“If you think AI will solve all your problems, you don’t understand AI, and you don’t understand your problems.” — Mike Goitein Meet Dennis Berry Dennis Berry runs a unique marketing business from sunny Playa del Carmen, Mexico. He’s a long way from the mountains he grew up in and used to call home. Consistency & Adaptation Dennis’s big insight is that the life most people were trained for no longer exists. He shares the example of the entrenched taxi industry, which had everything– it owned cars, licenses, and the customers, and still lost to Uber (which I wrote up here), because it spent billions trying to hold onto a broken model that customers hated instead of doing anything to fix it. For Dennis, the operators who win are those who adapt the fastest, which beats the smartest and the best-funded. Values-First, Not Cash-First Dennis is a firm believer in writing a business plan for your life before you chase the money, and start with your values, because too many people skip that step and spend years working toward a goal that never fits who they really are. He’s equally blunt about how true, lasting change happens. A few solid choices repeated over a long stretch, with all the boredom and setbacks that come with it, will outperform heroic, sporadic bursts of effort every time. The same disciplined approach that gets someone sober or lean is the same one that builds a lasting company aligned with who you are. The implications of AI for life & business The last third of our conversation is the part most relevant to anyone building anything right now. Dennis and I come at AI from opposite directions and meet in the same place. I lay out how connection, storytelling, taste, and judgment remain as the only things AI can’t copy. Dennis shows how every product, including ChatGPT, Claude, and social media, all run on the dopamine economy, that obsession with a constant hit of red dots, badges, shields, and alerts. Short-form video and the sensationalist narratives promoting the news work on the same receptors in the brain. Dennis’s alternative: Get outside, build real relationships, and play a long enough game that a contact from six years ago can still become a twenty-five-thousand-dollar client. Key Takeaways * Adapt faster than you resist. The entrenched taxi industry owned the cars, the licenses, and the customers, and still lost, because it spent billions fighting Uber instead of fixing the model everyone already hated. Faster adaptation beats being the first to market or the smartest. * Write a business plan for your life, and start with your values. Most people can name where they are and where they want to go, but they’ve never defined their values, so they spend years chasing a superficial goal, usually money, that was never aligned with who they were in the first place. Life isn’t about achieving goals so much as striving toward them in a way that’s aligned with your values. * A few solid choices repeated regularly will outperform sporadic binges of intensity. Nobody undoes twenty years of a problem in a week. What kills most people is having no system for change, hitting one early setback, and giving up. Not quitting, adapting, and consistent regular effort gets you most of the way there. * In an AI-saturated market, being human is the edge. Twenty years ago, having a website set a business apart. Now that everything is automated and generated, the standouts are connection, storytelling, taste, and judgment, because machines can only imitate those aspects. * Relationships compound over time, so build the pipeline before you need it. A contact Dennis hadn’t spoken to in six years called out of the blue with a client referral who eventually signed for five-figure contract. I coach people to favor direct messages over public posts about five to one, because that’s where trust and connection get built. * Be discerning about where you bet on AI. Dennis believes that only the big frontier LLMs like OpenAI or Anthropic can afford to absorb their mistakes with billions of investors’ money. The AI we use in five years won’t resemble today’s LLMs, and nobody knows yet what it will be. * Everything is a path to marketing, so guard your attention. The evening news carries maybe ten minutes of actual news wrapped in hours of manufactured drama, built to keep you watching through the ad breaks. Short-form video wreaks havoc on your dopamine in the same way. Set a timer, then get off the screen. Highlight Quotes “Just because I live here (in Playa del Carmen) doesn’t mean I don’t have problems. I just chose to do my problems at the beach.” — Dennis Berry “Most overnight success stories take 2,000 nights. That’s five years.” — Dennis Berry “If you think AI will solve all your problems, you don’t understand AI, and you don’t understand your problems.” — Mike Goitein “It really is about connection, storytelling, taste, and judgment. AI can do a reasonable facsimile, but it can’t really do it. And we don’t want it to.” — Mike Goitein 4. Resources & Links * Elite Leaders Network — Dennis’ newsletter on leadership and business community * Upgrade to Premium here * The Investor’s Newsletter – Dennis’s investing newsletter, a separate publication on value and fundamental investing * Figma and Figma Config — Figma is the main design tool I support at work, and the Figma conference I attended at the Moscone Center in San Francisco * Laurie Anderson installation at the Hirshhorn — the D.C. exhibit I reference currently showing at The Smithsonian’s Hirchhorn Gallery. It’s here that I saw the line about the fallacy that technology, any technology, will solve your problems * Bill Maher clip — the YouTube segment I mentioned on soccer fans from around the world seeing America for the first time. And helping us remember things aren’t so bad here, after all. Get full access to Product Strategy Decoded at michaelgoitein.substack.com/subscribe