Desire Dialogues

Sex Coach Lauren Nicole | LNG coaching

🎙️ Welcome to "Desire Dialogues” I'm your host and passionate love guru S.ex Coach Lauren with LNG coaching. Stay in the loop with for new episodes at https://www.facebook.com/share/1BWpnXg1Zc/ Expect transparent chats, like coffee talks with your bestie. Dive into adult sex education without the jargon—understand the body's pleasure anatomy in grandma-friendly terms. Get ready for candid, truth-dropping conversations. From seduction to intimacy, we'll elevate your love life from "meh" to "marvelous"! All my links: https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette

  1. 1月7日

    Is The Honeymoon Phase Over? Or did We Just Forgot Love Is a Verb

    Is the spark really gone… or did we just stop practicing intimacy? In this episode of Desire Dialogues, we unpack one of the most damaging relationship MYTHS: that passion fades naturally over time. 🧠 You’ll learn why the “honeymoon phase” was never about novelty and how desire actually survives (and deepens) in long-term relationships when love is treated as a daily practice, not a feeling you wait for. This conversation is for anyone who feels disconnected but hopeful, stable but uninspired, or quietly longing for more intimacy, affection, and aliveness with their partner. 🧠 🤓 In this episode, you’ll learn: 📌 Why the honeymoon phase fades (and how to revive it) 📌 How emotional autopilot erodes intimacy over time 📌 Why desire doesn’t die—it changes form 📌 How presence, curiosity, and repair keep love alive 📌 What emotionally connected couples do differently 📌 How to stop normalizing indifference and start choosing connection again This isn’t about going backward or chasing butterflies. It’s about learning how real intimacy evolves AND how to consciously create the spark you’ve been missing! If you’re ready to stop waiting for passion to return and start building it on purpose, this episode is for you. 🔗 Connect with me and take the "What's my Sensual Archetype?" quiz here: https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette #DesireDialogues #LongTermLove #HoneymoonPhase #RelationshipIntimacy #KeepingTheSparkAlive #EmotionalConnection #ConsciousRelationships #LoveIsAVerb #RelationshipPodcast #WomenAndRelationships #DesireAndIntimacy #YouTubePodcast #SpotifyPodcast

    14 分鐘
  2. 2025/12/31

    Why Spanking Feels So Good — The Psychology & Pleasure of Impact Play

    Why does consensual impact play like spanking feel grounding, erotic, and deeply connecting for so many people? In this episode of Desire Dialogues, I break down the psychology, nervous system responses, and pleasure mechanics behind impact play, so you can explore it consciously, safely, and without shame. This conversation is educational, consent-centered, and kink-aware, designed for the curious, the cautious, and the confidently kinky alike. In this episode, we explore: Why impact play can activate pleasure, surrender, and emotional release The difference between sting vs. thud sensations (and why that matters) How hands, paddles, crops, floggers, and whips affect the body differently The role of anticipation, trust, and psychological safety How the nervous system responds before, during, and after impact Why aftercare is essential — and what it actually looks like Impact play isn’t about chaos or pain for pain’s sake. When practiced consciously, it can become a powerful tool for connection, regulation, intimacy, and erotic confidence. I’ve been working in sex, pleasure, and relationship education since 2013, and this episode is rooted in consent, communication, and embodied awareness — not shock value. 🎧 Listen if you’re curious about kink, power dynamics, or expanding your understanding of desire in a grounded, respectful way. Want to connect? Want to take the sensual archetype quiz? https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette #ImpactPlay #Spanking #KinkEducation #ConsentCulture #SexPositive #EroticPsychology #Aftercare #PleasureEducation #DesireDialogues #SexCoach

    9 分鐘
  3. 2025/12/24

    When a Slap Turns You On — The Psychology & Safety of Erotic Face Slapping

    Why does consensual face slapping turn some people on and how do you explore it safely, consciously, and without shame? In this episode of Desire Dialogues, we unpack the psychology, consent conversations, and safety considerations behind erotic face slapping, with a focus on sensation, trust, and nervous system awareness; not harm or shock value. This is a kink-aware, consent-centered conversation designed to help you understand why certain sensations feel arousing and how to approach them responsibly. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why face slapping can feel grounding, arousing, and emotionally intimate How to ask for and give clear, enthusiastic consent before impact How to approach face slapping more safely (where to aim, what to avoid, and intensity tips) How to stay emotionally and physically attuned during and after a scene Aftercare basics that support trust, regulation, and connection Bruise care 101: when to use ice vs. heat and what actually supports healing Whether you’re curious, cautious, or already exploring, this episode offers clarity and care — without kink-shaming or glossing over safety. I’ve worked in sex, pleasure, and relationship education since 2013, and this conversation is rooted in consent culture, body literacy, and nervous system regulation. 🔗 Explore your Sensual Archetype https://take.quiz-maker.com/QYWBV8YK7 🔍 Resources, connect, and work with me https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette #FaceSlapping #KinkEducation #ConsentCulture #SexPositive #PleasureEducation #EroticPsychology #Aftercare #NervousSystem #DesireDialogues #SexCoach

    8 分鐘
  4. 2025/11/21

    The Argument’s Over… Now What? How Repair Rebuilds Intimacy After Conflict

    The argument is over… but the distance lingers. Now what? In this episode of Desire Dialogues, we explore post-conflict repair rituals — the small, intentional actions that rebuild safety, trust, and emotional closeness after a disagreement. This conversation is about shifting from avoidance or resentment into repair, regulation, and reconnection, so conflict becomes a doorway back to intimacy instead of a wedge that pulls you apart. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why repair is essential for long-term connection and desire Three simple post-conflict rituals that help melt tension How to restore emotional safety after hard conversations How to make repair a natural (and even sexy) part of your love language 🔥 Intimacy isn’t built through perfection. It’s built through repair. This episode is Part 3 of a 3-part series on intimacy through conflict, but it also stands on its own if you’re navigating the aftermath of a fight right now. I’ve worked in sex, pleasure, and relationship education since 2013, and this episode is rooted in attachment awareness, nervous system regulation, and embodied communication. 🔗 Explore guided tools, rituals, and mentoring Find support inside The Pleasure Collective, private mentoring options, and insights from the Sensual Archetype Quiz: https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette #ConflictRepair #HealthyRelationships #EmotionalIntimacy #Attachment #DesireDialogues #RelationshipSkills #NervousSystem #RepairNotPerfection

    10 分鐘

簡介

🎙️ Welcome to "Desire Dialogues” I'm your host and passionate love guru S.ex Coach Lauren with LNG coaching. Stay in the loop with for new episodes at https://www.facebook.com/share/1BWpnXg1Zc/ Expect transparent chats, like coffee talks with your bestie. Dive into adult sex education without the jargon—understand the body's pleasure anatomy in grandma-friendly terms. Get ready for candid, truth-dropping conversations. From seduction to intimacy, we'll elevate your love life from "meh" to "marvelous"! All my links: https://linktr.ee/relationshipcoachlaurengoyette