Why Weight? Start Now!

Sheryl Takayama

If you are ready to get off the crazy diet wagon and find a way of eating and a way of thinking that WORKS, come and join Sheryl each week for practical advice, tips and a boost of motivation, so you START NOW and nail your goals 🥳

  1. 2 days ago

    Ep 50: The Morning Routine That Swiches Off Your 3pm Cravings

    Did you know the battle for stable blood sugars is mostly won or lost before 10am? In this episode, I explain why your morning routine matters more than your willpower when it comes to blood sugar balance, weight loss over 40, and beating afternoon cravings. When you wake up, your body is naturally more insulin resistant thanks to a morning surge of cortisol - which means a high-carb breakfast spikes your blood sugar higher than the same food would at lunch. I walk you through the "second meal effect," why a blood sugar crash at 3pm actually starts at 7am, and why the first blood sugar decision of the day is really what time you go to bed the night before. Then I share my favourite high-protein breakfast ideas — each with at least 30 grams of protein — plus simple morning habits like a five-minute walk after eating and getting your water in early, so you can stay off the cravings roller coaster all day. What You'll Learn Why you're naturally more insulin resistant in the morning - and why a high-carb breakfast hits harder before 10am How the "second meal effect" means your breakfast shapes your blood sugar response at lunch and dinner Why 3pm cravings are a physiological crash that started at breakfast — not a willpower problem How one bad night's sleep can reduce insulin sensitivity by up to 25%, and what to do about it Why 30 grams of protein at breakfast is your single biggest lever for stable blood sugars, fewer cravings, and protecting muscle during weight loss Easy high-protein, low-carb breakfast ideas - plus why savoury beats sweet The best way to time your coffee, and two simple morning habits that boost blood sugar balance and afternoon energy Key Moments Why your blood sugar battle is won or lost before 10am The morning cortisol surge and insulin resistance explained The second meal effect: how breakfast sets up lunch and dinner The cravings roller coaster — and why it's not about willpower Bedtime: the first blood sugar decision you make for tomorrow What 30 grams of protein at breakfast actually looks like Savoury vs sweet breakfasts, and the truth about coffee on an empty stomach The five-minute walk that pulls glucose out of your bloodstream The One Action You Can Do to Start Now Pick just one: go to bed 30 minutes earlier tonight, aim for 30 grams of protein at breakfast tomorrow, or choose two high-protein breakfasts from this episode and make them your defaults. Don't decide at 7am,  decide now. You're going to have a morning anyway, so make it a morning of success. Links and Resources My Fab Freebie — 5-day low-carb meal plan + 5 delicious dinner recipes: https://www.whyweightacademy.com/low-carb-meal-plan-opt-in  8-week Blood Sugar Solution Programme - starts every Monday: www.whyweightacademy.com/the-blood-sugar-solution

    Ep 50: The Morning Routine That Swiches Off Your 3pm Cravings
  2. 27 Jul

    Ep 49: The Question That Matters More than Calories: Why Your Blood Sugar Holds the Key after 40

    Have you ever thought, “I’m eating exactly the same, but my weight keeps going up”? You’re not imagining it — and you’re definitely not broken. In this episode, I explain why calorie counting stops working for weight loss after 40, and why the real question isn’t “how many calories is this?” but “what is this meal doing to my blood sugar?” I break down how declining oestrogen, muscle loss, rising cortisol, and poor sleep during perimenopause and menopause make you more insulin resistant — and why two meals with identical calories can have completely different effects on your hunger, cravings, energy, and belly fat. I also share the simple low carb eating principles I use with my clients to stabilise blood sugar, reduce sugar cravings, and make weight loss feel calm instead of like a constant fight with willpower. What You’ll Learn Why calorie restriction backfires and triggers the very hormones that cause overeating How menopause and perimenopause make blood sugar balance harder — and what to do about it The blood sugar roller coaster: why crashes drive sugar cravings, the 4 p.m. slump, and 3 a.m. wake-ups The tell-tale signs of unstable blood sugar — even when your blood tests look normal Three simple habits that stabilise blood sugar without eating less or relying on willpower Key Moments Why “eat less, exercise more” is a formula designed to fail 400 calories of eggs and avocado vs 400 calories of toast and juice — same number, completely different hormonal response The four big changes after 40: declining oestrogen, muscle loss, rising cortisol, and worsening sleep Why insulin is the “traffic controller” deciding whether food gets burned or stored as fat The wood fire vs dry leaves analogy for steady energy vs sugar spikes Why blood sugar swings make menopause symptoms worse — and how stabilising them helps sleep, brain fog, and belly fat How stable blood sugar improves willpower, decision making, and cravings Signs your blood sugar is the hidden problem, and how a glucose monitor can show you the full picture The three habits: 25–35g of protein at breakfast, build every meal around protein first, and a 10-minute walk after dinner One Action You Can Do to Start Now Pick just one of the three habits and start tomorrow: eat 25–35 grams of protein at breakfast, build your meals around protein first, or take a 10-minute walk after dinner. Then simply notice what happens this week - when cravings hit, how you feel after meals, and how your energy holds through the day. And if you’d love support to get your blood sugar on track, check out my eight-week low carb program, the Blood Sugar Solution — it starts every Monday. Click here to find out more:  www.whyweightacademy.com/the-blood-sugar-solution

    Ep 49:  The Question That Matters More than Calories:  Why Your Blood Sugar Holds the Key after 40
  3. 23 Jul

    Ep 48: You Don't Need Another Diet - You Need This One Skill

    Show Notes Losing weight is rarely where women get stuck — it's keeping it off that trips most of us up. In this episode, I'm breaking down the real reasons for weight regain, both the short-term weekend gains that kill your momentum during weight loss, and the longer-term regain that shows up months or years after you've hit your goal. I'm sharing the exact weight maintenance strategy — my 80/20 rule — that has kept me at my goal weight for 25 years, plus the mindset shift that makes sustainable weight loss possible instead of just another diet that ends in regain. What You'll Learn Why weight regain isn't about willpower — and what it actually is a predictable result of The most common short-term causes of weekend weight gain, including alcohol, social eating, and slipping keystone habits The simple weigh-in strategy that can protect your weight loss momentum The real reason most diets lead to weight regain within a few years How to shift from "being on a diet" to sustainable low carb weight loss for life My personal 80/20 rule for weight maintenance, and how it differs from a 95/5 approach for weight loss Why I stopped drinking alcohol in my 40s to protect my long-term weight maintenance Key Moments The real difference between losing weight and keeping it off Why weekends are the biggest momentum killer during weight loss How alcohol quietly sabotages fat burning, sleep, and willpower The keystone habits — water and early bedtimes — that regulate hunger and cravings The "I'll start again Monday" mindset and why it causes the most damage Why a diet with an end date almost guarantees weight regain My 80/20 low carb maintenance rule, explained step by step Why I gave up alcohol and sugar for good — and what changed for me One Action To Start Now Ask yourself: what has been the number one reason the weight has come back for me in the past? Not five reasons — just the main one. Was it the weekends, the wine, or the "diet's over" mindset? Write it down, say it out loud, and then ask yourself the harder question: am I ready to change it for good, not just for the short term? Links and Resources My Fab Freebie — 5-day low-carb meal plan + 5 delicious dinner recipes: https://www.whyweightacademy.com/low-carb-meal-plan-opt-in  Foundations of Fat Loss — my 4-week program designed for women over 35: www.whyweightacademy.com/fat-loss-foundations

    Ep 48: You Don't Need Another Diet - You Need This One Skill
  4. 10 Jul

    Ep 47: Stuck in the Messy Middle? How to Stay Motivated When Your Weight Loss Stalls - with Josie Askin

    Have you ever started a weight loss journey full of motivation, dropped a few kilos, and then... stalled? You're not lazy and you're not broken — you're in the messy middle, and it's completely normal. In this episode, I'm joined by leadership coach Josie Askin of Spring Coaching, who helps high performers achieve big goals without burning out. Josie shares her own health journey — from being teased about her weight as a child, to overtraining as a long-distance runner and developing RED-S (Relative Energy Deficiency in Sport) — and how it shaped her philosophy of sustainable high performance. Together we unpack why motivation fades in the middle of a weight loss journey, why restrictive dieting backfires, and the simple mindset shifts that keep you moving forward when the scales stall,  including the "rule of thirds," the power of being one percent better, and why consistency beats intensity every time. What You'll Learn Why the "messy middle" of weight loss is normal - and why feeling uncomfortable is actually a sign you're on track The rule of thirds: why a third of your journey will feel great, a third average, and a third hard The "one percent better" strategy from Atomic Habits for making better food choices at parties, events and stressful moments Why the scales aren't the only measure of progress - and the quieter signs of weight loss success to look for How celebrating small wins builds the habits and motivation that lead to lasting weight loss Key Moments Josie's story: from childhood teasing to overtraining, RED-S and months on crutches What burnout in the workplace and crash dieting have in common The 3pm chocolate lesson: how allowing a treat food ended the food fixation Why Josie calls it the "quiet middle" — the signs of progress get quieter, not smaller The Olympian's rule of thirds for chasing big goals One percent better: navigating the party table when the scales have stalled The Friday night Netflix choice: making conscious trade-offs without guilt Josie's top three tips for moving through the messy middle Josie's free Wins Worksheet for listeners One Action to Start Now Think about one win from your day - no matter how small. Then ask yourself: what steps led to that win, and what impact did it have? Now repeat it. That's how a win becomes a habit, and how habits carry you through the middle. Grab Josie's free Wins Worksheet via the link below to capture your wins and keep your momentum going. Links & Resources Josie's free gift:  https://spring-coaching.com/product/wins-worksheet-boost-motivation - build confidence and momentum by noticing what's already working. This simple worksheet will help you recognise your wins, reflect on your progress, and keep moving forward through the quiet middle - one small step at a time Connect with Josie Askin at Spring Coaching: josie@spring-coaching.com My Fab Freebie — 5-day low-carb meal plan + 5 delicious dinner recipes: https://www.whyweightacademy.com/low-carb-meal-plan-opt-in  Foundations of Fat Loss — my 4-week program designed for women over 35: www.whyweightacademy.com/fat-loss-foundations

    Ep 47: Stuck in the Messy Middle? How to Stay Motivated When Your Weight Loss Stalls - with Josie Askin
  5. 1 Jul

    Ep 46: Stop Chasing Motivation: 6 Simple Structures That Actually Keep You On Track

    If you've ever told yourself you just need more motivation to stick to your weight loss goals, this episode is for me to set the record straight. After fifteen years of coaching busy women, I can tell you motivation isn't the problem, and it isn't the solution either. It's an emotion, and emotions are unreliable - they don't show up on the days you need them most. In this episode, I share the story of a client who slipped back into old habits after office birthday cake derailed her week, and why her instinct to “find more motivation” was actually leading her in the wrong direction. I walk through why structure, not motivation, is what actually creates sustainable weight loss, and I give you six simple, doable structures you can start using immediately — from a two-minute morning food plan to a kitchen closed time in the evenings. These are the exact tools I use with my own coaching clients to build consistency without relying on willpower. What You'll Learn Why motivation is a fair-weather friend and can't be relied on for consistent healthy habits The real reason decision fatigue and a busy schedule sabotage your best intentions Six practical structures for weight loss that remove willpower from the equation How sleep affects your hunger hormones, ghrelin and leptin, and your food cravings Why building structure — not chasing motivation — is what actually creates lasting identity change Brief Key Moments A client's cake-at-work story that sparked this episode on motivation vs. structure Why “I just need more motivation” is one of the most common things Sheryl hears from busy women The six structures: a morning food plan, water at red lights, bedtime before 10pm, weekly meal prep, a kitchen closed time, and a safe snack stash at work How sleep deprivation drives sugar and carb cravings through hunger hormones Why structure builds motivation, rather than the other way around One Action to Start Now Pick just one structure from today's episode — the one that feels most doable for your life right now. Get specific: decide exactly when and where it will happen, write it down, and try it consistently this week. At the end of the week, notice what shifted, not what went wrong. That's how lasting change with weight loss and healthy habits actually begins.

    Ep 46: Stop Chasing Motivation: 6 Simple Structures That Actually Keep You On Track
  6. 23 Jun

    Ep 45: The Triangle of Doom: How one Muffin turns into a Meltodown (and how to stop it)

    Show Notes In this episode I'm sharing one of the most common and most destructive patterns I see in people trying to lose weight - what I call the Triangle of Doom. If you've ever had one unplanned bite turn into an entire day of overeating, this episode is going to change the way you think about off-plan moments forever. I talk about how emotional eating spirals begin, why the food is almost never the real problem, and the simple mindset shift that can stop a binge in its tracks before it even starts. What You'll Learn What the Triangle of Doom is and why it happens to almost everyone trying to lose weight How one off-plan moment triggers a thought spiral that leads to overeating and emotional eating Why the food itself is not the problem — and what actually drives a binge The iceberg metaphor that will completely reframe how you respond to slip-ups How to interrupt a shame spiral the moment it starts Why your low-carb meal plan is your most powerful tool for stopping the cycle How recovery from an off-plan moment builds confidence and long-term weight loss momentum Key Moments The Muffin Story I share a real client story — a single unplanned muffin that cascaded into an evening of overeating. It wasn't weakness. It was a pattern almost every emotional eater will recognise. The Iceberg Explained One bite off-plan doesn't sink you. You're still at the tip of the iceberg — still floating. The dangerous descent only happens when you believe the thought 'I've already blown it, may as well keep going.' What the Triangle Actually Looks Like I walk through a real-time example: muffin at 3pm → wine after work → cheese and crackers → takeaways → biscuits at bedtime. One moment becomes 2,000 calories — not from hunger, but from a single destructive thought. The Mental Cost The physical discomfort fades. The damage to your confidence and belief in yourself is what really lingers — and that's what keeps the cycle repeating. How to Break the Cycle Get back on track at your very next meal. Not tomorrow. Not Monday. The next meal. Your meal plan is the lifeline that pulls you back to the surface.   One Action to Start Now Name it. The next time you have an off-plan moment, say out loud: 'I am at the tip of the iceberg.' Then watch for the thought 'I've already blown it' — that's your warning signal. Recognise it, redirect it, and simply decide what your next meal will be. One thought. One meal. That's all it takes to stay above the water.   LINKS:➡️Download by FREE E-book with a 5-day Low Carb Meal Plan and 5 delicious dinner recipes: CLICK HERE➡️Continue your low carb journey with monthly Fat Loss Acceleration Protocols, resources, meal plans, delicious recipes, support and inspiration in Why Weight Academy: FIND OUT MORE➡️Check out all my recipes and resources on the Why Weight Academy Website HERE Follow me on TikTok: sheryltakayamaFollow me on Facebook: Why Weight AcademyFollow me on Instagram: sheryl_whyweightacademy And if you enjoy this show, please leave a quick rating & review - your support is so appreciated and will mean the world to me!

    Ep 45: The Triangle of Doom: How one Muffin turns into a Meltodown (and how to stop it)
  7. 17 Jun

    Ep 44_How to Deal with the Voice in your Head

    Show Notes  Have you ever heard that inner voice say "stuff it, I can't be bothered, what's the point?" — and then watched yourself blow your whole plan? You're not weak. You're not broken. And it's definitely not a willpower problem. In this episode, I'm unpacking the real reasons behind weight loss self-sabotage — why these intrusive thoughts show up specifically around food and not in other areas of your life, and what you can actually do to stop them from derailing your progress. Whether you're following a low-carb lifestyle, trying to break emotional eating habits, or simply struggling to stay consistent, this episode will help you understand your brain — and work with it instead of against it. What You'll Learn Why self-sabotage thoughts are a normal, predictable part of any weight loss journey The five key reasons your brain triggers "stuff it" thoughts — including fear of failure, low energy, dopamine cravings, all-or-nothing thinking, and emotional eating Why food cravings during stress aren't about hunger — they're about comfort and survival Six practical strategies to recognise and interrupt self-sabotage before it takes hold How to break the all-or-nothing thinking trap that keeps you stuck Why self-compassion (not self-criticism) is one of the most powerful tools in your weight loss toolkit The simple daily structure that removes decision fatigue and protects you on your hardest days Brief Key Moments Sheryl shares a real client story — how one woman almost derailed her progress and what helped her stay on track The moment Sheryl realised, while working as a receptionist for her own nutritionist, that self-sabotage thoughts are universal — not a personal failing A powerful analogy: why we don't blow our savings or quit our jobs after one bad day — so why do we do it with food? The five reasons self-sabotage thoughts are wired into your brain — explained clearly and without shame Six actionable steps to work with your brain, including spotting triggers, catching all-or-nothing thinking, and building a food structure that protects you Why alcohol was one of Sheryl's biggest personal triggers — and what she did about it The final message: you are not the thought — you are the person noticing the thought One Action to Start Now Create a simple eating structure and stick to it — three low-carb meals and one low-carb snack every day. No guessing, no last-minute decisions when you're tired and overwhelmed. You've already decided. You just follow the plan. This one shift removes the moment-by-moment decision-making that gives self-sabotage thoughts their power. Think of it not as restriction — but as protection for the version of you that's running on empty. LINKS:➡️Download by FREE E-book with a 5-day Low Carb Meal Plan and 5 delicious dinner recipes: CLICK HERE➡️Continue your low carb journey with monthly Fat Loss Acceleration Protocols, resources, meal plans, delicious recipes, support and inspiration in Why Weight Academy: FIND OUT MORE➡️Check out all my recipes and resources on the Why Weight Academy Website HERE Follow me on TikTok: sheryltakayamaFollow me on Facebook: Why Weight AcademyFollow me on Instagram: sheryl_whyweightacademy And if you enjoy this show, please leave a quick rating & review - your support is so appreciated and will mean the world to me!

    Ep 44_How to Deal with the Voice in your Head
  8. 7 Jun

    Ep 43_Stop Sabotaging Your Progress After Dinner: 10 Strategies that Work

    SHOW NOTES Do you eat well all day, only to blow it after dinner? You’re not alone — and you’re not weak. After-dinner eating is one of the biggest hidden obstacles to weight loss for women, and in this episode I’m breaking down exactly why it happens and how to stop it for good. Late-night snacking isn’t just about extra calories — it’s calories eaten at the worst possible time. When your metabolism is slowing for sleep, food is far more likely to be stored as fat, blood sugar spikes are more damaging, and your overnight fat-burning window gets completely shut down. Add disrupted sleep into the mix, and the next day you wake up hungrier, with stronger cravings. It’s a vicious cycle. The good news? Once you understand what’s driving the habit — whether it’s stress, boredom, tiredness, or reward-seeking — you can break it. I’m sharing 10 practical, real-life strategies that I’ve used myself and with my weight loss clients to stop nighttime eating and start waking up feeling proud. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN Why after-dinner eating is the number one habit quietly sabotaging women’s weight loss How late-night snacking shuts down your overnight fat-burning window The real reason you crave food after dinner — even when you’re not hungry Why poor sleep leads to stronger cravings and how to break the cycle 10 proven strategies to stop nighttime eating — even when you’re tired and stressed How to identify your personal after-dinner trigger and address the real need Simple environment changes that make willpower irrelevant My personal favourite strategy for staying out of the kitchen (it might surprise you!) KEY MOMENTS The real reason you snack after dinner — It’s not hunger — it’s habit, stress, tiredness, boredom, or emotional decompression. Your brain is wired to seek a dopamine hit from sugar at the end of a long day. Why nighttime calories hit differently — After dinner, your metabolism slows in preparation for sleep. Late-night food is far more likely to be stored as fat, and sugar spikes at night raise insulin at a time when your body can’t process it well. The sleep-craving connection — Eating after dinner disrupts sleep, and poor sleep increases hunger hormones (ghrelin) while reducing satiety hormones (leptin) — setting you up for stronger cravings the very next day. Swap food for a ritual drink — A sugar-free hot chocolate, herbal tea, or sparkling water replaces the snacking ritual without the calories. You’re not depriving yourself — you’re choosing better. Get out of the kitchen — Visual food cues trigger cravings instantly, even when you’re not hungry. Close the door, turn off the light, and remove yourself from the environment entirely. Name your trigger before you eat — Pause and ask: what am I actually feeling right now? Boredom, stress, habit, reward? Once you name it, you can address the real need — without food. Set your environment up for success — Willpower is at its lowest in the evening. If it’s not in the house, you can’t eat it. Make the battle easier in the morning so your tired evening self doesn’t have to fight so hard. The 10-minute rule — Don’t say no — say ‘not yet.’ Wait 10 minutes, distract yourself, and watch the craving disappear. You don’t have to fight it; you just have to outlast it. THE ONE ACTION YOU CAN DO TO START NOW Choose just one strategy from today’s episode and commit to it this week. It might be making a sugar-free drink your new after-dinner ritual, brushing your teeth the moment you clear the plates, or simply staying out of the kitchen after dinner. Whatever feels most doable for you right now — start there. Small, consistent wins are what build lasting change. And there is nothing better than going to bed feeling proud of yourself, knowing you’re one step closer to your weight loss goals. If you give it a try, I’d love to hear how you go — drop a comment and let me know your progress!

    Ep 43_Stop Sabotaging Your Progress After Dinner: 10 Strategies that Work

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If you are ready to get off the crazy diet wagon and find a way of eating and a way of thinking that WORKS, come and join Sheryl each week for practical advice, tips and a boost of motivation, so you START NOW and nail your goals 🥳

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