds, the podcast explores presence, connection, shame, desire, healing and emotional maturity. The focus is on deeper questions: meaning, relational safety, sexuality and why so many people feel disconnected despite external success. Audio Editor: Alva Holewa Hanve

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  • Skapad av
    Henrik
  • Aktiva år
    2025 - 2026
  • Avsnitt
    41
  • Åldersgräns
    Vuxet innehåll
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    © Henrik
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    34 o - The Intimacy Podcast