BDSM Reimagined

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(ANNOUNCMENT: Season 5, with Indy, is officially in the making) BDSM Reimagined takes a deep look into the world of kink. Follow along as both a psychologist and an experienced practitioner walk through the world of adventurous play. We would like remind listeners that this show contains explicit sexual references so it is only suitable for adults. We hope you enjoy our podcast. You can contact via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Upbeat: License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

  1. 24/11/2025

    It's Time To Say Goodbye :)

    In this final episode, hosts Michael and Indy reflect on the end of their podcasting journey and a significant, shared evolution in their personal lives. Michael announces he has permanently deleted all his dominant sex work profiles, viewing them as a "persona" or "caricature" that had become an "obstacle" to finding authentic relationships. Indy resonates deeply, describing his own kink roles as a "suitcase" he is now ready to "put down." Both hosts discuss how playing these "characters" was a crucial vehicle for integrating repressed parts of themselves, such as assertiveness and confidence. They conclude that they are moving away from defined labels and toward a new focus on "co-created" intimacy, perfectly summarizing the show's theme of "Kink Reimagined" before saying a final farewell. Contact us via email:bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

    28 min

  2. 10/11/2025

    Michael Deletes Everything | S05E11

    In this episode, Michael announces his decision to delete his X (formerly Twitter) account, which he had used for several years as a primary tool for his s3x work, exploring his dominance, and as a "vanity project." He explains his reasons for quitting, noting that the account was not actually his main source of income and, more significantly, had become a major obstacle in his dating life. Michael opens up about the "extreme" dominant persona he felt required to perform online, how it conflicts with his core identity, and the toll it has taken. This leads to a vulnerable confession that he now feels "messed up sexually," confused about his own desires, and anxious about future intimacy. The episode cuts short. Contact us via email:bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTHLicense code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

    10 min

  3. 27/10/2025

    Why Does Homophobic Language Turn Me On? - Part 2 | S05E10

    This is a direct continuation from the previous episode. Michael presents his core insight into why humiliating kinks, such as those involving homophobic language, can be so powerful. He argues that these scenes are a way for individuals to process past trauma by reclaiming power over painful events. By re-enacting abuse or bullying in a controlled, consensual BDSM setting, they can gain a sense of agency they didn't have before. He stresses that the crucial element that transforms this from re-traumatisation into a healing experience is aftercare. The act of a dominant providing unconditional love and acceptance after a scene of intense degradation is profoundly reparative. He also challenges Indy’s view of herself, arguing that all dominance is fundamentally based on a hierarchical structure, even if it isn't the conscious focus of arousal. Indy has a key realisation in this episode, conceding that she does engage with hierarchy in her own life, even if unconsciously. She acknowledges that her enjoyment of control as a dominant, as well as her past criteria for selecting partners (e.g., status, attractiveness), are rooted in hierarchical thinking. She connects Michael's theory directly to her own life, sharing that she is most drawn to her dominant role when she feels powerless in her personal life; for her, it is a way to create a safe and controlled environment. She also shares the profound pain of being rejected mid-scene by a submissive, framing it as a deep wound that violates the need for the very unconditional acceptance that makes aftercare so vital. Contact us via email:bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTHLicense code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

    24 min

  4. 13/10/2025

    Why Does Homophobic Language Turn Me On? - Part 1 | S05E09

    Michael explains the fundamentals of his BDSM practice, which often involves using homophobic language at the request of his submissives. He clarifies that this isn't arbitrary but serves as a powerful tool to establish a clear hierarchy of superiority and inferiority, which is highly arousing for both parties. He connects this kink to a deep-seated "shame wound" resulting from societal heteronormativity and internalised homophobia. For him and many of his subs, engaging with these power dynamics makes their feelings of inadequacy "make sense," creating an "unconflicted" state that is sexually charged. He explains that submitting to a "superior" straight man in fantasy provides a powerful sense of belonging and certainty about one's place in the world. Indy seeks to understand the psychological drivers of a kink that is foreign to her. She questions Michael to understand why homophobic language is used and what makes the "straight man" figure superior within this dynamic. She theorises that the sexual arousal stems not from the hierarchy itself, but from the feelings of safety and being unconflicted that a clearly defined and predictable social structure provides. She suggests that the comfort found in these familiar, even if painful, dynamics is more about predictability than true safety. She reflects that this overt sexualisation of social hierarchy seems to be a more prominent feature in the male experience. Contact us via email:bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTHLicense code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

    30 min

  5. 29/09/2025

    Findom.. A Reality Sets In | S05E08

    Indy revisits her brief experiment with financial domination, explaining that her motivation came from the frustration of her BDSM encounters feeling purely transactional and one-sided. Charging money was an attempt to reclaim power and ensure she received something tangible in an exchange where she often felt used. However, her single paid experience stirred up deep moral and personal conflicts. She worried about the potential harm she could be causing the submissive by reinforcing a potentially addictive kink. She was equally concerned about the negative impact on her own character, fearing it would foster entitlement, feed her ego, and change her motivations for the worse. Based on this strong intuitive reaction, she has firmly decided not to pursue the findom path. Instead, she is focusing on her broader journey of integrating her alpha energy with a sense of integrity and wisdom, aiming to use her inherent dominance in a constructive, rather than exploitative, way. Michael offers a more detailed perspective from his longer experience with paid BDSM, making a crucial distinction between escorting and findom. He defines escorting as a service with a set price where money facilitates a scene. In contrast, he describes findom as a dynamic where the ongoing, manipulative exchange of money is the core sexual act, driven by an intense, euphoric rush. He expresses deep ambivalence about being a financial dominant. While he finds it highly arousing, he feels morally conflicted, constantly questioning what behaviour he is enabling in his subs. He admits the experience has an addictive quality and has led him to feel disconnected from authentic, non-performative intimacy. He frames this internal struggle using archetypes: his findom persona is the "Shadow Magician" who manipulates and exploits, while his true aspiration is to become "The Elder," a figure of wisdom. He feels trapped in the shadow, theorising that findom serves as a modern ritual for men seeking a sense of belonging in a world of fractured masculine identity, where they literally "pay to belong." Contact us via email:bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTHLicense code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

    1h 5m

  6. 15/09/2025

    Why Do I Worship Straight Men? | S0507

    Michael (01:10) Michael delves into the psychological origins of his submissive side, particularly his attraction to straight men. He explains the concept of a "straight hierarchy" within some gay BDSM dynamics, where straight men are placed at the pinnacle of desire. He traces his own connection to this hierarchy back to his adolescence, where his primary male attachments were formed through being bullied by his straight brother and peers at school. His key realisation is that when he experiences an "attachment injury" in his present life—such as feeling rejected or missing an ex—he subconsciously retreats to the familiar and predictable power dynamics of his youth. Seeking out straight men to humiliate him is a way to return to a simplistic and unconflicted form of bonding where he understands his place, providing a strange sense of security and belonging in moments of emotional pain. Indy (25:45) Indy provides updates on several fronts. She recounts a recent interaction with a highly interested submissive who abruptly ghosted her after an online session. This experience reinforces her theory that for many submissives, interest evaporates after orgasm, possibly due to a shame response. In a more positive and surreal turn of events, she discovers that a submissive she knows has, by sheer coincidence, moved into the house directly across the street. This presents an unexpected opportunity to explore the deeper, companion-style BDSM connection she has been seeking. Finally, she expresses her intense frustration with men on conventional dating apps who repeatedly ignore her boundaries and try to sexualise conversations before meeting. In response, she has adopted a new strategy of creating a completely "vanilla-ised" dating profile, removing any mention of kink or sex to attract more respectful initial connections. Contact us via email:bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTHLicense code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

    46 min

  7. 01/09/2025

    Let's Talk More About Findom | S05E06

    In this episode, Indy grapples with her decision to start charging for her dominant services, a shift prompted by the realisation that men have been viewing her sessions as "freebies." While her first paid encounter feels powerful, it also brings a profound sense of moral unease. She questions the ethics of financial domination and worries about the potential for it to corrupt her personality, fearing she might become arrogant or narcissistic. Her exploration of this new path seems to be driven by a place of resentment and a feeling of having been used in the past. Michael offers a contrasting, more experienced viewpoint. He empathises with Indy's moral conflict but frames his own involvement in financial domination as a positive "alpha trajectory"—a valid exploration of a confident part of himself. He counters the fear of negative personal change by explaining that this persona is just one integrated facet of his already well-rounded identity, kept in check by his career, friendships, and therapy. For Michael, charging is a practical tool for managing demand and maintaining healthy boundaries, presenting the findom world as a more direct and rewarding alternative to the frustrations of conventional dating. Contact us via email:bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTHLicense code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

    30 min

  8. 18/08/2025

    Should I become a findom? | S05E05

    (00:10) Indy Indy shares details of a date with a woman—a psychologist with a similar background to her own. The date provides a profound sense of relief and safety for Indy, leading to a powerful realisation: her dominant persona, which involves emasculating men, is actually tied to a long-repressed attraction to women. This new path feels liberating, yet she is still apprehensive about how it might affect her family relationships. (10:18) A recent encounter with a submissive has also changed Indy's perspective on her role as a dominant. She's realised that many of her subs see her sessions as "freebies," which has prompted her to consider charging for her services. (32:25) Michael Meanwhile, Michael reveals a long-term proposal from his first-ever submissive, who wants to give Michael financial control over his life. This raises questions about responsibility, commitment, and how this new "alpha trajectory" will affect his ability to find a partner. Contact us via email:bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTHLicense code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

    41 min
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(ANNOUNCMENT: Season 5, with Indy, is officially in the making) BDSM Reimagined takes a deep look into the world of kink. Follow along as both a psychologist and an experienced practitioner walk through the world of adventurous play. We would like remind listeners that this show contains explicit sexual references so it is only suitable for adults. We hope you enjoy our podcast. You can contact via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Upbeat: License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

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  • Creator
    BDSM Reimagined
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2025
  • Episodes
    100
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © BDSM Reimagined
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