You Seem Great

Talia and Becca

Welcome to the You Seem Great podcast, where Talia Goldstein and Becca Klein talk about swiping, dating, and relationships. Each episode covers specific topics to help listeners better understand and navigate early dating and relationship building. With over 20 years of combined experience as matchmakers and experts in the field, Talia and Becca offer a unique perspective that every single needs to hear. Tune in weekly for the latest insights and learn how to become a better dater. Dating is hard, but the You Seem Great podcast is here to help.

  1. −2 d

    Dating, Fertility & Surrogacy: Amy Weinblum's Story

    What happens when life doesn't follow the timeline you imagined? In this episode, Amy Weinblum shares her deeply personal journey through dating, fertility, and ultimately choosing surrogacy to become a mother. She reflects on the expectations many women grow up with, the reality of navigating relationships later in life, and the difficult decisions that come with balancing love, family, and time. Amy opens up about realizing she wanted motherhood more than the "perfect" timeline, the emotional process of pursuing surrogacy, and the resilience it took to keep moving forward when life unfolded differently than she had planned. We also discuss the parallels between matchmaking and family-building, how perspectives around motherhood are changing, and why there is no single path to creating a family. Along the way, Amy shares stories from both her personal experience and her work helping others navigate similar journeys. Whether you're dating, thinking about starting a family, exploring fertility options, or simply looking for a story of resilience and hope, this conversation offers an honest reminder that life's most meaningful chapters don't always happen the way we expect—and that's okay. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation about dating, fertility, surrogacy, motherhood, and embracing the path that's right for you. Join our Matchmaking network ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

  2. 11 juli

    The Biggest Dating Mistakes People Don't Realize They're Making

    If you've ever wondered whether you should trust the butterflies or focus on long-term compatibility, this episode explores the difference—and why it matters. We dive into one of the biggest misconceptions in modern dating: the belief that instant chemistry is the best predictor of a successful relationship. Instead, we talk about why compatibility, shared values, and the ability to grow together often create stronger, more lasting connections than an immediate spark. This conversation also explores how fear and insecurity can quietly shape the way we date, from overthinking rejection to making assumptions after a first date. We discuss practical ways to approach dating with more confidence, communicate more authentically, and create opportunities for meaningful connection instead of waiting for everything to happen organically. Along the way, we share simple mindset shifts, common dating pitfalls, and actionable advice for navigating first dates, disappointment, cancellations, and the expectations we often place on ourselves and others. If you've been feeling discouraged by dating or questioning what you should really be looking for, this episode offers a grounded perspective on building relationships that last. Tune in for a conversation about compatibility, confidence, and why the strongest relationships are often built—not discovered in a single spark. Join our Matchmaking network ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

  3. 25 juni

    Success Story: When the Right Person Doesn't Match the Checklist

    If you've ever dismissed someone because they didn't fit your usual type, this episode might make you think twice. In this conversation, Chris and Christine share the story of how they met, the assumptions they had going into dating, and why their relationship worked despite not checking every box on paper. From age differences and first impressions to post-date feedback and unexpected chemistry, they reflect on what happened when they stayed open to the possibility of something different. This episode explores the importance of authenticity, clear communication, and letting go of rigid expectations in dating. Chris and Christine talk about the qualities that mattered most as their relationship developed, why playing games never appealed to them, and how trust, compatibility, and shared values became the foundation of a lasting partnership. We also discuss a common challenge in modern dating: filtering people out too quickly. Their story is a reminder that meaningful connections don't always arrive in the package we imagined, and that sometimes the best relationships begin when we're willing to look beyond our checklist. If you're navigating dating, questioning your criteria, or wondering whether you're overlooking great potential matches, this episode offers a refreshing perspective from two people who took a chance on each other—and are grateful they did. Tune in for a conversation about openness, connection, and why the right person might surprise you. Join our Matchmaking network ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

  4. 6 juni

    Why You’re Not Getting the Results You Want ft. Alec Mountain

    In this episode with Alec Mountain, we dive into the core ideas behind his book and the patterns that quietly shape how people show up in their lives, relationships, and work. Alec unpacks the main concept of the book and the stories that informed it, highlighting how behavior—not just intention—drives outcomes. We explore the subtle factors that influence success, from timing and communication to the small habits people often overlook. A key theme in this discussion is the idea of “leaks”—the unnoticed behaviors and patterns that can negatively impact your results without you realizing it. From being late to how we approach commitments and interactions, these small signals often add up in meaningful ways. We also touch on gender differences in behavior, what people tend to miss when trying to improve outcomes, and why self-awareness is often the missing piece between effort and real progress. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing “everything right” but not seeing the results you want, this conversation offers a grounded look at what might actually be getting in the way—and how to start recognizing it. Connect with us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or visit our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more. Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more about matchmaking. Click here to learn more about Alec's book!

  5. 20 maj

    The Psychology of Attraction, Confidence & Healthy Relationships ft. Bree Jacoby

    If you’ve ever wondered how confidence, attraction, and self-worth all connect in dating and relationships, this episode gets into it. Along with celebrity stylist and fashion expert Bree Jacoby, we talk about the psychology behind style, the energy people bring into relationships, and how confidence changes the way you date, connect, and show up in the world. This conversation explores the deeper relationship between self-image and attraction— from the way people present themselves to the emotional patterns that shape who they choose and why certain relationships work while others don’t. Bree shares her perspective on styling men and women, how appearance can impact confidence, and why feeling good in yourself often changes the kind of relationships you attract. We also get into masculine and feminine dynamics, emotional maturity, dating standards, and the difference between surface-level chemistry and true compatibility. Throughout the episode, we discuss healing after difficult relationships, recognizing alignment, and what it actually looks like when someone consistently shows up for you in the right way. If you’re dating, rebuilding confidence, or trying to better understand modern relationships and attraction, this episode offers an honest and grounded perspective on self-worth, emotional connection, and personal growth. Tune in for a candid conversation about dating, confidence, attraction, relationships, and becoming the version of yourself that naturally attracts healthier connections. Connect with us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or visit our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more. Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more about matchmaking.

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Welcome to the You Seem Great podcast, where Talia Goldstein and Becca Klein talk about swiping, dating, and relationships. Each episode covers specific topics to help listeners better understand and navigate early dating and relationship building. With over 20 years of combined experience as matchmakers and experts in the field, Talia and Becca offer a unique perspective that every single needs to hear. Tune in weekly for the latest insights and learn how to become a better dater. Dating is hard, but the You Seem Great podcast is here to help.

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