Between Us

Simran Bhandari

Hi, I'm Simran. And this podcast is my personal space. A few minutes of honest conversation. Real moments. Real thoughts. No filter. wordsbysimran.substack.com

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  1. 7月18日

    I Think I Just Lost a Friend

    Hi there, it's Simran and welcome or welcome back to my podcast. So it's been two weeks since I have uploaded my first episode. In these two weeks, there were so many things happened in my life. I will talk about one of the things that happened and that kind of made me think about certain things and people. So what happened was I was going through a lot in my life. And my mind was so confused with things so basically when these things happens when you are confused what to do you go to your best friends to get the clarity or you want someone to listen and help you calm your mind or motivate you so I did the same thing. I went to one of my friends via text. I told her that I'm going through a lot and I feel stuck in this situation. So what should I do now? So what am I expecting here? I'm expecting she will help me. She will say at least something that will help me through this, right? And then I got a reply saying, “Tell me how my pictures are looking that I posted. How am I looking?” I said, okay. That's nice. You look beautiful. That was the moment I learned to recognize my friends. Not everybody you think is your friend is really your friend. Probably she was all about herself and I was only there To make her feel validated. This wasn't the single incident that made me think like that, but this is the incident that made me think about the past experience associated with her. I would have talked to her and clear out things, but I don't feel like talking. Actions speak louder than words. She might have given me valid explanation, but I wouldn't be believing that. Sometimes, the lesson isn't that people are bad. The lesson is that we have been expecting the wrong people to meet the right needs. Once I understood that, I stopped taking it personally. So, this was the thing happened last week. Well, I would love to know if you have ever had an experience like this. Have you ever opened up to someone and realized later that they weren't the person You thought they were. Let me know. I'll see you in my next episode very very soon. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit wordsbysimran.substack.com

    I Think I Just Lost a Friend
  2. 7月4日

    An Imperfect Beginning

    Hi, this is me, Simran. Welcome. This is my first ever podcast, and I really don't know how to do it. I'm not a professional podcaster. I'm not a professional voiceover artist. You may not like my voice, but it is my voice. I can't do anything about it. I love my voice, and that's enough for me. I'm so good, I know. So, a little thing about me. I write on Substack about self concept, identity shifting, 4D living, and mindset. If you are interested, go check out my Substack. While I was exploring the features on Substack, I found a podcasting option, and the curious girl inside me has gotten up and wanted to try this feature. That's how it started. I really don't know ABC of podcasting. I don't know how people gonna react to it. People gonna judge me, hate me, like me. I don't care, and you should not care too. Do whatever you wanna do in life. Ofcourse, that should not harm anybody. Do what makes you happy, and that's how you live your life. And don't worry, I'm not gonna teach anything here. If you wanna learn something from me, go to my Substack. Here, I'm gonna just talk it out loud. We all have gone through lot many experiences in life. I have gone through a lot where things have not been the way I wanted. People get stuck there and couldn't come out of the situation or mindset, for that matter. So, instead of crying for that thing, let's change the script of our life and just live it like a movie, like a fairy tale, whatever you call it. It's not difficult. No, it is not. I have done it. I'm doing it, and you can do it too. So, that's it for the day. I'll see you in my next episode very, very soon, where I'll be talking more about these things. Probably, or probably not. We'll see. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit wordsbysimran.substack.com

    An Imperfect Beginning

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Hi, I'm Simran. And this podcast is my personal space. A few minutes of honest conversation. Real moments. Real thoughts. No filter. wordsbysimran.substack.com