Dear Son,

Derek Johns
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This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.

  1. Marriage Is for the Young | Growing As A Man | Ep 165 | The Dear Son, Show

    5 DAYS AGO

    Marriage Is for the Young | Growing As A Man | Ep 165 | The Dear Son, Show

    Fatherhood Lessons & Life Conversations  In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' we dive deep into meaningful conversations about fatherhood with special guest, Antoine Clark. D Johns, the host, leads the discussion on the dynamics of growing up with different parental structures, the influence of parenting on shaping futures, and the vital lessons about responsibility and growth. From childhood experiences to navigating adulthood, both speakers reflect on their journeys, share personal stories, and offer insights into fostering strong family bonds. Don't miss this heartfelt discussion that bridges the gaps between parents and children and explores how we can lead by example. Subscribe to the channel and let us know in the comments which part of the discussion resonated with you the most! 00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show 00:17 Guest Introduction: An Swan Clark 00:30 Childhood Memories and Family Dynamics 01:17 Father's Influence and Life Lessons 04:37 Marriage and Commitment Perspectives 08:40 Raising Children and Parental Reflections 26:01 Learning Through Experiences 26:26 Balancing Freedom and Responsibility 26:45 Navigating New Experiences 28:28 Conversations About Relationships 29:24 Blended Families and Parenting 29:49 Setting Standards and Discipline 41:01 Financial Wisdom and Legacy 46:15 Reflections on Fatherhood 51:28 Closing Thoughts and Farewell #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Follow Antoine: https://instagram.com/iamadotclark   Follow ClarkWork Productions: https://instagram.com/clarkworkproductions Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    53 min
  2. Nepotism Is The Only Way | The 2025 Wrap-Up | Ep 164 | The Dear Son, Show

    6 DAYS AGO

    Nepotism Is The Only Way | The 2025 Wrap-Up | Ep 164 | The Dear Son, Show

    Year End Reflections: Wisdom We Wish We Had Learned Sooner  In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a deep and reflective conversation to discuss the wisdom they wish they had known earlier in life. As they navigate through topics like celebrating holidays, the importance of valuing time with family, and lessons learned from 2025, Jey and D Johns offer valuable insights. They touch on topics such as hiring family members, dealing with imposter syndrome, fostering meaningful relationships, and preparing for the future. Tune in for a heartfelt episode that promises to spark meaningful conversations in your home. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe! Let us know your favorite part in the comment section below. 00:00 Introduction and Holiday Vibes 00:40 Birthday Reflections and Festive Mood 02:29 Studio Updates and Group Chat Buzz 04:17 Topic Introduction: Dear Son, Why Should I Hire You? 05:38 Parental Perspectives on Hiring Family 21:09 Generational Stacking and Family Legacy 27:06 Settling in Texas: Establishing Roots 27:39 Embracing Louisiana Culture 28:40 Challenges of Distance and Travel 31:07 Reflecting on 2025: Lessons and Growth 36:05 Parenting Insights and Family Dynamics 41:52 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth 42:48 Academic Pursuits and Generational Gaps 47:32 Commitment to Personal and Professional Development 53:07 Closing Thoughts and New Year Wishes #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac   Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    55 min
  3. All Dad Wants For Christmas Is | Reclaiming Your Dreams | Ep 163 | The Dear Son, Show

    24/12/2025

    All Dad Wants For Christmas Is | Reclaiming Your Dreams | Ep 163 | The Dear Son, Show

    Dreams Deferred: Fathers and Their Unspoken Desires Welcome to the 'Dear Son, Show,' where meaningful conversations about life and fatherhood unfold. In this episode, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac delve into the often overlooked dreams and aspirations of fathers. They discuss the balance between providing for their families and pursuing their own passions, sharing personal anecdotes of dreams deferred and the emotional impact of sacrifices made for their loved ones. With humor and honesty, they explore the importance of acknowledging and sharing personal dreams, offering a heartfelt perspective on fatherhood, ambition, and self-worth. Join the conversation, subscribe to the channel, and leave a review to support the show! 00:00 Welcome to the Dead Son Show 00:38 Upcoming Live Event Announcement 01:50 Excitement and Reflections 02:33 Dear Son: Christmas Wishes 05:50 Dreams and Sacrifices 08:58 Self-Worth and Family Dynamics 12:16 Balancing Self and Family 16:25 The Importance of Self-Acknowledgment 22:47 Balancing Family and Personal Aspirations 23:11 The Joy of Traveling and Motorcycling 23:46 Sacrifices for Family Stability 25:41 Reflecting on Personal Dreams and Family Responsibilities 28:17 Encouraging and Understanding Spousal Dreams 35:08 Navigating Personal Failures and Embarrassment 44:07 The Importance of Intentionality and Family Moments #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk All Dad Wants For Christmas Is | Reclaiming Your Dreams | Ep 163 | The Dear Son, Show Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    45 min
  4. Dear Son, I Love You, But... | Ep 162 | The Dear Son, Show

    18/12/2025

    Dear Son, I Love You, But... | Ep 162 | The Dear Son, Show

    Navigating Parenthood with Love and Discipline In this engaging episode of the Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns share exciting news about their first-ever live show scheduled for January 18th, 2026 in Mansfield, Texas. They discuss the importance of meaningful conversations for young boys and men, reflecting on lessons learned and sharing fatherhood experiences. Key topics include setting boundaries, expressing love while addressing wrongdoings, and preparing children for adulthood. The conversation takes a humorous turn when they delve into personal anecdotes, highlighting the complexities of family dynamics and the significance of clear communication. 00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:42 Exciting Announcement: First Live Show 02:10 Reflecting on Past Events and Relationships 04:27 Parenting Challenges and Responsibilities 08:01 Managing Expectations and Responsibilities 12:48 Addressing Family Dynamics and Communication 23:41 Facing Rejection and Adjusting Expectations 24:38 Learning Self-Reliance from a Young Age 25:15 The Impact of Over-Nurturing on Independence 26:36 Setting Boundaries in Relationships 28:56 The Consequences of Leading with Money 30:46 The Importance of Communication and Sharing Perspectives 32:26 Navigating Life's Challenges Together 41:21 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Future Plans #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    47 min
  5. A Performative Kind of Love | w AD The Greatest | Ep 161 | The Dear Son, Show

    15/12/2025

    A Performative Kind of Love | w AD The Greatest | Ep 161 | The Dear Son, Show

    In this heartfelt episode of the 'Dear Son, Show,' we dive into a profound conversation about life, fatherhood, and self-discovery. Host, D Johns explores the journey of our guest, Alexander Dixon, who shares his experiences growing up with absent parents, navigating the pressures of performance, dealing with anger and depression, and ultimately finding his identity as a father. Join us as we unpack the challenges and triumphs of breaking generational patterns, healing emotional wounds, and raising children with love and integrity. Don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more meaningful conversations and let us know which part resonated with you the most in the comments section! 00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show 00:17 Guest Introduction and Initial Conversation 01:23 Childhood Reflections and Family Background 03:14 Navigating Adolescence and Parental Relationships 05:31 High School Challenges and Relocation to Texas 10:39 Understanding Parental Struggles and Personal Growth 14:33 Transition to Adulthood and Early Fatherhood 20:04 Parenting Challenges and Personal Reflections 31:26 Balancing Parenthood and Personal Identity 31:55 Facing Emotional Vulnerability 33:02 The Pressure of Performance 34:28 Navigating Fatherhood and Personal Sacrifices 36:14 Rebuilding Relationships and Self-Discovery 39:24 Co-Parenting and Acceptance 41:58 Generational Reflections and Parenting Wisdom 57:45 Final Thoughts and Reflections #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac   Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 4m
  6. Clearing the Path Through Life's Storms | Ep 160 | The Dear Son, Show

    11/12/2025

    Clearing the Path Through Life's Storms | Ep 160 | The Dear Son, Show

    In this engaging episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. They discuss the importance of preparing for life's storms, both anticipated and unexpected, and share personal stories of overcoming challenges. D Johns talks about his health scare that changed his perspective on life, while Jey Blac reveals how a tragic family loss shaped his identity and resilience. The hosts also explore the impact of public embarrassment and the value of seeking help when needed. Whether you're a father, have a father, or are navigating life without one, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement for weathering life's storms. Don't forget to subscribe and let us know in the comments which part resonated with you the most! 00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:44 Holiday Season Excitement 01:05 NAACP Event Recap 01:30 Community Engagement 03:06 Support and Viral Success 04:05 Today's Topic: Dear Sun 04:50 Navigating Life's Storms 10:50 Entrepreneurship Challenges 11:53 Personal Growth and Adjustments 22:37 Public Embarrassment and Family Expectations 25:28 Facing Consequences: A CDL Story 26:35 The Snowball Effect of Ignoring Fines 28:15 The Importance of Preparation and Support 30:26 Creating and Surviving Your Own Storms 33:30 Maintaining Character in Tough Times 34:45 Judgment and Empathy During Hardships 38:38 The Impact of Family and Support Systems 41:05 Personal Reflections on Overcoming Adversity 44:37 Health Scares and Life Changes 51:47 Final Thoughts and Lessons Learned #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    55 min
  7. The Label Is the First to Leave | Navigating Identity | Ep 159 | The Dear Son, Show

    04/12/2025

    The Label Is the First to Leave | Navigating Identity | Ep 159 | The Dear Son, Show

    In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a raw and meaningful conversation designed to help young men and boys understand the lessons they wish they'd known earlier in life. They open with reflections on holiday experiences and the importance of managing expectations and stress. The discussion evolves into a deep dive into the concept of 'labels'—how we define ourselves and the impact of societal and self-imposed labels on our well-being. The hosts also explore how parents can better support their children's true passions and talents rather than imposing career labels that may not fit. Furthermore, the episode addresses the significance of maintaining core values through life transitions, and offers thoughtful advice on navigating relationships and friendships. Don't miss the insights packed into this episode. Make sure to like, comment, share, and subscribe to 'The Dear Son, Show' for more inspiring discussions. 00:00 Welcome to the Dear Son, Show 00:31 Holiday Reflections and Lessons Learned 02:36 Football Talk: Celebrating Wins and Rivalries 03:21 Promoting the Book and Special Offers 05:03 The Importance of Labels and Identity 08:57 Parenting: Balancing Labels and Passions 17:03 Encouraging Children's Interests and Outlets 21:57 The Role of Labels in Self-Worth and Identity 22:59 Navigating Life Transitions 23:45 The Importance of Core Values 25:11 Embracing New Chapters 26:05 Reflecting on Personal Growth 29:03 The Pressure of Expectations 31:42 The Role of Support Systems 33:19 Managing Emotional Reactions 37:08 The Value of Communication 44:51 Concluding Thoughts and Gratitude #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac   Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    49 min
  8. Dear Son, My Ceiling Is Your Floor. | Enabling Their Success | Ep 158 | The Dear Son, Show

    26/11/2025

    Dear Son, My Ceiling Is Your Floor. | Enabling Their Success | Ep 158 | The Dear Son, Show

    In this heartfelt episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' D Johns and Jey Blac delve into the empowering theme: 'My Ceiling Is Your Floor.' Highlighting the importance of setting up future generations for success, the hosts explore how fathers can use their own experiences, both good and bad, to be a springboard for their children's achievements. Covering meaningful topics such as handling emotions, the impact of words, and the critical role of adaptability in today's ever-changing world, this conversation is both enlightening and motivational. Tune in to uncover valuable insights on how to shape the future for our sons and daughters through thoughtful guidance and intentional parenting. Don't miss out—join the conversation and be sure to like, share, and subscribe to our channel! 00:00 Introduction to The Dead Son Show 00:17 Hosts' Banter and Water Intake Challenge 01:40 Today's Topic: Dear Son, My Ceiling is Your Floor 03:01 Fatherhood Reflections and Advice 06:18 Emotional Regulation and Communication 17:02 Adapting to Change and Technology 21:09 Projecting Fears and Playing Small 22:34 The Power of Words and Fear Projection 23:02 Avoiding Negative Predictions 23:26 Encouraging Risk-Taking and Growth 24:21 Personal Experiences and Lessons 26:16 Teaching Resilience and Adaptability 26:58 Fostering Creativity and Ownership 34:42 Sibling Competition and Development 37:39 Emotional Intelligence and Self-Awareness 39:34 Parenting Reflections and Future Hopes 43:11 Cherishing Moments and Living with Children #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    45 min
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This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.

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  • Creator
    Derek Johns
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2025
  • Episodes
    163
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Derek Johns
  • Show Website
    Dear Son,

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