Chaps Out

Men Coming Out Later in Life

UK-based podcast where men share their stories of coming out later-in-life. chapsoutpod.substack.com

  1. Coming Out at 46: Garry | CHAPS OUT

    −21 h

    Coming Out at 46: Garry | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott is joined by guest, Garry who shares his story of coming out at 46 after spending more than 30 years hiding his sexuality. Growing up during Section 28, he believed he had to suppress who he really was, leading him to marry, raise a family and struggle with his mental health for decades. Garry reflects on the difficult consequences of finally telling the truth, taking full responsibility for the hurt his decisions caused while explaining why he felt unable to live authentically for so long. He speaks candidly about losing friends, rebuilding relationships, finding love, and discovering that life can begin again later in life. His powerful message is one of hope: "I've lost friends. I've lost family. But I've gained friends who've become family." If you're navigating your own coming out journey, supporting someone who is, or simply interested in a moving story of courage, accountability and self-acceptance, this conversation is not to be missed. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach those who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ And don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests return to recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    24 min
  2. Chaps Out Culture: Mark Foster recommends..

    −4 d ·  Bonusinnehåll

    Chaps Out Culture: Mark Foster recommends..

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture, host Grant Philpott welcomes back World Champion swimmer Mark Foster, one of Britain's most celebrated athletes, for a warm and nostalgic conversation about the LGBTQ+ culture that has shaped and inspired them. Together, they discuss music that defined their youth, including Soft Cell, while reflecting on the enduring power of 1980s pop and its connection to identity and memory. Mark also shares his love for the acclaimed drama, This Is Us. He also mentions his new autobiography, My Double Life. This episode offers a nostalgic look at the sounds, stories and experiences from growing up in Essex. If you enjoyed this episode of Chaps Out Culture please subscribe or follow wherever you listen, give us a 5 star rating and Share to help the podcast reach anyone who may need to hear it. And if you missed it, don’t forget to check out Mark's full interview on the main episode of Chaps Out. Thanks again for listening and take care. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #MarkFoster #WorldChampionSwimmer #Olympian #LGBTQPodcast #GayPodcast #LGBTQCulture #ComingOut #80sMusic #SoftCell #MyDoubleLife #ThisIsUs #PodcastInterview #ChapsOutCulture Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    8 min
  3. Coming Out in Public at 47: Mark Foster | CHAPS OUT

    30 juni

    Coming Out in Public at 47: Mark Foster | CHAPS OUT

    In this powerful episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott is joined by six-time world champion and former world record-breaking swimmer Mark Foster to discuss his new book, “My Double Life” (Bloomsbury- out July 2nd 2026) and talk about the story behind the medals. Growing up in Essex, becoming one of Britain's greatest swimmers and spending decades in the public eye, Mark reveals why he didn't come out publicly until the age of 47, the loneliness that came with success, and the freedom he found in finally being himself. From inventing a girlfriend to hiding a long-term relationship, Mark speaks candidly about the pressures of elite sport, the fear of being seen, and the moving support he received from his mother. He shares the extraordinary words from a psychologist who told him, "You didn't win Olympic gold because you didn't want to be seen", and explains why, in his own words, "The longer you hold onto a secret, the bigger and bigger it becomes." This is a conversation about identity, masculinity, growing up in Britain in the 1970s and 80s, and why it's never too late to live authentically. Whether you know Mark Foster from the swimming pool, Strictly Come Dancing or his broadcasting career, this is the most personal side of one of Britain's most recognisable sportsmen. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach those who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ And don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests return to recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #MarkFoster #Swimming #Olympics #ComingOut #ChapsOut #LGBTQ #WorldRecord #MentalHealth #BritishSwimming #MyDoubleLife #autobiography Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    38 min
  4. Coming Out at 44: Dave Turner | CHAPS OUT

    9 juni

    Coming Out at 44: Dave Turner | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of #ChapsOut, host Grant Philpott is joined by Dave Turner who shares his journey of coming out at 44 and how one life-changing decision transformed not only his own life, but his relationship with his daughter. From years of hiding his true self to discovering the courage to live openly, Dave reflects on fatherhood, authenticity, resilience, and the unexpected rewards of stepping into who you really are. This is a moving story about courage, family, and the profound impact that honesty can have on the people we love most. If you've ever struggled with being yourself, faced a difficult life decision, or wondered whether authenticity is worth the risk, this episode is for you. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ComingOut #LGBTQ #Bisexual #ComingOutStory #Fatherhood #Authenticity #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth #LGBTQStories #ChapsOut Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    31 min
  5. Coming Out at 67: Philip Nettleton | CHAPS OUT

    27 maj

    Coming Out at 67: Philip Nettleton | CHAPS OUT

    Content Warning: This episode contains discussions of coercive control, blackmail, emotional abuse, mental health crisis and suicidal thoughts which some viewers may find distressing In this episode of #ChapsOut, host Grant Philpott is joined by Philip Nettleton who shares his story of coming out at 67 after decades in a heterosexual marriage. A secret relationship became a toxic situation involving coercive control, threats and blackmail that ultimately forced him out of the closet. Philip speaks candidly about the pressure of living a double life, the impact on his wife and family, reaching a mental health crisis, and the difficult process of rebuilding his life. An emotional, honest and ultimately hopeful conversation about identity, shame, love, loss and finally living authentically. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ChapsOut #podcast #uk #British #Men #comingout #LaterInLife #lgbtq #mentalwellness #LGBTQPodcast #GayMen #ComingOutLaterInLife #AuthenticLiving Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    31 min
  6. Chaps Out Culture: Neil Delaney champions Stonewall (2015)

    22 maj ·  Bonusinnehåll

    Chaps Out Culture: Neil Delaney champions Stonewall (2015)

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture, host Grant Philpott is joined again by Neil Delaney who recommends Stonewall, the powerful historical drama inspired by the Stonewall riots. Neil reflects on how the film helped shape and inspire him after coming out, while exploring the real-life events on Christopher Street in 1969 that sparked the modern Pride movement. From police raids and oppression to the uprising led by members of the LGBTQ+ community fighting back against brutality and discrimination, this conversation looks at one of the most important moments in queer history. Neil also shares his emotional visit to the Stonewall memorial in New York and explains why the story still resonates today. If you enjoy this episode, subscribe, leave a five-star review, and check out Neil’s full interview on the main episode of Chaps Out. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #Stonewall #Pride #PrideMonth #LGBTQ #LGBTQHistory #QueerHistory #GayHistory #StonewallRiots #TheOriginsOfPride #PrideMovement #ChristopherStreet #QueerVoices #LGBTQCommunity #LoveIsLove #Podcast #FilmTok #MovieRecommendation #HistoryTok #ChapsOutCulture #Shorts Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    6 min

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UK-based podcast where men share their stories of coming out later-in-life. chapsoutpod.substack.com

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