Herselfish

Kathryn

Hello and welcome to Herselfish! I am your host Kat and I am so happy you are here! This podcast is for the ones who are healing, self improving, and rediscovering themselves. By creating this podcast my goal is to create a community of people that want to change for the better and to take negative experiences and trauma to better your life.

  1. 4 days ago

    If YOU wanted to, YOU would | Stop Making Excuses and Start Taking Action

    Hello and welcome to Herselfish Podcast! SO, how much longer are you going to make excuses for people who aren't showing up for you? How much longer are you going to wait for someone to choose you, recognize your worth, or give you the bare minimum? In today's episode, we're having an honest, unfiltered conversation about self-worth, relationships, friendships, discipline, personal growth, and learning to stop chasing things that aren't choosing you. We're talking about the uncomfortable truth that sometimes the closure you need is simply accepting someone's actions for what they are. Whether it's a relationship, friendship, career goal, personal dream, or the promises you keep making to yourself, it's time to stop waiting and start showing up. Because here's your reminder: ♡ Stop chasing. Start choosing yourself. ♡ Stop waiting for the perfect moment. ♡ Stop confusing potential with reality. ♡ Stop making excuses for people. ♡ Start becoming the woman you keep saying you want to be. Consider this your big-sister pep talk, your gentle reality check, and your reminder that you deserve a life you're genuinely excited to wake up to. We're in our choosing-ourselves era. And this time, we mean it. 🎀 SOCIALS: Instagram-  ⁨@herselfishpodcast⁩   Spotify-  ⁨@herselfishpodcast⁩   Apple Podcasts-  ⁨@herselfishpodcast⁩   💌 LET'S TALK: Have you ever made excuses for someone because you wanted them to show up differently? Tell me in the comments. I want to hear your story! SUBSCRIBE for more girl talk, self-improvement, feminine energy, confidence, healing, motivation, and honest conversations about navigating your 20s. Let's grow together. 🤍 ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ KEYWORDS/SEARCHES: if you wanted to you would, if he wanted to he would, if they wanted to they would, stop making excuses, choose yourself, choose yourself podcast, self improvement for women, personal growth for women, motivational podcast for women, women in their 20s, advice for women in their 20s, girl talk podcast, feminine energy, becoming the best version of yourself, self worth, know your worth, self respect, stop chasing people, stop settling, standards for women, relationship advice for women, dating advice for women, modern dating, healing journey, glow up journey, personal development, self love journey, self love podcast, confidence for women, become confident, discipline over motivation, take control of your life, level up your life, life changing advice, motivational speech, hard truths, reality check, uncomfortable truths, stop overthinking, stop procrastinating, take action, go after your dreams, chase your dreams, make yourself a priority, put yourself first, stop waiting for permission, romanticize your life, hot girl mindset, hot girl era, hot girl habits, becoming her, that girl lifestyle, become that girl, main character energy, feminine self improvement, soft life mindset, high value woman, independent woman, powerful women, women empowerment, female motivation, female friendships, friendship advice, toxic friendships, letting go, walking away, know when to walk away, stop begging for attention, stop forcing relationships, actions speak louder than words, consistency over words, match their energy, protect your peace, emotional maturity, emotional intelligence, personal boundaries, setting boundaries, healthy relationships, relationship standards, stop people pleasing, people pleasing recovery, seeking validation, stop seeking validation, approval seeking, confidence building, self worth reminders, self respect reminders, healing from rejection, healing from heartbreak, moving on, letting go of people, detachment, emotional independence, self discovery, finding yourself, reinvent yourself, life reset, 2027 glow up, new year motivation, new year reset, new year goals, new year resolutions, goal setting for women,

  2. 6 Nov

    ROTTEN FRUIT FALLS ON ITS OWN | Stop Chasing, Stop Explaining & Start Choosing Yourself

    Hello everyone and welcome to a podcast episode of Herselfish!What if you stopped trying to prove your worth to people who have already shown you who they are?What if you stopped chasing apologies, explaining your feelings over and over, and exhausting yourself trying to make people understand you?Girl, it's time to put the phone down. 😂In this episode, we're talking about something every woman in her twenties needs to hear: **rotten fruit falls on its own.**Sometimes you don't need to expose anyone, force an ending, or get the last word. You just need to recognize when something is no longer healthy for you and have the confidence to walk away.We're getting into toxic friendships, outgrowing relationships, protecting your peace, self-worth, emotional maturity, and learning to let people reveal themselves without constantly giving them your energy.Because your twenties should be about becoming the woman you want to be, not spending your best years trying to convince other people to treat you right.**IN THIS EPISODE:**🍒 Stop chasing people for closure.🍒 Why you don't need to explain yourself to everyone.🍒 Outgrowing friendships without feeling guilty.🍒 Recognizing toxic patterns and red flags.🍒 Learning to detach and protect your peace.🍒 Being comfortable with being misunderstood.🍒 Taking accountability for your own growth.🍒 Becoming confident enough to walk away.And a little reminder: this isn't about thinking everyone else is the problem. It's about knowing your worth, recognizing your own patterns, and becoming emotionally mature enough to stop entertaining what no longer serves you.You don't have to shake the tree. You don't have to force the fruit to fall.**LET IT FALL.**If you're a woman in your twenties navigating friendships, relationships, healing, self-improvement, and figuring out who you want to become, grab your coffee and let's talk. 🤍✨ **SUBSCRIBE** for more honest conversations about self-growth, confidence, relationships, femininity, healing, and choosing yourself.💬 **LET'S TALK:** Have you ever had to walk away from someone without getting an apology? Tell me your experience in the comments.SOCIALS:Tiktok, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Podcast, Youtube: @herselfishpodcast#SelfGrowth #WomenInTheir20s #ProtectYourPeace #SelfWorth #PersonalGrowth #Podcast #Podcastforwomen

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Hello and welcome to Herselfish! I am your host Kat and I am so happy you are here! This podcast is for the ones who are healing, self improving, and rediscovering themselves. By creating this podcast my goal is to create a community of people that want to change for the better and to take negative experiences and trauma to better your life.