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Decisions, Decisions

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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.    Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.   From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

  1. You've Got Decisions: I Love My Bf but...

    5 HR AGO ·  BONUS

    You've Got Decisions: I Love My Bf but...

    Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    20 min

  2. 1 DAY AGO

    Selective Ignorance: Ep.58 | Two Sheisty's & A Turkey Baster

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a layered, culture-forward conversation that blends current events, music, race, and sports into one dynamic discussion. The episode opens with sharp cultural commentary on trending headlines and social discourse [ 03:14 ], before shifting into a celebration and critique of 404 Weekend and Atlanta’s cultural influence, highlighting how the city continues to shape music, nightlife, and identity [ 05:46 ]. The hosts then dive into a new wave in R&B with conversations around emerging sounds like “Strap and B” and reflections from a recent listening session that signal shifts in genre evolution [ 08:59 ], followed by a breakdown of Jack Harlow’s controversial collaboration and the racial dynamics embedded in cross-cultural partnerships [ 11:56 ]. The discussion deepens as the crew examines the lawsuit against the Congressional Black Caucus over scholarships for Black students, unpacking the broader implications of race, access, and equity in education [ 17:00 ], and expanding into a nuanced dialogue on racial dynamics and systemic challenges surrounding opportunity [ 24:06 ]. From there, they analyze NASA astronaut Victor Glover’s remarks on race and identity, using his comments as a lens to explore representation, respectability politics, and public perception [ 29:54 ], followed by reflections on disappointment in public figures and the complexities of navigating cultural identity in high-visibility spaces [ 39:01 ]. The conversation pivots into sports, beginning with the excitement and evolving structure of March Madness and college athletics [ 41:05 ], before tackling controversial statements made by athletes and the consequences of speaking publicly on polarizing issues [ 42:55 ]. The hosts examine the intersection of religious beliefs and LGBTQ+ rights, highlighting how personal ideology can shape public discourse and backlash [ 46:21 ], and continue into a deeper conversation about mental health and the weight of public statements in celebrity culture [ 49:32 ]. They also reflect on how celebrity actions impact personal lives and public perception [ 52:50 ], including a breakdown of Deontay Wilder’s controversial claims and their broader implications [ 57:20 ], before closing with a discussion on Poo Shiesty’s legal situation and what it reveals about the music industry, accountability, and systemic pressures [ 01:07:14 ]. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1hr 21min
  3. EP 467: Ozempic Chique

    2 DAYS AGO

    EP 467: Ozempic Chique

    Mandii B and WeezyWTF hold it down for a solo episode of Decisions, Decisions where NYC life takes center stage, from the chaos of reservations running the city to nights out at spots like Corner Store and Double Chicken Please, plus awkward run-ins with managers and the struggle to build real community. The conversation shifts into personal territory as they get honest about aging, body changes, and viral beauty trends like BBL regret and Ozempic culture, before diving into self-confidence, skincare routines, and wild moments like getting dressed in front of a crowd. Later, the duo unpack relationship dynamics with a deep dive into non-monogamy, breaking down communication, boundaries, jealousy, and what it really takes to make it work, all while keeping their signature humor, real-life experiences, and unfiltered storytelling front and center.   “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1hr 11min
  4. Introducing: Keep it Positive, Sweetie

    TRAILER

    Introducing: Keep it Positive, Sweetie

    Keep It Positive, Sweetie is more than a podcast—it’s a movement rooted in purpose, faith, and healing. Hosted by Crystal Renee Hayslett, this show creates a safe space for raw conversations and real connections that uplift, inspire, and empower. Each episode brings together culture-shifting guests for unfiltered talks on love, self-worth, growth, and navigating life with grace and grit. Whether we’re laughing, learning, or leaning into tough truths, the goal is always the same: to keep it honest, keep it healing, and always… Keep It Positive, Sweetie. Listen here and subscribe to Keep it Positive, Sweetie on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    2 min
  5. You've Got Decisions: Are We ENM Because I’m More Experienced ?

    1 APR ·  BONUS

    You've Got Decisions: Are We ENM Because I’m More Experienced ?

    Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    21 min

  6. 31 MAR

    Selective Ignorance: Ep. 57 | Whyte Face, Reactive Abuse & The Billies

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a layered, culture-driven conversation unpacking comedy, accountability, relationships, and media dynamics. The episode opens with an overview of trending topics and cultural tensions shaping the current discourse [ 00:00 ], before diving into the backlash surrounding Druski’s controversial skit and what it reveals about race, humor, and the boundaries of satire in today’s social climate [ 13:05 ]. The conversation then shifts to the cancellation of The Bachelorette amid domestic violence allegations, prompting a deeper discussion about accountability, media narratives, and how abuse is perceived across different audiences [ 23:40 ]. From there, the crew unpack the concept of reactive abuse, exploring the psychological and emotional complexities that often get overlooked in public conversations about toxic relationships [ 30:14 ], followed by a breakdown of viral TikTok trends and how gender dynamics influence online reactions and discourse [ 37:48 ]. The crew then examines Usher’s defense of Diddy, using it as a case study to discuss loyalty, public perception, and the difficulty of holding friends accountable in the public eye [ 46:03 ], which leads into a broader reflection on the complexity of human relationships and moral gray areas [ 55:02 ]. As the conversation evolves, the hosts reflect on celebrity accountability and the expectations placed on public figures[ 58:09 ], before transitioning into a nuanced discussion about the art of interviewing in the music industry, including the gap between audience expectations and real-life interactions with artists like J. Cole and Jay-Z [ 01:00:33 ]. They explore the importance of understanding industry relationships and context when conducting interviews [ 01:02:51 ], along with the role of vulnerability and authenticity in shaping meaningful conversations [ 01:06:03 ]. The episode closes with a thoughtful analysis of Jay-Z’s recent interview, unpacking themes of wealth, morality, and evolving public perception [ 01:09:06 ], and ultimately reflecting on the broader tension between success, ideology, and accountability in today’s cultural landscape [01:12:08 ][ 01:18:08 ]. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1hr 33min
  7. EP 466: The Sparks Are Sparking (feat. Keke Palmer)

    30 MAR

    EP 466: The Sparks Are Sparking (feat. Keke Palmer)

    Keke Palmer joins Mandii B and Weezy for a conversation covering her return to the pod, motherhood, and her evolving approach to wellness, self-awareness, and relationships. She shares stories about an Oscars wardrobe moment, navigating dating and safety, being perceived in the public eye, and how she approaches intimacy, boundaries, and communication. The episode also touches on real conversations on set, generational perspectives on love and identity, a celebrity couple proposition, and broader discussions around healing, confidence, and personal growth, with appearances from Tiffany Haddish stories, being proposed to at SXSW , and reflections on funny women in entertainment. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1hr 1min
  8. You Got Decisions: UPDATE: What Did He Say?

    26 MAR ·  BONUS

    You Got Decisions: UPDATE: What Did He Say?

    Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    27 min
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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.    Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.   From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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  • Channel
    The Black Effect Network
  • Creator
    The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
  • Years Active
    2017 - 2026
  • Episodes
    589
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    2026 iHeartMedia, Inc. © Any use of this intellectual property for text and data mining or computational analysis including as training material for artificial intelligence systems is strictly prohibited without express written consent from iHeartMedia
  • Show Website
    Decisions, Decisions
  • Provider
    iHeartMedia + Entertainment, Inc

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