Devoted

Stephen and Amy Beckler
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Devoted is a podcast about long-term love, commitment, and the choice to stay. Hosted by Stephen and Amy, partners for nearly fifteen years, it explores what it really means to grow alongside another human through grief, loss, parenting, resentment, attachment patterns, communication breakdowns, and the slow work of repair. Often seen as a “dream couple,” they share what lives beneath the surface: devotion as practice, not perfection. Blending lived experience with a therapeutic lens, Devoted holds honest conversations about marriage, intimacy, healing, and choosing each other again and again.

Episodes

  1. 8 APR

    Supporting your partner in pregnancy, labor and birth

    In this episode, we take you behind the scenes of our pregnancy and birth journey, sharing what it was like to choose a home birth and what that brought up for both of us.  Stephen opens up about the fears he carried, the moments he questioned, and the quiet reality of not having a place or person to process it all with as a soon-to-be dad. At the same time, he shares why he chose to trust Amy, stand beside her, and fully support the decisions she felt called to make for her body and their baby. Together, Stephen and Amy reflect on how they supported one another, what they learned about communication and partnership, and why Stephen now feels called to create more space for other dads walking this path. If you're navigating pregnancy as a couple, this episode offers an honest look at what it means to move through it together. Follow Devoted to join us in the ongoing work of growing together. Connect with us on Instagram @devotedpodcastofficial @amybecklerlcsw & @thebeckeffect If there’s a topic or conversation you’d like us to speak on, please leave a comment or message us and we’ll do our best to bring it to Devoted! Your reviews and feedback of each episode are greatly appreciated.

    42 min

  2. 25 MAR

    7 Patterns that Hinder Healthy Relationships

    A couple’s therapist on instagram shared 7 patterns that she noticed in couples who didn’t make it. In this episode, we dive into each pattern and share our own experiences of working through some of them over the last 15 years. How, you ask? Honest conversations, putting in the emotional labor and staying devoted to our relationship. The 7 patterns we talk about: Having no boundaries with family Not repairing after conflict One partner doing all the emotional labor Making jokes at your partners expense Not giving each other grace Expecting your partner to read your mind Blocking your partners growth We have talked about a few of these patterns in previous episodes and elaborate on them in this one.  Through honest reflection and real-life examples, this conversation invites you to notice your own patterns, as well as your partners, with curiosity instead of judgment and to begin choosing what you want to leave behind or carry forward. Awareness and discomfort are where growth happens and we’re here to continuously evolve and grow together. Follow Devoted to join us in the ongoing work of growing together. Connect with us on Instagram @devotedpodcastofficial @amybecklerlcsw & @thebeckeffect If there’s a topic or conversation you’d like us to speak on, please leave a comment or message us and we’ll do our best to bring it to Devoted! Your reviews and feedback of each episode are greatly appreciated.

    32 min

  3. 11 MAR

    The Power of Consideration in Relationships

    How can thinking about your partner when making decisions create connection, safety, and trust? And what would it be like if you considered yourself too? Balancing both can transform the way couples navigate decisions together. In this episode, we’re talking about consideration in relationships—what it looks like, why it matters, and how it shapes our relationships. Often, it’s not the big gestures that make us feel loved. It’s the little things. The moments where someone clearly had you in mind. Considerate decisions can say a lot about how much someone is thinking about you and your experience. In this episode, we explore questions like: Do you consider your partner when you’re making decisions? Do you consider yourself? What is your natural process when something comes up that requires a choice? Some people tend to think about their partner first. Others focus on their own needs and forget to pause and think about how their partner might be impacted.  And sometimes it depends on the situation. When consideration is present, relationships can feel like a safe space where both people feel seen, valued, and important. When it’s missing, it can leave one or both partners feeling unseen or like their experience doesn’t matter. Ultimately, the relationship belongs to both of you. And understanding each person’s needs is an important part of creating a devoted relationship. Follow Devoted to join us in the ongoing work of growing together. Connect with us on Instagram @devotedpodcastofficial @amybecklerlcsw & @thebeckeffect If there’s a topic or conversation you’d like us to speak on, please leave a comment or message us and we’ll do our best to bring it to Devoted! Your reviews and feedback of each episode are greatly appreciated.

    35 min

  4. 25 FEB

    Communicating Through Conflict Without Losing Connection

    What happens when conflict arises and you feel the urge to criticize, defend, shut down, or say something you don’t mean? In this episode, Stephen and Amy respond to a listener’s heartfelt question about how to communicate through disagreements without barking, yelling, or being hurtful—especially in those heated moments when emotions take over. They share one of their biggest relationship aha moments: learning that listening isn’t about fixing, defending, or problem-solving, rather it’s about truly hearing your partner. We talk about: The four horsemen and how they’re destructive to relationships How to give each other space without creating disconnection The power of reflecting back what you heard How feeling seen and heard can transform conflict into connection Simple shifts that help you move from reacting to relating and repairing At the core, we all just want to feel safe, seen, and understood by the person we love most. This episode will help you slow down, soften, and communicate in a way that brings you closer—even in the hard moments. Follow Devoted to join us in the ongoing work of growing together. Connect with us on Instagram @amybecklerlcsw & @thebeckeffect

    39 min

  5. 14 FEB

    Our Worst Valentines Day & What It Taught Us

    Welcome to the very first episode of Devoted — we’re so happy you’re here. In this episode, Stephen and Amy reflect on their third Valentine’s Day together — what went wrong, how high expectations led to disappointment, and what it revealed about their own patterns. We talk about the pressure we put on special occasions, how unspoken expectations can create resentment, and what real relationship repair looks like when expectations aren’t met. If you’ve ever felt disappointed by a partner or by a holiday that was supposed to feel magical, this conversation will feel familiar and shed some light. Follow Devoted to join us in the ongoing work of growing together. Connect with us on Instagram @amybecklerlcsw & @thebeckeffect If there’s a topic or conversation you’d like us to speak on, please leave a comment and we’ll do our best to bring it to Devoted!

    28 min
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About

Devoted is a podcast about long-term love, commitment, and the choice to stay. Hosted by Stephen and Amy, partners for nearly fifteen years, it explores what it really means to grow alongside another human through grief, loss, parenting, resentment, attachment patterns, communication breakdowns, and the slow work of repair. Often seen as a “dream couple,” they share what lives beneath the surface: devotion as practice, not perfection. Blending lived experience with a therapeutic lens, Devoted holds honest conversations about marriage, intimacy, healing, and choosing each other again and again.

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  • Creator
    Stephen and Amy Beckler
  • Years Active
    2k
  • Episodes
    5
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Stephen and Amy Beckler
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