Brave Parenting

Brave Parenting

We are a network of brave parents who empower & equip others to intentionally develop & train children to have strong character & integrity. We believe brave parenting is doing the right thing even when it is hard. While it seems our children would rather be raised by the internet, the truth is they need strong and courageous parents who will invest in their character.

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    Ep. 239: The Teenage “Tradwife” and a Biblical Worldview of Marriage

    Perhaps we shouldn’t be surprised that teens have taken up the “tradwife” mantle and have begun building their personal brands and influencer content by adulterating the sanctity of marriage.  Over the past month, there has been a whirlwind of commentary surrounding the teen tradwife trend – teens who’ve opted to get married early and share on social media how much they love marriage, submitting to their husbands, and not working. It’s obvious that teens absorb and assimiliate to much of the viral content they see on social media. Now, teens and young adults are creating content around traditional marriage values in order to be seen, gain followers, and go viral. In today’s episode, Kelly explains the tradwife trend and the real motivation for capturing pieces of your marriage and posting them as content for public consumption. Kelly argues that the motivation is nothing more than performance aimed at gaining attention. Examining the most popular TikTok video (the video that “broke” the internet), it’s easy to see how this content can deceive young girls into thinking this is what marriage is (and not liking the social media portrayal) or to jump into a romanticized version of marriage because the influencers make it look so blissful. Either way, it’s not biblical. Kelly ends with emphasizing the biblical definition of marriage and calls women to step into teen girls’ lives, ask questions, and help shape a biblical understanding of the institution of marriage. Articles referenced: Teenagers are buying into the tradwife fantasy, literally and figuratively Pew: 12th Grade Girls are Less Likely than Boys to Say They Want to Get Married Someday TikTok: Ava Ahavat What Does Coram Deo Mean? Scripture referenced: Genesis 2:24 1 Thessalonians 4:11 Matthew 6:1 Ephesians 5:22-23 Matthew 5:14-16 Proverbs 31 Revelation 19:7-9 1 Peter 3:3-4 Romans 12:2 NEW!! The Managing Media Creating Character STUDENT Study Guide! An 8-week biblical study examining how character is impacted by media and technology. This is the study every youth group/student ministry needs to be doing! Get your copy of the STUDENT Study Guide today! Need a kids-safe phone? Pinwheel is our favorite! Book a Speaking Event!! Buy the UPDATED book: Managing Media Creating Character (2024 Revised & Updated). Also available on Audible. Get Kelly’s new Study Guide & Workbook, with video teachings for small groups. Check out our brand new Brave Parenting Merch Sign up for the Brave Bullet Points newsletter! This helps us communicate what’s happening without social media – a win for everyone!

  2. 9 sep.

    Ep. 238: Astrology and the Biblical Worldview

    Astrology has been around for thousands of years, but it’s seen a resurgence in the last decade thanks to social media. Today’s astrology is much deeper than pithy horoscopes – it’s about birth charts, planetary movements, and houses. Many astrology content creators use persuasive language that lures young people in, promising to help them understand who they really are and what their purpose is. Many Christians don’t know whether, or how, astrology fits into the biblical worldview. In today’s episode, Kelly explains the bible’s clear instructions surrounding the practice of astrology. For parents with teens whose fascination with astrology has become an obsession, the Word of God offers hope and help. Articles referenced: Generation Z Turn to Astrology to ‘Answer Life’s Big Questions’ Astrology Definition TikTok is One Long Conversation With the Universe 30% of Americans Consult Astrology, Tarot Cards, or Fortune Tellers The Pattern: Astrology CHANI: Your Astrology Guide Scripture cited: Deuteronomy 18:9-14 Isaiah 47:13 Daniel 2:1-2, 10-11, 25-28 Psalm 19:1, 3 Romans 1:18-20, 22-25 Genesis 1:26-27 Psalm 139:13-16 James 1:5 Proverbs 2:6 Proverbs 9:10 Isaiah 8:19 Isaiah 46:9-10 Romans 8:28-39 Colossians 2:2-8 Acts 17:28 James 5:19 NEW!! The Managing Media Creating Character STUDENT Study Guide! An 8-week biblical study examining how character is impacted by media and technology. This is the study every youth group/student ministry needs to be doing! Get your copy of the STUDENT Study Guide today! Need a kids-safe phone? Pinwheel is our favorite! Book a Speaking Event!! Buy the UPDATED book: Managing Media Creating Character (2024 Revised & Updated). Also available on Audible. Get Kelly’s new Study Guide & Workbook, with video teachings for small groups. Check out our brand new Brave Parenting Merch Sign up for the Brave Bullet Points newsletter! This helps us communicate what’s happening without social media – a win for everyone!

  3. 2 sep.

    Ep. 237: TRUE CRIME and the Biblical Worldview

    True Crime is the most popular form of entertainment right now. There is no shortage of podcasts, documentaries, shows, movies, books, Facebook groups, TikTok communities, and subreddits dedicated to True Crime. What causes people (mostly women) to be so intrigued and infatuated with true crime content? In this episode, Kelly explains the cultural phenomenon of True Crime entertainment and provides cautionary examples as to how the content distorts honest curiosity into something more debased. Can Christians engage with True Crime? Is it okay for teens? Kelly examines Scripture in light of the modern distortions of attraction and fandom of convicted perpetrators. The goal is to help believers have a biblical framework for thinking about and engaging with True Crime. Articles referenced: True Crime Podcast Listeners Triple in Five Years Best True Crime Podcasts of 2026 Why the True Crime Audience Is Predominantly Female The Psychological Reasons Why People Cannot Stop Watching True Crime The Crash Isn’t About Murder. It’s About TikTok. Marc Jacobs is Down to Style ‘Trendsetter’ Luigi Mangione Cult Following for Cameron Herrin on TikTok Wants Him to be Free The Lindsay Clancy Conspiracy Theories Are Hiding a Darker Truth Scripture referenced: Romans 12:9 1 Kings 16-18, 21:1-25 2 Kings 9:30-37 1 Corinthians 3:16 Proverbs 4:23 Philippians 4:8 1 Corinthians 10:23 Ephesians 5:8, 10-11, 15-17 Mark 12:30-31 Matthew 28:19-20 NEW!! The Managing Media Creating Character STUDENT Study Guide! An 8-week biblical study examining how character is impacted by media and technology. This is the study every youth group/student ministry needs to be doing! Get your copy of the STUDENT Study Guide today! Need a kids-safe phone? Pinwheel is our favorite! Book a Speaking Event!! Buy the UPDATED book: Managing Media Creating Character (2024 Revised & Updated). Also available on Audible. Get Kelly’s new Study Guide & Workbook, with video teachings for small groups. Check out our brand new Brave Parenting Merch Sign up for the Brave Bullet Points newsletter! This helps us communicate what’s happening without social media – a win for everyone!

  4. 26 aug.

    Ep. 236: Childhood Should Not Be Automated

    Parents are repeatedly told in culture that their work is exhausting, difficult, and inequitable. Technology then comes along, offering ways parents can automate the difficult parts of parenting to reduce their mental labor. Lost in all of this is the necessary friction that helps children develop competencies, routines, resilience, and purpose. In this podcast, Kelly takes a look into a newly released tech tool that promises children “less help from grown-ups.” By examining their marketing ploy alongside Scripture, she offers clarity for how parenting and childhood are meant to be.  Parents must challenge the common narrative that parenting should be easy and that task completion equates to childhood development. An automated childhood is a lost childhood. Articles referenced: Review: Skylight Buddy Skylight Buddy Skylight Calendar 7 Basic Life Skills Kids Today Are Lacking, According to Teachers Scripture referenced: Deuteronomy 6:6-7 Romans 12:9   NEW!! The Managing Media Creating Character STUDENT Study Guide! An 8-week biblical study examining how character is impacted by media and technology. This is the study every youth group/student ministry needs to be doing! Get your copy of the STUDENT Study Guide today! Need a kids-safe phone? Pinwheel is our favorite! Book a Speaking Event!! Buy the UPDATED book: Managing Media Creating Character (2024 Revised & Updated). Also available on Audible. Get Kelly’s new Study Guide & Workbook, with video teachings for small groups. Check out our brand new Brave Parenting Merch Sign up for the Brave Bullet Points newsletter! This helps us communicate what’s happening without social media – a win for everyone!

  5. 19 aug.

    Ep. 235: GIRLS by Freya India Biblical Support – “Empowered”

    In this six-part podcast series, we walk through Freya India’s book GIRLS: Gen Z and the Commodification of Everything, examining how online culture has shaped young women and how Christian parents can respond with biblical truth. In this fifth episode on Chapter 6, “Empowered,” Freya reveals multiple ways the culture sold a lie of empowerment to girls: New Age spirituality, manifesting, social justice causes, girlboss hustle culture, influencers, consumerism, and delayed adulthood. She describes the search for meaning and purpose in life but concludes that instead of turning to organized faith and religion, girls only mimicked faith practices. Kelly reviews the multiple puzzle pieces of empowerment and provides biblical support for Freya’s claims of enslavement over empowerment. What Freya calls harmful to young girls, we can biblically call evil. Finally, Kelly reviews ways parents can protect their children from counterfeit worship and guide them toward contentment rather than consumerism. Girls by Freya India Girls Substack Brave Parenting Guide to Coverstar Brave Parenting Guide to Zigazoo Scripture references: Genesis 1:27 Romans 1:21-23 Jeremiah 2:13 Genesis 3:5 Matthew 6:19-21, 24 Proverbs 22:6 1 Timothy 6:6-10 1 John 2:15-17 Matthew 7:9-11 Romans 12:9 James 1:6 John 4:10 Matthew 11:28-30 Luke 9:23 Romans 1:16 Genesis 2:15 Ephesians 4:14 Exodus 2:17   NEW!! The Managing Media Creating Character STUDENT Study Guide! An 8-week biblical study examining how character is impacted by media and technology. This is the study every youth group/student ministry needs to be doing! Get your copy of the STUDENT Study Guide today! Need a kids-safe phone? Pinwheel is our favorite! Book a Speaking Event!! Buy the UPDATED book: Managing Media Creating Character (2024 Revised & Updated). Also available on Audible. Get Kelly’s new Study Guide & Workbook, with video teachings for small groups. Check out our brand new Brave Parenting Merch Sign up for the Brave Bullet Points newsletter! This helps us communicate what’s happening without social media – a win for everyone!

  6. 12 aug.

    Ep. 234: GIRLS by Freya India Biblical Support – “Detached”

    In this six-part podcast series, we walk through Freya India’s book GIRLS: Gen Z and the Commodification of Everything, examining how online culture has shaped young women and how Christian parents can respond with biblical truth. **This episode continues MATURE themes and is NOT recommended for children.** In this fifth episode on Chapter 5, “Detached,” Freya reveals how flirting, sexting, dating apps, hookups, and pornography have led to a grave state of relational and emotional detachment among Gen Z. Kelly summarizes Freya’s evidence and assertions about how online media and technology contributed to a generation feeling safer and more empowered alone. More importantly, she answers the question of: “how did we get here?” by examining what the Word of God says about sexual immorality and depravity. What is God’s sexual ethic? Why does it matter? And what can parents do to prepare Gen Alpha for the romantic relationship wasteland they are growing up into? Girls by Freya India Girls Substack Helping Your Kids Know God’s Good Design by Elizabeth Urbanowicz Brain, Heart, World Pornography Documentary Episode 79: It’s Time To Do Something About Pornography Episode 81: Sugar Dating Episode 82: Only Fans & “Digital Sex Work” Proverbs 7: Teaching Sexual Wisdom to Kids Episode 150: Big Tech & Sexual Exploitation Scripture references: Deuteronomy 10:12-13 Genesis 19:15 Job 31 Romans 2:15 Ecclesiastes 3:11 Proverbs 6:32-33 1 Corinthians 6:18 Galatians 5:19 Colossians3:5-8 Romans 1:18-32 Galatians 5:13 2 Peter 2:19 1 Corinthians 6:12 John 15:18-19 Matthew 7:13-14 NEW!! The Managing Media Creating Character STUDENT Study Guide! An 8-week biblical study examining how character is impacted by media and technology. This is the study every youth group/student ministry needs to be doing! Get your copy of the STUDENT Study Guide today! Need a kids-safe phone? Pinwheel is our favorite! Book a Speaking Event!! Buy the UPDATED book: Managing Media Creating Character (2024 Revised & Updated). Also available on Audible. Get Kelly’s new Study Guide & Workbook, with video teachings for small groups. Check out our brand new Brave Parenting Merch Sign up for the Brave Bullet Points newsletter! This helps us communicate what’s happening without social media – a win for everyone!

  7. 5 aug.

    Ep. 233: GIRLS by Freya India Biblical Support – “Disconnected”

    In this six-part podcast series, we walk through Freya India’s book GIRLS: Gen Z and the Commodification of Everything, examining how online culture has shaped young women and how Christian parents can respond with biblical truth. In this fourth episode on Chapter 4, “Disconnected,” Kelly summarizes how Freya India describes the redefinition of friendship and community by online platforms and social media networks. Can an AI pendant named “Friend” be our answer? The problem is that the new definition of friend (along with the terms and conditions that apply) leaves only feelings of disconnection and loneliness. Today, the solutions offered are online communities and AI companions – neither of which fit the biblical model for human connection and community. Through Scripture, Kelly explains the fundamental human need for community and relationships and how Christians are called to love one another, forgive, serve, and endure all things. Christian parents have a responsibility to model, teach, guard, and guide true community and friendships. In case you missed: Episode #230 Filtered, Episode #231 Diagnosed, and Episode #232 Documented. Articles/Books/Podcasts referenced: Girls by Freya India Girls Substack Ep. 139: AI Chatbots part 1 Ep. 130: AI Chatbots part 2 BP Guide to Replika BP Guide to CharacterAI The Best Thing for Your Brain is Other People – Even Annoying Ones Scripture referenced: Genesis 2:18 Psalm 25:16 Proverbs 17:17 Proverbs 18:24 Proverbs 27:6 Proverbs 27:9 Psalm 127:3-5 Ephesians 6:1-4 Exodus 20:12 Acts 2:42-47 Hebrews 10:24-25 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 1 Kings 19:1-8 Matthew 26:36-46 Luke 4:1-13 John 15:3-15 Colossians 3:12-14 Matthew 18:15-17   NEW!! The Managing Media Creating Character STUDENT Study Guide! An 8-week biblical study examining how character is impacted by media and technology. This is the study every youth group/student ministry needs to be doing! Get your copy of the STUDENT Study Guide today! Need a kids-safe phone? Pinwheel is our favorite! Book a Speaking Event!! Buy the UPDATED book: Managing Media Creating Character (2024 Revised & Updated). Also available on Audible. Get Kelly’s new Study Guide & Workbook, with video teachings for small groups. Check out our brand new Brave Parenting Merch Sign up for the Brave Bullet Points newsletter! This helps us communicate what’s happening without social media – a win for everyone!

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We are a network of brave parents who empower & equip others to intentionally develop & train children to have strong character & integrity. We believe brave parenting is doing the right thing even when it is hard. While it seems our children would rather be raised by the internet, the truth is they need strong and courageous parents who will invest in their character.

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