Find Love With Emily

Emily Bucknell

Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

  1. −18 h

    Dating Hasn't Worked? Don't Make This Mistake...

    If you’ve been dating for years, you’re barely holding onto hope you’ll find love while you still have chance… You’ll know how easily the fear, anxiety, overthinking and need to control comes back whenever dating doesn’t go the way you hoped. It’s a normal human reaction. What matters though is what you do next. In this episode, I explain why these moments don’t mean you’ve gone backwards, why they’re not a sign to give up on love and what the women who go on to find love do differently when this happens. You'll learn: Why dating setbacks aren’t a sign you won’t find love What to do when anxiety and overthinking come flooding backWhy trying to control dating only keeps you stuckHow to stop slipping back into old dating patternsThe simple course corrections that keep you moving towards loveWhy finding love isn't about getting everything right, it's about what you do when life and dating knocks you off course. If it feels like dating just hasn’t and won’t work for you, then this episode will give you an entirely new perspective on what’s happening and what this means you do from here to find love. Just because you’ve had a moment where dating hasn’t worked, it doesn’t mean love isn’t. 💖 Episode to listen to next: "Is It Too Late For Me To Find Love And Become A Mum?" 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

  2. −1 d

    How To Break The "3rd Date Curse"

    What doesn’t dating EVER lead you to love? To the relationship you’ve always wanted? Why does it always end at date 2 or 3… if that?! If you’re stuck in this cycle, where you keep meeting men who have potential. The first date goes well. The second date feels even better. You get kinda excited! 🥳 And then… He pulls away. Says he isn’t looking for anything serious. Ghosts you. Or things simply fizzle out before they ever become a real relationship 💔 🎧 Hit play on this episode now! Because inside, I’ll let you in on how to break what one of the women inside AYM calls the “3rd Date Curse”. That frustrating pattern where dating goes well… until it doesn’t. You’ll see why this pattern keeps repeating no matter what you do or how hard you try. And how it has NOTHING to do with a lack of decent, available men who want love or you being someone that the men you want, just don’t “choose”. I also share a story you’ll love from one of the women inside Attract Your man who couldn’t get past a 3rd date for years. …until one simple question I asked her changed everything. Seriously. She’s now getting married to the man she once believed she’d never meet (and on their son’s first birthday too!). In this episode you'll learn: Why it’s so hard to get past a 2nd or 3rd dateThe hidden belief that means dating never leads to an actual relationshipWhy this has nothing to do with menHow your expectations shape your dating experiencesWhy trying harder, texting differently or playing hard to get won't fix the problemHow to stop expecting relationships to fall apart before they've even begunThe real reason some women naturally move from dating into committed relationships. If you're exhausted by getting excited about someone only to find yourself back at square one a few weeks later, this episode will help you understand why that keeps happening and how to finally break the cycle. 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

  3. −4 d

    3 Things That Determine Whether (Or Not) You Find Love

    I’ve had 1,633 women join Attract Your Man and honestly? Not every woman who joins finds love 🫣 I’ve watched 100s of women meet incredible men, engaged, married, become mothers. But this doesn't happen for everyone. And so I’ve spent the last year asking… WHY?   It's not because what I teach in AYM doesn’t work. It's not because there’s a lack of the right men. It's not because dating’s changed in a way that makes finding love harder. There are 3 clear reasons some women find love (and fast!) inside AYM and others simply don't. Inside this episode, I share those 3 reasons. And how I’ve now completely changed the structure of Attract Your Man, so no one who wants love gets left behind. In this episode you'll learn: Why some women find love through Attract Your Man while others don'tThe three things that actually determine whether or not you find loveHow Attract Your Man is now structured in a way that makes easier to find love (and easier to join!)How consistency creates lasting change (not perfection)Why dating “setback” aren’t setbacks at allWhat you need around you to stay on track until love happens for you too. If you've ever bought a course, started strong and then slowly drifted away from it… Or wondered why nothing seems to help you actually find love… Then this episode will clear up all of this for you. 🎧 Hit play to listen now! 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

  4. 19 juli

    Exhausted By Dating? [Do This For Love]

    Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does...  And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌  Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because: ❌ There's something wrong with you ❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless  ❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men  ❌ Or that love's just not meant for you.  It's simply that love ALWAYS follows the one rule: Love follows love.  And right now, if:  ✔️ You're scared you'll never find love ✔️ It feels like maybe love's not meant for you ✔️ You're exhausted by dating ✔️ You feel the pressure to find love fast (while you still have a chance) ✔️ And it's been months (or even years) since you've been on a decent date...  Then those are big old signs that you're not following the one rule love does.  Thankfully it's an easy fix.  Be sure to follow Find Love With Emily and tune in every Monday for Do This To Find Love, where I show you how.  Because it's these simple steps (not more of the usual BS dating advice) that make dating easier and are how love happens for you from here.  Love always,  Em xx 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

  5. 18 juli

    Finding Love Gets Easier When You Stop Doing This

    If the fact that you’re still single (after years of dating!) feels like the biggest problem in your life right now, this episode will tell you what needs to happen for you to actually solve this problem and find love. As you know, dating more, trying harder to be the kind of woman you think men want, overthinking, strategizing, following allllll the dating advice… While it makes logical sense, it doesn’t actually help you find love. So what if finding love was never a problem you were supposed to solve in the first place? In this episode, I share a perspective that completely changes the way you'll think about dating and finding love. It explains why trying so hard has left you exhausted rather than closer to the relationship you want. And why finding love gets so much easier when you take an entirely different approach. Inside this episode, you'll see: Why wanting love so badly can accidentally turn it into a problem you're constantly trying to fix.The reason all the strategizing and trying harder never changes your experience of dating.The surprisingly simple shift that makes finding love feel lighter, easier and far more enjoyable.What your actual role is when it comes to finding love (and where you have to release control).Why so many women inside Attract YOUR Man found love after they stopped approaching dating the way everyone tells them to. If you're tired of feeling like finding love is a problem you have to solve (and it’s ALL resting on your shoulders), this episode will leave you feeling relieved, hopeful and excited about finding love again 🙌 🎧 Hit play to listen now! 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

  6. 12 juli

    Exhausted By Dating? [Do This For Love]

    Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does...  And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌  Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because: ❌ There's something wrong with you ❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless  ❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men  ❌ Or that love's just not meant for you.  It's simply that love ALWAYS follows the one rule: Love follows love.  And right now, if:  ✔️ You're scared you'll never find love ✔️ It feels like maybe love's not meant for you ✔️ You're exhausted by dating ✔️ You feel the pressure to find love fast (while you still have a chance) ✔️ And it's been months (or even years) since you've been on a decent date...  Then those are big old signs that you're not following the one rule love does.  Thankfully it's an easy fix.  Be sure to follow Find Love With Emily and tune in every Monday for Do This To Find Love, where I show you how.  Because it's these simple steps (not more of the usual BS dating advice) that make dating easier and are how love happens for you from here.  Love always,  Em xx 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

  7. 11 juli

    How To Feel Confident Dating

    If dating makes you feel nervous, insecure or you feel the pressure to get things “right” this episode is for you. So often single women over 30 are told to build your confidence dating, simply by dating more. But you’ve been dating for 3+ years, you’ve probably also realized that isn’t actually true! In this episode, I share how you actually build dating confidence and why simply forcing yourself to date more isn’t the answer. Because if on every date… 🫣 The stakes feel HIGH 🫢 You’re terrified or doing or saying the wrong thing 💔 Being rejected 🤦‍♀️ Messing up this chance at love Then it’s almost impossible to relax, actually enjoy yourself and genuinely connect with the man you’re with. And love can’t happen. In this episode you’ll discover the 4 STEPS that build solid dating confidence. These are the steps I took that helped me go from cancelling on dates last minute because I was too scared to go, to genuinely loving dating!! And it was this confidence I gained that meant within ONLY 4 WEEKS I’d met my husband 💫❤️😲 In this episode you'll learn: Why dating feels so scary (even if you're confident everywhere else in life).The real reason dating more doesn't automatically make you more confident.The beliefs that quietly destroy your confidence before you even go on a date.How to stop making every date feel like such high stakes.Why the right man doesn't need a perfect version of you.The perspective shift that calms pre-date nerves so you can date with confidence. 🎧 Listen to next: How To Use Dating Apps To Find Love Why The Right Men Don’t Notice You [Do This For Love] 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

  8. 5 juli

    Why The Right Men Don’t Notice You [Do This For Love]

    Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does...  And infinitely closer to actually finding love 🙌  Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because: ❌ There's something wrong with you ❌ Dating in 2026 is hopeless  ❌ There's lack of genuine, loving, available men  ❌ Or that love's just not meant for you.  It's simply that love ALWAYS follows the one rule: Love follows love.  And right now, if:  ✔️ You're scared you'll never find love ✔️ It feels like maybe love's not meant for you ✔️ You're exhausted by dating ✔️ You feel the pressure to find love fast (while you still have a chance) ✔️ And it's been months (or even years) since you've been on a decent date...  Then those are big old signs that you're not following the one rule love does.  Thankfully it's an easy fix.  Be sure to follow Find Love With Emily and tune in every Monday for Do This To Find Love, where I show you how.  Because it's these simple steps (not more of the usual BS dating advice) that make dating easier and are how love happens for you from here.  Love always,  Em xx 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man 💌 Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/question Or send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemily And if you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find. If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why. Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you. This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes. Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.

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