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Decisions, Decisions

Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.    Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.   From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

  1. 6 DAYS AGO

    Selective Ignorance: Ep 56. | This Podcast Is Heaven Sent

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a layered, culture-driven conversation that moves from celebrity headlines to deeper discussions on relationships, art, and politics. The episode opens with trending celebrity gossip and current events setting the tone for a lively and unfiltered dialogue [ 00:52 ], before shifting into personal anecdotes and travel experiences that highlight the crew’s perspectives on lifestyle and social interactions [ 02:31 ]. The conversation then dives into polyamory, relationship structures, and evolving dating norms, unpacking how modern relationships challenge traditional expectations [ 07:17 ], followed by a candid discussion on sexuality, consent, and communication, emphasizing the importance of clarity and accountability in intimate dynamics [ 12:13 ]. The hosts expand on accountability within sexual relationships and the social responsibility tied to personal choices [ 18:01 ]. From there, the episode pivots into music and artistic expression, exploring how artists navigate social commentary and cultural influence [ 25:23 ], which leads into a broader debate about public outrage and reaction culture in the digital age [ 27:42 ]. The crew examines the tension between creative freedom and community responsibility, particularly in light of controversial artist statements and how audiences respond [ 30:40 ], followed by a discussion on what it means for artists to double down on polarizing viewpoints (ie. LaRussel's "Heaven Sent") [ 33:31 ] and how public perception can shape or derail careers [36:53 ]. Anticipation builds as they discuss Jay-Z’s upcoming performances and his enduring cultural relevance [ 39:27], leading into a nostalgic comparison of classic eras in hip-hop and the evolution of artistry over time [ 49:54 ], alongside reflections on generational shifts and future predictions within the genre [ 55:55 ]. The conversation returns to relationships with a focus on miscommunication, expectations, and emotional perception in dating [ 59:35 ], before shifting to sports and equity with a discussion on the WNBA’s recent pay raise and the broader fight for equality in women’s sports [ 01:07:28 ]. The episode closes with a critical look at the current political climate, including TSA challenges, airport security concerns, and the presence of ICE agents, tying these developments to larger societal implications around safety, policy, and civil liberties [ 01:20:01 ].  No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1hr 31min
  2. 17 MAR

    Selective Ignorance: Ep. 55 | Beers, Buckets & Booger Sugar

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a layered, culture-driven conversation unpacking the controversy surrounding the NBA’s canceled Magic City Night, beginning with a breakdown of what the event represented and why its cancellation sparked debate around women’s agency, exploitation, and optics in sports entertainment [ 01:51 ]. The discussion deepens into the complexities of women’s autonomy within adult entertainment spaces and how societal judgment often conflicts with personal choice and economic reality [ 24:40 ], followed by a broader cultural reflection on how strippers are perceived and stigmatized in society despite their influence on music, nightlife, and pop culture [ 29:07 ]. The hosts then examine the role of corporate influence in shaping community narratives, questioning whether brands selectively engage with culture for profit while avoiding accountability [ 34:18 ]. From there, the conversation expands into celebrity behavior and public scrutiny, analyzing how high-profile actions shape cultural expectations and discourse [ 36:46 ], alongside a critique of the hypocrisy behind moral outrage in media and online spaces [ 39:40 ]. The crew also highlights Bam Adebayo’s record-breaking performance and the mixed reactions it received, using it as a lens to explore how athletes are celebrated or minimized depending on narrative framing [ 41:30 ], before diving into the broader impact of celebrity influence on societal standards and behavior [46:48 ]. A deeper conversation follows around morality in sports, accountability, and the gray areas within personal relationships [ 51:45 ], including discussions on violence, responsibility, and how society assigns blame [ 57:21 ]. The episode then shifts toward family dynamics and communication, particularly the importance of honest dialogue between parents and children in navigating identity and societal expectations [ 01:13:35 ], before expanding into the broader impact of celebrity culture on social issues and public opinion [ 01:16:59 ]. The hosts also examine Jay-Z’s role within capitalism and community responsibility, debating what obligation influential figures have to the communities they come from [ 01:17:28 ]. Closing out the episode, the conversation tackles the intersection of sexuality, masculinity, and public perception [ 01:30:27 ], challenging traditional norms and unpacking how societal expectations continue to shape identity, behavior, and relationships in modern culture [ 01:43:34 ]. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1hr 49min

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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.    Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.   From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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