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Decisions, Decisions

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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.    Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.   From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

  1. 1 HR AGO

    EP 464: Jezebels

    On this solo episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy talk about a first-class flight experience and airplane etiquette, including a moment involving a flight attendant and confidence in first class, before sharing stories about nightlife and a situation involving a confident dancer. The ladies address fan reactions from the previous episode, respond to comments from listeners, and discuss being called “jezebels,” including reactions to Sarah and conversations around the term. They also read and respond to audience comments, discuss whether Weezy’s list has changed, and talk about advice from Christian friends in their lives, faith-based perspectives on relationships, and the eternal fight with public perception.  OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 10m
  2. Introducing: If You Knew Better with Amber Grimes

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    Introducing: If You Knew Better with Amber Grimes

    You can’t rewrite the past — but you can learn from it. Amber Grimes did exactly that, going from college dropout to Executive Vice President in the entertainment industry with no map, just mistakes and lessons that turned into power moves. If You Knew Better is where Amber shares that wisdom — alongside artists, creatives, and culture-shifters who open up about the missteps they made, the mindsets that changed everything, and the game they wish they knew sooner. Together, they unpack the highs, the lows, and the pivots in life, career, and relationships — so you either don’t have to go through it, or can move smarter when you do. Every episode delivers real talk, hard-won insight, and practical gems to help you grow into the version of yourself that knows better… and does better. Listen here and subscribe to  If You Knew Better with Amber Grimes on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1 min
  3. You've Got Decisions: The Baby is His How Would You Feel?

    4 DAYS AGO · BONUS

    You've Got Decisions: The Baby is His How Would You Feel?

    Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    29 min

  4. 5 DAYS AGO

    Selective Ignorance: Ep. 54 | A.I. Dead Presidents, Epstein DNA & The Angry Black Man

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and the king of headlines Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation that blends current events, personal storytelling, cultural critique, and conspiracy-laced debates. The discussion kicks off with a breakdown of trending headlines and the crew’s signature “ignorant thoughts” on the week’s biggest topics [ 03:01 ], before shifting into personal updates, celebrations, and behind-the-scenes moments from their lives outside the studio [ 06:01 ]. The hosts then share humorous stories involving social experiments and unexpected food adventures that spark commentary about social norms and curiosity-driven experiences [ 09:01 ], leading into a remix-style conversation about pop culture, internet discourse, and shifting cultural narratives [ 11:49 ]. The energy continues with nightlife stories and party culture reflections [ 15:10 ], before the conversation pivots toward politics and current affairs, examining the broader social climate and the way media narratives shape public understanding [ 18:13 ]. Technology enters the discussion as the hosts debate the expanding role of AI in media, storytelling, and historical interpretation [ 22:00 ], which leads naturally into conspiracy theories and contentious conversations surrounding COVID-era vaccine debates [ 27:10 ]. The dialogue intensifies as the crew unpacks controversial claims about Epstein’s alleged influence on mRNA technology and elite power structures [ 42:01 ], before transitioning into a deeper examination of the struggles Black men face navigating visibility, opportunity, and stereotyping in Hollywood and entertainment industries [ 51:50 ]. From there, the hosts explore the complex dynamics of respect, influence, and power within professional environments [ 01:00:24 ], particularly as it relates to identity, credibility, and gatekeeping in predominantly white industries. The conversation expands into the intersection of race, gender, and workplace authority, highlighting how Black men and women assert their presence while navigating cultural expectations and systemic barriers [ 01:10:02 ]. The episode closes on a lighter note with a spontaneous freestyle segment and playful cultural commentary that captures the crew’s humor, chemistry, and ability to blend serious discussion with entertainment [ 01:15:30 ].  No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 23m

  5. 9 MAR

    EP. 463: Letting Go Of Your Boyfriend For Your Husband Pt. 2 (feat. Sarah Fontenot)

    On this episode of Decisions, Decisions, Sarah Fontenot joins Mandii B and WeezyWTF for a candid conversation about marriage, commitment, and modern relationships. The group discusses whether marriage should be the goal, Mandii’s hesitation around long-term commitment, and what emotional independence looks like in dating. Sarah also shares the story of leaving her boyfriend for the man who became her husband, the speed of their relationship, and how they went from friends to marriage. Later, the hosts debate expectations in partnerships, Cam Newton and marriage, and whether Mandii might actually be afraid of becoming a wife before Sarah closes out the episode with the three things that are important to her in life in order of importance. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 19m
  6. You've Got Decisions: Did Cheating in High School Ruin My relationship?

    4 MAR · BONUS

    You've Got Decisions: Did Cheating in High School Ruin My relationship?

    Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    26 min

  7. 3 MAR

    Selective Ignorance: Ep. 53 | Missiles, Magic City & Mythical Negros

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by super producer A-King, and king of the headlines Jason “Jah” Lee, deliver a culturally sharp discussion spanning Black History Month, Women’s History Month, politics, reparations, and celebrity influence, beginning with reflections on the importance of honoring Black and women’s contributions beyond performative celebration [01:55]. The conversation quickly pivots to the controversial partnership between the Atlanta Hawks and Magic City, unpacking what it says about Atlanta’s identity, capitalism, and cultural branding [02:52], before settling into guest introductions and commentary on podcast dynamics and media chemistry [03:45]. The hosts address online criticism and gender discourse in digital spaces [05:10], share anecdotes from a night out in Atlanta that spark conversations about networking, optics, and influence [09:17], and reflect on ignorance in the context of current events and viral headlines [14:29]. The episode deepens with a historical lens on the NAACP’s rebranding efforts and legacy [15:50], followed by a candid dialogue about exceptionalism within the Black community and the pressures it creates [20:07]. A thoughtful debate on reparations, land ownership, and economic justice unfolds [23:01], layered with broader commentary on Atlanta’s evolving cultural identity [25:52]. Later, the crew analyzes the viral Tez Johnson proposal controversy and what it reveals about social expectations and public judgment [36:27], before shifting into urgent discussions around the Epstein files, political apologies, and elite accountability [43:14]. The hosts confront difficult societal conversations surrounding pedophilia and institutional complicity [51:58], examine rising geopolitical tensions and concerns about global conflict [57:02], and close with a powerful call to action encouraging awareness, civic engagement, and informed participation in today’s socio-political climate [01:11:27]. Blending cultural commentary, political analysis, and social critique, this episode underscores the importance of engagement, accountability, and historical literacy in navigating modern America. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 19m

  8. 2 MAR

    Ep. 462: Third Engagement’s The Charm Pt. 1 (feat. Sarah Fontenot)

    ***TRIGGER WARNING***** Mentions of DV  This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Sarah Fontenot for an unfiltered conversation about love, marriage, and everything they don’t tell you before you say “I do.” Sarah opens up about waiting until marriage, navigating dating in Canada, and the realities of going from friend to wife, plus her three rings and two very different engagements. The episode dives into marriage counseling, gossiping as adults, and whether you should ever let your man propose at a baby shower. Things get spicy as the trio debates cheating, sex workers and accountability, side chick energy, emotional affairs, independence in relationships, and the boundaries around husbands having close female friends.  OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 21m
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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.    Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.   From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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  • Channel
    The Black Effect Network
  • Creator
    The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
  • Years Active
    2017 - 2026
  • Episodes
    579
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    2026 iHeartMedia, Inc. © Any use of this intellectual property for text and data mining or computational analysis including as training material for artificial intelligence systems is strictly prohibited without express written consent from iHeartMedia
  • Show Website
    Decisions, Decisions
  • Provider
    iHeartMedia + Entertainment, Inc

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