Parenting Matters

Rebecca Walsh and Belann Giarretto
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Parenting Matters is a brand-new podcast from Early Childhood Matters, hosted by parenting educators Rebecca Walsh and Belann Giarretto. Each episode tackles real questions from real parents—covering everything from toddler tantrums to teen boundaries with warmth, insight, and zero judgment. Whether you’re in the thick of sleepless nights or navigating screen time battles, Parenting Matters is here to support you with practical advice and honest conversation. Listen, share, and join the community - because your parenting matters.

  1. −6 d

    Episode 16: The Anger Reset: Teaching Emotional Regulation by Modeling It First

    Episode 16: The Anger Reset: Teaching Emotional Regulation by Modeling It First In this episode of Parenting Matters, we’re talking about the very real challenges of managing parental anger when kids are home more and routines feel different. We’ll explore why summer stress can push our patience to the limit, how to recognize our triggers before emotions take over, and practical strategies for responding with more calm and connection. You’ll learn how to create space for your own emotions, communicate boundaries without shame or blame, and model healthy ways of handling big feelings—so your children can learn those skills, too. If you’ve found yourself counting down the minutes until bedtime, feeling touched out, or wondering how to stay patient through the rest of summer, this episode offers encouragement and tools to help you reset. Because the goal isn’t perfect parenting—it’s building stronger relationships, one moment at a time. Connect with us: Website: earlychildhoodmatters.com/podcast Instagram: @EarlyChildhoodMattersSF Facebook facebook.com/ecmsf Got a question for a future episode? List it in the comments, comment on our web site, or email info@earlychildhoodmatters.org. We’d love to hear from you! If you enjoyed this episode: Please follow or subscribe wherever you listen. Leave us a rating or review—it really helps other parents find the show Share this episode with a friend or parent group! It’s by word of mouth that our small business grows best! Chapters (00:00:00) - Parenting Real Talk(00:00:59) - How to Manage Anger(00:03:27) - How to Help Your Child Get Angry ((00:08:38) - How to Talk About Anger When You're Angry(00:10:28) - The Need to Stop Yelling(00:11:05) - Other Alternatives to Yelling(00:14:23) - Anger Management Strategies for Children(00:18:58) - How to help your child with anger and sadness(00:22:50) - Understanding Your Child's Traits(00:24:57) - How to Talk to Your Child About Anger(00:29:40) - How to Talk to an Angry Child(00:31:30) - Parenting Real Talk

    Episode 16: The Anger Reset: Teaching Emotional Regulation by Modeling It First

  2. 7 apr.

    Episode 15: Overcoming Perfectionism: How to Encourage Risk Taking and Growth in Kids

    Episode 15: Overcoming Perfectionism: How to Encourage Risk Taking and Growth in Kids Moving from "I Can’t" to "I’ll Try" In this episode, we explore the "perfectionism trap" and how our own praise might be accidentally stopping our kids from taking risks. Questions we answer: - How do I help my child keep going when they want to give up after failing at a physical task, like falling off a bike? - How should I respond when my child refuses to draw or try art because they don’t think they are "good" at it? - How do I re-engage a child who was previously "natural" at something (like puzzles) but now quits the moment it becomes challenging? How can I stop "over-functioning" for my child in daily tasks—like dressing or building—so they develop the resiliency to handle their own struggles? The Takeaway: Whether it's a bike ride or a "potty word" marathon, your child isn't looking for a "foolish" adult who can't be bothered—they are looking for a leader who loves them enough to set a limit. Are you struggling with a "mountain" that started as a "molehill"? Reach out and let us know. We'll try to answer on an upcoming episode! Connect with us: Website: earlychildhoodmatters.com/podcast Instagram: @EarlyChildhoodMattersSF Facebook facebook.com/ecmsf Got a question for a future episode? List it in the comments, comment on our web site, or email info@earlychildhoodmatters.org. We’d love to hear from you! If you enjoyed this episode: Please follow or subscribe wherever you listen. Leave us a rating or review—it really helps other parents find the show Share this episode with a friend or parent group! It’s by word of mouth that our small business grows best! Chapters (00:00:00) - Parenting Matters(00:00:56) - How Perfectionism Affects Children(00:02:49) - Wonders of the World(00:08:40) - Paul Feist on Praise for Children(00:13:40) - How to Encourage a Child to Do Things(00:17:44) - I Can Do Hard Things For My Child(00:22:10) - The Importance of Independence for Kids(00:25:51) - How to Talk About Your Mistakes (with Your Child!)(00:27:35) - Drawing for Chris Finch(00:29:58) - Parenting Matters

  3. 16 mars

    Episode 14: Why You Should Never Ignore Behavior That You Don’t Like

    Parenting advice often says to “just ignore it,” but what message does that actually send to a child? In this episode, we dive into the complexities of responding to challenging behaviors—from tantrums to those small but persistent habits that test every parent’s patience. Learn more about how ignoring certain behaviors can create confusion for children and why our reactions play a powerful role in shaping what they learn. We discuss being present during difficult moments, setting loving but firm limits, and helping children understand boundaries. We also talk about how kids observe adult reactions, why they test limits for reassurance, and how parents and caregivers can redirect behavior in ways that build confidence and emotional security. Finally, we discuss the role of socializing children—teaching them when certain language or behaviors are appropriate and how to navigate different environments. Explore our strategies to help you respond with clarity, connection, and intention—even in the most frustrating moments. In This Episode, We Explore: What message does ignoring a child’s behavior actually send? How do children learn from the way adults react to their actions? Why can setting limits be one of the clearest ways to show love and care? What might children feel when their tantrums are ignored? Why do children test boundaries, and what are they really looking for in those moments? When should parents address annoying behaviors instead of ignoring them? How can redirecting behavior be more effective than simply tuning it out? What does it really mean to socialize children and teach them appropriate language? Why is it important to acknowledge every feeling—even difficult ones? How do clear boundaries help children feel safer and more secure? Connect with us: Website: earlychildhoodmatters.com/podcast Instagram: @EarlyChildhoodMattersSF Facebook facebook.com/ecmsf Got a question for a future episode? List it in the comments, comment on our web site, or email info@earlychildhoodmatters.org. We’d love to hear from you! If you enjoyed this episode: Please follow or subscribe wherever you listen. Leave us a rating or review—it really helps other parents find the show Share this episode with a friend or parent group! It’s by word of mouth that our small business grows best! Chapters (00:00:00) - Parenting Matters(00:01:12) - Don't Ignore People's Behavior(00:08:30) - Don't Ignore Child Behavior(00:12:00) - The Parenting of Children(00:13:29) - Setting Limits for Abusive Behavior(00:17:30) - Banging on the Floor With a Child(00:20:14) - Potty Talk(00:24:58) - Using Words in Front of Kids(00:28:01) - How to Talk to a Child About Words(00:32:13) - Why Not to Ignore a Tantrum(00:37:37) - Parenting Matters: Alternatives to Eggshells

    Episode 14: Why You Should Never Ignore Behavior That You Don’t Like

  4. 27 jan.

    Episode 13: Not listening, not getting dressed and tantrums, oh my! - Our most common parenting questions answered

    If your preschooler ignores you, refuses shoes, or collapses into a puddle the moment you say “no,” this episode is for you. We unpack why these behaviors happen, why they happen even more with a strong-willed child, and share practical strategies to help you get back your confidence and your joy in parenting. In this episode, we tackle three of the most common—and exhausting—challenges parents of preschoolers face: not listening, power struggles over everyday routines, and full-blown tantrums when the answer is “no.” Drawing from decades of professional experience and many personal parenting stories, we explore why these behaviors are not signs of “bad parenting,” but normal developmental phases—especially for strong-willed, spirited children. Through real-life examples like refusing to put on shoes, throwing snack wrappers on the floor, and melting down over yogurt before dinner, we break down practical, compassionate strategies that actually work. We discuss why repeating yourself undermines authority, how to set clear limits without punishment, and how calmly following through builds trust, self-esteem, and emotional resilience in young children. This conversation reframes “choosing your battles,” explains why giving in during tantrums backfires, and shows parents how to stay steady in the face of big feelings—without yelling, bribing, or threatening. Most importantly, it reminds parents that enjoying parenting is not only possible, but essential, even when raising a challenging child. If you’ve ever felt worn down by daily power struggles or unsure how to respond when your child tests limits, this episode offers reassurance, perspective, and concrete tools to help you parent with confidence and calm. Connect with us: Website: earlychildhoodmatters.com/podcast Instagram: @EarlyChildhoodMattersSF Facebook facebook.com/ecmsf Got a question for a future episode? List it in the comments, comment on our web site, or email info@earlychildhoodmatters.org. We’d love to hear from you! If you enjoyed this episode: Please follow or subscribe wherever you listen. Leave us a rating or review—it really helps other parents find the show! Chapters (00:00:00) - Parenting Matters(00:01:03) - 3 Questions for Parents of Pre-Schoolers(00:07:55) - Don't Ask Your Child to Listen to You(00:13:04) - How to Train a Child's Respect(00:16:48) - When Does My Child Refuse To Put On His Shoes?(00:20:46) - Choosing Your Battles(00:26:17) - Reasons for No-Reaction Decisions(00:30:39) - The T tantrum(00:32:06) - Parenting Matters

  5. 2025-12-29

    Episode 12: And Mom and Dad Can Hardly Wait for School to Start Again

    Rebecca and Belann dive into the complexities of sibling dynamics, especially the everyday challenges parents face around bedtime routines, discipline, and perceived fairness. Drawing on real-life examples and practical strategies, they explore how parents can respond with consistency, calmness, and clarity while strengthening sibling relationships. Throughout the episode, they emphasize the impact of parental presence, preparation, and communication on children’s behavior and emotional security. Covered in this episode: Bedtime has been a total circus lately! One will be going to brush his teeth and then the younger one will decide to do a nudy run and then the older who was originally on task, will follow. They are starting to figure out they can team up against us!   My younger sibling weaponizes being the youngest! She screams, gets away with things and I am often at a loss of how to discipline. You never get Rosie in trouble, she’s your favorite-if I did that I would have been in so much trouble-why doesn’t she have a consequence? This episode offers thoughtful insights and actionable tools for parents navigating the emotional and logistical challenges of raising siblings. Connect with us: Website: earlychildhoodmatters.com/podcast Instagram: @EarlyChildhoodMattersSF Facebook facebook.com/ecmsf Got a question for a future episode? List it in the comments, comment on our web site, or email info@earlychildhoodmatters.org. We’d love to hear from you! If you enjoyed this episode: Please follow or subscribe wherever you listen. Leave us a rating or review—it really helps other parents find the show Share this episode with a friend or parent group! It’s by word of mouth that our small business grows best! Chapters (00:00:00) - Parenting Matters: Real Talk From Kids to Teens(00:01:12) - Sibling Questions(00:01:46) - How To Have Different Bedtimes For Your Child(00:06:16) - How to Deal with an Overwhelmment by Kids(00:10:31) - The Power of Remarks(00:12:29) - Bedtime strategies(00:14:23) - How to Discipline the Younger Sibling ((00:20:06) - You're Worth Your Time(00:22:24) - Sibling Question: Why Doesn't My Daughter Get In Trouble?(00:26:47) - How to Talk to Your Child About Bad Behavior(00:28:02) - How to Build Up a Troublesome Child(00:33:28) - Parenting Matters

  6. 2025-11-25

    Episode 11: The Gift of Enough: What Children Teach Us About the Magic of the Holiday Season

    Short Overview: Rebecca explores the beautiful (and sometimes jarring) contrast between Thanksgiving gratitude and the consumer rush of Black Friday and the holiday season. She reflects on how to nurture a spirit of thankfulness in young children, shares her family’s long-loved gratitude traditions, and offers gentle ways to shift the holiday focus from buying to truly being together. If you’re looking for a heart-forward, calmer holiday season and a thoughtful gift guide, this episode will leave you inspired, grounded, and ready to create magic that lasts far beyond Christmas morning. Rebecca also breaks down her early childhood teacher approved approach to gift giving — including the play-based curriculum framework she uses to choose toys that last, spark creativity, and discourage materialism. From blocks and dramatic play to arts, outdoor toys, sensory materials, books, music, and experiences, she highlights meaningful gift ideas that grow with children rather than overwhelm them. Check out our 'ECM Approved' holiday gift guide here. Full transcript here.   Connect with us: Website: earlychildhoodmatters.com/podcast Instagram: @EarlyChildhoodMattersSF Facebook facebook.com/ecmsf Got a question for a future episode? List it in the comments, comment on our web site, or email info@earlychildhoodmatters.org. We’d love to hear from you! If you enjoyed this episode: Please follow or subscribe wherever you listen. Leave us a rating or review—it really helps other parents find the show Share this episode with a friend or parent group! It’s by word of mouth that our small business grows best!

  7. 2025-11-11

    Episode 10: Sibling Rivalry

    Episode 10: Sibling Rivalry — Rethinking Fairness at Home In this episode, Rebecca and Belann unpack the roots of sibling rivalry and explore why striving for perfect fairness can sometimes make things worse. Learn how to help your kids navigate feelings of unfairness, celebrate their differences, and build stronger, more understanding relationships with each other. They answer the questions: What is the role of the concept of fairness in sibling rivalry and how does it impact children?  Why might striving for fairness (in the sense of equality) actually exacerbate conflict between siblings?  How can parents help children understand and accept differences between siblings, instead of consistently treating everything as “fair”? How can parents support children in navigating feelings of unfairness—rather than simply trying to make everything equal? To view the equity/equality image Rebeca mentions, please visit our site: https://www.earlychildhoodmatters.org/podcast Connect with us: Website: earlychildhoodmatters.com/podcast Instagram: @EarlyChildhoodMattersSF Facebook facebook.com/ecmsf Got a question for a future episode? List it in the comments, comment on our web site, or email info@earlychildhoodmatters.org. We’d love to hear from you! If you enjoyed this episode: Please follow or subscribe wherever you listen. Leave us a rating or review—it really helps other parents find the show Share this episode with a friend or parent group! It’s by word of mouth that our small business grows best!   Chapters (00:00:00) - Parenting Matters(00:01:03) - How to Prevent sibling conflict(00:04:09) - Setting the Tone for a Family(00:07:49) - Parents Get Involved in Children's Fights(00:08:17) - Always Want Everything to Be Fair(00:13:15) - The Right to a Deficit(00:13:51) - Fighting in the Family(00:18:36) - The Problem-Solving Approach to Children(00:21:58) - How To Bridge The Gap Between My Younger Child and My Older Son(00:27:11) - How To Have A Good Night's Sleep(00:27:51) - Parenting Matters

  8. 2025-10-15

    Episode 9: Baby Makes 4 - Navigating the Transition to a New Sibling

    Connect with us: Website: earlychildhoodmatters.com/podcast Instagram: @EarlyChildhoodMattersSF Facebook facebook.com/ecmsf   Got a question for a future episode? List it in the comments, comment on our web site, or email info@earlychildhoodmatters.org. We’d love to hear from you! If you enjoyed this episode: Please follow or subscribe wherever you listen. Leave us a rating or review—it really helps other parents find the show Share this episode with a friend or parent group! It’s by word of mouth that our small business grows best! Chapters (00:00:00) - Parenting Matters(00:01:01) - How to Help Your Child Transition to a Sister(00:07:17) - The Secret to More Love For Your Child(00:09:30) - The Divide and Conquer With My Daughter(00:13:18) - Going back to school for 3 year old(00:15:04) - Never Hit Your Baby(00:18:33) - Other ideas for nursing your child while reading a story(00:23:32) - How to Stop Hitting the Baby!(00:28:29) - The guilt of hugging a baby(00:29:35) - The Greatest Gifts a Sister Can Offer a Child(00:35:07) - Parenting Matters

    Episode 9: Baby Makes 4 - Navigating the Transition to a New Sibling
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Parenting Matters is a brand-new podcast from Early Childhood Matters, hosted by parenting educators Rebecca Walsh and Belann Giarretto. Each episode tackles real questions from real parents—covering everything from toddler tantrums to teen boundaries with warmth, insight, and zero judgment. Whether you’re in the thick of sleepless nights or navigating screen time battles, Parenting Matters is here to support you with practical advice and honest conversation. Listen, share, and join the community - because your parenting matters.

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  • Skapad av
    Rebecca Walsh and Belann Giarretto
  • Aktiva år
    2025 - 2026
  • Avsnitt
    17
  • Åldersgräns
    Vuxet innehåll
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Early Childhood Matters
  • Programmets webbplats
    Parenting Matters

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